 But I do regret and I don't say that often, but I do regret sending out that tweet things on My end could have been handled behind closed doors a hundred percent. Um, that's right Everybody Jeffrey star just went on snapchat to backpedal about his tweets about James Charles And there's a lot that we can learn from this tricky situation What is up everybody this is Chris from the rewired soul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution If you're new to my channel what I like to do is take a look at the YouTube community some of this drama going on and take This mess and turn it into a message So if you're into that stuff make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell and while you write it Make sure you're following me over on Instagram and Twitter at the rewired soul So you can get all the updates and I love interacting with all of you beautiful people out there So yes, Jeffree star just took the snapchat this morning to Backpedal a little bit about the James Charles situation and this dude this dude is completely missing the point All right, and I'll explain why so I'm not gonna put his whole snapchat story in here I'll put some clips and everything But if you want to check out some of the other channels commentary channels drama channels everything like that They have the whole thing. I bet it's up on YouTube everywhere else But TLDR Jeffrey star went on here and like I think I think it was good But Jeffrey star is completely missing the point. So the first half of his snapchat story He's very empathetic towards James Charles, and I'll be honest with you. It is It's like a big learning experience For everybody involved for James Charles for talk to Westbrook for Jeffrey star everybody's learning from this situation or God Please if there is a God like I hope they're learning from this situation because After this whole thing massively blew up People like Jeffrey star and talk to Westbrook are realizing how screwed up it was to do this All right, and we'll talk about that more in a second But then Jeffrey star he switches gears and in the second half of his snapchat story He gets real serious with all of you and don't you ever don't you ever compare his situation with Nate? Who was a straight man to what James Charles is doing all right even though even though the two the two? confirmed stories about James Charles are from two guys who have publicly stated that they consented to hooking up with James Charles and here is where Jeffrey is missing the point Okay, his tweet his tweet against James Charles called James Charles a danger to society So something I didn't touch on in my video about talk to Westbrook Her video yesterday about why I did something I didn't touch on was talking Westbrook Said like don't put words in my mouth, you know for everybody who's accusing James Charles of things I never said this and it's like you did talk to you did and Jeffree star and talk to Westbrook they are older than James Charles They need to know better talk to Westbrook use the word Predator, okay. She talked about tricking men, okay Then Jeffree star comes out and says that James Charles is a danger to society those two powerhouses in the community are Are the ones who created that narrative? They created that narrative, okay, and Jeffree star He is like this is what blows my mind about Jeffree star like We all learn so much and we grow so much, but there's still There's still these parts of us that are still there that come out, right? And Jeffree star is talking about how people are taking clips taking things out of context He says to go rewatch his video about his relationship with Nate and all these other things like bro You started this whole crap storm with James Charles You started that narrative you did the same exact thing that you don't want people doing to you, okay, because I I will continue to bring this up when I talk about Jeffree star. I am a recovering drug addict I believe like what Jeffree star said I believe in giving people chances and other chances and and like the thing is Here's the problem We are as as people we're constantly comparing ourselves to other people, okay We're constantly saying am I better than or less than am I better than this person or am I less than this person? Am I better than this person or less than this person the problem with Jeffree stars tweet and His the way he he came out about the situation was he was acting better than James Charles That is the issue Okay, because we all need to recognize and this is something that is What the community is doing as well. We all need to recognize that we have screwed up We have massively screwed up in our lives, especially when you're 19 years old And that's why like I am definitely afraid that my son's like hey I want to be a youtuber or twitch streamer or whatever the hell he wants to do Because if you get too much too soon and you're in that public spotlight, right? And like Jeffree star talks about how oh, I'm so tired of people bringing up these old tweets and it's like bro Because you keep saying stuff you can't continue to go around Acting better than everybody else when you have such a public history of Screwing up because the difference here the difference here is empathy Okay, that's what it is and like Jeffree star mentioned in a snapchat story. He was very emotional He was heated. He said that he regrets sending that tweet out and it's because when emotions flare up We forget where we came from we forget what it was like. I talked about this in my video yesterday Like when I get upset with my son because he did something I have to pause I have to pause and think about what I was doing at his age What was I doing before I get emotionally heated all right and like I've said before like somebody like Jeffree star Who has millions and millions and millions of followers like you can't do that like yo I am a small youtuber I am small in comparison to these people right and I learned the whole hard way that I have to be so Careful so careful about what I talk about on my channel what I talk about in DMs What I publicly tweet out what I say on my Instagram. I had to learn that and I am Tiny okay, there are these youtubers like Taty Westwood and Jeffrey star who have Subscribers and followers that is the population of like a city All right, so when they do something like this and they don't have a pause button Right like that would be like the city that you're living in and all the TVs go to like that emergency broadcast And somebody just saying something right like just boom like right there like that is how many people they're broadcasting it to And that's what I don't like with with everything, you know that that has happened to James Charles And again like you could defend the person without defending their actions like James Charles screwed up He messed up. He's going to learn he's gonna grow But here's the thing if Jeffrey star had a damn pause button He would have this snapchat that he released this morning. That would have been what he initially came out with right I've mentioned this before Shane Dawson and Taty Westwood. They came out and they were like Hey, everybody calm down with the hate and everything like that But a lot of people do not have a pause button and how does this affect you right like you guys this is why This is why we really have to take a look at how often We we say something and then we immediately regret it We do something and we immediately regret it like why do you guys think I preach meditation and mindfulness so much Science has proven that it strengthens this thing right here called the prefrontal cortex Which has a variety of functions But one of them is logical decision-making the other one is impulse control and another one is emotional regulation. So like I Think the issue that happens with Influencers as a whole is this autopilot right this autopilot like where they're constantly tweeting constantly snapping constantly making videos Constantly posting on Instagram all these other things to to to to to to and they get into this autopilot mode where they're just like Every thought that comes through my head. I have to put it out there, right? And it's dangerous like whenever I'm about to tweet whenever I'm about to do anything I have to sit back and say, okay, right like what's gonna happen like I've mentioned that I just finished a book called mental models by Shane Parrish something that a lot of us don't do and it's This is a prime example the Taty Westbrook and James Charles situation Something that we don't do is second-order thinking right? We only think about the initial thing we only think about this thing and we since we're Species who loves instant gratification. We only think about if I do this one thing here's a result I'm gonna get if we pause for a second and think about the second level of that What can this cause what can the reaction be right like a great example is the Trisha paid his video I made yesterday before I sat down and recorded that video. I sat down. I talked with people in my support group I talked with mentors of mine. I said, okay, let's run through every scenario that might happen after this, right? Like I know I've kind of rebranded for to more social commentary than mental health, but you guys like I Don't I People need to like start figuring stuff out. You know what I mean? And we need to learn and grow and everything like that but like I don't know just seeing Jeffrey star in this situation It is it also it also bumps me out seeing Seeing the bias for Jeffrey star so many people defend Jeffrey star so many people say he's talked about this He's explained it. He's done this for so long like you guys It's been less than a week since this happened to James Charles Like do you not see the double standard here James Charles hasn't even had the opportunity To learn and grow so when everybody's like well Jeffrey's already answered for these things Give James Charles a second to learn and grow before you cancel this kid. All right Anyways, that's all I got for this video. Don't forget to follow me on social media at the rewired soul If you like the video, please give it a thumbs up if you do make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell Because I make a ton of videos and a huge huge. Thank you to everybody supporting the channel over on patreon You're all amazing and if you'd like to become a patron get your name in the credits get some other perks and benefits like our monthly Q&A Click or tap right there. All right. Thanks again so so much for watching. I'll see you next time