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So guys today Let's talk about work life balance a little bit here and I want to kind of get a creamer in here Yes, can hear you good sit hearts good to know that that's the that's the man with the money That's the man with the plan right there. Oh my gosh. Yeah, he's he's tearing it up online So I want to talk about this because it's like it comes up so often doesn't it this work life balance thing comes up So often but I want you to think about it all Dean what's going on buddy people are slowly trickling in They don't always get here when I start it's like when I'm halfway through it's like double what it was in the beginning But that's okay. I understand just hit 92 subs and past 1,000 views awesome, man That is great sit art And you know most people never get to a thousand views and most people never get to a hundred subs Okay, and you're already eight away from it So you're doing good the thing you can do to really increase that before I get into my little spiel today is Post more content more content more content more content make sure it's good, but just keep posting content as frequently as you can That's going to help you more than anything else you can do All right, so work life balance. What is what is it? It's basically balancing your professional and personal life, but it can be a challenge, right? It could be a real challenge now the question is what is it? What is it? What is work life balance? It's different for everybody and see that's the problem everybody's going well Gee I want to have a work life balance, but what is it for you? You know, do you have kids? You know, do you do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend? Do you have several boyfriends or girlfriends? You know, I'm trying to post content every other day. That's good It's good. The more you do the better So that the thing is when you think about work life balance is Everybody has different demands on their time Some people are very extreme with their work. I was listening to Elon Musk on Joe Rogan's podcast Which you got to watch it. I think it's number 1609 great podcast three and a half hours long though Took me a few days to watch that one But he said that he usually quits work at around 1 or 2 a.m 1 or 2 a.m. He sleeps six hours a night, which is not bad. That's about what I do five six hours But you know, then he's immediately at work. So he's probably in bed at 2 gets up at 8 and he's at work at 9 That's extreme and he does this he says almost seven days a week He says sometimes on the weekend it'll be a little bit less But that's what he does now. This this is a guy and this is if you want to do this This is a guy who's the richest guy in the world. So that's what it takes now We know what it takes to be the richest guy in the world You got to work to one or two in the morning. Maybe you don't but that's what he does. So there you go There's your there's your example of what you have to do But work-life balance is really what you want it to be now I'm gonna talk about a few things that will help you in that area, but it really is what you want it to be It's not a thing. It's not, you know, 40 hours a week weekends off, you know Three hours a day with the kids the other thing about work-life balance is it can change on a daily basis? You know, you have different demands put on you on a daily basis I know I do and that that affects, you know What I'm gonna do that day or there could be an emergency that comes up or maybe there's a family member that needs me Then I have to direct my attention to that and I can't at the end of the day I get mad at myself for saying oh my gosh You didn't get all those things done today because you had that problem with your kid or your wife or whatever No, because that's what I chose to do That's the next thing I'll tell you is Understand that whatever you have right now Whatever you're doing right now is exactly what you want to do Now you may not want to hear that however It's the truth because you have choices right unless you're imprisoned and you know all your rights are taken away Every day you have choices now you may have constraints on your choices, okay? So in your country, you may say well I want to work on this one website and they pay with PayPal in my country PayPal doesn't pay Okay, so that's just a constraint. There's other ways around that. There's other things you can do Number one, I'm gonna tell you this except that there is no perfect work life balance. It doesn't exist Okay, so if you came to this today Searching for perfect work life balance, you're not gonna find it You're not gonna find it because it doesn't exist it exists for you, but there isn't one pattern for everybody See some of the comments here. I'm trying to post content every other day I read that I think it's important to have discipline and routines with built-in flexibility. Yeah, I do I think Discipline is an overused word. I I don't I don't really have discipline, you know, I don't I can tell you that right now If I depended on discipline, I wouldn't get anything done because you know discipline is one of those things where you say Well, I'm gonna make myself do this if you make yourself do something. It's likely you're gonna quit pretty soon So I don't do that I say what would I do if I wanted to have this, okay? If I wanted to have you know, like right now I started finishing my course yesterday called Digital course designer great course. I mean, it just really is a great course I do a lot of research and it's gonna teach people how to sell courses online So I said yesterday well, I want to start doing some of the videos and I want to edit them And I'm gonna do it for a certain period of time before dinner because You know yesterday we were gonna spend some time together and not working the evening which we do every now and then So I knew that I was gonna work on that till 5. Okay, and it was around 2 30 after I finished my workout So it was like whatever I got done is what I got done I got three videos done, which is good I got him uploaded got him in the membership portal and cartra and that's on its way and got a logo worked on today I have a meeting with Google Rep about our ads. That's a 10 a.m. And this is what 9 0 7 now So a little bit. I'm gonna meet with him and then after that today. I have to do videos until the end of the day I have 12 scripts written kind of written some of them aren't really written. I'm gonna wing some of them and That's what I'll be doing for that period of time So I don't I don't really have discipline. I don't I'm gonna tell you I don't discipline I have things that I tell myself that If you want to be this these are the things you got to do just get up every day and do them No matter how you feel you've got to ignore how you feel now That leads into number two and number two is try to find something that you love doing Try to find something that you love doing It's a whole lot easier to accomplish things when you're doing something you love now If you find something you love doing understand that you're not gonna love it all the time You're not just not gonna love it all the time My son works at the Cleveland Clinic and the cardiac unit and you know that was his dream job to work there But he doesn't love it every minute You know sometimes there's some real tragedies there and people die and you know right now It's icy and cold and Cleveland and there's some negatives to it There's never gonna be something that never has negatives to it ever it's not gonna happen And if you're looking for that you're gonna be sorely disappointed because it doesn't exist Let me get a drink here real quick What's Paul got to say Paul says habits instead of discipline I know working out as a habit as well as you eating. Yes Today I cheated a little bit. I got a McDonald's breakfast But I didn't just go get whatever because I looked at their big breakfast It was like 1,400 calories, but I could get a sausage McMuffin for around 500 calories So I went that route. Do I eat that every day? No, I don't do I eat breakfast every day? No, I'm not perfect in that area. I'm just not okay, but I did plan out my lunch. I have all that set up So the second thing was you know find something that you love And the third thing is something that Paul just brought up there and guys feel free to post in there Let me know what you're thinking of this. Let me know what your work balance is. The third thing is prioritize your health Okay, your overall physical Emotional and mental health should be your main concern I mean this this should be a priority for you above everything else if you feel bad Okay, if you tire out easily if you're not getting enough sleep if you're not eating right You're not gonna be able to pull off any kind of balance. I mean you're just not I used to hear it when I was a kid It's like, you know, if you got your health, you got everything if you don't have your health You don't have anything and the funny thing was as a kid I was healthy and I didn't even it didn't even cross my mind never crossed my mind But as you get older, right? Do you start having some aches and pains and stuff? You're like, oh my gosh I got to really prioritize my health and the only way to do that is do things that are uncomfortable One of the most uncomfortable things for me is working out and do it on a daily basis today I won't be able to once again priorities because I had this meeting I had this live this morning and I have to film videos all day long And if I take out, you know the two two and a half hours to work out I wouldn't need some of this other stuff done. So I got to prioritize I can't always do it perfectly now what happens with your health is some people will say well, you know I didn't work out today so screw it. You know, I'm off my plan now and you know It doesn't matter anymore if I work out any more because I missed a day No, you just missed a day. Okay. Don't over generalize that. Oh, yeah Well, I cheated today on my lunch and I had cheeseburger and fries and shake and you know what screw this diet I can't stay on a diet. I'm no good at this. I'm gonna go back to eating any way I want. No, you screwed up that one meal That's all you know, it didn't mean you screwed up the whole day Okay, you could your next meal you could try to correct a little bit gets here some broccoli and some grilled chicken and Going the other direction you could do that. Okay, so don't think because You screwed up or you didn't do it perfectly that it's all over with nobody's perfect Okay, nobody's perfect. Don't be so hard on yourself. Don't do that. What is Paul saying here? Paul love working as a firefighter paramedic lieutenant Never had a day. I wanted to call off like you said some days were harder than others But it was still the most fun I had with my clothes on Yeah, and I was actually I was an EMT I went in the paramedic I was an EMT in Virginia and that was my volunteer work on the Virginia Beach recipe squad We had about a hundred and thirty running numbers at the time I think they have paid ones now but back then everybody was volunteering. I love doing that, but some days Some days was tough, right? You have somebody throw up on you a couple times in a day or punch you in the face or whatever You know, you have a couple people die on you. Yeah, I can change your day Dramatically. All right, so we got the health thing down right prioritizing your health first and foremost We'll make you a better person overall period. That's just the way it is Prioritizing your health doesn't have to consist of radical or extreme things You don't have to be you know in better shape than everybody around you just work on it That's all this is work on it. Don't put so much pressure on yourself and do the best you can And the next thing I want to talk about is don't be afraid to kind of back off and unplug every now Okay, you know cutting ties with the outside world every now and then lets you recover from things. Okay taking a day off from working Okay, let you recover a little bit What you want to do What I didn't understand You know many years ago was that taking a break was really just decompressing And I've got the gardener behind me. Can you hear the gardener? If you can hear the gardener he seems awful loud to me today It's like he's got right behind the window and he's weed-eating and there's no weeds behind my window There's none. There's no reason for him to be weed-eating behind my window. Whatever. I think he knows what I'm live Maybe he's got like YouTube on his phone. He's watching. He's gonna now is what I want to do the weed-eater. I Think you hit it on the head with prioritizing day do work needed not just busy to be busy work Yeah, and you know sometimes I think Paul you got to kind of look at what what did you do and look back on it? You know the phones now are pretty interesting Because it'll show you how many minutes you spend on social media. How many minutes you spend on websites and all that stuff I really try to get off social media as much as I can I do post there But it's more business related every now and then I'll find something funny and I'll post it But man social media can eat up your day. Oh my gosh, it's horrible So don't be afraid to kind of unplug not do anything relax grab a book do something like that Let's see here Kind of looking at some of the stuff here Okay, the next thing I want to talk about is take a vacation number five take a vacation now I remember the four-hour work week, and I don't know if you ever read it or not But you know what it talks about is the average human being will work 40 years and then when they're old They start to vacation and enjoy themselves and he kind of turned that up on its head And he says no why don't you just work a little bit and then take a vacation and work a little bit and take a vacation? I know on average without the pandemic. I was taking about six or seven trips a year six or seven trips a year now Some of them I would combine with business, you know, it may be you know a digital marketing Convention, but you know, I'm gonna hang out with some of my friends there We're gonna party and we're gonna swim and we're gonna see some sites too. You can combine these two It doesn't have to be a fine line Between you working and you vacationing and you don't have to wait until you're too old vacation I see that I see why people said well I'm gonna go to the south of France when I retire But they didn't take care of their health and when they do retire They can't walk but a half a mile so they can't really see the south of France Okay, because they're in bad shape a lot of these things that you're gonna want to do throughout life You need to do them when you're younger. Okay, you need to actually do it when you're younger And the only way to do that that I see is to really Either be independently wealthy or work online because if you work online, it doesn't really matter where you are And that's why I really try to get as many people as possible Trained on how to start running grow your own business online because if you can do that if you can pull that off all these other things I'm talking about you can actually do and Also, the last thing I would say is you want to make time We're not even the last thing I want other thing, but you want to make time for yourself and your loved ones Okay, it's super super important that you do that Don't ignore your family members, you know, it's it's a shame You know, there's that song the cats in the cradle I think it is where the guy never had time for his son And his son saw that and his dad was always working and always busy never spent time with him I then his son grew up and his son had kids and his dad wanted to go spend time with him now And the son's like, you know, I got the kids now. I got the job. I don't have time for you So they never really had time together. I I think I was smart enough to realize when I became a single dad I didn't really date or do any of that stuff that I wanted to spend time with my kids So anytime I had off I would spend time with my kids and we did go places and we went on vacations and I took them all around the You know, I took them to Puerto Rico. I took them to Vegas. I took them to, you know, Disney I took them all these different places and now they've got those memories and now the cool thing is they call me a couple times a week You know, they live in different states now, but they want to just sit and talk to me And I think it's because we've built that relationship then don't try to build a relationship with your kids or your loved ones You know after after everything else You need to take time for them to it's super important to do that What does paul got to say here paul says miss you and jessica taking a break for lunch on fridays You know paul, I got to be honest with you We have been doing some friday lunches But we're not in a restaurant and I didn't think anybody would be interested And seeing me sit in my car with a tray hooked onto my steering wheel Which is where we have to eat Now, I mean literally in california. They wouldn't even let you eat outside Another reason we're leaving california Which you couldn't even eat outside. So You know, what were you gonna do? It's ridiculous And we'll get back to that because in austin Um, they let you eat indoors, right? They let you eat at the table and lo and behold, there are covid cases aren't any worse than california I mean, they're bad, but they're bad everywhere, right? Uh, so, you know, of course this year we didn't have the flu. So yeah, who knows what the heck that is Um And what what other thing I would say sit boundaries and work hours. Okay If you say you're going to do certain things I guess I have more points to make than what I thought If you say you're going to do certain things you say you're going to quit at five quit at five Okay, if that's what you say you're going to do stick to what you say you're going to do If you don't stick to, you know, what you're going to do Then, you know, that's a bad thing and you do have to sit boundaries And you know just can I work online and we talk about working online a lot and sometimes we'll just look at each other We'll say, okay, we're not going to talk about business anymore tonight. We just look at each other. Yeah, okay Let's do that. We don't need to but stop doing that. Otherwise, you're all consumed by it because that's what you do every single day And that's not good for you either Um, let's see. I think it's important to do the vacation Uh, make time for family Love that trip you took to visit daughter and family in florida. Yeah. Yeah, and I did that during covid And then what we did is we combined it Um, I left Tampa, florida and we went down to Key West and we hung out there And just hung out at the bars and the restaurants and walked around and had a great time Uh, and we got work done too, you know, and I filmed videos down there and did stuff Um, I can't I can't tell you What you're missing if you're not working online. I really can't tell you the life that you're missing Uh, and you're going to have to put in work. You're going to have to put in effort I know I do I have to today is going to be a very hectic day very busy day And I know that upfront but man the payoff the payoff is phenomenal guys It really is um You just you got to do it. You just you got you got you got to work online If you're listening to this video right now and you're not working online Man dig into some of my videos on the channel. Watch some of the stuff I talk about on here I'm sharing with you really. I'm kind of documenting my life, you know So when I'm gone people can look through this channel and go. Oh, he did this this this this this Okay, so that's kind of what I'm doing. Uh, so many have set boundaries is one of them Um And then if you're going to set boundaries, that's cool. Also set goals and priorities, okay Pick out what you want to accomplish pick out what you want to do and get it done Get it done. Okay. Now you may start a project and I've done this before where, you know Something else is going to take you away from it But if that project was important enough to you get back to it get back to it and do it Don't just say, I quit that so I'm not going to do it anymore Well, no because in all that effort you already put into it is wasted A good example is a digital course designer, which is the course I'm coming out with next Um in that particular course I started in I think it was January then I worked on it some in April May June and July then other things came about And I couldn't do anything on it And here it is what February a year later, uh, and I've got it all back together now I've got all the outlines of all the stuff I did and uh, I'm going to put it all together And I'm going to have a really cool course for you guys. I think you're really going to like it And let's go let's get into some questions now, too Um, let's see Paul, what's he got to say here? Do you plan out of your day the night before? The weekly strategies on sundays, um, I generally will plan the day before Uh, I do plan weekly certain things like I know every other week I'm going to shoot videos every other week because I shoot 10 to 12 I post five a week and that gives me enough plus a little buffer Now if something comes about and I can't shoot I know I've got enough videos in there where it won't hurt me But I try every other week to do that. So that's a weekly planning thing Um And then daily I really do kind of plan at the night before because The things change so much that I can't always plan that a week in a week in advance on monday I'm going to do this because things could come up. It could be a doctor's appointment It could be, you know, I got to work on my ads because they aren't producing the way I want Which actually they're producing really good now. I'm happy about that How often do you reevaluate your reevaluate your goals and objectives weekly quarterly or annually? Yes Yes, I actually do it in all those times. I look at them daily. I look at them weekly. I look at them monthly I look at them annually. Um, I'm constantly reevaluating because I think if you set goals and priorities and you never go back and look at them other things will creep into your life And and make you want to change them the important thing is that you do have priorities and goals But it's not important that you do exactly what they say because other things may affect them. Okay So that's super important. I'll give you an example I was running ads for this one offer and everything was working on the ad. Okay, so I had an ad and it's a video on youtube People were clicking on it. People were watching the video people were then Um going to the opt-in page. They were opting in at a very high rate They were then signing up for some training, but then it broke There was a problem with the actual webinar itself And I'm going to tell you after 12 years working online. I still make mistakes So guys if you're trying something and it doesn't work out the way you want so what just go change it So when that happened I had to stop running the ads right because I had to fix that component of it Now this is crazy, but it took me a month to fix that component. I do have that component fixed now Now I can go back to running those ads and get those things all ramped up and doing that James brain. What's going on man? You're fitting You're flitting around so much. I have a hard time being a fly on the wall How about sharing how you use youtube buddy peace and blessings also? Always, excuse me. Uh, okay, I'll do that Uh, let me finish this one thought here and if you guys have any questions on this life balance thing I hope I hope if nothing else this makes you go Okay, so I'm not screwed up. So I'm not doing things wrong Because you're not, you know, you're you're doing exactly what you want to do in matter of fact when I close out today I want to give you my little spiel and doing what you want to do How do I use to buddy I use to buddy many many ways The first way I use to buddy Well, first, let me tell you what I do. I try to find a title that I think is going to be good Okay And then once I find a title that I think is going to be good. I type it in to youtube Now when I type into youtube A couple words you can put like how to make and then a whole bunch of stuff's going to drop down All these suggestions and I can kind of see what people are searching for So then I put together what I think is a decent title Then I go over to tube buddy and I use the analyzer in there and let me see what that is called So I can give you the exact thing that that is called It is called I'm pulling out my tube buddy right now Um keyword explorer I go into keyword explorer and I try to get um a title that's going to rank high But that doesn't have like millions and millions of competing videos. Um, and then that's what I do After I do that I um, I've actually trained my media person to do some of these things, but I did it before him So I'll tell you what I did. I went in and then I then put in the meta tags in there It will allow you up to I think 500 characters and meta tags fill it Fill it fill it fill it put every single thing you possibly can in there That is related now cool thing about tube buddy is when you start to put it in there below where those suggestions are It will have the popularity of those keywords and how high they're going to rank So you can actually look at the keywords below to see which ones are going to rank higher now That's the paid version. You don't get that on the free version, but the paid version is so cheap I mean, it's crazy not to get it And if you want if you want the free version in the description of this video after i'm done You can click and there's a link down there And if you click and use my link if you go for the paid version you can save 30% on tube buddy, which is a huge savings Nothing, it's really expensive So that's what I do with tube buddy. What else do I do with tube buddy? Um I use it for suggestions of stuff too. I use that part there There's a seo studio in there that you can use and i'm clicking on it now So i'm trying to look at the stuff as i'm talking to you guys You can enter the your target keyword in there and it will let you know how it ranks on seo In there you can use that There's so many things you can use in there. I have I think a video on this channel About tube buddy. I would suggest you using that. Let me see if I can find it here. It may let me search it Let me see here youtube Okay, and if I can find that video i'll put it in the chat section Generally, it does not let you Put anything in the chat section that is a URL link However, if it's youtube it may allow you to do that and if it allows you to do that That's exactly what I will do Let me see if I can find it here now. I'm going to go to my channel And then i'm going to put in tube buddy and see if I can find the video that will help you guys out videos Yes, here we go And I think if I call it the right thing tube buddy See if that works Yes, yes Let's see here. Let me This is about the keyword explorer guys this particular video So let me get this one here And if not what you want to do is search my channel three steps to get instant success Using tube buddy keyword explorer. Okay, so i'm going to try to Copy that And then i'm going to go to my live stream here I'm going to try to post that in there if it'll let me And boom Did that go through? I don't think it did. I don't think it did Yeah, it did. Yeah, it did. Okay guys, so if you look In that chat section there and you click on that link That's going to give you the keyword part of tube buddy so that you can actually use that which is pretty cool stuff All right, let me get back over to my other screen here I'm going to look at some comments and talk to you guys. Well, I want to talk to you But you got to talk to me. Can't ignore me. All right, paul's talking to me. James talking to me Give me some input. Just curious what time your day starts. I found that 6 30 am worked for me You know, I don't know if there is a good time to start your day It used to be the world started, you know at 8 or 9 a.m. And worked till 5 You know banks closed at 5 and all that stuff But the world doesn't operate that way now You know, I have people in india and mexico and filipines What a daily basis that I talk to And their times are going to be different than mine So, um, I try to be as productive as I can During my day. So I'm generally Out of bed by 6 37. I guess something like that And then I may screw off for 30 minutes. You know, I have breakfast or whatever and 7 30 or 8. I'm working Um, and I'm getting stuff done. I'll do that until uh, lunch time I'll have lunch Relax for just a couple minutes. I mean my lunch is like 15 minutes 20 minutes. It's not long I don't take a long time to eat. Um, and I generally lately have been eating at home Just because going out such a hassle with COVID and all that you can't eat in a restaurant can't go outside James's thanks for sharing your experience with TubeBuddy. Thank you so much for asking a question James, I really appreciate that. The questions really matter a lot to this Um, so then after I do that what I'll do is I'll do a workout And that's going to take me an hour and a half something like that. Um, and then I'm going to go back to work I'm going to work up until dinner time and I have dinner and then after dinner I usually get on the bike and that's going to take me anywhere from a half hour to an hour And then I get off that and I go back to work again and then around 9 30 or 10 I'll watch a little bit of tv And then I'll work and watch TV kind of combination. My wife goes to sleep a whole lot earlier She can fall asleep at 10 10 30 Um, and then I'll work on something until midnight or 1 a.m Then I start over again and that's that's generally my day And like I say it can change up a little bit, but pretty much that's what I do on a daily basis and it works for me Okay, uh, James says, where do you host your websites? You know, I have I have several different places. I host websites I have a hosting company that I use for magento And I think it's called total server solutions, but it's it's just for magento websites I have another one that I use for my WordPress websites and I have a whole bunch of WordPress websites actually a 50 So it's kind of a bunch And I don't know the name of that off the top of my head. I can search that for you and put that back in the comments later Man, I wish I knew it off the top, but it's it's a really secure one And I also pay for security on my websites too. I think I pay I don't know what that is 100 bucks a month or something like that So they don't get broken into because we had that issue at one point So yeah, that was an issue. Tell me about your days in here in this chat section guys I'm gonna jump out of here in just a couple minutes. So you might as well get some comments in there Let me get a sip while you're doing that, right? Every every day What are you doing? What time are you getting up? What's your schedule like? How much do you work a day? Um, and I will tell you my days don't really change much no matter what day of the week it is Um on the weekends, I probably work a little less Um, but we got some goals. We're working all right now. So I'm working a little bit more Fridays is my probably biggest screw-off day and for some reason we just picked Friday I think it was because we did our Friday lunches. So now what we'll do Is we'll go off to lunch and maybe my wife will shop a little bit and she'll walk through You know marshals or Ross or some craft stores. I'm she does crafts and she has a DIY channel So she finds stuff for those that channel there. Um, so You know, we live the life we want now the the thing I wanted to end with is whatever you're doing is exactly what you want to do Yep, whatever you're doing is exactly what you want to do. So you may say to me, well jr Um, I don't want to pay taxes and I'm going to tell you yes, you do Yes, you do want to pay taxes and the reason I know you want to pay taxes because you're paying them and you say, well, no, that's not my choice That's not my choice jr. The government makes me pay taxes. The government doesn't make me pay taxes guys The government does not make me pay taxes the government wants you to pay taxes And you say well jr Um, you know, if I if I don't pay taxes I go to jail. I said well then go to jail Not a big deal and you go, well, I don't want to go to jail. I go there it is You don't want to go to jail So you're paying taxes You see what you do is you have choices with everything You may not like the results of the choices of not doing that thing You know, if you don't show up for work and you're on a job, you know And you're supposed to be there at 9 a.m. And you don't come until noon every day. They're gonna fire you And you go, well, I don't want to get fired. I wouldn't have any money. I couldn't pay my rent couldn't eat I go well, then you must want to be there See if you keep telling yourself that you're doing all these things that you don't want to do it really makes you angry it makes you Uh uncomfortable it makes you anxious because you're telling yourself you're doing all these things you don't want to do And that's just not true. It's not true every single thing you do are things you want to do You may not like the alternative of not doing that That may be the case, but the fact is you're doing exactly what you want to do Now if you don't really enjoy your job if you don't really enjoy whatever it is Then you can you can change that you can go start a business online You could take one of my courses and get your own online business. You say, well jr I don't want to spend money for a course. Well, then you're doing what you want to do You just don't want to spend money and you say, well jr I don't want to have to you know take all my off time and work on a business I mean I need some downtime. Well, then you're doing what you want to do, right? Every single day every single thing you do is exactly what you want to do And at the sooner you realize that the better off you're going to be the more comfortable you're going to be I know that I do whatever I want to do every single day I know it And I might not like some of the things I have to do, but I don't have to do it Okay, don't I should even said the word have to you don't have to do anything I mean literally you could just go crawl up underneath a Bench in the park and just lay there if you want you have to do anything Okay, you say well, I don't want to be a homeless person. Well, then you're doing what you want to do You know you're earning some money. You got a job. You're paying your bills. You know, that's what you want to do Well, I don't like my job. Well, then go start an online business. Go do it Okay, quick complaining. You can't complain about what you do every day if you're the one doing it You're the one getting in the car. You're the one getting dressed. You're the one driving there You're the one putting yourself in that desk or that building or whatever it is you're doing You're the one doing it. Nobody is making you do anything It's only that you may not like the alternative. That's it So I kind of want to leave you with that today because I think I think it's important that you know that What else we got here? What plugins do you use? I use all a whole bunch of different plugins Matter of fact, let me see if I can pull some of those up. A whole bunch isn't going to help you out, is it? Let me see if I can pull up some of my plugins that I like and all I'm going to do is go into Let's see admin And I'm going to go to JR Fisher, then we're going to my plugins Uh, let's say here And I'm going to list these for you James and and I don't yeah, I guess I could put them in that chat section, couldn't I? It's loading right now. It's just a little bit slow. I apologize for that I'll get a sip and the other guys they're watching put some comments in there. I'm going to get to everybody Okay, so I'm in the back end of my website here And now I'm going to look for my plugins and there they are Installed plugins. That's what I'm looking at Great question to James because there's so many of them out there and these are just mine I'm not saying you have to do these But they're mine. Uh, I I used a kismet anti spam. It's a kis. Let me put this in here a kis mit anti spam I use that one. Uh, I use all in one Wp migration now. This is good if you're moving your website from, you know, one platform to another. Let's say different hosting, which is what we're just talking about. So this is all in one Wp migration Really, really good One to use for moving your site. I use I guess I shouldn't type in all these things here. I use auto optimize auto Up To my eyes It's another one they use and I got a feeling I use too many of them to type them all in here Uh, I also use better click to the tweet better Uh, click to tweet That's so somebody can actually share my site Uh, I use blank slate. I don't think I need to type that one in. I use buddy press buddy press That's another good one. Uh, what else do I use? I use, um, There's click to tweet again I use Footer text, which is a good one Footer text and it obviously tells you what that's for Uh, I use header and footer scripts header and footer Scripts It's another one I use I'm just scanning through because I get so many in here and some of them I use some of them. I don't Uh, I use push crew. Uh, so that's for push notifications. I think that's really good Um, I bet you never thought it was going to be this many. Did you when you asked? I bet you thought oh, he probably uses a couple of them. No, I use quite a few. So there's push crew I use I'm getting near the end here. I go I use SEO data transporter. So SEO data Transporter I use that a lot and these do make everything a whole lot more Uh, streamline automated saves me so much time. I use smush I say to you smush. That's a good one. Uh, I also use thrive. I use thrive everything. Um, thrive Architect Um CH I'm terrible at spelling guys I use everything thrive. So I'm just gonna tell you I use thrive architect. I use thrive leads um, I use um Thrive quiz builder. Uh, I use that one. Uh, I use um touch size custom post That's a good one. Uh, use tracking code manager What else do I use url shortener by theme shop? url shortener by theme shop. I'm not going to type all in there because I'm such a terrible typist I use w three total cash Uh, so I use that one And uh, and I'm updating because I'm saying this I'm Oh, I don't want to do that. I don't want to give you a warning. I'm scared of that one I use woo commerce. Uh, I also use uh, woo commerce is w o commerce Um, I use a word fence security Um, I bet you didn't think it was this many. I use yost seo. I'll put that in there y o a s t s e o And then all the other ones I spoke there. All right, so let me go back to some of these comments here because I did a lot of typing Paul says what you got to say paul Uh blown away by people who stay in jobs. They hate when I go to walmart It's like zombies in the workplace far too many people Walking around in a fog of mediocrity. They have given up on their dreams. Yeah, um I feel the same way my wife corrects me every now and then there's a lady that works at our grocery store And she's been there 38 years And she's a cashier All right, and I look at that and she's very very kind. She's funny. She laughs Um, just as happy as she can be and I walk out of there and I'm like wow She has so much potential. I mean she has such a great personality. She's so friendly to everybody Why in the world is she wasting her life there and she says well She's not because she makes you happy when you go in there, right? She talks to you. She's friendly I'm like, yeah, I just see so much more potential You know and her and I struggle with that one. I do struggle with that one because we need cashiers um Is she wasting her life or did she do a lot of good there? You know, I don't I don't know I mean, I know she she doesn't live the life I do But maybe if she's happy with that Maybe that's okay for her. Uh, I think I think you have to have a dream to waste it So, you know, maybe she doesn't have those dreams. Maybe she doesn't want to travel You know, maybe that's not what she wants. And if she doesn't I got to step back because I'm one of those people That I want everybody to want what I want. Um, but I guys I got to step back and go well She's doing what she wants, you know, let her do what she wants if you do you So I kind of I kind of look at it that way Uh, I love this gang. Love. Hope everyone is chasing their dreams By the way, do you have a preferred place to purchase domains? Can you buy domains through kartra? No, kartra does not sell domains. Uh, great questions too. You always have good questions Um, uh, I purchase all mine through go daddy Probably not the best move because they're more expensive than some other sites. However, however, there's there's a reason they're more expensive I'm going to get service. I can also log in and look at all my domains and manage all my domains in one place Um, and some of these other companies that are super cheap for buying domains They don't help you switch things over when you want. They don't help you redirect your dns servers There's a lot of things they don't do so that's why I buy my domains there Um, just just for the fact of ease. Uh, and I've been doing it since When did I buy my first domain? I want to say it was 97 or 98 gosh So I've been doing this, uh, 21 For two to three 20 24 years 24 years No, you know what? No, I take that back. It was 1996 96 so that's uh, four it's 25 years. I've been using that so yeah It's been a long time guys. Do you have any other comments or questions in there? I do have to get on to a move I do have to move on to a meeting with a google rep about our ads But if you have anything else you want to put in there go ahead and do that right now real quick And I'll try to answer it. I hope you've enjoyed this today if you did and you got something out of it Please put the chat that you got something out of it Put in there. You know, if you like it, you just like it What would you'd like to hear more of don't forget to subscribe and give me a thumbs up a marriage really simple Just click click click click give me a thumbs up right there. Just click click click do that Um, and that would really be helpful. Uh, james says she's happy being a cashier I was happy driving a big rig for 49 years was following my bliss. You have a big rigs fun I mean, you're gonna see the country. You know, I mean, that's like that's like a lifelong vacation I mean, I know it's hard work, but I always thought that was cool to drive a truck. I've always thought that would be cool Let's see here. Do you think there's any benefit to having your own server? I guess I don't know. I'm not big enough to have my own server So I don't know. I mean it could be I know people have them I'm just I'm not that big So, uh, I don't even know what the difference would be for me They the pages seem to load fine and you know fast enough and all that good stuff, but um I don't know. That's an area that I don't have expertise in so I don't want to pretend like I'm Knowing anything about that Loving that's good paul. I appreciate it. Well guys, I'm gonna go ahead and back out now I appreciate everybody being here. I appreciate listen. I really appreciate those of you who put comments in there That matters so much if everybody would just put I like this Before you leave if you would do that if you're watching this after the fact put that in the comment section Not the chat section just put something in there. It really really is helpful But the the great thing is if you got a question put that in there so I can answer and I can help you out I can help you quit your job. I mean, that's what I want you to do If that's what you want to do if that's not what you want to do then ignore me But if that's what you want to do, I want to help you do that. Uh, and that's what I do on this channel That's why I go live uh each day is to just help you guys out Maybe give you a little bit of information that may send you in the right direction. So thank you very much for listening today I really appreciate it. Let me put it in here It won't let me quit there it goes Thanks everybody for being here. I really appreciate each and every one of you Boom, okay, so I stuck that in there. So it's time for me to leave. Thank you so much guys I really do appreciate that. Let me get to my screen here where I could end this thing