 Cool, I like the view so Topic I want to talk about today is facing your fears and Not procrastinating anymore and doing big shit This is not the average, you know, kind of face your fears, you know, just do it anyway video This is for people like me who are procrastinators Because they're perfectionists everything has to be fucking perfect so you over analyze it and worse You said big goals So you have huge fucking goals, but you're a procrastinator So all you do all this like oh shit. I want this big fucking thing, but oh my god. Yeah, it's too much action I need to I need to analyze it more. I need to think about it more Maybe delay it. Yeah, I need the strategy is not good. You know, I need to work on it. Basically Yeah, it's a big fucking deal like basically the That's like one of the major major things that held me back all my life. I Would take Let's say most people Would take action like 20 days a week a month I would take action maybe five days a month But I would take such massive action with such such big goals that I would actually get the same or even bigger results than other people Which even further allowed me to procrastinate because I was like, oh, you know procrastination It's it's part of the process, you know thinking about it and you know getting in contact with yourself But you know at one point I was like fuck it like I can't allow myself. Sorry. There's flies here I was like shit. I can't allow myself to to procrastinate any fucking more because if I keep procrastinating I'm just not gonna be able to reach certain obligations So I found a solution to procrastination I found My solution at least and since I found it. I've been able to pretty much destroy Crastination which obviously happens because of fear Which made me able to go after my big goals and not procrastinate and I hope you understand just how massive that shit is so What I found out was these five mantras that I would use That are very logical They just make sense to me and they just kind of attack the whole procrastination fear angle from all directions So this is useful if for example you're into success with the women You know you want to approach a lot of women, but you can't you know and you like me you like to you know either go out alone or You know just kind of do it yourself, you know, you don't like being meeting the crutch of other people to give you confidence So this is one example another example is business making cold calls probably The most useful skill I've ever gathered in business Again very scary, especially if you're asking for large sums of money Where I'm making I'm making cold cold calls to people who don't know me and asking for $20,000 for coaching so Yeah, you can get that it's a bit scary if you don't have the right mindset So the five mantras basically and again, I repeat them I look at them every single time I find myself procrastinating which again stems from fear so the five mantras are number one There's never been a call or or or an approach that I've regretted like there's never once in my life Been a time where I made like a call to somebody or approach the girl and actually regret doing it No matter how good it went or how bad it always made me feel better about myself It always made me feel like I was doing something No, even if the approach went really really bad, I would always be happy that I actually took action and went after it Especially, you know considering the other option of just you know letting another one go along That's the first mantra is that there's never been an approach or a call that I've ever regret so you're like Oh, okay, so that that kind of alleviates fear a bit because you know, I'm I'm not gonna regret it and now number two is that quality the Quality of your actions or the results doesn't matter What this means is that the very action of facing your fears and actually going after what you want is in of itself the the thing that Guarantees success just actually going, you know really going after it You know what I mean like like not just making a phone call or just making an approach, but actually Making the approach or the phone call, you know the one that scares you just doing that in of itself is Means it's a 10 out of 10. It doesn't matter if it went well didn't go well how you did how the other person reacted So that takes like the whole pressure off of the performance. You're like, okay, so number one. I'm never gonna regret it That's obvious, you know, especially if you you're already a person who takes a lot of action You know, you're never gonna regret taking action ever Number two again, the quality doesn't matter. So I don't have to put my best show on I don't have to make it perfect and I don't have to manage the reactions because they don't matter either Now number three is that it's all part of the process. So it's mandatory. It comes with the goal basically That's the third one. It's part of a process. It comes with the goal So any goal you set like let's say you're making $10,000 a month right now and you want to go to 100 Let's say you take the most basic route you just ask for 10 times more money To be somebody that deserves 10 times more money You have to change like never ask yourself is this goal possible or realistic only ask yourself like how do I actually Deserve my goal like like what do I need to become to deserve it? So the process is in the doing so let's say You want to get from 10,000 months to 100,000 again, which means 10 times the prices You know, you have to set a certain number like okay, I'm gonna have to ask let's say a 1,000 people every month, which is like 30 people a day for 10 times more and I'm gonna get to 100,000 months instead of 10,000 so The very act of doing it the very act of having the balls to to ask for it They're actually seeing how people react and and seeing that you know taking that action You know because I assume you are a person that cares the very act of doing it is What makes you deserve it? You know you become in the process of doing it a person that deserves it Ask and you should receive you know do the thing and you shall have the power So Again, the third one is that it's part of the process So it's not really about the result that the results are automatic once you deserve what you want so it's more about Doing the process and then you deserve it So you want to go from 10,000 to 100,000. It's part of the process It's called the pay price to action. It's you have to pay a price So might as well, you know do it, you know So basically what I tell myself in the third mantra is like again, it's it's part of the goals part of the process It's inevitable. So You know you keep fine like you don't want to do it. You don't want to face your fear. Okay, just drop the goal Are you willing to drop the goal? No, okay, so just fucking do it now The fourth mantra is well if you're gonna do it might as well do it faster So let's say you have a hundred calls to make total Well, you know why you think about it and procrastinate and take like you know Two days to make a call and then you do make a call and then you're coming out I made a call and now you're thinking about it and now You know you do just five calls a day like you know if you have a certain number like you know You need about a hundred calls to get laid or a hundred approaches or you need a hundred calls to get the money You want so you know or whatever it is. It's always numerical There's always a number where you know you do X amount of something and you're guaranteed to get it Usually it's what you think times 10 so You know you're gonna have to reach that number anyway, so might as well do it faster, right like might as well get like You know just like like like like machine gun the phone Then take a day for everyone, you know, you're gonna just gonna get to your goal faster So it just makes sense to do it faster And out of the fifth mantra, which is kind of the one that wraps it up is Well, it's your fear. So you're gonna have to face it eventually. Anyways What this mantra means is that once you discover a fear like that like once you found something that actually debilitates you that makes you procrastinate and not want to take action You're kind of fucked and the reason you're fucked is because you found a fear You found something in yourself and you're now willing to face because it scares you so Once you find it it kind of becomes real and now you can either Choose to ignore it for the rest of your life and keep going down Or you can face it and move up But there's no more coasting because because now you are aware of the fear I know you can either live to resent yourself and keep going down or you can just fucking do it So again once you have the fear, you're like, okay, I have a fear. I'm procrastinating because of it It scares me Fuck it like you don't have a choice anymore either face the fear or or face the consequences of basically decaying While you're alive So again, these are the four month the five mantras number one I'll never regret an approach or a call I've made Number two the quality of my efforts or the results doesn't matter Number three, it's part of the goals part of the process You know if you're gonna do it if you're gonna achieve the goal, you know might as well do it anyway The fourth one is you might as well do it faster since you're gonna do it anyway and the fifth one is Well once you discover the fear you're fucked you have to face it anyway, and when I say face it I mean fully face it, you know, like you're trying to like, you know hide, you know, maybe Maybe I can maybe make the fear a bit less scary Maybe I can you know, like if I meditate before I make the call I'd be less scared or maybe You know if I think about it, but but you know, it doesn't work Like it's like when you go on a plane for the first time and you're scared of airplanes, you know going on an airplane It's like no matter how much you read about how safe it is and shit You're always gonna be scared, you know when you get that, you know jumping nest in the plane You're always gonna get scared from air pocket. So You can't prepare for it, you know what I mean? Like you're gonna have to fully face the fear and no amount of preparation is gonna make it any less Painful, but on the other hand, it's not really painful because you know, it's really just What's painful is like you embracing for something dangerous when you find out nothing was actually dangerous anyway, so Again, these are the five mantras I'll say it one last time So number one, I've never read a call or an approach I've made number two The quality of my efforts or the results does not matter at all number three It's part of the gold part of the process, you know, if you're not gonna give up on the goal You might as well do it anyway Number four might as well do it faster and number five I Forgot, but I hope you liked it. I always refer to them whenever I'm scared Of doing something and they allow me to instantly do it I hope it helps you, you know, if you're like me like a perfectionist Big go procrastinator guy and then I believe it's the perfect fit for you Let me know how it helped you See you soon