 good morning guys i just got a load of laundry on because that's what i do best and we are editing and finishing up this video the vlog going up tonight which is monday i actually didn't vlog yesterday because i was just really unmotivated to be honest and working out and just like rough cutting this video was something big for me because i did not feel like doing anything so i'm just gonna proof this add whatever it needs and then get it up and today i need a vlog i need to run to fit life foods today i also need to work out i'll do that later today and then i'm probably gonna go to starbucks because i'm having lunch with valerie and her mom and stuff so after that i'll probably get like a little dessert treat so we shall see quick change of plans i got called to do something for work so i don't know where this vlog's gonna take us i'll probably end up doing like a little like response to some comments that i've gotten or i don't really know what because i'm not that creative sometimes when it comes to youtube so anyway i just wanted to fill you guys in so i don't know what the next clip you're gonna be seeing is going to be that's what i just wanted to come on here to say so on to whatever i film next okay so you guys i think just got done watching me work out and that was yesterday and i'm finishing up this video after work because i didn't really provide like very entertaining content so far i'm gonna go into some juicy questions um that i always get asked a lot and i just feel like i repeat myself every time so i just kind of wanted to address it in this video um so first off why do i call my parents by their first names and it's because i have two moms and i really did have nicknames for them or like terms of endearment if you will when i was younger but i thought that was very immature when i was like 12 years old so i just like asked them like hey can i call you like sherry and valerie and they're like yeah so i used to call them mom and me me and valerie was mom sherry was me me and that was that and a lot of people's opinion is like oh it's so disrespectful um well actually sherry called her grandma joe i believe yeah because her her full name was like marie josephine so sherry just called her joe everyone called her joe no one really called her like her name of endearment of like mom and stuff and my grandmother called sherry's grandma so basically my great-grandma joe i never met her but um yeah so it's not that big of a deal i got their permission they're not offended you shouldn't really be offended because it's fine like no one's feelings are hurt and we've talked about it they're fine with it i'm cool with it and i also wanted to add that i do call my parents mama or mom when i'm just with them just like as nicknames but it's really not that big of a deal and if i both call them mom at the same time when they're together it get confusing and that's what i reply to almost on all of your guys's comments and when they're together sometimes i do call them mothers so you know i don't know i just thought i would add that it's okay the world is still spinning all right so um another question the youtube user some things matter i believe she asked like a bunch of questions so another question i have i love like getting questions so if you guys ever have a question leave me a comment and i might answer it in a video if i like get it a lot but she asked do you think having two moms helped you learn boy skills like quote-unquote boy skills um like home repairs car maintenance etc okay so uh i don't think it really helped i mean valory does most of like the boy quote-unquote chores like stereotypical we don't know anything about cars we take our cars to either the dealer or like a pet boys or just like somewhere because none of us know anything about cars home repairs valory does that but when it comes to like ac like we have a contract with like this company and they just like come out so yeah and also like mowing grass and stuff we've just always just paid someone to do it i know that sounds very like i don't know kind of weird but you know it's just how it is and we've been blessed with the resources to be able to do that so um i guess that's how i can best answer your question um and then she asked what is the chore dynamic since there's no stereotypical gender to leto how do you so basically how are chores divided so basically i do a lot of the chores just because i don't pay like any sort of rent here and stuff so i do most of that um also to sherry does some of it too when she can but typically i do everything except i do have one thing which is so bad but i will not dust because i don't like dusting it's just one of those things so sherry typically does the dusting valory does the cooking as you guys have seen like cooking with valory a lot of people have asked for more episodes and like i will do that but she makes like kind of the same things a lot so it wouldn't be like new content um maybe i'll get her to do crab legs and i will get some footage of that but other than that um basically i do everything like that dishes laundry vacuuming which i've been really slacking on don't judge i think that is gonna be it for this video i know it was kind of like weird and stuff and kind of short and everything but it's my life and i get called to do things like out of the blue sometimes and that's what happened which is totally okay um because it's how i make a living sort of kind also this too but i'm just saying like other things pop up and i just take opportunities because that's really good to do in life just like be open-minded and take opportunities that come to you um and see where it takes you but anyway that is going to be it i hope you guys enjoyed make sure to give this video a thumbs up subscribe to my channel and i'll see you guys in my next video bye