 take your instructor with you on the journey instead of trusting him to catch you. Emin decides that his love is the standard not what God has to say and so he jumps into that relationship and instead of asking God he had no relationship with God. You don't see reference to God. You don't see praying. You don't see invoking a priest. You don't see any kind of seeking counsel and advice from the Lord. You see him just simply taking advice from his friend and jumping quickly into a relationship without God and that's exactly what many times we do not only we ignore God's word when we go into relationships and we suffer calamity but the second thing that a lot of young people and even people who are married that we do the mistake is that when we do not involve God in our relationship when we have God in the universe we have God in church we have God in our Wednesday service that we have God in our Sunday service we have God in our home group we have God everywhere it seems but not in our relationship we don't talk to him about our relationship we don't involve him in our relationship and our relationship doesn't revolve around him God is a spare tire we don't let religion get in between us I heard people say well that is a completely awesome thing you can go do it by yourself but at the same time sooner or later you must understand life is not that long and you're not and I are not that brilliant we need an instructor and his name is God and he wants to help us not choke us and he wants to be our advisor in life when we don't have God in our relationships three things will happen is you will expect the other person to be God you will always make the other person to be that which is God you will expect them to be perfect oh and they will be perfect first few months and then you find out the breath stinks and when they back up without makeup you didn't recognize the same person that you met on the day you recognize they have flaws they're not perfect and then your infatuation it begins to go down because you didn't fall in love with the date you fell in love with God you thought they were God and they're not it's like that you know ladies said you know I was his I was his goddess and then they said what happened now he said well he became atheist when you fall in love with the goddess my friend you will quickly become an atheist because she is not God he is not God but when you don't have a God you need to find one because you were created by a God to have a God you will quickly begin to make something into a God who cannot be God you will quickly find out that your date is gonna try to become your doctor your relationship will become a rehab and marriage will become the magic pill they will fix all the problems it will make the loneliness go away it will make the last go away it will make all of this pain and suffering I've experienced as a child it will heal all of that because now I am married and now I am in love no one can fix all of your problems if they could God will send his son to die on the cross he will send marriage to die on the cross for you he didn't marriage cannot fix anything that Jesus doesn't fix first if you don't have a relationship with God your relationships that you're gonna go into you will expect it to be a rehab you will try to suck literally things that only Jesus Christ can give you they are not the Messiah you say well his name is his name is Jesus his last name is not Christ his name is Juan not Jesus his name is not Jesus and he doesn't have nails yes he may have scars and tattoos but not nails went through his hands and through his feet and that's only one person and if you make him your God you have the privilege and the honor of going into a relationship looking at the person knowing they're not perfect knowing they will never love you always and perfectly because somebody else already does that and they don't have to do that but they can be there for you and they can love you and you can grow in that relationship because somebody say amen