 And most importantly, we have the tools to resolve conflicts and differences with ease because that's what a good communication between two people feels like. More importantly, it should feel like I'm talking to a good friend, if not my best friend. Our lifestyles are compatible with one another so we can blend easily with one another and we share the same values with one another to build the deep roots of trust that can sustain a healthy happy relationship because when you become embody the person you want to date, you'll reject those people that aren't the type of person you're looking for.