 All right, if you are in the periscope or YouTube land Shoot me a comment so I know that you guys are alive out there because I'm on re-stream and if I'm on re-stream That means I don't know you're there unless you comment for those of you in periscope land and YouTube. What's up? Tell me what's up Charlie is a journal and in the house yet. I haven't seen him Hello, Michelle hippie the hills is here. Geron Allen is here right on Awesome pink turtle is here. Is this your first time pink turtle? I will have not recognized the name um I will say it again guys if you're in periscope land or YouTube shoot me a comment because I'm re-streaming and that's the only way I know you're there Lee Ken welcome Zebulin Dawson. Hello All right Oh, well pink turtle says it's her first time Coming through the show. So you guys know what to do give pink turtle a round of applause a round of hello's For joining us today Charlie says hello to pink turtle Egan of florida. How are you doing? all right See guys. See how accommodating you guys are And and here's what's funny. We have our own language. We have our own rules here and we have our We have our own little community in which we operate. Oh and My general Jen is in the house. So periscope is being taken care of welcome Jen. I hope you've had a good weekend And right on we have some new people in instagram land and They are And they are getting acquainted as I mentioned. We have rules We have we have law. We have order here in in our little community and Uh pink will soon find out how we operate. All right so couple things guys, you know I actually I was trying to think of what I put together as um My topics today and oh So here's so I wanted to do this Bit on distraction today because there is a lot of distraction Going out you guys and instagram can't see animal. There you go He's he's here. All right. So I wanted to talk about distraction and I don't I don't normally Hang out on instagram. I don't find the platform I I just don't like it. It just it doesn't it doesn't work for me. Yes. I like going live talking to you guys And the people I interact with on instagram are pretty much all Popping into the show this morning But for me, I just find it a a um I don't know a vapid uh platform like It's more for pictures and visuals than ideas where I I consider Periscope I consider Uh twitter more of an idea platform. They all have their issues and they are all snapping down on Well what we call free speech and what they call whatever they want to call it. Anyway, my point being My my point being is have you guys ever been If you use instagram, I would imagine you guys mess around with the explore page Well, here's what I've noticed about the explore page now I have two accounts the one i'm speaking to you on now, which is the art of charm account And I also have my personal Uh instagram account. You could find that in john underscore zubat And Both of them on the explore page Sort of show the same thing. Yeah, it's all about jennifer says it's all about booty That's what I want to talk about is every so if now For for jenn for you who just mentioned that and for you guys who are watching from instagram Obviously my art of charm account is has tons of self development People that we follow inspirational people workout people But how come the explore page is nothing but girls in yoga pants That is it. It's full of girls in yoga pants or Tiny little track and field outfits and one black lives matter post So it's like here's all this booty. Oh, yeah, and black lives matter that's And then on my on my personal page Because I use the tag rock and roll or hollywood glam or things like that it's it's rather than girls in yoga pants and athletic uniforms on track It is it is tattooed girls Like it's rock and roll tattoo girls Those are the girls on the thing or just tattooed, but they're not even rock and roll girls I have not posted anything about tattoos. In fact Considering some of my friends. I'm tattooless. I have a couple meaningful ones. That's another story, but I'm not a tattooed Guy oh jenn is Charlie says that's all your fault. Jen. That's the booty picks are all yours Um Jen says she was told that she has the post booty picks to have an account terms of service Well, charlie says he likes to do the yoga pants now here's So this goes into The eye Well, the topic that I wanted to discuss with you guys today How is anybody supposed to concentrate on their life in making gains Because the better you are the better your world is around you and the better your life is So those are the things that you should be focused on How are you able to focus on these things When every time you flip on instagram It's booty picks now what I want to know is For you ladies who are watching this stream So jenn ever tells me hers is nothing but booty picks. So it's yours Like athletic sweaty guys on on instagram doing their workout thing or or washing the dishes in a In an apron or out there working on the car. Is that what you ladies instagram explore pages are about or? Or do you ladies just get fed more ladies where you're constantly in a mode of of having to switch in to compare and contrast which It's all about who you follow what you follow. Well, christina Tally says hold on. She's gonna check. I want you. I want to know christina So it's a you says it's all about what you follow I don't follow yoga accounts on either of my instagram It just might say that in my profile that I am mel and that I'm straight and it feeds me There christina says compare and contrasting I don't Pink turtle says I don't see any pics of guys or girls. I get loads of wildlife pics and moms of kids. Well You might be the exception to the rule. Well, that's that's good to hear. I'm glad everyone's just not getting fed booty pics but my my point in this And and I don't because the art of charms account is is self development fitness Right, so I just get paid I just get fed yoga pants and And and and I mean when I say the girls are on the track wearing athletic uniforms I don't mean that in a in any other way other than the tiniest shorts and athletic tops. I mean, it's Can I I'm just going to be honest as a guy I find it incredibly distracting Uh So we have a uh, it's uh Periscope guy says I'm here for the purpose of self-expression. I hope that is okay by you Well, I don't really know what that means, but General Jen is the moderator over there in periscope land. So she's going to let you know Whether or not your self-expression is appreciated in our forum So we'll see how that works um so So this goes into this idea of if the better you are The better your world is around you, which is the The better your your life is now if I'm every time that I'm switching on the instagram my So Jess says I don't follow any beauty instagramers My entire feed is all makeup fitness posts and it makes me interested in using Less interested it makes me less interested in using the program. Yeah, I mean It's When you As this Jen says she's looking at her explore page This is the thing. I don't want to go on to instagram if I I'm going to get badger by the stuff now. Here's It's it's more likely to use a platform that's id and text space Yeah, well for myself it is because I'm focused on Putting out the certain messages now. Here's the thing about it You can say more in a picture than you can in 280 characters but and As we talked about marketing a few weeks ago and I was talking about the importance of optics and the emotional pool And the emotions that you want to have in your optics In order to persuade somebody to click on the picture to click on a marketing message To click into action. The pictures need to be Explosive with emotions The the most powerful emotions that you can invoke is in somebody Is desire why because it's rooted in our most Powerful and basic instinct Sex to procreate I And I even made this joke that it has taken me into my forties where I'm actually able to concentrate on a thought and work through it without getting sidetracked by The the strongest emotional Need and want and desire pool and the human consciousness. It's awful. I mean So when you When you exploit that and of course, that's what instagram models Are going to want to do because that's how you get likes and clicks and the rest of stuff. I mean the pictures I are a lot of them are highly suggestive. That's about probably the best way I can say that but my The the point in that is when we're talking about being Focused on our lives The smallest amount of a conscious emotional pool When you realize so let's say that you go on to the instagram discover page You see some of these posts and you're and you clicked on one of the picture and before you know it You're looking at a timeline and you you stay to yourself. Oh, what am I doing? I gotta get out of here. This is stupid Okay, that might have been Five minutes of your time But that's you being hyper conscious of the activity That you've That you've invested in How much of that time is unconscious? How much of that time is just sweeping through now? I realized this Because I've been saying on this show since we've started it in march, which was social media In all of its glory Is is the the psychological experiment that has gone or that has gone awry We we are now paying the price of sensationalism a screen on our faces at all times Messaging and a culture war that has spilled out over industry Yeah Tally stop tally says her explore page is nothing but joe biden sniffing kids. Okay You made me laugh But here we are trying to be productive and trying to work on ourselves And we have all this distraction So I just wanted to know from you guys who were on insta what your explore page was like And I wanted to bring that up because I had noticed it as I said it was nothing but athletic girls and they're all like Late teens early 20s. It's utterly ridiculous. How can anybody concentrate when your feet is full? I don't you know to tell you the truth. I wouldn't even know how to get rid of all that stuff I could Is there a is there a filter where I could say enough with the girls in yoga pants on my Explore page the other thing is I'd rather see all of you guys I would rather see All of everyone that I follow in my explore page. Why am I being? And who knows this account has been open for a long time. Maybe we follow some Of these yoga. I'll go through and look, but it's really it's ridiculous. I just wanted to see everyone else is however Jen says it. It's nothing but booty picks for her as well I mean, isn't that the whole point to keep you on the app as long as possible Go to ig settings clear your history. I just looked it up. Ah, good. Thank you very much Yeah, I would rather see Charlie's post and tally's post and jaren allen's post and hippie the hills post It will reset. Good. That's what I'm going to do now Let's talk about staying focused one of the one of the my main points of contention in the human experience Because this is going to be our new superpower The idea focus is going to be the one thing that allows us to enrich our lives which in turn Makes our life better which in turn makes the lives of those people around us better And this is the idea of being The the sun in your universe in which all the other Planets revolve Why because of its strong magnetic pool? Why does the sun have a strong magnetic pool? Well, it's certainly a lot of laws of Relativity and space and gravity and how all that works But also look at the sun provides All those planets and certainly the one that keeps Hours in a place where it is inhabitable by what we consider intelligent beings If we don't blow ourselves up in the process now You as a person Should see yourself as somewhat of the sun this center and We can do this in two ways whereas You can think of yourself as the center of the universe and be A completely selfish self-absorbed person where you Where you envision the world Where it is all swirling around you And you are the center of that universe It is easy to have that perspective Why? It is easy to have that perspective because the only way a human being has to observe the world Without outside tools Such as math and telescopes and microscopes and the rest of these things Outside of that is only from our observable Behaviors Our observable Views of everything that puts us in the center of everything Because the only way that we have the view the world around us Is from our own senses So it's an easy issue. It is an easy problem To to consider yourself the center of the universe. In fact It is a first default and as you become a An individual as you become self-aware As you become of age into a Thinking-sentiment being that has agency. What is that usually? Early preteens 10 11 you start to figure it out. You start to See things from that point of view as you get older in the teenage years It becomes an overwhelming sensation to where you are so self-absorbed You end up tending to be high on the narcissist's scale Because the only way that you have to make sense of the world Is through your own senses It's not until you get old enough to start using other tools and other methods and gain experience and knowledge That you are not the center of the universe But here's the issue and problem that we're running into That we are now carrying these devices in all of our pockets That sort of perpetuate that idea That we're the center of the universe when you're getting all this information Set directly To you it becomes an extension of you But once again, we get into this argument that it's a tool like anything else and it's how you use it But what do you think a narcissistic teenager is going to use their phone for? Do you actually think they're going to use it Responsibly as a way To discover the the rest of the world and use it this tool objectively Or do you think They are going to use it to feed their natural narcissistic tendencies of being a A young person and tally says porn and video games That's exactly right. What do you think porn and video games are? They are a perpetuation Of putting you in the center of your world. They feed into your narcissism. I mean that's As I mentioned last week. Yeah, it's a tool. Yeah, okay Our phones are a tool our phones are if if if a hammer is a tool Then it's a jackhammer try putting it up hanging up a Picture in your home with a jackhammer. See how that works Yeah, I'm raging today So now we have a We have a generation Of young people who tend to be on the narcissism Scism spectrum Due to their life experience. It's natural Then to perpetuate and amplify those feelings through The jackhammer of Information tools that we have Now Charlie says I do not think this that this behavior is natural or healthy Well, the point I'm making about it. Charlie is that as when you are younger as a teenager On the narcissism spectrum You you tend to be a bit more narcissistic Due to your inexperience in the world and using the tools to objectively look at it I wouldn't say that you are Know that that young people who are healthy are narcissistic to a harmful degree They just tend to be a bit narcissistic as they don't have any They don't have much row row road experience So It is very important That we Line up goals principles and ideals that allow us to stay focused on a daily level of our Goals and aspirations So that we don't get distracted by the ample amount of booty pics That are on our instagram explore page Tell us that you have to learn your transition from service of self to service to others Yes 100 But I will put a spin to that tally In the service of self and this is the whole and rand idea of objectivism where You do the things you need to do for yourself because all Tides rise all ships so to speak So if you are working to make yourself better you will inevitably make the world around you better now That is not a final and I don't believe That to its fullest extent it's sort of like anything that there is nuance in the idea. However As somebody who's spent the last 15 years 17 years working in self development The better you are The better your world is and the better it is for those around you Which puts us back to the idea of I want you and I want for myself To be somewhat of the sun in our own solar system where We make those around us better we We We omit Is that the word I want at war or exhibit? The things that others need in order to feel Great Right when we give and this goes back to tally's idea of being service to others Where you are adding value to the world around you on a daily basis To healing mind says sun thumbs up to the world. Yes We want to be the sun to our world. We want to be the sun to our world around us now. There's all sorts of Crazy metaphors that we could play where you don't want to get too close to the sun. You might get burnt That's not what I'm referring to. I want you to be A system of life for those around you Where if you are a high value person If you are going to be the sun and you are solar system, then you are attract The right people to you the right ideas to you you will perpetuate Those ideas You will send a ripple effect to those who revolve around you and when you are Preaching the right ideas to those people around you You make the world better From where you are And that's what we are going to constantly do From this platform from our world With you guys and animal That's what we're going to do. We are going to be the sun of our universes And in order to do that We're going to need to be able to concentrate. We're going to need to be able to focus on the task at hand Because why? Look around you go on social media. It seems that everyone is losing their minds. It seems that we're in What could be a a mass psychosis? Well, let's wake people up to great ideas of Looking to build themselves up so that they are able to build up the world around themselves It's general mccrystal has that old saying of to clean your room, right? They'll be Messing in other people's lives until you have yours on track first and then start working out from there You know lots of people have have stated this that is an old rule in the bible It's old jordan peterson's been saying that general mccrystal has been saying it I believe that general mccraven has been saying it as well So when you take care of yourself You start to a to admit these ideas and these actions That others then will adopt we will cause the ripple effect and we Are going to make the world a better place from our place in the world. I want to thank everyone for coming out today And guys, I missed you all yesterday. I had a meeting, but I'll be here tomorrow at 8 30 a.m PST if you enjoyed what I had to talk about today and you want to learn more Check out the art of charm communication Accelerator it is all our best parts from our online classes live training programs expert guests over the last 15 years in the world of influence persuasion Networking and self development you can find the art of charm communication accelerator In the link tree in the bio of instagram and twitter and in the description of youtube. Let's go through our comments Charlie you have a great day too San free alo alo is that german h alo tally says right on yes hearts for us and and Animal we want to thank my general gen for helping us out today Sarah avid joined good to see you It will reset. Yes. I will try that tally. Thank you for looking that up for me My explorer page That's hilarious. Uh, the rock star CEO had joined. Hello. How are you doing nick gallagher? How are you doing today? All right guys Just thank you for telling me that Yeah, this is the thing when all you do is get into the sex pics it just For some of us it just gets to the point of too much when you're young you're you could stare at booty pics all day In fact, it's probably good for you as you get older. It becomes nothing but nonsense and and You realize just how much time you spend on the wrong Things and then you wonder why the certain aspects of your life Are not as good as you'd like them to be Because you haven't had the opportunity to give them the attention That you are given booty pics too Imagine what your life would be like If you were to give That attention that you give booty pics To the problems that you have in your life How about I leave How about I leave the show with that? No, right? Imagine all the time that you spend on on booty pics That you could give that attention to Your life and all those aspects of the of life that you could have Some trouble. I just got a message from That says somebody wants to fight me. Oh That's That's That is the world in a nutshell. I'm I'm already getting hate messages. All right guys. I gotta run. I have other things to do And uh This is awesome. All right guys, I will talk to you guys later. See you all tomorrow 8 30 Brasley says Charlie says they're Germans. All right guys. You all take care