 I was at my lowest, man. I was in Afghanistan, come back from deployment, you know what I mean, probably risk losing my life there. You know what I mean, base getting attacked, you know, all type of stuff, whatever, trying to fight. And my strength was my wife and my kid at that time, you know what I mean, and to come back to see it. And I even had surgery when I was out there. Once I married her, it was bad, man, honestly. It was, you know, I knew she wasn't ready, but I was just like, ah, man, maybe she'll get it, you know what I mean, as she get older. I should've just stuck to my guns, whatever, but I didn't. I used to try to talk to her, but she wouldn't listen. I got heavy in the church at the time, instead of her kind of holding strong to that, whatever, being happy for me. That same, same days, she had an argument, saying right out the church would over something stupid. I'm a real big saver, and I was real big in preparation of things from my boot camp, which was like two months, core school, another two months, and a little bit into my first duty station, it was like, I think around like seven months period, I had like seven grand saved up, because I knew I wanted to marry her. I had to get a car, I had to get a place to live, and I seen other buddies of mine that was in military, they didn't have nothing. I'm showing you at a young age, I'm 18 years old doing this, that I have the qualities to make sure you're taking care of you, gonna be safe and for you not to respect me and follow my leadership, whatever. I should have seen that at that red flag and be like, no. And it got to the point, she was leaving, we'll be trying to, I'm trying to work on in relationship, whatever she be gone. We had a son at this time too, because she was telling me like, hey, the reason why she wasn't happy, because we have a kid, so we had a kid together. So now she taking the kid away from me, leaving, then she'll come back and say, I'm sorry, and then she'll do it again, come back, come back, come back. And then I was kind of, I was exhausted. I went on deployment, came back from Afghanistan, found out that she was pregnant again, so I found out that that child wasn't mine. I'm thinking, we got the fairy tale, got the daughter, we got a daughter and the son, and I got my legacy now, everything complete. And to find out, when I come getting off the plane from coming back from there, nobody's there. I found out my son was in a car seat. I mean, he was in a car wreck without his car seat, scars on his head, she had drugs around the weed and stuff like that, whatever. She spent like 30,000 to deploy money. I went, I fought for full custody, whatever. You know what I mean? I won, she didn't show up. Us growing up, you know, our mom's trying to teach us, be so sweet, be so nice, and you know what I mean, give her what she wants and all that stuff. Happy wife, happy life type of deal. And I found out real early, you know what I'm saying? That hey, yeah, yeah, it don't work. And I didn't say, oh, true all women and nothing like that, whatever, I was like, hey, I made bad mistakes. Like I told you earlier, like decisions, I seen red flags before I did it. So I'm not just gonna be like a victim and stuff like that and say, oh, how can you do this to me, blah, blah, I seen it. So I should have like, hey, no, we not ready yet. We no kids and I would have been a better position. I didn't think she respected me enough. I noticed, hey, when I say, hey, we moving this way. And then she like, nah, I'm moving this way. I seen the great divide, right? You with me, whatever, but you gotta let me make this decision because at the end of the day, if we homeless or something happened to us, they not looking at you, they looking at me. The less confusion you bring to a man, the more the man is able to think whatever to be better at in the world. When I was in my first marriage, I wasn't thinking about getting into real estate. I was just thinking about how I'm fixing this marriage, how I'm gonna do this, how I'm stressed out at work. Now, my wife now took that away. How can I provide for her more? How can we do this while we young? So when we old, whatever, we gotta worry about much. Just like my stepdad just passed. Let me make sure when we get to that age, you don't have to work. You good.