 The most badass way to defeat the narcissist. This can be very effective against the narcissist. However, this video is for educational purposes only. Please be responsible. I do not recommend doing this with a malignant narcissist as that could put you at risk of danger or harm. The most badass way to defeat the narcissist. The most badass way to defeat the narcissist isn't by fighting back. It isn't by trying to counteract or retaliate in a fight struggle or contest. It isn't by trying to gain power over the narcissist or by trying to control what they are trying to do. Instead, it is about going within yourself. It is about being at peace with yourself. Rather than letting the narcissist provoke you into fighting with them. What you fight always fights back. Narcissists are expert manipulators. Arguments and conflict are their playground. So you will not win that battle. And you shouldn't try to. Instead of trying to outnark the narcissist, find peace within yourself. Focus on your breathing. Do not react to them. Observe. Don't absorb. Respond. Don't react. Don't give them any of your emotions. Instead, remain calm. Remain centered. Don't let them pull you out of your frame. When you do this, the narcissist may try to test you. They may try to provoke you to react to them. And they will do this by becoming even more furious. They will become full of anger and rage. They may threaten to do something unfavourable to you. But most often, these are just empty threats, which they have no intention of backing up with action. Their bark is bigger than their bite. So when the narcissist tries to provoke you, hold your ground. Do not retreat. Or lose your advantage in the face of opposition. Hold your frame, regardless of what they are saying to you. Be unmoved. Be unaffected by their emotional excitement. Be unchanged in your purpose and intention. And at some point, the narcissist will realise that they can't get a rise out of you. They will realise that they can't get a reaction. They can't make you angry or upset. And that is when they will accept defeat. That is when they will fall back. The narcissist wants you to react to them. They want to move you. They want to affect you. But if you hold your frame and remain unchanged in your purpose and intention, they cannot get to you. And they are forced to accept defeat. This is the most bad ass way to defeat the narcissist. Rather than fighting back. Rather than gaining power over them or trying to control what they are trying to do. When you engage in an argument with a narcissist, you will not gain power over them. They will always gain power over you. Because they are taking your power from you. But there is nothing for you to hold over them. Because they don't have any power. You cannot threaten someone who has nothing. You cannot make them do what you want. Because they have nothing to lose. The only reason why they are able to threaten you in the first place is because you have something of value. Which they are fully aware of. And that is how they are able to gain power over you. By taking your power away from you. But you cannot do the same thing to them. Because there's nothing to hold over them. They've got nothing to lose. The most valuable thing that they could lose is you. Which is why the most bad ass thing you can do is to withdraw your attention. Withdraw your emotion. And leave them powerless. Leave them devoid of strength and resources. Instead of giving your power to them. Because whenever you engage with a narcissist. Whether it's a positive or negative interaction. All you're really doing is giving them your power. That is the only thing that can happen in an interaction with a narcissist. Because they have nothing to give to you. So instead of doing that. Go within yourself. Hold your frame. Remain centered. Remain calm. And watch as the narcissist just drives themselves insane. Until they finally fall back. Thank you for watching. I hope this video has made it with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate. My PayPal link is in the video description. Coach the inquiries. You can email me at coach.nag.tv.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.