 y'all I'm so sorry I was on the wrong channel and I was trying to do this video and I realized I'm on the wrong channel so and now I got the I got the phone flipped the other way so now I'm looking at the wrong end okay so y'all I have a problem like why do broke men and trolls get mad at women who want more in life and they get mad because they they're stuck at their mediocre level and they get upset when they're rejected it's messed up it's like okay why would why would anybody want to date someone who can't even you know do stuff for them that's crazy to me so for real like why do I want to actually date someone who can't pay for my meal you know if you're going after a woman who have high standards and has good taste and you know likes nice things and you're upset because she won't date you that's not her fault that's your fault you know it's kind of like you get mad at somebody because it's the same thing you know you don't force feed someone who doesn't eat a certain type of diet you know so you can't force feed someone in a certain type of relationship it's just messed up you can't do that thank you so men stop trying to make these women feel bad and guilty for wanting more and and saying oh you're you're just a prostitute because you want money you know what it doesn't matter what you call it it is what it is who any woman who is given it away free it's not very smart okay any woman who is freely just giving themselves to random mediocre or broke man they are the ones who set the standards low for us to make them think they can even approach us with that BS you know I'm saying so ladies who are just free sexually and giving it out to anybody and they you know anybody who has read the same book as you or you know is giving you compliments y'all are making men expect this type of treatment from other women with high standards who don't do that you know so y'all need to either expects up you know a little something because what you're doing is you're devaluing women when you accept mediocrity and broke guys that and I'm talking about when you're young I'm talking about after the age of 25 if you're still dealing if you're still giving away everything for free and not expecting anything not expecting help not expecting gifts not expecting you know him to rise up to the next level and you know treat you and things like that then you're making other high standard women you know waste time with people who are clearly not ready to deal with one so stop accepting it like if your man cannot just hand you $100 if you're the person that you're sleeping with can't hand you $100 when you ask for you don't need to be sleeping with them okay and I'm not saying charge $100 I'm just saying if you need money one week or the next week or you need him to pay a bill if he can't do it if he can't pay for your food when you go out and then expect sex afterward then you don't need to be with him okay because you know it to me no that just makes zero sense like none and it's a lot of guys feel like oh it's mutual you're gonna enjoy it too no I'm not I'm not gonna enjoy it if I'm broke and sitting here paying for my own food I'm not gonna enjoy I'm gonna be cussing you out in the back of my head and never calling you again and probably you know you won't even get anything out of it you know I will just tear your number up delete it from my phone it if I had it in my phone I will never call you again when I was single you know you would you would just be lost in the dark and wondering what happened so yes a man who try to shame women for expecting more out of them should be ashamed you should be ashamed that you can't even pay for dinner you know who can't pay for some food you should be ashamed for asking a woman to sleep with you when you can't even feed her you should be ashamed you know why just because you saw that happen to your mama don't mean that's what you got to do to other women okay so you should know better no woman will respect any type of man as soon as as soon as people come in the inbox or the DMs you know oh you're so beautiful I want to get to know you da da da da da you know I still have people in my inbox I'm like you don't know who I am do you and you know they're not afraid oh can I have a picture oh let me see some news oh I'll fly you up here oh we'll make each other happy I can please you I'm like I don't want your sex I want your money if you don't have that to offer I can't I'm sorry I was gonna scam them anyway but what I'm saying is if a man has the nerve to ask you to sleep with him you should not be afraid to ask him for some money okay like they're oh but they have the nerve to say oh can I have sex with you oh can I have some money from you uh-uh so if a man has the balls to ask you for sex you need to have the ovaries to ask him for some money okay he don't even know your last name he don't know your birthday but he can ask you for sex and then get offended oh you want some money you want me to pay for your food oh my god you see how low those standards are as a woman just because he gave you compliments and say oh you fine oh I can see me marry you I want you to have my baby okay oh I want you to pay my bills oh I want you to buy me a car oh and then they get mad okay then they scurry off to the next one so no if you can't do stuff for me I don't need you okay women don't need men who can't do anything women might want men but they don't need men unless they can do something for them you know and at this point in my life I don't need I have a husband but before I was married I would not deal with that riffraff I'm like look if you can't do this this and that I can't talk to you okay just there's other people wait move right like there's other people waiting in line for you to move on out the way so they can actually give me what I want okay so bye move on go you know I saw this meme I saw the meme says dust settles I don't so keep it moving dusty I'm serious okay so here's an example you have men all up in your face trying to compliment you I already know you look good okay you got a mirror they don't have to tell you that you know it okay we don't we don't listen to that look what can you offer us for you know since you think we look so good you know what you can do for us to make us give you the time of day okay because there's somebody else back there who's waiting for you to move on out the way and us to dismiss you so they can come over and you know be the man that we were looking for you know so that's why I tell ladies if a broke dude comes up to you and he's past the age where he should have some money by now dismiss him quick because there's somebody with money watching okay and if you entertain that too long they're gonna be like ooh she doesn't have any standards and she didn't think too much of herself like I said don't entertain the dusties they think they can get you because all these other women are giving it out freely for compliments okay and hope the hope of having you know some type of man in their life but I don't think so right it's calling me okay somebody was calling I'm sorry so um I have my troll is back Queen Nefertiti how you doing I might have to mute you today because okay y'all she is just like the biggest troll and hate her but guess what y'all she comes with every video it's like but she looks like it the clown from the movie in her picture y'all she got that it makeup on and it's just like that clown oh my god that red weed look if you're gonna wear red lipstick red eyeshadow and red a red wig and be mad when somebody calls you yeah I got red eyeshadow and dark you know brownish red lips my hair ain't red at the same time you know you're looking like it you don't know what it is go look it up this woman is crazy I have a I have an obsessed fan y'all okay so anyway she just mad cuz she didn't got nobody by her nothing okay she's a pick-me-chick y'all so any guys in the comments who are looking for that pick-me-chick Queen Nefertiti go in her inbox so yes if you're giving it up for free if you're you know that's what's making these guys so confident you know so don't do it anymore I don't care if you got to ask them for anything like look can you take me out to eat at least and pay for the whole meal and let me get whatever I want I mean is it that worth something you know I value myself and I cannot lay with a broke worthless man that can't do nothing for me you know that would be stupid I might as well go to the bum on the street and give them some you know make his whole life you know I guess he would be way happier to sleep with me and get some of this you know and at least I'll be given a charity with you I'm given to a grown able-bodied man nope before I sleep with a broke man I would sleep with a homeless man because I know that homeless man will remember me for the rest of his life worship me and be like oh my god thank you so much you know if I want to have sex with a man for you I'm giving a charity you know so these people keep calling me people keep calling me calling and calling anyways so oh you know what I got a perfect pair Solomon and Queen effort to the y'all need to get together she don't have no standards and you ain't got no money perfect the two trolls that met on a sheer star goddess she was seven channels y'all go at it but he ain't got no money so good luck with that y'all get together y'all talk it out someone says Queen Nefertiti is a man whatever I said to a man I want a generous generous gentleman that takes care of me his response was well it has to be mutual what can I say that when they mention it has to be mutual say well that's like saying oh you gonna have to go you want to spoil me too you got to buy me stuff too you know so I would respond back no it doesn't I'm the woman if you can't if you're having financial issues then please good luck on that but I'm not buying a grown man something unless this is birthday or it's Christmas and we're in a relationship but you know I would basically say oh you know what you know I love general I love generous men who don't expect anything in return you know that's that's you know who doesn't need to have anything given back in return because that's what the word generous means it doesn't mean exchange or mutual or trading okay that's not generous generous is giving without expecting so tell him do you understand what the word generous means and then tell him like you know the word generous means giving without expecting anything back so if you're not generous then my ad doesn't apply to you so why did you even inbox me you know or I'm not looking for somebody like you because you're not generous they're like I said move it along there are plenty of other men waiting to give me what I need you're not the only one I don't know what Queen effort TD brings to the table Solomon but you can ask her because I don't need to bring anything to the table obviously I don't need to bring that into the table I don't have to something I told you there's a line so you know all I'm saying is men who have to ask all these questions they're needy they need you to bring something to them because they're incomplete they need you to help them finish being a man they need you to help them do this this and that who what type of woman wants that I don't want it like why I gotta help you you grown your you're a big strong man why you need my help you know why can't you get it done yourself why can't you move up on your own like are you just stuck at mediocrity because you can't get any further is your IQ not high enough to move do you not have ambition or drive I don't understand like don't you know that's the stuff that turns women on not begging not taking what you got what you bring in what can I have you know hand out begging like a dog no I don't have what you got I mean I don't have anything for you you know I don't have nothing for you you're not even invited to the table if you ain't got nothing bye you know men think they're very slick and smart but women are way smarter you know the ones who are understanding of men's games they're very smart so if you coming in my inbox telling me I'm pretty I already know that stuff I know I look good okay I don't care what can you what can you offer me okay am I pretty enough to spend some money on my pretty enough for you to pay my bills am I pretty enough for this isn't that you know and I'm not saying this because that's what I'm looking for I already have that but these guys who are in my inbox they don't know that and I see how they're approaching y'all out there I see how they're approaching y'all out there and it's pretty sad like they want you to have something to give them like they're they're in need or something like that I can't I can't see you as a grown man if you asking for something you know what I mean so that was that's an automatic turnoff what do you do when a man has money it's used to dealing with pygmy chicks then you refer them back over to the pygmy chicks and tell them that you know this is not how you're used to being treated you're used to being spoiled and you're used to generous men who know your value and obviously he doesn't know your value so you gots to go you know okay that's what I'm saying you know I can't like like it's it's sad because I they're in my inbox and it's like they're begging for something like who wants a beggar don't beg me for nothing don't ask me for sex if you can't give me nothing don't ask me for nothing don't beg me for nothing don't ask me what I'm bringing because that means you don't have it and I don't want you somebody was it yeah I was the troll who's saying something about some alpha male energy and stuff like that I'm like what good is alpha male energy if if that man is broke I don't need your alpha male broke energy I need some money okay with what's alpha male energy gonna do is it gonna pay the bill is it gonna put money in my hand no so I don't need it anyways I can't like the nerve of some men like really are you in my inbox asking me for stuff asking me to send you pictures asking me to come see you asking me to do all this no hell no I'll send you something that I want you to purchase me and then I'm gonna blush give you some false hope so can you can get female clients to pay but you're always under these videos trying to convert women ain't no man gonna convince no woman not to get paid okay sorry he can try all day okay here's uh I would I could pay your rent but why would I when I get female clients who pay me clients because if you get like why would why would somebody pay your rent because they care about you and they want you and they want you to stay faithful that to them and they don't want you giving your stuff out to anybody else so they gotta put claim on you and that's how you put claim on a woman you invest in them you can't invest in your woman then she ain't your woman whoever can invest in her that's who she's probably gonna gravitate to you know you're not gonna pay somebody's rent but they ain't gonna be mad when they're out here dating other man who have something and who can't pay they rent and other bills too then you're gonna be mad like well you didn't lay claim so you know next I see this is the this is the broke men mentality they expect something for free but I bet you a hundred million thousand dollars they're not up in certain women's inbox saying the same thing you know I'm not lowering my standards just because you broke I'm not lowering my standards or I'm speaking for women I'm not speaking for myself but I see what y'all have to deal with cuz I still got these you know people several like several several several they don't they don't know I'm married they just see a pretty face and click on it and you go look in their timeline and and you look in their friends and they like all the women are like really pretty and then you look in their job description and they're like not doing so well they collect pretty women on Facebook and they try to see if they can get them you know I'm saying and it's hilarious because I'm like no and like when I see their job title I go and Google average salary for such and such and such and I'm looking at it laughing I'm like you why are you in my inbox you can't do nothing for me okay so even if I was single I couldn't accept that because it's like what are you gonna do for me you don't make enough money you know you can't pay rent and take me out and pay my rent and pay my bills and I if I were single so why are you in my inbox I don't like you like that nothing is going to grab my interest unless it's if you're able to provide fully you know I'm saying that's the first thing I look at I don't look at your picture I don't look at you know so I look at your job description or your you know what kind of job you have and then I'll go research it on Google the average and the highest and the lowest and I put you somewhere in the middle depending on your age you know what I'm saying so if you're not making as much as me on YouTube if you're not making as much as you know what you're supposed to be making at your age I'm not interested I'm not even gonna respond back to you I'm not even gonna tell you that I'm married I'm just gonna block and delete because you're up here trying to collect women and you know out of your league go find someone who thinks that you know you're all that if you went to somebody who is like a McDonald's worker you go into her inbox she would be all over that you know I'm saying don't come over here and don't go to other women's inbox who are you know damn well as our child's leagues so anyways I value myself even you know even if it's not a real conversation you know if you have the nerve to inbox me and ask me those things I have the nerve to respond you know even though I'm married and stuff like if I was single I would be offended oh my gosh I'm so sorry for which all ladies have to deal with oh my god it's like it makes me want to vomit and throw up because these guys are like so mediocre and don't want to do any better I'm like what what happened to drive an ambition you know you just want to stay where you are for the rest of your life that's not impressive why would a man not want to take care of a woman in the first way because he think he is a woman that's why he's very feminine his feminine in his energy if he doesn't want to fully take care of a woman he's either a not prepared financially and needs to wait or be is full of feminine energy and thinks he's a woman too Solomon nobody wants to help you okay that's what your mom is for okay that's what your mom is for your mama is to go you know it's to help you your mama might give you some money at build time your mama might do all that stuff don't ask women for that you know I couldn't even I couldn't I would just mm-hmm that is pathetic stop asking women what you bring to the table what can I get from you can we build you know no we can't be a you a grown man you should have something built by now and if you don't keep working on it and then come back later when you got it but I'm sure like I said on my last video there are women out there that won't you you just don't want them that's why you over here I don't understand like why are you all my videos if you don't agree with it there are so many women out there talking about I'm a good woman I cook I clean I make sure all the laundry is done I'm a good woman you know why don't you why aren't you over there asking her what she bring to the table because she already told you what she brought to the table but you don't want that because it comes in a different package you know what I'm saying it don't come in the same package as somebody who wants something from you so you know I don't know what to do and and I feel like this net needs to be addressed because so many men have the audacity to come and ask you for sex after inboxing you for five minutes oh give me a picture send me some new no no send me some money okay just as you can ask me for that I should be able to ask you for something and if you find that offensive imagine how I feel and all the other women who you inbox feel you know that's even more offensive so no and and if that's what you do you don't need to stop and find a new approach we are not pick-me-chicks we were not on Facebook defending your broke butts to other women we were not on Facebook tech putting out our sexual thoughts trying to attract men in our inbox we weren't doing that all we did was post a picture because we know we look good now you come here no if we didn't post a pick-me comment or some type of stuff to draw the attention of broke men dusty men any men then don't come in our inbox that's not what we want somebody says I need a real queen like you okay um okay he says he comes here cuz it's entertaining it's entertaining because it's the truth you ain't over there look listening to pick me talk about what she gonna do for you you over here listening to me talking about what I ain't gonna do so obviously you like it it's more thrilling it's more thrilling it's more exciting it's more interesting right that's why y'all always end up cheating on the pick-me's and then when you when you get to save your little money cuz she giving you a half the rent then you come trying to buy us dinner on the down you know when she's at work oh I can afford dinner now will you go out with me oh I've been saving oh really you mean you've been roommate and with some girl and she been had paying half the rent so you can't say okay but yeah I don't I don't feel guilty about it if you can ask a woman for sex we can ask you for money okay they don't have to be in exchange for you can send me the money first wait a couple of weeks and maybe I you know but or you can send me some more after that and some more after that and when I you sent me enough and you turn me on enough we can talk in general you know this is how women should be you know if a man really likes you and he's telling you all this ooh baby I want you to have my baby ooh I want you to do this and if he hasn't invested anything into you he don't really like you you know if he hasn't taken you out paid for stuff bought you a gift at least you know taking you to do something that you really like spend something on you spoil you in some type of way he's not into you he's just speaking words so he can get sex so make a man infesting you before you even let him touch you okay this how you know it's real and a man who is investing you is less likely to ghost you okay so if you ladies have been ghosted if you you know fallen for the okie-dokie and had sex with these broke men and then they end up you know being gone or you know whatever whatever it's because they got what they want for free and now they're out someone says queen I need to go natural I am natural we're talking about this this my real hair okay you see how curly it is underneath okay like I understand what you want me to take all the makeup out so I can be a pick me to you want me to be a pick me to so I can lower my standards I don't think so I put all this on because you need to know that it's gonna cost you okay this this means this lipstick is $20 my hair cut is 80 to $100 you gonna have to pay for that you know this highlight on fleek is $60 okay I'm not gonna be around here looking like somebody made okay that's free though that's the pick me it's not me okay so y'all can go over there to them natural women I know why y'all over here I know why y'all over here because when we walk by y'all's heads turn when a natural girl walked by you don't see her you know what I'm saying you want us to be natural so that you can get us because you think our self esteem isn't gonna be as high because we don't look glamorous and sexy and other men are breaking their necks trying to look at us no I'm not going natural I am natural okay you why don't you level up and you can come get some of this some some woman like me I don't know you know cuz I'm already married but like I'm saying why don't you level up why I got a level down why I got to take this off my face cuz you can't afford it you know no level up that telling women to oh you don't need no weave and no makeup and no hair why why we don't need it cuz cuz a man with money gonna look at us and give us what we really want no you need to go and level up you need to dust yourself off and stop being dusty and go level up right and I'm not saying nothing bad about natural hair women see y'all always taking offense if y'all don't like y'all hair that much then put on a wig I don't know okay my hair is natural I just blow dry it and flat iron it okay y'all have seen my old videos I have curly hair this long and this big okay I have nothing against it all I'm saying is men want you to look that way so that they can keep you in a certain spot they want you to look that way so you don't get a big head and think you you know deserve more you know I guarantee you there is men who will break their neck looking at somebody with weave and makeup but then tell they woman oh I like you natural yeah they like you natural so no other man will look at you you know and I'm talking about hair I'm talking about makeup you know yeah like if you feel bad about yourself fix yourself up I don't know but I'm not I'm not doing that for no man and if he unless he can pay every single bill and don't ask me for nothing ever and give me nice gifts yeah I'll wipe it all off for that if that's what he prefers but I ain't doing it and paying half the rent at the same time you must be joking you know y'all know I'm just messing with y'all but you know it just needs to be said not enough women say this kind of stuff everywhere you go it's either a pick me video or women too afraid to talk well they be trying to say it in other ways you know I'm just gonna say it how it is women don't like broke men unless they can control them and keep them you know from cheating on them and you know they need they just need to have a man you know real women who have options they don't like broke men so what I'm saying is level up man and stuff if you want to date a woman or you always you know trying to inbox women that are out of your league and you keep getting turned down then just level up then you can have you have your pick you can choose at that point you don't have to you know trick people you can just say hey this is what I want ABC and D can you do it yes yes or no oh you know okay well I'll send you a gift because that's nothing to me I have money you know oh you need some money oh you need this okay I got it you need your hair done you need nails done here I got it you know because that's what women like to hear they don't like to hear oh can you help me and you know they don't like to hear that people keep asking me how long should you make him wait before you give it up if he has not spent over a couple thousand dollars on you you don't need to be thinking about six okay because he hasn't invested in you enough do you know if you were a virgin you could sell your virginity for a million dollars so why would you give it away for free even if you're not a virgin it still works something you know so if he hasn't invested in you enough then you don't give it up you know I would wait I would wait till at least he spent a couple thousand okay that's like a few nights out at a nice restaurant and then if he's invested in you then and he needs to at least buy your gift or two before you sleep with him if he can't if he has not handed you something in your hand a gift or something why are you sleeping with him you know that's a gift in itself so you're gonna give away something for free that men pay for that men chase that men get up and go to work for every day so they can buy nice clothes and a nice car and press a woman so they can get sex no you don't you don't give it up until someone has invested in you which means spending a lot of money and time on you and if they leave and don't call you back afterwards you are the one that has something in your hand you know what I'm saying they're the one that's losing at that point so don't give anything away unless they have invested in you if they have not invested in you then you can't invest in them sexually so don't do it sex is not free I don't care who told you that they lied so if you're giving it away for it you should you should make them take you out pay for stuff pick you up or you know send you a Uber or whatever if you ain't got no car buy you something bring you a gift some perfume or something you know buy you something that you like to show that they're truly invested in interested in you as a person not just I'm after you I'm after you for sex because if a man can invest in you spend time quality time and pay for stuff you know he's really into you you know he's sacrificing to you know when you over trying to impress you and stuff but if he's just after one thing and you give it up and then he's gone you just got scammed someone says men are the prize ah men are not the prize believe me if men for the prize women wouldn't have so many complaints if men were the prize then sex would not sell people with products would not use women to sell their product because they would use men if men were the prize they don't use men to sell products they use women unless it's a razor or some nasty deodorant because you must eat that's own thing there they're using y'all for everything else got a pretty woman on it why because your eyes pop open and you look because that's what you want okay so don't tell me men are the prize I know who the prize is they don't stop calling me okay so anyway women are single because they don't want a roommate asking for happen the rent they can just go live with another woman if they want to be treated like equals you know that's what a man is to me like I always say the same thing if you want if you want to be treated equally and you're living with a grown man instead of instead of the man raising his standards he just lowers them or stays mediocre and expects the woman to be you know doing the the rest of it no look if I can't look up to you if you can't leave me you another girl okay you are female I can't I can't respect the man who's not up here while I'm here you know you always got to be ahead of me you got to be able to pay for dinner and if we the same I can't do it like what you gonna do you can't pay for anything that I want to eat you know you can't pay for the type of wine I like to drink because you're mediocre and it's not fair for you want you to want me to accept that when I accept expect more so I can't like and a lot of women feel this way they get they get so frustrated and angry that these broke dudes keep approaching and they're like what do I need to do do I need to change the way that I look and dress and so they don't approach me I think yeah you do you have to dress like you got money or that you only mess with men with money and they will get the picture you got to wear nice clothes be clean you know be stylish enough so that they don't approach you thinking that they have a chance and you know you can't hang out where broke people hang out you got to go to higher class places you got to go to places where it costs $20 to valet park if you want a beauty quality man because you know if he can if he can't spend $20 on parking he can't spend he can't buy you dinner you know what I'm saying so you have to level up if you want a man on on a higher level of you know income you got to go to those nicer places you got to come out of the average places come out of this place and go to the high-end place that way you won't ever have to deal with it again because if a man will approach you in those places nine times out of ten they got money so you know you don't have to deal with it you don't have to deal with them asking you what you bring to the table because they don't care they don't need you to bring that to the table they got everything in fact they're offering you things right so can you give good example of women who have this mindset celebrities can you pick out celebrity pick me chicks to celebrity pick me chicks Jennifer Lopez is one like whenever whenever doesn't work out with one of the men who make money she goes to like one of her dancers like and then when they do the same thing then she goes try to find some man with money and then when they cheat on her and she goes and gets another dancer it's like why don't you just go get a billionaire already that's what Janet did you know I don't know another another pick me celebrity like most of them aren't pick me because they know better but I think it just depends on how old they are the old most of the older ones are not pick me it's mostly the young ones Taylor Swift somebody anyway someone says Jennifer Aniston Kylie Jenner oh yeah Kylie Jenner oh god that's the number one pick me chick she's dating all these rappers who she makes way more money than I'm like I understand why I just go get a billionaire they need they need to look at their mother like their mom went to go get a billionaire she's Chris is dating an African billionaire okay you don't need to get smart you gonna date somebody get somebody that makes more money than you oh Halle Berry somebody said Halle Berry pick me chick oh I couldn't think of anyone okay oh somebody just wrote men act like it's a reward to have sex with them yeah men women don't don't care about sex as much as y'all do okay so it's not mutual it's like you know we still want something for it that's why it's not mutual if it were mutual if women love sex as much as you did yeah it would be free all the time every day all day you could have it but since we don't we want some so that's it and they always say you must not be getting good sex no you know all sex is good sex for women scientifically you know women's orgasms are hundreds of times more intense than a man but that doesn't mean that we don't want something for it you know I'm saying men just get on top of you and you know most of the time anyway so and plus we have to let you inside of our bodies you know what are you gonna give us we got a toll nope you can't enter without this toll and to me I can't even get turned on by a man if you don't have no money so sex ain't even gonna happen to find out if it's good you know what I'm saying so what what's gonna turn me on about a broke man asking me to pay for half my dinner and won't even pay a phone bill nothing I won't even find out if the sex is good because you can't even get to that point so what's the use oh you must know they say broke man has the best penis why because they got nothing else to offer so if you think you have good penis that means you're broke okay I don't want I don't want it you could keep it oh I got good penis all you need to do is be you know all you need somebody to do is it's just get you one good time no I just need somebody to pay all these bills okay that's all you got to offer me no I don't want it I can't even get turned on if you broke so it's not gonna be good anyway even if you think you're doing a good job I'm gonna be sitting up here thinking why am I sleeping with this broke man he can't do nothing for me you know I might have to lie and tell somebody you know I'm not even gonna tell nobody about this I will never tell anybody about I will never tell anybody about this this is beneath me oh my god hurry up and finish so I can get up and get about here I ain't even gonna be trying to pay attention and concentrate enough to feel anything okay I'm like hurry up and get off because this is a mistake okay so I don't care how good you think you are to certain women it ain't gonna be good period because she gonna be saying why am I sleeping with this broke man oh shoot let me get about it here or you'll even never ever get to it because they already know right so Queen if I was running deaf jam would you marry me if you were running it would I marry hmm of course duh who taught me other women who are about the money to mmm a lot of women who are asking me what dating sites should you go on to be made okay first of all if you want a quality man you have to be a quality woman looking woman okay because first of all let me tell you something okay if you don't look good and a man approaches you they're going to treat you like you look so that's why I always tell the women look before you get on any dating site start trying to date go fix yourself look go fix yourself go get a makeover go get beautiful you know don't come up there looking like you just woke up or you rolled out the bit I'm saying if you want a quality man you have to invest in yourself and become the type of women that they will chase okay so it doesn't matter what type of quality dating sites I put out it's not going to help it's not gonna help people if they're not willing to improve themselves first you know but there are some good quality dating sites like millionaire match or whatever for that was called seeking arrangements is okay I don't know and like Luxie and what's your price and stuff like that so those those websites are geared towards women who want to date men who have money okay not just average man or regular man you know so you'll find a lot of women on there who are only there to date generous men but like I said your picture and you have to look like the type of woman that they like and they're interested in okay you can't just come up there saying I'm sick of dealing with broke man but you haven't you know improved anything to stop attracting them or to attract somebody you know with more money some people just go to nice places where there's no broke man so that's what you can do if you don't want to go on a dating site let me see I've checked your channel okay so like if you if you okay a lot of okay this is this is the problem with a lot of women they were not raised to value certain things like makeup you know clothes you know style and things like that they just think certain things are good enough and that's all you have to do and that's just not true in this world you know I'm saying it's just not true you got to go and improve yourself you got to compete with other women if you're if you're unable to compete you're just gonna get the leftovers and I mean that's gonna use you so you need to be able to compete that means a whole new outlook mm-hmm that's nice Barbara she's Barbara said she went to the Four Seasons and ate this weekend yeah you know go find a broke man up in there unless they work in there um so yeah put yourself in positions in places where you're only gonna be approached by men who are stable at least you know and some somebody asked me I forgot who it was well how come you only tell women to go for rich guys and just not regular stable man and you know just men with regular careers and stuff why don't you tell them that because chances are that woman has a regular career and she won't still won't be able to respect you and you still won't be able to impress her you know what I'm saying and also you know why why would she want that you know I would say shoot for the stars and land on the moon so if she shooting at least for a rich man and she lands on a financially stable man that's great because if she was shooting only for a financially stable man and wasn't having a look and then she had to lower herself again then to me that's silly aim higher that's that's the problem with guys aim higher keep going why do you stop why you say oh this is good enough it's not good enough you got to keep going I don't know how many men in here are happy and satisfied with their mediocrity at this time and don't want to go any further in life how many men want women to accept them as they are right now and don't care it's so many that's why women are getting like no bypass and that's why you see rich man with more than one woman because a woman would rather have a lot of these women would rather share a rich man than be with a broke man and that's just that where would I where would you say a woman should go if she wants to land an athlete um well if you like if you're a groupie they're not gonna marry you either you got a you got you have to appeal to them as a wife you know what I mean so you have to be like unable you're gonna have to like be at places where you know they hang out like expensive restaurants in nice neighborhoods and stuff like that go most of the ball players in your state or in your city live in the nice neighborhood you know go to those local bars and stuff like that where you know that they would be living if they meet you not in a groupie crowd they would see you as somebody you know and if you don't know who they are or recognize them or have no clue what what sport they play or whatever because you got into sports they like those type of women they don't like those groupies they like you know women who don't even know who they are like I don't know you are that they have to actually impress because they still like to chase you know but if you know who they are and they're and you know you're a groupie and you know all he he can just sleep with you and be done but if there's a woman who doesn't know and and and also a woman who can go get somebody that you know it's also wealthy and doesn't need him you know I'm saying so you got to be like you don't need them you don't know who they are meet them outside of a groupie environment and they will see you as wife dress classy not trashy okay don't be having everything out dressed like you have some class and stuff like that but if you just want to meet a groupie go to that club after the game you can usually look up where the guys will be hanging out because a club will always sponsor some of the ballplayers after the game and they come there and get paid to like sit around and usually their teammates will be in there too so it's usually the most popular club so just check your internet site what club or the such and such you know after-party you know whatever someone says Belvedere in Houston yeah I used to go there back in the old days a broke man approached me in a supermarket I'm sorry someone's in my house yeah so what about finding men in hotel bars if you go into hotel bars you they might think you're a hooker okay so I wouldn't do that I will go to the nice like steak houses expensive restaurants and sit at the bar you know stuff like that don't go on a hotel they don't think you a hooker if you are if there's like a business conference or something yeah you could get away with it but if there's no business con conference don't go to the hotel because you at least you can lie and say I'm with the conference be like oh I'm with the business conference yeah I'm just here having a drink okay well and and like you know don't say I'm just here because why are you here at a hotel bar when you live here your house is over there and there's bar you pass about 20 bars to get here why are you at a hotel bar and chances are the men you meet in hotels are not local anyway and so they're gonna be out of town so for me I'd go to nice expensive restaurants instead of the bar because usually if men are single and rich they're gonna go to the nicest one of the nicest restaurants and sit at the bar and eat alone and that's when you can sit there looking good and sip on your wine or whatever and you know that's your best bet what happens if your man turns out to be broke you didn't pay attention you didn't make him invest in you or you didn't research him okay because I'd be googling don't believe don't believe nothing they say you got to go and research it okay you don't believe nothing they can tell you anything go and Google look they tell you what they do for a living and it sounds impressive still go look it up because they might not make nothing they might make it sounds good but they don't make a lot of money you know so go and go investigate I would so Solomon said a bunch of rich a bunch of fat girls with attitudes rich guys don't play that you know what rich guys will pay for anything because they don't they don't care about losing they look their money like y'all do okay you know I okay I'm gonna be honest y'all I have there's a lot of people that come into my inbox and they love what I teach in their men they're like I love how how blunt you are and you tell them like it is and it's so funny and you know these guys are getting upset but you know there's nothing wrong with a woman knowing what she wants and they're laughing at y'all because y'all are sitting here mad but won't do nothing about it you know won't go get a side hustle won't go try to get a better job y'all sitting here mad at us when y'all could be out trying to improve yourselves you're not amused someone says I'm not upset I'm amused you're not amused because I'm sure after you leave this video you feel like dang I need to go do something better with my life or are you gonna go try to save up your pennies to go sit at a nice restaurant bar to try to pretend like you got something you're only gonna be able to order an appetizer pretend like you sitting up there trying to come on to the women eating an appetizer sorry y'all should I be honest about man with our standard yeah it's best to be honest straight up because if they're wasting your time and they don't got what you need you will dismiss them quick because if you're in a nice place there's always somebody watching who really does have money and if you sit here entertaining brokeie they're gonna be like she don't have no standards and she don't know what she wants you dealing with this dude no if you're telling what you want and they can't deliver it they can't afford you move on go find something lower have you ever failed for a broke guy yeah when I was 18 the age you supposed to fall for broke man when you don't know any better yeah I fell for a I've never fall fallen for a broke man after the age of 18 okay everybody else they had to come with it why I have my sister my sister was my mentor and she didn't miss a broke man either like if you try to if you she wouldn't even let you talk to a broke man when you were out with her she's like don't talk to him come on I got somebody for you to meet look at his shoes girl come on he can't do that for you so that's how I was raised you know you know it was a little nice little you know naive girl I would be at the bar somebody would be talking to me I would be in deep conversation my sister will come yank me out girl only be talking to him he broke come on right in front of him too she didn't care she didn't have to care she didn't care girl why you talking to him he broke come on or she'll she'll just get up and it says can you buy her a drink can you buy me a drink okay come on girl he broke come on let's go you know she would just be like that and she's worse than me you know I'm nice compared to my sister I am super nice I'm like at least I try to fake it you know an act she just straight up with it so she would drag me over to the VIP section of course where all the athletes and you know people with money were and then I was like oh this is this is where it's at right here yes you know so you got to have somebody to pull you out you haven't yet to have another woman to tell you you ain't you wasting your time look this man can't enough for you but waste your time come on over here you know so you got to listen you got to listen to people even if you know you are so naive and so young if somebody cannot do something for you why are you there you know it's the conversation that good that you're gonna sit there and waste your time with someone who can't even pay for your meal you know that's gonna be a quick turn off oh we had a great conversation but now you can't pay for my dinner after you didn't ask me out nobody I should have went on to the VIP section I could have you know been on a date with a real man at a nice place and so don't do it it's not worth it how do men feel when you are told that they are too broke does it motivate them it motivates them if they're still ambitious and thriving and you know usually men who are ambitious and thriving they will have they will understand that they need certain things to be with a certain type of woman okay they're gonna understand that they're gonna have a stash to date women they're not they're gonna have a savings because men like that value lifestyle as well so they're gonna have a savings to be able to impress you because they know that they're working towards something and that they're not gonna be at that level for long it's only temporary some men are happy at this current state that they're in and they don't care they don't say they don't have a stash to take you out they just want you to accept Applebee's two for 20 and if you can't Sharkisha will you know somebody else will okay so basically they have lower level options and don't feel like they have to move up you know but they will try they will try to date you and some women will you know be so lonely that they'll do it some women be like it out of here so it's kind of they just take chances they're not afraid to ask because somebody some woman is gonna be desperate enough lonely enough to say yes that's why they keep asking because they keep getting yeses at some point they kept getting no maybe they would level up maybe they would try maybe say I can't get no play like this let me go get a degree let me go get another job let me go ask for a raise let me work harder so that I can get promoted you know if men weren't getting sex for free they damn sure would be leveling up okay but since they're getting it for free they don't have to level up they ain't got to do nothing they don't have to have ambition they don't have to be motivated they can go work their little nine to five at the call the call center and get their little call check take you to Applebee's and then get sex okay no but why why would they level up they got everything they need you know you paying half the rent they're getting sex they can use a coupon to take you to Applebee's why what else do they need you know they don't need nothing else they're happy that's all they want to eat and have sex and get half their bills paid so why would they level up they don't have to level up so the pink me cheeks are the ones that's making the men less ambitious because they don't have to work for anything anymore because the woman are just giving it to them because you know they can't be alone or they can't do any better so they just give it up free you know I don't know but and then these men want to come on these channels like this and get mad and say oh you need to do this isn't that uh no you need to level up because you in the wrong place if you take if you're taking me somewhere to eat on our first couple of days it needs to have ballet you have ballet parking or I'm not getting out the car or I'm not meeting you okay you can't take me no Applebee's okay I'm gonna make sure that you work for something mm-hmm can you still go out with the rich guy who refused to give you money that's the same as going out with a broke guy unless you're going out with him to figure out where to go hang out when you're not with him unless you're using him to be introduced to other rich people who you're gonna later then go associate with someone will give you money because dating a rich man that don't give you money is just the same as dating a broke man no difference so some rich men think oh she thinks I'm rich she'll hang out with me and I don't have to pay for anything or I don't have to give her any money because she just wants to be with somebody of status and you know who is rich and ride around a nice car that's not enough for me I'm sorry like if you rich then if you want to date me and then claim me as someone then you need to be paying some of these bills if you can't hand me a stack of money or put a bunch of money in my bank or PayPal and you claim to be rich I'm not gonna believe you until I see some proof okay until you spending money on me and buying me stuff I don't know you're rich okay and I think you know I've got to eat by myself and you know be just as happy so no I don't think women should date rich men just because they're rich I think if they're not giving you anything yeah go on one or two dates and then after that you know he's cheap don't even bother yes PayPal what y'all think that's a 2017 everybody has PayPal and if you don't need to get home you need to get PayPal you ever notice that most of the broke men they couldn't handle a woman like us because we would try to push them to the next level that they don't want to get to and they were rather lose a good woman than to level up so that's why a lot of women you can't fix some you can't push them to the next level if that's how they already are they should already be driven by themselves it should not take you to try to push them if you got to try to push a man to the next level that means they're not even gonna do it for you you know they don't even want to do it so don't even bother with that just be like you know what if you don't have ambition if you can't get to the next level if you can't you know level up because you want to I'm not attracted to that that's that's too blah for me I gotta go I want to see somebody who has hopes and dreams and ambition that wants to go out and you know accomplish things and blah blah blah and I know guys are saying well why don't you do that well I will be and he's gonna pay for it shoe he can give me money to start my own business you know what I'm saying he can give me money to invest he can do all of that if he's already there mm-hmm could someone says could I go lesbian for a rich woman why I can get a rich man I need to go lesbian um but I know some women who have done that mm-hmm I do know some women who have gone lesbian for a rich lesbian I do know some but that's because they didn't like men anymore because men were kind of like she was kind of done with them basically like I'm done so of course I'm in my late 30s average body can I get a rich man well yeah if you level up your look mm-hmm you know you got an average body good you got some makeup got some hair you can can you look the part that are made a rich man would like of course just get older man you still young today she would do rich man prefer hard to get women like you are not impressed with him yeah of course I had you hide somebody my inbox the other day and they were trying to fly me out to you know I'm like I didn't tell him I was mayor I was just gonna see where this went and I was like oh yeah I need you to invest in me send me this Louis Vuitton purse you know they started backing up I said oh you can't afford me sorry it's like what well why don't you come here I'll buy it for you I need something to take on the plane okay well duh duh duh duh you can have anything when you get here no if you can't invest in me before I drive all the way to the airport paid apart take off work fake work do this is I just named a bunch of things you want me to sacrifice all that and I get there and I still don't have nothing no you gotta send me something so I know you're invested and I know you're serious okay you can't send me this Louis Vuitton I can't get on that plane and he's like he disappeared and he back this morning let me see what he said there's no way I'm going to anywhere I was just gonna block them after I got the purse yep I can't find his message hold on oh he says I don't think you really want to be spoiled I should write back I don't think you can afford to spoil me I don't I don't meet them they just inbox me on Facebook I don't meet them they just in my inbox so if you if the man comes in my inbox yeah he started asking me questions and personal questions and can you fly out and who you so beautiful I want to make a little to you then I'm gonna ask for some money and then I'm a block em I'm gonna ask for some some items and some money and then I'm a block them they don't ask me if I'm married they ask me if I'm single and I have a slot a slot slot remark I think I don't have a boyfriend they don't mean I ain't got no husband yeah just they can lie to me and try to scam me and get me to come and sleep with them and stuff like that I can scam them for a purse okay you gonna come up in my inbox you know thinking you gonna get something for free mm-hmm I know I'm married but I was still I'm still gonna if they're gonna send me some gifts I'll take them in block you know sorry how do you get a man to pay for surgery oh I said that on one of my last videos you just cry and say if you don't get the surgery you don't you can't have sex you know I don't feel sexy enough I need to get the surgery I don't feel good about my body I'm not turned on I can't do I can't get naked just the nice sex okay if Tiger Woods offered 10 G's would you let him 10 G's I know that's not enough if he's Tiger Woods he could give me like 30 30 maybe so okay let's say what about a woman in her 40s that looks good but meets men in her age group who are well you gotta go older if you're 40 you gotta go 60 60 or 60 you know and you gotta look a young 40 you know you have to take care of yourself because most guys who are in your age group and they got money they're gonna go for the younger women you know unless they want someone with the same type of money so that they can appear to have more money with this person but usually at that time most guys have either been divorced and had a nagging wife or whatever their own age now they won't go get some young so if I were you if I was a 40-year-old something woman I would go for a much older because they'll always treat you like the young one you always look young to them they'll give you what you want you ain't got to compete okay it's much easier I wouldn't someone says scamming ain't a game either it's an illegal act no it's not if somebody gives you if somebody gives you a gift that's not illegal he don't have no problem spending money on plane tickets so I can come there and see them but he got a problem will buy me a purse okay that's a scam so if you're gonna spend this much money on some plane tickets you can afford to buy me a purse so no you gonna buy me a round trip ticket to New York from here that you know that could be used towards my purse and I'll come see you when you save up the rest or you buy me the tickets afterwards I'm not one of those chicks are excited cuz somebody gonna fly me somewhere I can fly somewhere myself you know who free trip no you know free trip I can afford a free trip myself you're gonna get I'm not even gonna really go I'm just gonna get what I can get and block you and the reason for that is because okay first of all you got a grown man in somebody in some woman's inbox don't know nothing about her but asking her to come visit okay first of all that's disrespectful second of all you just want me for sex third of all I'ma get you so beware don't come in my inbox warning to all men if you you say hi your hi that you have kids then we when you and the sugar daddy get more serious what do you do well getting more serious okay this is what it would take for me to tell someone that I had kids that was getting more serious if you're buying me a house or a very nice condo or some property and you know stuff like that that serious okay if you're going to contribute to my lifestyle in a major way that means you are investing in me because you want me in your life long term but if you just taking me to dinners and handing me a couple hundred and stuff here you don't see you don't need to know my kids until I have a deed of some type of property in my hand you know because for me it doesn't matter you know if you're not trying to you know fully secure me and make me happy then I there's no need you know so that's what I say besides it if you already told him you didn't have kids and he's not so in love with you that he'll accept anything if he's not in love with you that and he'll do anything for you then you don't tell him until he's so in love with you he wouldn't even care but I don't care what do they want I'll buy stuff for them to you know that's when you tell her when they will say no to nothing someone says prostitution no difference yeah there is a difference because if you asked for sex you should be more ashamed of yourself to ask a woman for sex than a woman should be ashamed to ask you for money you know why does why why I want a woman to ask you for money you automatically think sex because you're looking for a prostitute okay if I asked you for money and you automatically think well are you gonna sleep with me if I give you some money then you are the one thinking about prostitutes not the woman she didn't ask you to sleep with her she didn't offer you sex she said can I have some money so the men already see you as prostitutes okay because that's only what they want that's why you got to get them get them before they get you so all they see all they relate to is sex sex sex sex that's why sex sells that's why a woman can get anything from a man because of sex that's why man will say well it's no different than prostitution because he doesn't think giving you money for out of the kindness of his heart is possible he thinks oh giving you money if you have sex with me is what's right so if I'm a prostitute then you're a John because you are the one asking me for sex and offer no sex and offer no sex and that's what you're thinking about not me right so have you got the nerve to ask a woman for sex or if you don't give her money without expecting sex then you are the one that is comparing her to a prostitute and putting her in that category she's not putting herself into it you are so I don't know if I ask for money it's cuz I want some money it's not cuz I want to sleep with you if I ask a man for money that don't mean I want to sleep with him please it means I just want him to give me something but see the man expects that that's the difference that's how you get them you know what they expect so you play along with it and you lie to them like they lie to you and then when you get what you want be gone just like they do except instead of getting sex you got something for real that you could touch in your hand a purse or something a stack of cash so when they leave now they'll see how it feels yeah dang she got me why didn't she call me back did she text me oh no she's not calling me back I wonder if she's dead I'm dead so just like men use women for sex and then ghost them women can use men for products money purses and then ghost them to there's no difference that's what I'm gonna do all day every day if you come in my inbox asking me for something yeah I got in a I got in a relationship at 22 I married the man that I met at 22 I'm still married to the man and you know whatever if you don't if you don't like what I gotta say oh well it works how do you answer or dodge them when men ask if you have kids change the subject or say oh I always wanted five kids you know or I always wanted I always wanted a kid just saying change the subject always wanted a boy wow I'm glad I have never asked you out you are nothing but a skank you right you better be glad you ain't never asked me out cuz you would have got got okay well anyway you know if you asked me out was you gonna pay for it or we're going to a nice place we're gonna let me order whatever I want it because I might have said no anyway so it wouldn't matter so lie and steal well it's not stealing if it's gift if that man wants sex bad enough and he wants me bad enough and he sends me a gift that's his own weakness that's not mine okay so you know if he says no I'm sorry I can't do it then great he got away if he's that desperate and all of that okay well thank you I can always change my mind like I'm sorry thanks for the gift but I really can't go this month I can't fly out to see you this month because I have to work now you gonna pay me my whole week of salary keep going till you get more and more you know I can't take off work this week you know you gonna pay on my bills no oh man I really wish I could go I'm sorry but I love this purse thank you so much it goes so good with every outfit oh my gosh I'm gonna send you some pictures okay so then block them oh I got kicked out of Facebook for trolling it's not my fault I didn't try to block you so yeah you know men think of a thousand lies to tell a woman to get them to sleep with them a woman tells one lie and she's evil oh you're evil yes we just learned it from y'all we learned from y'all if y'all can ask for sex we can ask for money if y'all can lie we can lie we will lie so don't be mad if you want everything equal then why not why can't we lie that's 50 50 to me you lie I lie we all lie we'll never know what's true or what's not it's like we don't have the time so guess what welcome welcome welcome to how most women feel when they date a man they don't know if that's the truth or a lie they don't know if they're gonna see them tomorrow or not but guess what if you can do it so can we right we do it better though so anyways yeah I I'm not I'm just you know I'm playing like but I'm but serious if a man is coming in my inbox trying to ask me for stuff I'm asking for something to say yes to real love okay what's real love 50 50 okay some okay some women can't even be attracted to men who cannot provide okay so many some women can't even fall in love unless you they the man has you know all your finances taken care of I can't like literally I could not fall in love with a man who couldn't do things for me I could I couldn't do I don't care how cute you are how sweet you are or nothing I just couldn't do it like there would be no love so real love you got to have some money for me to be able to fall in love you know a lot of women feel this way they can't see you unless you have something to offer them the only type of man who talk about love and real love is the man who can't afford to date so they figure if they lie and say that they love you then you'll give up more free because oh no these days women don't care about love either child they're like you know what yeah I love you too now pay this rent what about love okay yeah what about it love don't pay the bills okay so I'll love you when you can properly love me which means you can provide for me I can't take love to the bank okay I can't buy food with love you want me to sit up here doing it's not gonna work it just won't work so turn this off and you know what like five years ago when women were all about the love to man were like we don't love these hoes you know so guess what we don't love these male hoes I don't know we just want what you got literally just like you want what we got we want you got you so just like y'all aren't afraid to ask for it we're not either except instead of sex we want money and the difference is we'll have something and you won't we'll have something right it's it's not wrong for a woman to steal a man's money if he asked him for some sex and it's not stealing if he gives it to her freely if he if he can go click on a website and purchase a $3,000 purse type in their address or send it to the PO box that's called a gift okay it's not called stealing call the gift if you that horny and that desperate and you're gonna go gift a woman a $3,000 purse before you met her because you were hoping to get some you know oh well it's a gift so it's not stealing it's just a gift sad times yes it is very sad time sad for y'all happy for us I'm leaving y'all yep I'm leaving I'm good I'm good the average millionaire has seven streams of income yes and most of you guys on here only have one and it's a low one guys no you want to you want to get up get more streams of income you know if if I can do it you can do it don't say don't tell me I'm better than you you know what I'm saying have this man on here that's mad I make more money than them just talking on YouTube talking about them I make more money than them talking about it now that's sad how you gonna let somebody talk about you and earn more money than you I can sit up here and do this all day long and the money that comes in from this as a result of this and that it's more than y'all make with y'all that at me if I can do it you can do it I make money from YouTube I make money from clients I make money from consultations teach a woman how to do what I do yes I make a lot of money and I get to save every penny because I don't pay no bills for my savings account is probably higher than what you make in a year as well you know buy a bunch of stuff I get people to buy for me I'm broken I still bash smash baddies good you broke and you you getting free sex good I'm not broken I don't give up I guess there's two sides to every story yeah he's broken proud I told y'all pick me women giving out free sex over here it's still like giving it up it's gonna trick you working day and now that's what you supposed to be doing like Michael Jackson see even Michael Jackson though you got to go work okay okay y'all I'm down bye