 Hello, hello! I wanted to do a quick video for you guys today about disconnecting your situation in life from your emotional well-being. Now, let me ask you a quick question. Do you suffer from various ups and downs in your life relating to your business, your financial situation, your relationships? Do you find yourself, for example, running your business and getting super stressed when things don't happen or when things stack up that should happen? Or maybe in your relationship there's a problem with your friends or your partner and you find yourself in a really, really bad mood. I know I've definitely experienced this for years, with my business especially, where if I had a lot of stuff to do, I would just get really, really stressed and I would just wake up with stress, I would do the day with stress, I would go to sleep with stress, because I would always have more to do. And even today I have a lot of stuff to get done. I need to focus on a lot of things and there's a lot of things to get done. But I did this separation a while ago that really changed the game for me. So before what would happen was I would spend the day stressed as fuck. I would just feel really, really bad all day long. I would work reluctantly. I would not like to upload videos because I was in a bad mood. I would always think like, oh my God, what about this client and what about this thing that I need to deliver and it would just be bad. So a big epiphany that I had was that I can actually completely separate my life situation from my emotions. So the realization came one day when I was really, really, really stressed as usual and I was just thinking, oh I need to get this done and this client is late and I need to get this and that's late too and fuck, fuck, fuck. And then I was thinking, wait, why am I feeling like this? Why am I feeling so stressed and anxious? Well, it's because I've got to get shit done. I've got to get stuff handled and why do I got to get it handled? Well, I want to feel good. I want to feel happy and I won't feel happy till I get it handled. And I just asked myself a question. I just asked myself, what happens if I just choose to be happy now? Regardless of the chaos, the situation, being late, the clients are late, my projects are late. What if I just choose to feel good? And again, that doesn't mean to not pay attention to stuff, to be okay with being late, to not have responsibility. We still do all that. You still arrive to meetings on time, you still get shit done on time, you still take responsibility for things. But what if you just choose to feel good? Again, not as an exercise, just as a choice. I want to feel good. I want to be happy, I want to smile, I want to feel good. I don't care that the things are late. I don't care that I'm late to the meeting. I don't care that there's a lot of stress and pressure. I'm just going to feel good. And what happened when I made that decision was I started feeling really good. And the unexpected thing was that my productivity actually went up. So suddenly I started taking more action. I was more fluent, more fluid. I was taking kind of more spontaneous action. I was creating opportunities, making more content. Actually, you know, coming up with creative solutions, doing things that I would usually be reluctant to do, or would avoid because of the bad mood. So I just started feeling better. And the situations would still be the same. I would still be late to some appointments. I would still be late on some deliveries. Some things would not be really good. There would be arguments once in a while, but I would just do them with a smile. Like, okay, I'm just going to feel good. Fuck it, I'm just going to feel good. I don't care. I don't want to be changed my life because I still have the same pressures that I did before, but now I feel good during the day. I don't feel stressed anymore. And that's actually very productive for me because it makes me take more actions and become more charismatic. And being a coach and a lecturer and a marketer, I'm very, very dependent on being charismatic and persuasive. So I hope this tip helps you. I haven't really worked with clients on this area. Not very much. So this is just my experience with it. Let me know if you have any questions. Thank you for watching. Feel free to subscribe and download my free 70-plus page guide to making $2,000 sales on a weekly basis on my website at robifrank.com. So thank you again for watching. Please subscribe and I'll see you in the next video. Bye-bye.