 Welcome back to my channel guys. It's your girl Coco styles and on this channel. We talk about beauty fashion lifestyle and styling But today, I just want to bring you guys along with me while I clean my face and just have a little bit of Chat time with you guys I Still use the same products, but I did add in two new additional products from Eminence and I used to have the Camamill Think it was the cam calm skin Moisturizer, but I changed to the firm skin. I saw you moisturize them. I Hope you guys can see that. Let's see you guys ever didn't know Yeah, this one This smells amazing guys. Um, it's pretty much the same price. That's the other one and now this serum This is the citrus and kale potent vitamin C and E serum It's for all skin types. It says you only need a little bit, but this guy's This crap It's like a hundred and ten dollars and about honestly, I think the bottle is pretty good But you only need a little bit. So what I do is I just put a droplet in my hand and just kind of Rub it in I kind of stay away from under my eyes on this one And I still use my trusty Nutrigena, I use this one when I feel like my maybe if I woke up and I feel like I was sweating maybe Or if I had on makeup or if I don't have any anything like a Simple morning, I'll use this one, which this is I like this one now Here's the thing. This is the hydroglues gentle cleansing lotion for sensitive skin It has like like a frosty color to it Target does not have this one. I only can get this from Alta. Don't know why but I like it. I Still use my M&N Toner my trusty trusty Oh Missed things pray you guys know this one Is it gonna zoom? And then I don't even have it my contact so I can't even see me and then sometimes if I'm feeling a little bit dry I use the Camilla Glow Salad Face by Eminence Which is there? Let's see Yeah This little thing is probably a little bit bigger It's probably a little bit bigger than Like a car mix But I think this is like 75,000. It does go a long way guys, right? So Let's just make sure that we're good to go here All right, so I'm just gonna turn on my trusty Seamer and this is one by the this is the one by Vanity Planet. I love it. I just want to just I did risk my face off already, but I want to just like loosen loosen up the Skin and all that good stuff. So today I want to talk about dealing with No choosing your battles, okay Choosing your battles is something that is we have to learn how to do and whether it's with someone in your family Someone in Your job at your job or just on your everyday travel Picking the battles to fight is so important in your health you being able to just function throughout the day and Not letting things take over right? So I have my my cloth here And I got these from home because guys are awesome. So my steam is going We'll just let it go some more so And guys this is the in-between me going to get my face you So we you shouldn't really Steen your face all the time, but I had a face you like a maybe three weeks ago. So I just went through this so anyway When you choose your battles guys you learn how to Literally Take back the power right you take back the power of Just dealing with difficult people So I'll give you an example if you work at a job Or even a family member that's just family because everybody always has issues at job But let's talk about some family right and you have Someone who is just difficult all the time right? They're just like The family member that's always with the drama the family member that's always Picking on everyone calling everybody out on stuff and they don't think there's anything wrong with them, right? Normally you would probably go back and forth with them But once you realize that this particular person is very draining This is the situation where you don't want to go back and forth with a person, right? Because what that's gonna do is ultimately make you feel like Just frustrated for the day. So in that case I would say Don't say anything just let them be them and that's it, right? Because eventually what's gonna happen if they're gonna notice that you're not entertaining them and then they'll stop, right? So I'm just gonna let this go for a little bit and then I'm going to Put some of this cleanser on I'm gonna wet my rag actually A little bit hold on guys. So just to lose my let me turn that off And I'll put it back on in a few um So You know just choosing your battles in that Situation it's very important Let's just say you are married, right? If you're married and This is for men and women If your wife is difficult You may want to pick your battles and for the woman If your husband is difficult or just having a bad day, you know choose when you want to actually have this um It's kind of like debate with them, right? So I'm gonna say What am I gonna use today because I don't have on anything on my face. I'm gonna use my trusty Neutrogena um one And I'm just gonna use a little bit. It's very like liquidy, but I like it So in those situations you know People wake up on the wrong side of the bed and um They don't be in the mood, right? Now it doesn't mean that it's okay to treat your spouse like that um It's just knowing when somebody's just having a bad day A bad day not a bad every day. Okay, or a bad week. No, I'm not with that So you can definitely kind of like if you notice something like that with your spouse Just kind of like You know So my my not my battery my freaking thing my card was So you choose your battles, um, you know and Like I said, it doesn't mean that you have a bad day every day But you know, sometimes you just wake up on the wrong side of the bed and that's totally totally totally. Okay, right? um So that's dealing with a family member dealing with a spouse And let's say dealing with a friend because that's different too, right? dealing with a friend who Is having a bad day or a week Now should you actually Give the friend a past a past a past Should you give them a past should you allow them to Treat you a certain way or talk to you a certain way, right? Or potentially always have an attitude, right? No One thing I will say is At the end of the day, you have to always protect you your energy And how things make you feel it's not running away from it. It's just literally protecting it I don't talk about this a lot on my channel, but I'm a cancer You guys know cancers are like totally in tune with the earth's world but Once I send something is off. Hi, I'm gone Like I'm totally gone. Um, I don't want it to interrupt my spirit period And if it does I may say something about it Um, most times I will just keep it moving, right? Now if I do approach it That's just me trying to Not do what I normally do, which is Get the hell on, right? And I think that has a lot to do with like growth too, right? so When you used to having the same reaction and stuff, um You try something different, right, which leads me into dealing with somebody at your job, right? So your job Your job is another place where You can deal potentially deal with difficult people and I might have said this before But imagine having Imagine you're a boss and You got some First of all, I don't even use this and that's because I am I didn't have anything on my face um, but imagine imagine having A boss who's like that, but I am gonna I am gonna do this. I'm gonna add on some Of this and this is Exfoliating just a small bit. So here's the thing guys. I'm asking this. I don't want to say it's sensitive But I guess so I could only use this and mix this together Um, I can't put the exfoliating on my face directly unless I'm at the um Place the um estheticium um Because she uses organic products So I'm gonna actually put a little bit of the cream cleanser on. I'm just gonna do a double cleansing I don't know I feel like I just want to today. So you think about your boss or your boss And you have an extremely Difficult employee You got to deal with this person All all vice versa You're an employee your boss is difficult What do you do? Do you go back and forth with them all the time? Because that's I think that's people's initial reaction Is to do that right is to go back and forth And just prove point, right? But then you gotta realize like Should I even be fighting this battle? because I'm a firm believer of It's two things if things start to get difficult It's probably time to move just go on to just get up out of there, right? um A lot of employees think that employees are Like that's their end all um, but sometimes you gotta let them know like If if I'm not supposed to be here, I'm just not supposed to be here and then you have the situation where God is trying to tell you he's trying to give you a sign of Growth right so he makes you uncomfortable and he wants to see how you're gonna handle the situation In those cases guys, I would say Think of it like that now. I could see if something was toxic Then you must go right But now if something if it's like a little uncomfortable it's probably because you have to Adjust And grow in a certain area, right? So i'm gonna say this That's a hard one Because if you really think about it, um A lot of people it's just it's hard to be in a situation where It's uncomfortable, right? That's that's hard. That's hard because I guess because you're used to reactive In a certain way, right? Let me grab my mirror. I hope that's I'm over here Not even doing the right thing um Yeah, make sure it's all off so So when you when you think of it like that like God is trying to Help you grow Or force you to grow, right? Then You say you stay in a situation and you figure it out you choose your battles You choose when they go back and forth with a person and I have this discussion with A lot of people first of all, I didn't even put This on my face and I'm not gonna do it because I already took the punch up off um So that's all done. Let me just make sure I got it all off All right, so in those cases you just you know, like I said, you just grow Child, I don't know what's happening my front my camera. It's like Cutting off on me. Um, I'm gonna have to figure this out That's based on my cards. Anyway So, you know, he would do things to make you feel uncomfortable just so that he can prepare you for What he has in store for you, right? It can be an opportunity Um, are you going to be able to handle these folks these same people that you're dealing with in your family Your friends and your job with this personality You may encounter this same person With this new opportunity, are you going to be able to handle it? So, you know, he does things to like really, um Make sure that we're prepared, right? It's hard, but the reality of it is It's just How he works, right? He's going to prepare you. He's not going to give you things that you can't handle So that was just a little little chat about that guys So right now I'm actually going to just turn this off I'm going to I'm all over the place guys. I'm gonna just put on some toner Right, which is This this is I'm telling you guys. This is like so awesome And I hate this. Yeah This is so awesome And I'm just gonna spray it I just sprayed on both sides and just kind of rub it in Because I like this a lot I can't believe before I was never using a toner. You guys know I used to use good old Vaseline And now I'm going to put on some moisturizer. So like I said, this has hyaluronic acid So I don't have to use that nutrigina one, um, I can still if I want to but Because I still really love it and I just want to A little bit of The moisturizer And when I say a little bit this thing go a long way. Look at it loud enough um So you guys if you have any You can comment below if you deal with a difficult person in Your Your life like a family member a friend Or even Your job Comment below Let's talk about this because I think a lot of people What I cannot say this Like I think a lot of people want to stay away from that or they know when someone is difficult and they are pretty much like Not being nice Now for the folks that's out here being A-holes to people purposely Doing spiteful things to people uh Being shady to people, you know those things Let's do some karma Is another hubba And I feel like whatever you put out there guys I'm just gonna put this on my face. I usually put it in my hand, but I'm just gonna do it this way because I'm on camera um And just a little bit like And don't do it like this because the other day my behind um Spilled some Okay, but karma karma is oh my god Karma is one of those things And I know people don't like to use the word karma because you have good karma too But I like to say karma because It's literally both both ways right you're putting if you put out negatives or put out bad things That's what's gonna come back to you you put out um I'm gonna put some canilla oil today Camellia oil. I don't know why I was a canilla oil. This is the This is the glow the solid face oil and guys I had this for a pretty long time and It's still pretty um My camera just be like You know, I'm gonna figure this out one day And you literally like a tiny tiny bit What I mean like a tiny bit I mean it's smaller than a a dime um But karma you got good and bad karma. So it really depends on what you're putting out there And I believe you guys on this note Ha because I've seen this happen, man I've seen it happen. Can you guys see a little shine? And then I'm just gonna spray out a little bit of my good old mario Badoosu. I've never know how to say this thing So I'm gonna leave you guys on this I have seen people do things to people I've seen Parents do things to their kids. I've seen uh, this is Moth mothers and fathers Um, and I've seen it backfired later on um And when I mean my backfiring not meaning that the kids did something to them meaning that the kids stood their ground and kind of stayed true to who they were and Let's just say a parent needed help with something the kids still did it and that karma was for that parent to feel Like crap because of how they treated their kids maybe right Or you have that boss who doesn't have any type of real sympathy or empathy for Any of his employees right I'll give you an example you can have Women with children who are single moms, right? And then maybe you have like a male boss Who don't have kids who don't know what that life is like, right? So they don't understand when you have to take off for your kids and stuff um, I've seen that happen where a boss was just like, oh Didn't care He ended up having a kid And but he was not a nice person And I kept saying this energy that this man is putting out there is going to come back to him And here's the thing it doesn't always come back to you It doesn't it can come back to someone close in your family like your immediate family And that's what happened and I'll tell you this it was a really bad accident that happened And no one at the job cared no one cared that The situation happened and that is because He didn't care about anyone at the job, right? Or you have that friend Who low blows you right and they know that they think things that are not Nice that could potentially hurt your feelings or whatever um But then they realize why certain things happen in their lives, right? so all these things happen And people need to really realize is what you're putting out there so it ultimately involves down to what you're putting out there into the world and It boomerang in right back to you. So think of it like that guys Whatever you put out into the world. Are you okay with receiving that back And that's my question for you guys What you're putting out right now into this world your energy your attitude how you treat people all of that Would you be okay with receiving that back? Okay So that's all I wanted to do today. Just kind of just chop it up with you guys um And just kind of just walking through my my cleansing I was all over the place today, but I did like I said I did have the new products Which is the serum and the new um What she about the english and this right this smells so good. Oh my god Um, so if you like videos like this, please comment below and let me know if you want to see more Lifestyle videos because you guys know I just kind of been switching some things on my channel Um, I know people do like to see things like that. So I just made the feedback from you guys So I know what to really really make as far as me doing like hauls and stuff I do them, but it's not like I don't I feel like they're kind of like boring sometimes because it's literally the same thing everybody's doing dara Very rarely you'll see someone bring up like a new brand or something like that. Um So yes, if you like videos like this, please comment below And if you stay to the end of this video, please comment Coco we see you and guys don't forget to follow me on instagram. This is what I want all of my followers Go to my instagram and follow me there I I post so many tips about Corporate fashion. Um, because you guys I know you guys know I do styling for corporate professional women So they can get the job, right? Um, leveraging their image and tackling vertical style challenges, but just kind of it's pretty much shopping for your body um, so guys head over there and just Hit the follow button so you can get those updates every day Um, so that's all I have for you guys today Let me know what you guys think and think about that question Again, what you're putting out there right now. Is it something your energy your attitude how you treat people? Would you be okay with receiving that back? Okay, if you are not that means that you have to Change something You have to change something. Yeah So I will catch you guys in the next one. Bye