 Seemed to be I try to be a lover not a fighter, but you know Run the story bro Like everybody, I mean You really did it too cuz you don't want to talk about it The next day with a shit key she like what like that's how you know the bitch was goofy cuz I don't I just be chill I don't think you're a square though. I wouldn't fuck with you But I think with females, you know what it is a lot of them Pop off, but those are ones that's all barking a bite So because I think I'm chillin they back do's might not do's my people But I think a lot of females be like, oh, I could try her like I'm solo dola. I'm always by myself I'm chill. I don't be talking shit. I don't you know, like She got a master's degree two parents On me if you ain't fucked him up, they was gonna fuck you But water would be like that though He'd be like the most solid individuals that don't fuck with nobody be targeted the most by the weirdos To make you want to fight a motherfucker or to be like all right now I got to put you on your ass cuz you're doing too much I think people just be mad at things that they don't have that they want so like for instance if you buy yourself People don't got the next thing even just rock by they so it's like they might look at it like Envious that they gonna act hard cuz they with their friends and they think you might not be on the same She's you stand on cuz you buy yourself. Yeah, just like all right. Don't get your ass with the front of your friends For a female bed being nice looking that shit probably Because women be trying to hit women that don't look rough Fuck y'all karma ask it Trying to rough you up this shit That's what I always just talking shit about the girls with the good To for sure that's hella funny on me. Yeah, nice. It's tragic You think people You think it's shanti been in a few fights, she'd be looking good as hell See, I think she's she's probably better I think maybe I think once maybe once or twice. Yeah, maybe oh nigga, you know who do get in Monika Performers before Watch them lanky girls They be trying to fight Fuck around on mama's Nelly it's shanti. They back together. Yeah, I see that. Yeah, I haven't I did wait. Have we started I just be trying to Everything Don't tell me you're trying to act like you know what's going on so you can knock Melly My prayers my king like I never knew why they broke up so I can't I don't know what the situation was but you know I just feel like I always got to speak on a shanti because that's the only woman in the United States They ever froze me. What do you mean frozen me meaning that I didn't get the pot I had I had I was standing next to a shanti at this movie premiere and We was charging our phone for like ten minutes and I'm really I'm literally like shoulder to shoulder like that close type shit And I'm trying to figure out what to say cuz she looks so you froze like you ain't say I Was speechless That bothers me to this day because I felt like she got me out of my character That could have been me But I froze so Dang Plays fuck I didn't know I really had nothing to say and I was a child looking like a fucking nerd I'm on the phone. I should have been like I should be just like That's you would have worked a she never had a nigga come at her like that everybody See what's up, baby. What's happening? You're not what's a good way to what's a good way for me and their approach a woman for me It's always is direct. It's always direct. Don't ask for my Instagram cuz then I you want to do skits Be direct state your interest and just be straight up like all that don't come with no lines No gimmicks no games. Just be like, hey Pop his pee. I don't even know what that means No, I want you to just state your claim be direct. Hey, how you doing? I'm such-and-such. I saw you over here I think you're a beautiful girl. I'd like to get to know you simple Can I get your number? Can I take you out? It's simple. It's cat. Why it's cat If a nigga walk up to a girl like that now they're like You corny I don't know who you dealing with okay, I don't know But I feel both of y'all because I think it's a young I'm about to say I think the young girls probably say that We're like somebody also was like, oh you can't approach women at certain place and I was like nigga I could be in in chemotherapy if you Respectfully, you know what I mean? How you doing? You feeling all right today? And then shoot your shot like Hey Because you don't know if you ever see this person again who gonna be like I'm in the gym don't talk to me No, as long as you come at me Respectfully as long as you don't come stand behind me while I'm squatting on some creeps up You know me you can shoot your shot anywhere. Yeah, young girls might be like oh, that's corny or you know Listen, I don't know about that life. I said it It is hard to it's hard to knock some at the gym though for sure cuz when we be focused they be But I think it's just how you do it time and place so like maybe wait till she finished working out You know them saying and she Wrapping it up or maybe if you about to leave I ain't saying stay for another hour But she gonna take a break if she ain't taking a break I don't know what she on something but she gonna take some a break at some point in time And you could just respect it, but that's when you got to get to it. Don't be I'm in the gym Yeah, be here playing games. I get to it. Hey, you know what? I see you in your workout I ain't trying to interrupt. I think you're a really beautiful girl. I would love to you know Well, is it disrespectful for men to be like I ain't gonna lie. I see you do your squash that ass was looking good girl I just want your information Just made it better that you beautiful in the face She might be that she might be like yeah, mama's huh cuz I be I'll be getting that shit a certain way in certain environments It's like if you catch if I if you catch me at the grocery store, I'm gonna be like respectful I'm be like But if I'm at the club, I'm gonna shake that shit Had me you got hella The problem here, this is how we're approaching lady shake that you are you already shaking that motherfuckin Cuz I can't came in this moment. Are you in the strip club? Who are we talking to? We talking about liquor music Nightlife That's not how you approach on ladies I'm not saying I do that I do you saying it's the setting like the setting is what set what you say exactly If you if I'm at Starbucks, I'm I'm respectful. Good morning, sweetheart. You feel me good to see you here We drink you from the get They go from that to shake that shit. What I can meet that same woman at night time be like man I don't trust nobody to say grand rising my nigga I'll try don't even say grandma even asked for some money That nigga scammer like that nigga even do some weird shit They're like, I don't trust no nigga. Oh grand rising What nigga say good morning. Oh happy solar return niggas my birthday Just say some regular shit the meal niggas. I yeah, I can't do it. No, that's that's facts. Hey, what's happening? It's the Kelly kick back Me we we got a special guest in the building instead me all the way from Detroit My lady friend, you know play shit man phenomenal comedian, you know, of course. I'm a fan You know, I'm glad you came through Keisha E in the building You know, I got my play potty, you know, we we've been connected will respect this It's almost been a decade or something like this mom fuck it. We young old G's and run this thing Yeah, you know why so me quant in the building. What's up? What's up? How are you doing? Hey, nigga, I'm good me. I'm just a nigga high on life bro. Just enjoying this conversation We over here get some games and keep you how we're supposed to approach these ladies in certain environments Yeah, we're gonna have to tighten y'all up. No, but like really like yes Okay, shake that shake that If it do say something at the gym like that To me, I mean to me. No, now, I don't know Some young ladies. I mean, I guess they post them with their ass out. So I guess they want you to come to come in but I just Cuz what do you go from there like what you gonna do after this What you gonna do, that's how you know a nigga trying to hit that night To on what you're the reason you're approaching trying to fuck or you're actually interested in like oh this somebody I might want to take home to my Or I'm interested in you know, I'm dating intentionally where I'm just out here. I'm dating now I don't officially started. This is my first time ever in my life, baby. Okay with a purpose. Yeah with a purpose I'm proud the Kelly kick back and help me heal, you know, you've been You know, I'm in they I'm horrible though. I ain't gonna lie. I'm so green So I'm good, I'm been good at getting the numbers and shit, you know, I've been doing that But now it's like all right now I get the number. How do I stay respectful? What Am I tripping you say you're not gonna go on three days with one person with the same person like for instance, right? Like if you get a number, right, it's like all right, boom, you know We can go we can link one time. Mm-hmm. You know normal shit Food it's a food or whatever, but it's like after that. I don't know what we finna keep doing Am I tripping nah, nah, I don't think you tripping that's that's every nigga mine said whether they say it or they don't They'd like I ain't finna good like me. I'm more of a lover boy I'm gonna keep going on the dates like I'm one of them. So it's different for me. So I still got the You know, I'm a dude nigga like so If you like that, but like you're not wrong because every nigga gonna set up like what's wrong with that? So what are you saying y'all gonna date one time after that you don't want to take her out no more Which do want to talk to her? That's why I'm trying to figure out But After one day, so you wanna so you want to get into a relationship? No, I just want to do what I Mean that ain't none of the ones niggas gonna take home name Mama I mean unless nigga still stay there and like you ain't got no choice because you gotta like But other than that like if I'm trying to knock if I'm trying to knock you down Cuz You should I'm not use I shouldn't you have you shouldn't have to be meet my mama for me to get some pussy I'm me that ain't the bro. No, that's what I'm saying. It depends on what are you looking for somebody that you want to seriously date I'm trying to date right now I'm trying to date, but after one date, that's it You know what I noticed to like actually trying to date, but still like be me. It's like I be feeling like big deal like it small things is big deal to people like for instance like safety meet a guy, right? He saw see you like him and all the shit and y'all go out to eat whatever one time Y'all been y'all hung out like three times now, right? He asked you to take you to the airport like he asked I asked a female to take her to that like take me to the That's like a big deal. I've been losing with me because I'm like bitch. You can't take me to the airport this I mean It's different now any place else, but I Don't So they don't want to take you to the airport and then you like all right, I'm done I'm done. It's over but y'all went out on a few times and y'all been kicking it Yeah, I was like a dude to the airport. See Yeah, so I know I ain't trippin got them and me Yeah, I mean But they might know that you ain't trying to take them out no more. They probably get the vibe of like Lou we done after this Maybe that's why and see she be in it right before I get to like you like right when I'm feeling like if you take me to The airport now that shit going to hold them low Now we work or something Sissy like so about the time's a real shit. Yeah Yeah, it's like we ain't locked in like that. But would you take her to the airport? Yeah, I'll be proud to take you to the airport me you got something going on for yourself She might be going to Miami with 16 her friends just leaving one room. I'm not taking I mean, yeah, I don't I don't see nothing wrong with that See that's a fucking problem. You gonna you going to Miami 16 to a bed and then you're like This you got to figure it out to do like why ain't y'all putting money on another if none of y'all got money Like at least two beds sweet with a couch You know why don't matter for girls cuz niggas gonna hit anyways Yeah, I mean nigga walk into a hotel room with 12 women sleeping in the room and maybe like shit your friends ain't Gonna be Ass is stupid. Yeah, like niggas don't have centers like that girls. They be I mean you got to be picky But like low-key with certain shit, but It's different. They're gonna be more pickier than niggas like niggas is ain't gonna care like all right for selfish Oh, how you feel about having a one-night stare Keisha. It's not for me. You ever have about that life Damn, you think a female hose. Yeah one-night stare. I Won't necessarily say she's a hoe I won't say she's a Be honest, I'm thinking the definition of like what I would consider a hoe That's a tough one, I mean I don't know about a caller a hoe but I From for me and it's ain't no judgment. You know people in the comments be mad I don't understand the process of being like, oh, I just meant to do them clip off the fuck them Like hey my man, we ain't kicking anyone. I don't know nothing about him. We just I don't understand that thought process, but I Mean So how's dating for you? Cuz since you judging my day I mean, I'm a black woman LA so you already know what that's about. What what what that mean that mean Shit up and go that's where I'm at in my day. What pack it up and go. Yeah, what that mean. Yeah, I'm about to get out of LA really Yeah Because I'm a black woman in LA a heterosexual black woman Like black men. So what you saying a lot of these men are zesty niggas ain't shit. Oh, it's just very zesty out here Absolutely, you don't think that's all around the world right now I think it's heavier here and I also think that because LA is so diverse. I was having this conversation of the day that You go somewhere I might go to a restaurant I don't I may only see six or seven black dudes in the whole restaurant versus if you in like Detroit Texas, Atlanta the whole place is filled with black men Your chances of getting hollered at is greater someplace else then I feel like Now you walking around the niggas ain't poppin AP's Texas my nigga when I say I was overwhelmed like wait a minute. Hold up. Hold up like Because I don't get how that out here. Oh, but as soon as I stop off the plane. Oh, you know, I mean, it's like Yeah, it's it's probably It's a piece of what she's saying Those people you call them up zesty. Yeah, it's damn it's niggas that thing like oh damn she might be too Too stuck up for me to talk to I get hollered at by homeless dudes cock the most Homeless in like borderline like niggas that don't stand a chance like not to be mean but like oh They confidently how let me but it would be dudes that like and I don't know if that's the thing of like It was just a dude a second ago. I had an interaction with and it was like are you guys be phone number or All right, you know Be trying to see how far they can take it because like if a nigga like, okay I got a homie bro like bro like no he ugly as fuck But the nigga got confidence though and I've seen him knock some of the baddest that the homie that he must got money Ain't no ugly niggas ever had confidence Sit your own head down the homie the homie in stylish, but like bro like he's not a poppy shit Okay, yeah, I don't see him crack some heat. I seen him crack a girl one time Katie Albeer a girl from fight after next money Mike is that public is that public Need not there so Wow, I did not know that was a thing in LA that black women don't get knocked. I mean It's it's what you at. It's I'm you all over honestly So you say like when I don't it's not from LA The real part of LA if you was an LA Oh niggas don't get at you I'm not like deep up in the hood like I'm not in like How you know I go to like Inglewood, I go to like West LA I think that's what niggas ain't talking to her bro cuz like anywhere bro like despised that we didn't be Niggas oh for sure bro, so she got the car But a level-up store Older dudes like I go to GS to be in there about 62. What the fuck are you doing at the Oh god But no, I get approached by um dudes of other races I get approached by gay dudes Stand in appointment every two weeks now One dude changes mind in the middle is trying to holler me and I didn't even know how to feel at that point I was like, I don't know if this is a compliment a disc or what like He told me I was almost cute enough to make him He stopped me and was like damn like what's your name? And I was confused like that I think I thought he thought about his baby mama. That's she crazy. That's why no He was really like Wish on a you know what I mean, so I was confused yes Like what's he stopping me and then I was like and he looked me up and down And he was like, damn he was like you was almost cute enough to make me go straight, but not quite and I was like Asked me who do my hair right and I was like Really, you know feminine gay guy whatever and so I'm telling him and he kept talking and he was like you got a man and I was like He was like, I know I know what you're probably thinking and I'm like Yeah Yeah, that or do some other races Asian dudes white dudes Yeah, that's great. I don't know what's going on. Yeah. I remember you put on your story use You put like a little boat like yeah other race say the word nigga. Oh, yeah And me growing up in California Like especially like in the Bay Area, we got a lot of ages and Mexicans and it's like We be letting them ages and and Mexicans say nigga because they act like us Like like ages like the Filipinos and shit Them niggas is like official like a hundred percent niggas like we don't look at them like They talk like us walk like us nigga got strapped slap me like nigga. They really Yeah, I play that Like if your mama and daddy ain't like you can't say I got a home girl. She's like a Mexican. I'd be like We'll play I will play that so what was the boat? I'm gonna play that everybody voted like no Everybody was like that. No, absolutely not and it was maybe like For it was like 96% and 4% you think that's a West Coast thing. Yeah, it's like it's kind of like both like I think maybe also a younger generation. It's some people that I've seen the Hermes like Don't trip with them saying nigga. Yeah, some people they're triple on like I Triple niggas around me that say nigga. That's not black. I don't like that shit just for the simple fact that like Some derogatory shit towards you. Mm-hmm nigga. I can't say it for sure like So, I don't think it should be like a thing where you let a nigga say in the sense. I just think white people should say And then I kind of I kind of get my feelings about black people. That's not niggas that say nigga Don't let me talking about niggas Corny-ass black people out here. Yeah, that's not even niggas They get those they get away with saying nigga cuz they black like you're not a nigga basically, it's like in Hollywood, we deal with a lot of like either skit niggas or comedian niggas that are black, but they're not black like they Still where these niggas act with these niggas talk to where these niggas like Carry themselves. They're not that they not black. It's like I don't know how to say I just show you it's like they're African-American Yeah, but they're not like us like like like they treat us funny when they see us or like be on weird shit Like nigga, don't you be saying nigga, bro? Like I guess for me is just I can't say name. That's a hard part. I'm ready to say a name Fuck these niggas Like that, I just don't fuck with it. I don't I don't like it What you think about black people that's not black though, I don't I don't trip up that I think as long as you black for me It's like I don't I don't find a fence in it or I don't it doesn't come off as races or derogatory Whatever this dude was like, I don't even fucking know what he was. Maybe he was Armenian. Maybe he was oh, yeah I don't know what he was but yeah, no And you know you you was in the wrong because when I checked you by the hot what hot what cuz what because what he say Like how did he say it? So he was we were in a gym at my apartment and it was just me and him in here I have been in there for like 20 30 minutes or you see me he listening to music and I want to say it might have been like 50 cent or somebody right but you ain't rap none of these words until it got to nigga. Oh Wow, so I look and drop my way. I said what you just say and then he take his hip on up What what what what I said, what did you just say? Yeah, I was just I was just rapping words But what did you say you said nigga? No, it's just a song. I was saying I don't care what it's in the song Yeah, don't say that shit You don't say nigga the first time you see and you see me standing right here like you see a black person right here Yeah, that's out of so it was like what and then when he um He kind of like tried to shrug it off like I think when I left. Oh, he said uh What do you say? Basically on some like, okay kind of thing, you know, I mean like like I'm tripping. Yeah, and he was like What he said and I was like the better thing to do is for you to not say it like don't ever say that again You know, I'm saying like that's derogatory. You see me standing right here and he was on some like, oh my gosh like I'm tripping and I was like That's what I made the poll and it was like 96% maybe 4% because I caught my homeboy He's like, I think you really tripping and I was like, oh, you let you let people say niggas Yeah, cuz if we go enough that we will have to hit a lot of people. No, there's a lot of people saying nigga I mean, I mean if you don't say to my presence, I'm gonna always say something Never gonna let that slide and not say I don't care. Oh young big whatever long as you Africa to marry African-American you could be a sell-out cool-ass corny ass black person And you could just say nigga cuz of your skin tone cuz I mean I Gotta be able to evaluate Is he cool? Is he corny? I mean, yeah, you can look at some people, but it's like it's some entertainers that never used cuss words And then got some money and didn't start cussing and start saying niggin all type of shit. I'm like, I never heard Niggas say Like that's offensive to me. I've been a nigga the whole time I'm a nigga rich You can't have us you can't buy a chain and be like Like nah nigga, I'm saying nigga without no chain I guess it doesn't bother me if you black see that shit. Okay. That's it bothers me. Yeah Yeah This shit might sound crazy, but I get I fuck around. I don't know. I don't know I'll fuck around. I'd rather have Paul wall say nigga before some of these Really stand on shit But around black people I Okay, yeah, he why but he's a nigga. All right, I take that all right, and then we have we can have somebody Who the fuck is not a nigga, but he black Oh, it's so many way, Brady Who is that No, I love that nigga don't take the eggs. He's not a nigga, but he's black Yes, he really like Like how he played like on the road cuz that's a dude. That's a Malibu's most wanted, right? Yeah, dude, like dude, that's freaking whack it. Don't diss me. That's bro. Yeah. Yeah, you know He really act like that Ten crews He ain't no nigga You think I would be mad if he said nigga. He black like I wouldn't take you know Any cool I spent enough time with him, but I have had a conversation Yeah, but I don't know but you gotta see what I'm saying, right? I'm saying like I can't find a person It's a lot I just thought I'd be I'd be getting mad when I be seeing it I'd be forgetting about these cool nags niggas Anybody in the back got example Y'all jumping come on watching this right now. No, it's somebody black. That's not a nigga They digs is like Oh, really I kind of feel like you there near be you should you should be I'm finna go too far cuz you know It's gonna work or get mad at me. Do y'all say that around white people. I say around everybody Nigga, I'm not There's moments that I have Carry my conversation is is moments where I had to like Yeah, not just off of the strength of I don't be worried about people judge me But I got to conduct myself a certain way depending on like what it what it is I typically don't like in comedy shows but aside from that Because honestly the thought is like we really shouldn't be standing, you know, I mean, but we we Tried to we made it this term of endearment like my nigga type thing, but it's like the root of it is like Damn, we really I mean, I've always thinking like I really shouldn't be saying this word, you know I mean, so I am conscious of I was on set one time to do and it was like Maybe three of the three black people like all white people and he was just dropping so he's nigga nigga nigga And I was just like I just hate that because when you think about it And like you said, it's on the one hand like I don't care what they think and on the other hand It's like yo, they took this word to try to break us down. And so Yeah, we Plamed it and made it this thing. But to be in front of white people just like nigga. It's like damn It's just perpetuates like what you know, I Think that's the one up we got on there. So we can use it. I can say nigga That's the only thing you came to you with so much shit that they can do that we can't We can't do I mean cuz we're niggas And that's the shit these some of these African Americans Cuz you a good African-American don't forget you a nigga I mean, I didn't been on set like that before When I was like doing some assistant director shit and it was a It was a craft like you know the paper that meant the craft table snacks issues a black lady, bro, and I Walked in. Hey, how are you doing? Off the rip gave me bad energy. What nice as fuck to the white people, bro I was helping the crew clean up and load off some shit. I'm not even supposed to do this Nigga technically I'm ready to go once the production report is done, bro I'm ready to go. Yeah, so I'm helping clean up this shit and she laughed with the white people, bro and Emptying out the trash you like you drop that in front of them type shit And I'm like, bitch any day you still a nigga they still they don't fuck with you cuz you making some snacks But nigga they talking about you at home. Trust me So it'd be like if you like those black people I'd be like, bro Yeah, black people don't be doing this shit for these motherfuckers and then realize nigga I'm still a part of you. Yeah Walmart I was at Walmart in I was buying some shit Right the lady the lady gonna tell me that work at Walmart black lady gonna tell me yeah Don't be here still in them and it's it's hella white people by me She don't say none to the other races. She says something to me not understand, but I don't I have to tell the bitch I got more chicken in you That's why I said I got more chicken in you don't say that to me. Yeah I don't know whatever be a comment, right, you know, but it's like She shouldn't be able to say nigga No, yeah We should be able to Religion and say that on cussing this and then when they get some money Nope, there's no No, don't use nigga on me to capitalize off of niggas. I don't say niggas to get niggas on my side I do know that some comedians that I'm just saying entertainers in general. Yeah, but I'm just thinking about like just That's it. Like it's someone fuck is like you said earlier that didn't say that shit until they got a certain thing to crossover and it's like You're not you not Being my nigga you being a nigga like you are Doing it, you know I'm saying for a bucks like how she said the person in the room that was like hello white people He just dropped a nigga nigga nigga. He's like, bro You're not doing it out of humor. You're doing it to plead like you know I'm saying it's like yeah You get what I'm trying to say or I see what you're saying that these people got money and then now they're saying it because They think white people No, it's kind of like or now they want they know they want black people to buy respect It's like I'm a I'm a I'm a do this and this and then since I got this now I can I can I can buy You like certain things you can't buy you can't buy to be a part of this culture You can't buy to be black. You can't buy like like you said But we've been hard on the other ways we've been harder on ages and These but some of these ages is really niggas did some of these niggas In the town like with me going out there. Yeah, I'm like no they they really like Act like you're so I give you some moments can say nigga and nobody gonna stop them No Hell of me I would be like she not from out here She would be Let her slide Tell you nigga, hey No, don't visit Carson at all. Don't get the Carson and you're gonna hear the niggas. I blood them niggas. Whoa. Yeah Don't say that. That's the last you're gonna remember where you gonna wake the fuck up They were the tumbleweed in the gas station by You guys stand for something, you know, I feel it. I feel you but damn Now I'm turning to African America. I'm African American. I ain't a nigga no more. That's your date. Yeah, I'll put it. I'll fuck with you though. If you stand on that, I'll stand with you. I'll stand with you. I'll just be like, I get out of the stand. You with me, we good. Hey, my some more partners man. You understand me culturally, you know. Because you know, they get mad if you caught like if you call a tongue in a Simone or something. Yeah, you know, that shit offensive So it's nigga. Yeah. So that's how you break it down to him. I'll be like, that's why I call you a tongue. That's a little funny. Yeah, yeah, it's it's it's hard out here. It's uh 2023 a lot of things changed. Yeah, you know, it's hard to even meet people now. No for real. My mom's I'm og. I be going to the mall trying to find women. It'll be nobody at the moment. I'm a og nigga now, I guess. I mean, cause y'all go out. Where do you find work? Where you feel like you can find a good man? So here's the thing. No, no, no, no. Home Depot. But here's the thing is that at late niggas ain't got houses. Everybody live in an apartment. So that's where it's tough. But you live someplace else. Late some depot lows. That's where you got to go. You're gonna be in there with all me. Out here. That's what I'm saying. That's the trick. It don't work in LA. I don't know. All right, nigga, you're gonna your guess is as good as mine. You're gonna you're gonna, uh, turn to one of the fucking lifetime movie stories finding a nigga at uh, Lowe's, then they gonna lock her ass in the basement. Nigga that nigga. Black dudes don't do that. That's a white man shit. R Kelly shouldn't get all that time then. Is R Kelly a nigga or is he an African American? I think he had nigga, nigga. Like he got to be. I don't think he's African American. I mean, there's a lot of things I think he is. He was a square. He was in the house getting roasted. Like R Kelly was a nigga. Robert is an African American. And Robert was the one that was kidnapping and girls. R Kelly didn't do that. R Kelly didn't do that. That was Robert. Oh my gosh. Hey, I want that clip. R Kelly didn't do that. That was Robert. That's funny. So do you still listen to R Kelly or no? No. Really? Damn. Like even the music, like I mean, it's scandal proof though. Damn. You sound like if a man day, uh, do you feel like, uh, a man could be like, like about his culture, like pro black and all of that and date outside of his race? Um, the younger me would have been like, no, the older me is like I think it's possible. I think it's very few instances, but I think it's possible. I think you could be pro black and about That's tough. I don't know. I mean, maybe you just met somebody and she was joking. That's the closest person you that's the person you're closer to because if you're so pro black, then it's like I would think you would want a black woman and you want to have black kids and you know what I mean? So it's like but I do know that you could, you know, I think it's different between the dudes that are seeking something other than black women because that's the thing in LA too is like They want anything other than a black woman It's a different between that and it's a different between you so happen to meet a woman who is whatever she is And you so happen to fall in love with her Versus like I I just I don't want black women. You know what I mean? So I mean, maybe you I I guess you could That's a tough question. I feel like you could be pro black I feel like you could be That's tough Y'all put a cover. Can you be pro black and date outside of your race? That's like uh, that's a good question. Good one, right? Yeah Because that go back. That's what I'm saying about this nigga. Shit. Nobody fight for niggas more than me I fuck with black people But I mean when you if you look back to like My Angela, she dated a white man I she pro black I know How you pro black if you didn't date it else you feel me Yeah Because that means you basically say you can say certain things your partner can't like I could have like How you gonna watch a movie and be like, but that nigga just got smoked and the old girl just like Yeah, she can't say that but I mean you can still be for the advancement of black people. You can still You know Yeah, it did happen to I mean, they shouldn't be saying that regardless, but But I think you should you could still You know when you watch a movie you really your feelings about You watch a full real station Cry me and then your partner is like, you okay? I mean, I guess depending on who you pick in it's not for me. I'm gonna say that It's not for you. No, absolutely No, why not? Oh, no, I need a black man Why? Because I just that's what I that's what all I'm attracted to Because I am pro black and I want to have black children and I want black people to continue on and I die out and just become a mixed race Yeah, because everybody makes me out We're the last niggas left, that's us three out here So that's that's important to me like you yeah, I don't even know that I could do a It shut out all the mixed people. I'll fuck with you Blake Griffin as niggas man I'm not a niggas man, but I've never seen a mixed person I've never I'm trying to think I haven't really seen any mixed dudes that I didn't know was mixed. So I'm not I'm not really My What turns my life can do is don't turn my head put it like that It doesn't mean I won't talk to a life can do But I won't if I see a life can do walking on shit I'm not like damn who was he but if I see a brown skin or a dark skin dude, you know what I mean Um, I've never seen a dark skin mix dude, right? Not saying it don't exist because maybe they're mixed with like indian. You know what I mean? Whatever. Yeah, that's different We always can tell when a person is I'm attracted to black features. You know what I mean? So like I don't like the curly hair That's not my thing I don't like I love black features. I like yeah, you know when you feel like black you think black men is not uh Uh Like obsessed with black women right now in this day and age. I think plenty of them are I think we Focus on and I think a lot of them are in the limelight like celebrities the ones that aren't and so it seems to be This big thing of because if you look at the numbers statistically Uh, there are more black men that marry black women than those that don't Way more But I think that the focus and the lens is on the ones that don't and I think in LA because I saw that when I first Got here. I was like, yo I Where's I don't see black men with black women walking down the street I really see like I started seeing maybe some older couples here and there but like you don't really see black dudes Kwan you from LA girls. Yeah, it's it depends on where she at because like I say like And like on the other side of pico It's like you will see it often Mike. I mean you see black dudes with Mexican girls But like you know, that's not black you see a lot of black dudes with black girls though But it is depending where you at like if you were like north Hollywood Like all those areas I think out here it's People only associate white with dating outside your race They'll be with a Armenian chick or a latino chick or whatever and they'll feel like there's like no, that's not a black woman You know what I'm saying, so yeah, I didn't when I got out here. I was like, yo, that was culture shock for me So I think that but I think overall by large. Absolutely. I think black men Love and adore and date black women. Oh, yeah, by large. Yeah absolutely LA I mean they got some good ones. So let me not say that LA don't chew my head off There are good ones, but like I mean I mean the hood a lot So it's like Everybody know everybody or like it'd be hard because Niggas them fucked with everybody like oh you fuck were too. So a lot of niggas be trying to go out. Yeah, I see That's everywhere. Yeah, but I be feeling like dudes out here be making it dudes be making excuses I'll be like, look if you want to fuck what a white girl just say that because I did it for black women. It just didn't work out. Okay, then the fifth one. What do you mean? They have you I've never counted black people. No nothing you but I'm just saying like in general dudes would be like Oh, I try black women and I'm like you dated every black woman Because I've dated you niggas and let me tell you, you know what I mean? But like but that doesn't make me say oh, let me go get a white dude It's like oh this dude just isn't the right dude or oh, I didn't get what I needed out of this particular dude but like I don't like when black people say like counting black people like like also like You know like you said like I dated five black girls. Oh, you count black people And that's like you know, that ain't no legacy. You was trying to just get to the correct number to be like Let me go to the white girls. Like it's african america. He's counting our people. Yeah I dated six black girls nigga. What that's something you feel me was saying like nigga. What? Yeah You don't count those you don't count your people record if you like that But like you don't count it. You count the other reason niggas not many other Niggas like I ain't gonna lie. I had about six ages because I've never heard a white person like yeah I had about like a cool Six They ain't never gonna say that shit Yeah, it's like yeah, I had I had like two black girls Yeah, like I had a chocolate one A dark one like the niggas on there. Kobe had niggas scared. Fuck white girls for a minute Because I was young when that shit happened With Kobe, Riz and he's Kobe. He alleged but he had niggas spook. No cap. I was like six I'm like, I ain't fucking with that. Kobe. Shit as I was a kid. I always was scared of that shit Just because like always always start like Like it was crack like Because I thought I was gonna go to jail. It's gonna die Instead of white women. No, yeah So I never but like in a hood you really gonna be around more Like latino and other than white people like that. What are black? Where the black? There's no black girls in the hood My hell yeah, I love black girls I fucking love them, but I'm saying like you would like You in a hood like you only surrounded by that white people starting to come now because they buying all the shit But that was like you couldn't see yourself fucking with a white girl. Well, see this is I think this is my thing so Not just white anything other than black It's all I mean I have dated a few. Well, no, I dated one little mexican chick, but like You're not from LA. You needed mexican. That's how they fuck with it Yeah, it was it wasn't cuz I was hot of black girls. It was just like Somebody else now the baby niggas a baby nigga gonna knock one of the agents for sure Like every like when gz got with his girl everybody was shocked a baby nigga was like You know, she's from the bay too. Oh Yeah, she from the bay. I didn't know she was from the bay cuz I'm from the bay. I didn't know her in that world She said on tv and shit, but I'm saying like when she says she was from the bay I'm like, yeah, she looks like she's from the bay. It's like it's ages out there type shit But I do love black on black and you know gz even had keys you call And she from the bay too. So he just liked the base or you know, I ain't fuck with that But and then it's like so that'd be happening to niggas. He's like, all right, you know how about 50 keys you calls you traumatized But that exists within every culture What you mean key she goes So like it's really Really, yeah, it's a person like people would be like black women have attitudes. Have you ever dealt with white women? Are you fucking kidding me? For sure That's why I'm like if you want to date a white girl just say that because please don't blame it on black women Because that's not no every black woman. I like that. It's an attitude. Turn me on I already fuck here man Get the thing out of my face like I don't like that. I don't gotta know how to do it. It's just I hate that little voice Everybody got that value They turn that shit on and off though for real because when I watch people in stories and they go home I'd be like, what happened? Yeah, they come back. I heard me like, um, so I'm just gonna go to the mall And You had a whole country You It's different it's just but I don't know I think I think it lay is tough. It's a lot of black girls acting like, uh, the other cultures to them. Oh, yeah That's what that's what that surgery started from. Why is our women that got natural beautiful black lips nice thick thighs and It and nice ass This botox and these lip injections is out of control and I tell you it is Y'all look crazy. We love everybody, right? But I just got it That fucked up face. They look crazy. They like Stiff and stuck and just like I should look nasty. Like you just got your mouth blue. I like you just gotta punch them off But you know all women doing it and they got that from the other coaches So it could be like, all right. Well, I think everybody is hopping on whatever train is is popular like full lips is popular now I remember back when I was a kid younger As been popular, right? So now everybody's getting whatever is Considered, you know, he started it, right? The beauty what all these women trying to look like Kim Kardashian The Kardashians did all that to look like a black woman to get black men Now you got a black women trying to look like a person that's trying to look like a black person Yeah, so that's so we fucked up right now. It's it's just yeah It's crazy, but Still feel free to fuck with me. I'm fucking with everybody I'm just saying Yeah, I don't know why you ain't getting your uh booty Breast done. I just love myself as I am God gave me with the game. You ain't never gonna do it. Never somebody asked me I'm gonna move right here. Like what's the first thing you gonna do when you get money? What you gonna fix on your body? And I was like, what? Nothing, you heard she was in a gym. I'm getting my eyebrows wax. What do you mean? Like I'm not doing nothing I I literally love myself as I am flawed and all I work out. I go to the gym. You know what I mean? I like ice cream. So sometimes I got But that's as far as it gets why you think women doing it I think that A couple of reasons I think one that's what they think men like or see you know what I mean? Y'all like the pictures of the girls that got their ass out or got big or you always here even as I've always been super slim This is the most what I've ever had on me in my life, right? So but if I wasn't who I was if I didn't have a strong upbringing If I didn't have an amazing dad and granddad and men in my life Maybe I would feel that way from always hearing dudes being like the girl with the big, you know The fat ass. I mean I always in the most humble way been real cute and I dress fly So I never had an issue of getting dudes, you know what I'm saying? So it wasn't like oh my god, nobody wants me do still check for me I had at my ex-boyfriend all his exes is Mack trucks You line them all up and then you have me and it'd be like but I'm the one he led the most So I think you hear that and it kind of gets put into your head of like dudes are checking for girls with fat asses, right? And I think if you don't have the highest self-esteem or if you don't love yourself as you are And I think it's just become so trendy and such a normalized thing now that it's just like I'm going to mess I'm gonna do some titties. I also think it looks crazy You can always say like y'all titties look rock hard. I rather just have some small soft titties than some big rock heart Like I'm never unless it's medically necessary. I'm never going to know knife for nothing Like no, I'm not getting no Botox another thing like age and I'm like What is wrong with y'all that y'all don't want to get old? Do you know the alternative to get no? People be like I will gladly tell people my age any day Like I got homegirls that Always be like, oh, I'm this age or they don't want to tell nobody the age and it's like, you know What a blessing it is to be 40. I mean people didn't make it to see 40. Hell. Yeah So however I look at whatever age I get that's how I'm supposed to look You're not supposed to look 20 when you 50 be 50. I think something wrong with me I think I really like older women. I think something really wrong with me. So you 40 Get the fuck out of here. Yeah, you 40. I didn't know that Yeah, I'd be 41. Okay. Wow, you look like you motherfucking 28 I'll do that to my body Which I don't smoke or drink or something. I drink occasionally. I don't smoke. I drink like natural medicines and shit, right? Or do you ask you like, you know, how like there's the people that's on instagram that there's like all alkaline fruits in different Medicines and things natural shit to heal your body um, I'm not big on medication. I mean like on I might take a Tylenol something else for cramps, but I don't do I'm not Because like, you know, like I do. I mean, I hopefuls You know what I mean? That's where niggas gotta go or a farmer's market or something, but 41, but yeah But I think that grocery stores matter too. Oh start to look older the more that you do into your body Or even like heavy makeup. It's like girls that be 27 But you look at oh because you every single day you wear your skin can't even breathe or you got so much of it on So it's like I think just take care of yourself like for me. It's just never option. I literally love Myself as I am I'm not like shit Shit you tell that what the fuck that's that's crazy. Okay, so tell them what you do. So like they could I did it. You know what's crazy? I did a video the other day on instagram with my skin care routine Because people ask me all the time like oh my god. Yeah, nice. Give me junior skin Niggas don't want to listen. I tell y'all what I use and y'all want to argue with me in the comments, right? I can't use that on my skin because my skin Well, if you use it on your skin and your skin wouldn't be like it is I'm telling you what to do. Like You have a bump on this face. I can't do that. That's gonna fuck up my face. Your face already fucked up What are you asking the lady try it? I can't do that But no, I just like avocado. Like I can't put that on my face I mean I work out I work out like Three four times a week depending on my hair. I try to you know, um, that's another thing about age too You gotta you gotta really work out. Oh, yeah, I'm yeah, I'm getting to that age. Well, I gotta work out man I'm like, there's a bitch my pack just went away. I got a full pack I'm like, shit And that full belly showing I'm like, hold on Take my I've been doing sit-ups and shit. I'm like, I ain't trying to lose my pack making this shit. Yeah It's crazy. You gotta work out. Um, I mean eat right for the most part. I'm not like a super Health buff, you know what I'm saying, but I do try to eat right every now and then yesterday I stopped at Chick-fil-A, you know what I mean, but um, I cook so I eat fresh fruits and veggies I don't really do frozen stuff. How you feel about cooking for a man Absolutely Like you think you think you got to be in a relationship with a guy like boyfriend and girlfriend for you to cook for No, I mean if we're in a dating phase and For me, it's like It depends on the the bond that we have and where we're at. So if it's just like, oh, you took me out one time Then okay, right? But if we kicking it, we dating we might not be technically boyfriend girlfriend yet We haven't made it official Um, but you adding some value to my life Then yeah, I'm gonna cook for you. Would you would you cook for a man before you have sex with him? Yeah Yeah, because I I asked a few women that that question on the show and a lot of You know, even outside of women have been on this show. I just you know dealing with women They look like they they feel like cooking is more intimate than sex Like like I gotta be like you gotta be my nigga for me to be cooking But it's like sister. I have sex with you That I don't understand. I'm the other way My nigga for me to fuck you right To cook for you we're in the phase of dating With a purpose, right? And I feel like he's really into me. I'm into him like this is going somewhere anyway Because I'm not I mean and again, this is just me I'm not fucking you like on some first date second date, you know what I'm saying? So We've been in we're spending time together Before we get into the point of having sex so within that time frame We're gonna have some days that we kicking in at the crib. Yeah, I'm gonna cook for you. I don't have I personally am For gendered roles not like A woman is only supposed to be barefoot and pregnant not on that, you know what I'm saying She's for kind of rights, but I feel like naturally for me I'm gonna cook. I'm gonna take care of the home. I'm gonna we're more nurturing. We're more, you know And it's for a man And I think maybe that also depends on who they dealing with if you don't want to cook for your nigga And I'm questioning what kind of nigga you dealing with right because my nigga is Making sure my car is straight making sure, you know, I ain't got to take out the garbage. I'm not doing he's doing Let's see in the midst of you cooking and all that that's gonna make me want to take care of that I can't do all that before you get the frying up to shit. I need to hear some Then I'll be like, I'm gonna take out the trash Like I'm gonna start being productive because we got some rhythm in this When we want you to be like you ain't taking out my trash Why would I cook for you? It's like I would have been you're fucking all this up because you're talking too much Yeah, I get that my homeboy said that my homeboy was actually engaged And caught it off and the girl was on some like you think I'm about to be cooking for you like mind you He pay all the bills like Now you think that's the west coast shit No, I think that's a he A lot of my homeboys I should deal with young girls and I'd be like, this is what y'all get You dealing with a 25 year old? No, she's not cooking for you. I need to be in the motherfucking 80. She's not cooking for you I think things are kind of changing a bit. That's the shit that I that I like the most was all right Me growing up after my father was released from prison like my mom she cooked for bro Every day, right? make it look cool I'm up the block. I'm like four house away from my I can smell that shit Now I'm like, oh, I come up pops got the big plate nigga like everything. She make his plate first And as I'm as I'm growing up. I'm like, oh, it's gonna be like that Give me this. I'm like So I for sure ain't doing no damn cooking. You ain't doing no cooking. So you don't get that shit none Like I I think that they like these girls now hated they big mamas and they mamas because they don't do None of this shit that they used to do but it could also depend on I was gonna say what they saw So growing up like my it was always a hot meal in my house Mom I'm gonna cook every day from scratch and my dad cooks too. My dad is a really good cook Most he will cook more in the summer because he put a lot of stuff on the grill But my mom I would say was more like 80 20 she cooked 80 percent of the time and maybe 20 percent of the time my dad would cook So for me, that's why I'm not really big on like fast food or eat No, like I'll go out to eat on a date or if I got to grab something last night I would left the laugh factor like should I got to eat them out and about grab some chick-fil-a but I'm I like home cooked meals more because that's how I grew up So maybe they didn't see that in a house, you know, I'm saying maybe that wasn't happening in your home Or maybe the situation was you know, you have some woman that's like Maybe the man in the house where there was a dad step dad whomever Wasn't really a good dude. So maybe it did look like they mom was like Serving him or being his slave in my household. It looked like this is a family. This is what we do We have a family dinner every day. So that's important for me Like I always want to cook for my man and my kid, you know I have when I have kids is like I want to make sure I'm because it's something about your mom In the kitchen cooking that's loving that food. So it's like, yeah It's like how you expect a man to love you if you if you're not doing the shit a man love It's like you want me to start loving you And then you're gonna start showing But maybe what what are what are I don't know because you only dating girls one time Lou and then you throw That's the difference. You might not get a meal. You might not get a meal But if but if there's new Lou In the dating process, you might start getting some meals as you're dating a young lady consistently You know, just feel free. Yes, dammy. Just PSA. Yes, dammy. Uh, little do get good meals. Yes, dammy That's part of my standard. Yes, dammy I'm just saying this is the women that don't make the you feel and then are you doing things to add value and make Her life easy. Are you doing, you know, I'm a walking lick. Yes, dammy I'm a package. Yes, dammy. I'm you know, you know, you got chips that you know come individual You got the chips that come in the package You feel me? Okay. Okay. I'm one of them. If I'm I'm just not the bag. I'm the I'm the whole Yes, dammy. I got Doritos Funyuns You know, I can't I can't So, you know, I understand that I do hear that a lot from dudes And I'm like That's crazy I can't it's like but it has a lot to do with the with the man though I I truly understand that, you know, I'm saying like me gotta deserve certain Yeah, yeah, absolutely feel me, but it's like all right, you know, I kind of feel like you know, fuck boy And you want a girl to cook you see what I'm saying? You gotta have some type of Standard or yourself that you can you know some value Yeah, if I'm feeling like he really in this he probably got a whole bunch of other chicks And we just he just hit me sometimes when he feels like then no and really I'm not gonna give you my time I ain't gonna I'll be doing I'm dating you this type of dude. Should I'm a date then? Yeah, I do we doing that shit too though This is that's why you're not getting to say Because you said because you just said uh, he probably got other girls and he hit me Yeah, just just calling her whenever when it's convenient for you and you know what I mean Then you're not gonna get no come cook me up. You're not getting a play But I don't be having hella girls though I just be so busy and I be doing what I gotta do like on some productive shit And then once I'm done doing my responsibilities in my work Then a woman that come in my mind. So you gotta you gotta feel she gotta be able to feel like My last relationship it was like It first started during kind of like covid time, right? So stuff was kind of starting to open up but like not really so I remember the first time we couldn't really go to a restaurant But he went and got carried off from ocean prime, which I was like, I think he had saw a video I posted on my page. I talked about it was hidden So he's So he saw what I said, I liked on it came over with all this stuff, whatever and Just consistently right consistently consistently consistently. And so always looking out always doing nice things, whatever. So then one day Um, he was out of town He came back in the town and was like, yo, I'ma come over and grab some breakfast Which you want and I was like, oh, don't worry. Don't grab nothing and he was like, what like now Let me grab some whatever because I was like, I'ma cook. I'ma make breakfast because Consistently he has made sure he's always came over here with food. He's always, you know what I mean? Like as soon as he come over he take my trash out He'll come over and look in the refrigerator not because he trying to see what to eat He's making sure oh, do she got groceries? I came back in time one time He just hit me with a hundred dollar trader Joe gift card and feel bad because he was like, oh, shit I'm sorry I didn't work I didn't know he broke up with me Okay, what did you do? Your guess is mine No, no, I think it was a bad. I think it was a bad time I think we had a great relationship and I think that it was like communication No, no, she did something what you do. No, I didn't do it. I told you I didn't do anything specific I think it was like working on myself You know how like the honeymoon phase starts to slowly in and you start to kind of We learning how to coexist and live amongst one another kind of thing Um communication. I think it was just really bad timing on The relationship in general and he had some personal stuff happening like some family stuff, but he left you Yeah, so it was like I just I did not do nothing specific I promise you it was like, oh, I just I came to Right now No, it was like Bitch You know what time it is So this is not a I do not talk to any man like that Are you la niggas is weird? Why y'all ain't trying to talk to her yet? And like if she doing all this shit and say grand rise in the car niggas kings and put on they do rags What the fuck is you niggas not doing y'all niggas? But that ain't cool. I don't appreciate I don't appreciate quiescent saying she don't know what she did It wasn't anything specific. It was like regular like You know, we we never had arguments of like, fuck you. We don't talk to each other like that, you know, but you we had Disagreements or we've had moments of like you get on my nerves. I'm getting your nerves. That's normal shit, right? Um, but I just think it was a bad time in his life for what he had going on to try and be in a relationship So it was a thing of like nothing personally. It was literally like, I love you. I think you're amazing But blah, I just got x y and z going on and I just think that the timing right now whatever and I thought it was silly like this is Niggas go through 12 times think more worse than like our communication didn't ask the conversation You know, I mean, but I just think he was in the space of like because that's how I leave women I pull I'll politely leave. I always just be like, yeah, I that's how I make a break up Because because men don't get mad. Men don't get mad Like, all right, if I bring if I bring Keisha another steak and she twist her neck a certain way This she gonna be 10 times in a row I don't broke 10 steaks I looked in the refrigerator You feel me took out the trash and she still twist her neck like this Feel me? So she do that. She he probably talking to his partners and she do that I'm gonna bring this steak. If I bring it in there. She twists her neck. This she gonna be over it's on the case of like I didn't really do nothing. It's like no, you twist your neck 11 times And that 12 time you did it's like, you know The next she gonna twist it 13 times and she ain't gonna cook for you. So That's a fact too. So, yeah, it's a given take, you know, but because he out there He probably hungry as a motherfucker right now without you. I'm not speaking on that man. I had nothing but love for him It's not bad. It was never a bad person for me. He missed in Keisha in Keisha emails I'm telling you right now that nigga probably watching this episode because I ain't gonna lie. I didn't even need to double back No, he's a really good cook. He cooked a lot for me. Um, oh he did everything She did some I promise you You probably didn't get that nigga in her head. She was, she was the one getting hit all the time. That definitely wasn't a complaint That wasn't a complaint. He was getting hit. He was a hit. He was a hit. I just wasn't like, I don't know I'm not speaking bad on this person. She's treating me like a bitch. How did it get here? No, no, absolutely not. Yeah, how did it get here? Hey, Gawd. The nigga cook. Yes, there he is. Took out my trash. Yes, there he is. How did it even get here? Hey, hey, hey. He's eating a piece. No, I am not. Absolutely. You're a mad bitch. That's what happened. Absolutely not. Nothing but love for that person. Nothing but love for that person. Like, like, nigga, you gotta have an extra toe or something because like, there's no way You do all this shit and You ain't had no kids You ain't niggas ain't trying to propose to you or nothing and this nigga broke up with you What you doing? It's something about you. He said communication. His reason was communication. I felt like we're not on the same page She shouldn't like a bitch. No, I never Because that's what I get complaints about communication. I have nothing but respect for him. I would probably just need to deal with a nigga that Don't communicate. It's good. So y'all both be like, shit. I'm already know That's what I'm talking about. You probably need to deal with a nigga. Niggas be mad as fuck. I'm gonna talk to the keys. She's 30 No No, like a nigga. No, I know. No, I need somebody to communicate. It's good But I mean, I feel like that's no, I feel like you're going to have disagreements I feel like you're going to like it was the time I had attitude because My cousin died and I'm like, yo, I'm going through my cousin was dying at cancer I had to fly to DC to say my goodbyes and fly back and I'm really going through and I hit you and like You kicking in with the homie and I'm like All right, so I got attitude. I can hold you. You know what I mean? Like But I don't think you break up This shit was built up. You tell me He was like, what's wrong nothing No, I didn't say nothing. I made it very clear what was wrong with me You know how like girls be like when you ask what's wrong, nothing wrong with me and you're like, I want to go outside No, no, no, no. It be cookie when a niggas stop caring. No, no, no. Stop cooking. No, when he stopped caring Oh Because I'll for sure I'll be like, man, this shit. Oh Yeah, I'm working on me trying to extend shit. I be I'd be I'd be I could have grown off because she didn't pull him to the front But see, that's a problem. I told the girl to pick me up from somewhere. I got spot, because my thing is I'm not a nigga that need nothing. I got everything I need in my life. So why you ain't have a rat? Because I wanted to go to the airport. You ain't take Uber. Because I wanted to. I'm not a nigga that need nothing, but you ain't pull up right here on the green line. I don't need them, but I want some. You understand me? It's a difference. I want you to do something. I got to the airport and I stopped fucking with her ass. I got Uber and I said, this is the end of this relationship. But wait, you stopped fucking with her because she didn't pull up to where you want her to pull up to? I told her to pull up to the front. Lou, we got to do better. She didn't pull up. I asked you to pull up to the front. Why would you make me walk down the street? And I told you to pull up in the front. I don't walk down the street. When I park, I don't park down the street. So you come to, I want you to treat me how I treat me. Treat me how I treat me. Oh my God. If you can't treat me how I treat me, then uh, yeah, it's over, sister. No. What? But then you're just going from relationship to relationship to relationship. And that's what I've been doing. Because nobody's perfect. There's always be something. So I should do the deal out. Yeah. I don't think you should deal with no big shit. I ain't saying deal with nobody cheating, deal with nobody putting their hands on you, deal with nobody stealing from nothing major, you know what I'm saying? But I think. You're still from me. Like it's up. I think that's the problem. Why would you steal from me? I just feel like that's why niggas be getting shot and all type of shit. Oh, you're not only here for sure. Because it'd be the inconsiderate thing. That's why niggas don't want to deal with my family. Which you don't want to do. But it's like. Wait, you be shooting. Like a girl? Nah, like, say if I walk down the street, right? I'm on some goofy shit. I'm getting out of my, I'm getting out of my element on how I move because of female. That's what, a woman is your biggest strength or your biggest weakness. Choose wisely. So it's like, you feel me? The biggest strength is if, ah, ah, you pull up in the front, ooh, all right, good to see you baby, ooh. The weakness could be, you know what I'm saying? I end up walking, why was you walking down? Because the girl, yo, corny ass, I'm glad your dumb ass got robbed because your corny ass walked down the street because a girl. Yeah, I mean, I see your point, but I also don't think just cut a person off. Not unless you just wasn't really feeling her like that to me. Nah, she was cool. Everything's a little good. She's telling you this shit, but this nigga with no name, we still trying to figure out why he called it. How did we even get here? I'm not discussing this no more. This is all. Hey, bro. No, when I say when the camera's cut, me and you about to fight. Because how did we even get here? What she do? How did we get here? I just want to know. Because these fucks you can be the funniest. Look, look, look, look, because this thug mansion. Look, because this thug mansion. Eat natural. We trying to figure out what we need to do as people to be better. And I'm trying to figure out, I got to learn how to be a better person. The only way to talk to somebody, only way to get better is to talk to people to see things from a different one. Yeah, yeah, yeah. My business. But everybody is different too, because I mean, you could have somebody that the next person is like, I'm a rap with this person through whatever. And somebody else might be like, I'm out at the drop of a dime. So I think it depends on the person. Like I got a homeboy, and this nigga be talking to me about his girl, and I'm like, nigga, like, I'd have got done seven times by now. You know what I'm saying? But they two different people. Like he's willing to work through what their issues and their issues is. And then be the ones that be having. The other shit. You know what I'm saying? So it just depends on the person. It's the people that work through their shit like that. I got to figure this shit out. Somebody might treasure everything about that and somebody might be like, I don't like that one thing I'm out. I'm trying to figure out, if I'm willing to work through a lot of shit with somebody, because I don't really think, I don't know about a lot of shit. But I think that if you leave at the drop of a dime, where is that gonna get you? You're gonna just go from, you the problem. I exactly. You know what I'm saying? It ain't that person, you the problem. You gonna go from relationship to relationship to relationship. And I think that's the thing these days, everybody is so like, oh, I'll get somebody else. Oh, I'm out. I'll cut people off quick and I'll be like, that's not a good thing. Yeah, it really ain't. People say it like it's a great thing. That's a problem that you gotta work on within you because we're all human. Nobody is gonna be perfect. So if you gonna cut somebody off quick, you're gonna just be running from one person to the next to the next. And you gonna realize, damn, this person was actually not that fucking bad. None of them over here. You know what I'm saying? So it's like, but I think it also depends again on what you want. If you want something longevity, you wanna get married, you want something long lasting. People marry people. And again, I'm not saying put up with bullshit. But they go through shit. They be mad. They don't be talking to each other sometimes. It's really about love. You gotta go through it because you wanna go through it. It's, I think it's tough to, when you live in with a person, I think that can be hard in itself, right? Yeah. So you have to be committed to being committed. I love this person. And again, they do some bullshit and that's different, right? But ah, he keep his fucking socks is in the living room. That might irritate me a bit, but I'm not breaking up with you because you leave your socks in the living room. You know what I mean? That's what I'm doing, but like also I feel like it's better to know a person first before y'all do that moving in shit. Oh yeah, that moving in shit. Like you really gotta learn the person ways. Cause like, And you gotta compromise. That's not a fucking something good though. Like if you really fuck with a person, y'all rushing in that shit, y'all moving like without really learning the person. And like, okay, I'm learning you to love you for you, not for like, whatever honeymoon stage it is, nigga, I'm gonna go. Cause the honeymoon stage is gonna disappear in every relationship. It is. That's when the actual work comes in. So are you willing to put in the work or are you like, oh, I'm out. You know what I mean? So yeah, I think that's you. To what you said, I agree. Like you need to learn the person. And I think it's compromise that come with it. Like I had to learn from talking to my homegirls. That's married. Like, oh, oh, that's niggas. Oh mama, she is. Niggas, the at most men, not all, let me not even say most, a lot of men are just not neat, clean, not like y'all trifling, but like y'all not gonna keep a house the way I'm gonna keep a house. Right? So then you gotta. Sparkling, shining. Some men, some men absolutely. And some men just stepped on by the y'all. You know what I'm saying? This might be able to sit on the table for three days and it might not bother a dude and it'll drive me crazy. So you gotta learn to be like, all right, well, I gotta give a little bit cause he ain't gonna, you know, be neat like me. And we gotta, so I think it's like, and that's a part of learning the person. That's a part of that. That honeymoon phase dying down and you like, this nigga cute, but God damn, all right. You know, so you gotta work within that. You know, I think that is. I'm still struggling with spending the night. Shit. I'm like, I ain't sure I'm fucking gonna burn here. I'm like, get up out of here. I'm so far from moving in with something. I'm like, get up out of here, shit. I'm trying to figure out, can we do a slumber party this month? Oh my gosh, I should not. Y'all funny, bro. I'm like, I'll figure it out. Yeah, this has been a hell of an episode. We've been fighting, we've been fighting different types of demons on this episode, you know what I mean? You know, it's just, we went from African-Americans to niggas, to day, no type of shit, but it's a healthy conversation. And I always, it's always a good conversation when Keisha E. come through. Cause she gonna bust us down with that smart, intelligent, classy, but a little ratchet side on her, you know what I'm saying? So that's always good. You the last of the diamond breed. They don't make you like, you know, more time. You know? Thank you. It's hard, it's hard out here. Yeah, it's hard. Being a clear hex of a world for the only fans. Yeah. I just really like, just want to say like, you are an amazing person, you dope, but I really want to figure out this nigga's stupid. Here we come. Why is the camera stuck? Cause how did we even get here? I don't know. Oh, we got here. We weren't even supposed to get here. Oh my gosh. All that shit that you mentioned, that's what a real nigga would want. And not even a real nigga, just a real man would want. Yeah, we overusing the word real nigga. And that's, and that's very rare. So. This nigga turned into, this nigga talking into Dr. Phil. No, cause look, no, no, bro, real shit. This turned to the red table talking to this motherfucker. In a sense like, no bullshit. It's like what you around my nigga. Like me, I was around my mama like doing shit. So me saying that, that's the idea of a woman. Like that's how I expect the woman to be because I saw my mom do it. And like, you don't get that. So nigga, for her to really be on that type of shit don't call a nigga a bitch, don't know none of that. That is, that is. I'm like, I don't talk to just like the woman. She's like grand rising. I don't say grand rising, but I don't call niggas bitches. I don't play with that bitch word. I think also it depends on what, I got in this a lot. And I used to get this a lot too in college and just coming up. I think it depends on where a man is at and what he wants because I think oftentimes a dude will be like, I know I can't, I ain't on with y'all. You know what I'm saying? So if you know, you just wanna fuck around and have fun, whatever. And I'm on some like marriage kids build a life. Then sometimes, and I'll hear, especially in the industry, you come over, we would just have this conversation at a lie factory. You have a lot of good grown niggas, 45 years old. Like I'm just not ready for a relationship. It's like, what you, what you waiting on? You didn't have your life before. You better not do that. You need to settle down. But a lot of dudes are just like, I'm just focused on my career and that's it. And so then it's like, I'm not even gonna try and approach her because I'm gonna approach the girl I can just take down for the night because I'm gonna smash her and I gotta get back to work. I'm not gonna approach the girl that is looking to build a life for somebody because I ain't on that right now. So I think that happens sometimes. And then in that instance, I'm not mad. Like don't waste my time. You know what I'm saying? That's crazy. How y'all feel about women calling dudes bro and bruh? You do that? No, not to my dude. That's so weird. To like my homies or something. But no, not to my nigga. Yeah, don't do that shit. Yeah, don't do that shit. I don't know. I leave for less. Yeah. I leave for less. Girls and females say, bruh, hold on to the house, man. You got a whole list of like, you do any of these. She can be fully naked. Damn, bruh. Yeah, I'm to the house. We be like, she left, she left 10 seconds on my microwave and then I can't do it. I'm naked. Who raised her? I don't, I can't do this. They be looking for a reason to get out. Before it even starts. So if he get her number, he be thinking, how can I get rid of this? I was just a little full of the girls. She's like, damn, he's so just mental. I'm like, I'm like, I'm more fucked, bruh, I'm working on this shit. Anything. But I was serious. I wasn't even trying to be on that shit. I was just like, you feel me? She like, there you hella just mental. I'm like, yeah, I guess I be on shit. Anything. He look like that. I was really just me. So I keep that same shit. I got my shit together. So I'm standing on shit. I be saying, where you live at? Who you live with? I be saying hella shit, I be asking hella shit. What you do for fun? You just fuck around, go to club. I don't think he's gonna grow up with that. But they be like, damn, you hella, like. Yeah, like. I'm asking shit, cause I'm ready. You ask me the same shit, I'm gonna answer this shit hella fast. I mean. But that might be the one to know they own some bullshit. You see what I'm saying. So I don't want to answer the question if I'm a fellow, you know what I'm saying? If I got five kids, six baby daddies, I might be like, I'm gonna tell this nigga. Damn. How you got five kids and six of them niggas? Like, okay. It's between the two? That might be a situation where, you know, but those are normal questions. Get to know somebody. Yeah. Normal. You know, it's just like, it's the Kelly kickback. I'm glad y'all stayed tuned in watching this episode. I appreciate y'all for coming through. This was a red table talk slash real nigga talk. So y'all tuned in to another episode. And we'll tap back in with you. Kisha, Kisha, feel free to pull back up on us. Don't let this nigga scare you off. Anytime. Anytime. Listen, anytime. All right. It's the Kelly kickback.