 Hi, welcome back to Ono Awakening. This is Ono Christi, and I have a really special guest with me today. And we are going to talk about a topic that I think a lot of people don't think is particularly spiritual, but really it can be. And that topic is money and it does affect all of us. And coming into this time of ascension where the world is shifting. It really is important to think about money and to really start to change our attitudes about it for a lot of us, right? Because money is just energy, and as we all know, energy can flow in negative directions or can flow in super positive directions. So Brenda Bailey, it has a lot of kind of like money mojo, and let me just introduce her for you. Brenda is known as the shatterer of income ceilings, and so she does work with entrepreneurs, but today she's going to be talking about topics that are really applicable to everyone. So stick with us. She is a theta healing master and instructor who's owned and operated a seven figure business and has been an entrepreneur for 28 years. She's also a super nice person. She's blended her practical experience as a successful entrepreneur, along with the theta healing practices that allow people to have quick income transformations to create the Shatter Your Income Ceiling Program and her Shatter Your Income Ceiling Instructor Certification. Brenda's work in the world is to help you break down the barriers to help you heal and get into your true zone of genius to serve the people who need your gifts and make lots of money doing it. And like I said, she does work with entrepreneurs, but we're going to talk about topics and she can bring her magic in for everybody. So thank you so much for joining us. Absolutely. I'm not, I always say I work with anybody, but I seem to attract a lot of entrepreneurs, because that's who I am. Right. And I think one of my favorite sayings, Ona, to just start this off with is that money's not the most important thing, but it touches everything that is. Yeah, at least right now in this society. I mean, it doesn't matter. Whatever you do, money's going to touch what's important to you, right? You got to be able to put food on the table, have a roof over your head. Yeah. Like I live in Texas, so we kind of need to have a car because it's got lots of space. So we kind of need a car. We're kind of given. I mean, if like, if you're in New York City, cars not on the top of your list. But here in Texas, no matter what the size of the city, cars are pretty important to us here. Right. Yeah. So tell us before we launch into the whole topic of money and aligning with money right and aligning money with yourself and your own divine alignment. Before we get onto that topic, can you tell us a little bit about your journey here and what brought you to this place because you're really mixing this beautiful like balance between the healing work that you do and this whole very kind of left-brained money and entrepreneurship and that whole bit. What brought you here? So I've been looking and working on myself, well, we'll say probably for over 30 years, but really started doing it in a more holistic sense for 29 years. Okay. So I started looking at different modalities and the deal is that I have 13 different certifications and integrated healing. And it just comes by looking at myself. Traditional therapy and psychotherapy weren't changing things for me. So I knew I needed to go a different route. I just started looking and working on myself. And one of the things I learned very early in my career was that if I actually did really deep healing, which at that time I only knew the things that were really painful and hurt and took a long time, that it made a difference in the amount of money I made. Now it wasn't the reason that I was doing it, but I saw the correlation between it and thought there's something to this. And that's something I've noticed too. It's like, especially for me, it's like the last couple of years, as I've really had to deeply, deeply heal, I've had to really step back and kind of not do as much. And the money has keep rolling in. It's bizarre. Do you find that that's norm? Is that typical for? Yes. And that's why I chose the technique that I do, which is state of healing, because it was quicker, it was easier, it was less painful. Because I think a lot of people think that it has to be this big cathartic heavens parting and angels singing kind of thing in order for this difference to happen in their lives. And a lot of times what happens for people, well now, and now I work with really aware people, even though I know we don't want to, you know, I don't want to make entrepreneurs sound bad or anything, but it's like I'm just working with really aware entrepreneurs. I'm working with really aware people. And I have people that aren't entrepreneurs that still want to go through and go through my processes, because it makes such a difference and it was easy, and they can just feel it. And the deal is that when we release, whether it be, you know, trauma or emotions or whatever that is, our vibration raises. And when your vibration raises, you attract. I mean, if you truly want to be in the law of attraction, you have to raise your vibration. Right. And for those people, the only way that they know how to do it is be real heady with it, and really have to think about it all the time and be aware of it all the time. And we got lives, right, so it's really hard to be able to do that. And so 30 healing actually makes it a whole lot easier for people way easier. How is that a healing difference from the other modalities that you've used or worked with or had, you know, a lot of them work, you know, with the conscious or subconscious mind. And or energetically, they vibrate like Reiki, you use the, you people go into an alpha brain waves. Right. Right. So data healing is called data healing because we go into a theta brain way. We're in a beta brain wave right now, just so you know, so what happens is that it's beta, alpha, theta, and then gamma, and I go like this. But what that really means is, is that your brain wave actually slows down with all of those. Right. Okay. So, and honestly, like monks go to monasteries for years to meditate in order to be able to go into a theta brain wave because that's really considered where that energy of all that is. Right. And, and how that is. And so that's, this is the thing though, I'm going to let y'all know this right now, you go into a theta brain wave all the time. You don't have to be trained to do that. You just what, what we teach in theta healing and what theta healing is, is again about intention and awareness, like, okay, so this is how I intentionally go into a theta brain wave. And this is what all like do. And it truly allows you to be able to work whoever you believe to be your divine power, you're co creating again. Not a super religious person more of a spiritual person but even in the Bible and again I was raised Catholic so I don't know a whole lot about the Bible I'm going to be honest with you. But it's about, you know, finding God within yourself. Right. So, theta healing really allows you because again we get all of the crap out of the way, so that you, you can stop looking for it outside yourself, and you can really drop in to it within yourself. And when you can be in that space, which again, people take years traditionally to be able to do this, you could do it very quickly with theta healing. And that's what really allows you to raise your vibration. You can be able to create what it is that you want to create. But as human beings, you know, you can have a feeling and that's what I say about other. With theta healing we do muscle testing we use kinesiology to discover what the before is and the after is, because then that allows our brain to understand that a change has happened. Okay. So, you know, if you have mental energy healings, you just feel something. Right. But what does that correlate to? And so a lot of times people have, you know, a hard time saying that this made a difference for me. But with theta healing we look for specific beliefs that you hold at a cellular level. We look at specific trauma, specific non-forgiveness. We do a lot of other exercises through theta healing that muscle testing shows you that a change has happened. I call it a science experiment. You have a constant, which is your muscle testing, the yes and the no, and you have a before and an after. And that really helps. But for a lot of people as human beings, we've got to be able to quantitatively measure a difference for us. So whether that's time, weight, money, you know, whatever that is for you. Sure. That's really how our brain kind of wraps around like a change has happened. Right. Right. And tell me, I love this idea of being a co-creator. Right. And creating, because I think that's something that I think in spiritual circles, sometimes there's, there's, you go through a certain phase in your awakening where you're like, I'm just going to let the divine throw forth who me. Or I'm just going to follow, do what I'm told, do what God tells me to do or whatever it is. And what you said was really, really key is like, even with God within you, right? I'd love to hear you talk more about that. When we are in co-creation with God and when we're not looking for something because again, I'm not, but most religions teach us to pray to something outside of ourselves. Right. So there's a big separation. And again, divinely, we have God within us. So if there's a separation in this way, guess what? There's a separation in this way. Right. So when we can be in touch with the divine within us, within God, then we can, we can trust more, which is a big thing. Faith. And again, we're not talking about blind, you know, it's beautiful what Onus said, like I'm going to go with the flow. Because what that means is pretty much I'm going to put that in layman terms. I'm going to get out of my head and stop overthinking it. It's really what we're saying. I'm not putting that down at all. I mean, that's, that's super important. But I think there's a certain point where, where you can realize it's like, Oh, I'm not just a passive, you know, tool here. I have some, you know, it's almost like we're playing, right? And it's like, I can make some choices. There's, you know, there's the free will choice aspect of it that I think you get to a certain point. And that's where it starts to be like, whoa, that's where the miracle zone comes in, right? You know, it's just like when you think of somebody and then they call you, right? But you can do it in a bigger way. You can think, you know, what it is that you want. And that's what we always say, like once you learn the technique of theta healing, to be very aware of your thoughts and your words, because you're going to draw it into you. And people just have a habit, they don't realize it, that they're negative. I think that that was one of the biggest things that the secret did for us. You know, you're familiar with the secret by Rhonda Byrne that came out like, I don't know about a decade ago, is that, you know, people really talked about the law of attraction. But it was that people are pretty negative. And I think it made people aware of how negative they are. And that, you know what, guess what? That's blocking you, you calling in what it is that you want. But also what we hold at a cellular level, and that's where theta healing is different than other ones, we go beyond the conscious and the subconscious, and we make changes at a cellular level. So it affects your DNA. They work with the body too, which is really important, right? It also helps with the spiritual and the emotional and those are my favorite places. That's why I'm able to talk to people about money and for it to correlate and money, because it really has to do with the spiritual and the emotional. And so it cuts down that learning curve and the amount of work that you need to do in order to have what it is that you truly want in your life. But the biggest mistake that people have on is that they're not sure what they want. Yeah, they're not clear. They're not intentional. And so again, that makes it hard. Right opportunities to land in your, in your lab. Right. Exactly. Yeah. So, um, is that something you help people with them and get clear on what is that they really want. Yeah, okay. Absolutely. Now, initially I do like an intro session. I always say that I prayed, meditated, whatever you want to call it in the whole fact, because people would like show up. When I first started 14 years ago doing theta healing, people would just show up and they would have one thing they wanted to work on one thing. Yeah. And I'd be like, um, you know how we do anything is how we do everything. And it's going to be more than that one thing that we need to change. But you know, people and I, so I really thought about it and really prayed about it and asked God about it. That's who my divine power is. Please don't let that turn you off. Whoever you, whatever you believe to be your divine power, I'm fine with it. I even work with atheists. It's all good. Right. So I came up with a format of a session. That's 90 minutes that people can show up. And I knew that if we covered everything, you know, I could give them a list. If we covered everything on the list, they were good. I would never have to see them again. And that's really what I did for most of my career is just that intro session is people doing that intro session. Now, again, because I was divinely directed, right, I was in touch with my, you know, God within myself and that's where this came from and that's where this was created from. And what I didn't realize was that people would be like so blown away by it that they would do one of three things. They would either refer somebody. They would want to take a class because they'd want to learn the technique because I believe that everybody in the world should know theta healing, right? I mean, it helps with your family, with your business, with your job, with your life, with your relationship, you know, it's just amazing. It's just the best thing to be able to do. And then, you know, I just really felt like that. And, and, or they wanted to find out how, how else they could continue to work with me. And for years, I didn't have anything else for them to do. You know, I'd be like, this is it. You know, I mean, this is it, but I would have even like say, I'm a psychiatrist that just kept me on retainer. She worked with me every week, because I was part of her self care. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, because she was just like I just, she worked in the prison system and she was like, I just need to be able to have an option. She went to chiropractor acupuncturists and me every week. And, and, and that's, that's something I think that so many, almost every super successful person that I know has a healer that they work with and one that they feel comfortable with and that, you know, that they can and sometimes, and whether it's once a week or once a month or whatever it is, but, but yeah, she just had a really intense job, right. So she was like, I do, I need this. And what was really, and this was at the very beginning of my career, I was like, Okay, if you want to put me on retainer like I didn't that didn't even occur to me to offer something like that. And she was, she just said, you know, she would constantly say because she was a psychiatrist, she would say do you know how long this would have taken in traditional psychotherapy. Do you know how long, and then she would always say like, Where did you come up with that and I'd be like, Well, because she would just come and want to have worked and she really didn't have a huge agenda or, you know, which is why I also created that session, because I just wanted to be able to be more intentional for people so they could have more than what they thought could have healed and happen for them in a very short period of time. Yeah. So, so the healing and the money are so connected and as you're saying, emotionally, and spiritually, right, as well as financially. What do you feel like are like the most common blocks that you see especially in very spiritually where people around money that are holding them back. The healing works on four different levels, which is what makes it so great and why it's permanent and what it does and it's like, we inherit beliefs, traumas, you know, non forgiveness, we bring them in from past lives. I don't get to talk to that like on mainstream but I can talk about it here right. So we bring in from past lives and it, and it affects like the group consciousness that we bring in around us. We bring in our soul and then what we create like during our lives after we're born or, you know, from inception on the big thing is in the world according to Brenda that it's all about past lives. Then it's like the family that we attract the, you know, so it's like we may have from a past life. You may have been a very religious person or a healer in a past life, and a very common belief is I have to be poor to be closer to God. Right, so they would give away, you know, we know this right, we, you know, give all the worldly belongings away, right, so that they could live a very simple life in order to be able to get to heaven, right, in order to be able to. So I always say, we have this belief that we've typically either inherited or that we brought in for a past life that we've create hell on earth, so that we can eventually go to heaven. So it's a lot of struggle, people have to struggle so that they have a closer relationship with God to build their faith, we have to be poor, so we can, you know, and of course, struggle with money, so that we can be closer to God, those are past life beliefs. Maybe. And these are very common beliefs like it's not like, and this is the thing, I will have a very mainstream person, and I'm still going to cover this belief with them. Yeah, and they may, you know, like I had this guy who was like a big commercial real estate developer here in San Antonio, and he would say to me, Bruno, I don't know what the hell you do, but it works. Right, like deals are going through financing is getting approved. And the only thing I'm doing differently is working with you. He didn't know when he met me at a networking event that this was what I did but it sounded good, you know, because I talked to him about preventing people from having, you know, from living the definition of insanity, which is repeating the same behavior and expecting a different outcome. It's those things that we've inherited or that we've brought in from our past lives, they keep us there. And then what ends up happening is that we have non forgiveness for ourselves because we're not stupid right in fact it's harder for an intelligent person to go, you know, I can't, I'm just I'm doing this and I don't know why I'm doing it. It's because of those types of beliefs that we have on a cellular level that we're not even aware of, right that we're not aware of, because it's not your job to be aware of them you can again you're just doing the but again use 11% of our brain, using the best that we can to figure it out and and that little small percentage that we use. And you know when we think also a lot of times to trauma. And again, trauma is relative. So it can be, you know, something violent or an active war or car accident. It could be your mom being five minutes late picking you up from preschool one day, it does not matter. So trauma is we hold that cellular Lee. And I got to tell you that's like a, you know, like no, I don't want happiness I don't want money I don't want anything. I don't deserve it right so that really affects it and even trauma that your family have injured. And maybe, I think, you know I know we're talking about many but I think it's easier for people to wrap around like addiction runs typically in people's families or a physical deal like diabetes. So you'll typically hear people say oh well diabetes runs at my family or, you know addiction runs at my family. No, it's the beliefs and traumas and non forgiveness that run in your family. I was reading an experiment what they did with, I think it was mice or something and it was like, it was seven generations. And they tracked it because it was like, whatever it was, I can remember what animal was but it was like it had a fear of something was a smell of something and associated with. Seven generations before that was bred out of the line. And that's, I think it was a sense that they gave to a rat, and then. I'm not condoning this kind of experiment but it was like they gave the rats a scent of lavender or something and then shocked it. Seven generations before the offspring stopped reacting to that scent of lavender with fear. And so it's like we don't know what I mean, I don't even know who my ancestors were seven generations back, and what they might have been exposed to that. A lot of us, you know, like, again, we're all like on ancestry.com and you know, looking into our genetics, but that tells you a lot as well. And there's a class in theta healing like there are basic classes prerequisite classes and then their upper level classes. One of my favorite is called world relations, because it deals with all the cultures and religions. And literally when I took that class, you know, like, again, muscle testing, the ones that I what were, you know, had a prejudice against were cultures and religions that I had to Google, like I had never even heard of them. Interesting, like I had no idea. But again, that's going to affect who we are. Right. And culturally, religiously, there are some depending on how you were raised, that's going to come into and how you deal with money. We either do exactly what our parents did, or we do the exact opposite. And it just really, you know, but it doesn't matter if you do the exact opposite, you're still affected by how it was right. There's something that you could maybe do a little healing for the audience here. Absolutely. Awesome. Absolutely. So what I, there are two things that I really love about theta healing one it's very complimentary so it works with any other modalities out there, but it's also very complimentary and whatever you do for a living. Like, I always tell people because again I always look at it like tell me what you do for a living and I'll tell you how to utilize it. I always do. Even if it's just a job right I mean and not just a job. But if it's your, if you have a, if you, if you're not an entrepreneur I can tell you that but the big thing is is also, this is the thing one of the biggest. I think motivators for people to change. It's because they don't want seven generations from now, somebody dealing with what they were doing with it. And one generation from now, because if you do it, you're, it changes for your children as well. It will, especially if they're still at home, they're going to be affected by that. So you're not only doing work for yourself you're doing work for your family. Right and down the line and also I believe immediately because each of us is vibrating at a certain level and we affect everything around us so even if you're sitting in a room by yourself you're still vibrating. And that vibration is heading out there right so absolutely hard to heal or so. And we know right now, let's face it. It. It was funny because I follow one gal who I've been following for like 2025 years. Her name is Patricia Kota Robles, and she's way out there. Again, if that's somebody that you want to talk to like his way out there and talks about way out there stuff it's Patricia. And like to look at her she looks like I don't want to say she looks like your grandma but you can tell she like gets her hair done like on a weekly basis type thing you know goes the beauty salon gets it done type deal. And she's very conservative looking but she says these really profound things and I mean, I've been following her since like getting a snail mail newsletter from her in the mail you know like before any of this like we could have easy access like you do to do this. And you know she said she was actually I just watched a blog, right so she's vlogging now. And on her saying that, you know, everybody keeps saying something really big is happening. And it is on so many levels. So we can look at coven as being the absolute worst thing. But I feel like what's happened for a lot of people in the quarantine is they're having to look at themselves. What do we what do we want to be different people have had to really slow down. I know I'm thinking for like, own on myself that hasn't really happened I know like the floodgates open for me and I'm in crazy busy. I was actually going to take a step back do some rebranding do some things differently hire a team all of this and I've been having to do it like as I'm like, you know getting other things done and that again, I'm not complaining because I felt very blessed. Well, it's because what I and what I'm seeing here is that I'm seeing this true for a lot of healers right now because you know those who are kind of internally ready, because this is, I mean this is the time when the floodgates are opening for a lot of you know, a lot of ways right. And I was I was I was attending a virtual networking event. Yeah, that was with holistic people. I was like, why does this started and all of them were complaining, and they were very negative. And I just, you know, I get my mouth shut and then it that you know like, we all got to like speak and I said, I'm going to tell you right now, like, money is there like quarantine the quarantine did not stop money from coming. There are some people who are losing their jobs and believe me I pray for the people who have and I was glad that there was a stimulus check I you know this was before we knew something like that would happen. I was glad that there was able to be and that there were, you know, the government was able to get people more money up until like June or something like that and you know it's, it was that those types of things that I was and I said to them. If you're, if the glass is half empty, it is and if it's half full it is, and people right now. I just told them you got to you got to get over yourself, because people need you right now. And you just need to figure out how you can meet them where they need you. That's what everybody's having to do, but especially for people. And people are being more open, right like, help me what way can you help me will this make a difference, or so and so you know people come like I was like so and so told me about you, you know, two years ago but all of a sudden they have the time, and they have the inclination because they're being, because right now we're getting a huge tap on our shoulders, like do something or change, be ready. We're seeing our monetary system change like here in the US I, you know I'll just speak for the US, you know, we went to a gold base system again. We haven't been in a gold base system in decades. There are a lot of things that are changing that I just kind of go well isn't that interesting. And it's, again, these are really heady things and they're very, you know, like grounding and very, you know, vibration it feels like, but they correlate with vibrationally what we're doing and where we want to be. And I say like right now like I can help people being stopped being so empathetic. Wow, that doesn't mean that you're cold heartless and, and, you know, not compassionate right, what it means is is that you're not as affected by the, you know, group consciousness energy a fear that's out there a lot around right that you're able to have some command over your empathy right with that be something that you can do real quick right now. Because we can also you know the thing is is that we want to be able to maintain our vibration. Right. And again things will happen but what they do healing what it does is it allows us to bounce back quicker, or the bounce back even feel like it didn't even happen. Yeah. So you know we can do that. Right. And, you know, it doesn't mean that you're, you're reducing your ability to tune in it's just that you can choose when you want to choose to you can increase. So you're tuning right about us like we have some foremost it's about us selfish as that may sound or wherever it is. And if your empathetic you know because people always say this all the time and I'm like well you know you. You have you have control over that I mean like it's not like I'm at the mercy of my empathy. That's the deal. We don't want you to be at the mercy of it. What allows me to be do as well as I do and work as well as I do with my clients is I'm very empathetic, but I always say I'm an empath with boundaries. Right, exactly it's the boundaries. So, yes, we love love love love. Okay, so I always make sure that and I and that was that was I know we got off on a tangent. We want you need to say yes out loud. For any work like I'm going to say we're going to change this. Would you like to change this. You need to say yes out loud now you don't have to scream it from the top of the mountain tops. You just need to say it, though, it can't just be a not. It needs to be a, you need to say it. And the reason is is because one, your brain needs to hear yes you want it. Two, your divine power needs to hear yes you want it and the universe needs to hear you say yes. So that's the big disclaimer there that you need to do it so I always make sure whenever I work with a new client or student that they have three basic beliefs in place. I want an instant healing. I deserve an instant healing and an instant healing it's possible because what I do works very quickly. If you do not believe that you want to server that it's possible to have an instant healing, then guess what it's going to make it really hard for my work to be very be everything that it can for you, but also to if you can think about it, our body is set up to heal itself. Yes, he just want these beliefs so that you can be able to you know if we want to look at it from another perspective, we can do instant healing. Our body is designed that way. We've seen it happen over and over and then we get these stories or we get these things that. So we want to be able to have a massage a chiropractic adjustment and for it to stick. You know, you know, and allow our bodies to do what it needs to do instead of it going back. Right. So we went ahead in the direction of healing. So if you would like those I want an instant healing I deserve an instant healing and an instant healing as possible. I want you to own a qs right just say yes out loud. Yes. I say yes yes yes right. Okay everybody all together 123 yes. And I always forget to say this. And I need to change that right need to remember to say this and what I want not what I don't want. I need to remember to say this. If you're watching the replay. I need to say yes out loud and you'll get the work. So as much as I would love people to be watching us live and for us to have this huge audience and watching us live, whoever catches this replay. You get the work when you say yes out loud. Yes. So, we want to change we're looking at many. And again, this is like a pebble going into a pond and it just reverberates out. And we may look at it from one perspective, but I'm going to tell you, it's going to change on a lot of different ways. So, one, it's going to change those four levels of what we've inherited what we've brought in for past lives what we have in our soul, what we've had created in this slide, but also, we're going to go to the original event that caused it to happen because I know that there's a trauma. There's trauma. We're traumatized folk here right we're traumatized human beings and whatever was happened that we inherited past life in this life that caused that to happen for it to be true for us. That's where we're going as well which is what makes it permanent and quick. Not every theta healer does that. This is how I do it because I want it to be the most effective. So, we're going to look at here a couple of beliefs. So normally if it was one on one or we were in a group I would have you muscle tests we would do the before and after, but we're just doing like a calm to group session where you could you're free to muscle test the before and then stop the recording and and test it or you can just say yes and have it and great. So we want to one forgive ourselves for what we've done around money. How we've handled it. How we felt about it. A lot of people look at money and they feel negatively we want to be again in that spiritual flow of honoring it it's just energy. So we also want to forgive ourselves for dishonoring our energy. We want to forgive ourselves for separating ourselves from what happens here on the physical realm. And we want to forgive ourselves for being in that illusion that we are a victim of what happens. So if you would like those, just say yes out loud. I'll say yes to all. We also want to change what prevents us from being in that flow of money of prosperity of abundance right something happened, we want to change that we have to be poor to be closer to God, that we have to earn money at the expense of ourselves. That we have to work harder, not smarter, because that's going to affect your money flow. Let's go ahead and do those and I think there's probably maybe one or two more after that. So normally you would muscle test those beliefs right first. And can you do can you give the audience a quick way that they can self muscle test. So you want to put your fingers together. And you can just run your finger through it so like I want to hold it tight enough to where I can't go through it. You want to close your eyes make the statement and look up. So you want to say, you know, say yes, say no. And you need to push your finger far enough. You want to make sure like that you're like going like this right so if it doesn't open it won't and if it will it will. Okay, you know what I'm saying. So like we're pushing it so like I'm saying yes and I can't. Okay, and I'm saying no and I'm pushing it and it goes through right. So if I test it I can say my name is Ona. Yes, my name is Jake. Okay. Perfect. And we always want to do like a few little like things like name or whether it's sunny outside it's, you know, overcast outside to, because people have issues with yes and no as well so we just want to make sure that we have a few like a few like no attachment to it I'm, you know, I'm a female I'm a male, you know, that that's something that you relate to. Right. So, you know, those are types of things that you could do so great example and, or you can stand. Right a lot of people do the standing and standing is just getting you know standing up straight. Again, you want to clear your mind what ends up happening is you want to muscle test immediately after making the statement, because again what our brain does is it starts going, when does this happen in my life I wonder if this is true for me I wonder you know like a million things start happening right. So you muscle test as quick as you can, because the deal is with data healing. It doesn't matter what the answer is if it's something that you don't want. But we can change it immediately. That's so it's so painful for people. And a lot of times that people don't go deep within you know to find out things is because it's painful. And then there's no way to change it or it's a long arduous road to change it. And that's not the case here. Right. So we did mention some right that we need to just have you say did we say yes to those owner you got to keep. Yeah, we're talking about also testing so which one can you repeat those. Again, those were trying to work. The idea that you have to work hard to make money. So, you know, and again you can also even say I'm obligated, because an obligation means that there's no choice. Right. Right. When we take an obligation out and usually that's like a path live thing. It means like no choice. So I'm obligated to work, you know, harder or not smarter. I'm obligated, you know, to have no, you know, to be poor to be closer to God. Right. I'm obligated to make money at the expense of myself. Right. Because again, um, whether or not it's an obligation, it'll still test for the obligation because you have that belief. But if you say just the belief without the obligation, it won't change the obligation. Okay, right. Does that mean I was, yeah, okay. So can we change those. Yes. And then let's see. Um, it was funny, I was, I do a weekly co-live and my guest that I had yesterday, I don't think that this is like, but I do like what's called the Theta Healing Power Hour. So, you know, I interview people like mainstream and then we do some Theta Healing work around like the challenges that their clients are that would have. And so it was so funny, because this is like a really like chatty talkative woman, and she would just be like, I would do it and I'd be like, and if you'd like those just say yes. And she'd be like, like, after the second one, like she was just like, maybe like, okay, you got a QM though, it should be like, I'm fascinated with what's going on here. Because I'm guessing she could feel it on some level and was going, how is that possible? You know, and so we were like laughing and I was like, okay, you got a QM, you know. So let's, let's, let's change what obligates our brains to be in a poverty loop. Okay. And because again, we have to think differently, not that that's where it comes from again, when we change on a cellular level it does that, but if we have a loop in there. It's going to be a little bit harder for it to, to, to, you know, be our brain to be there. And not that that's the captain of the ship but it's pretty close it's the first mate right so. Um, okay. And then let's change money is the root of all evil. Okay, so if you would like those just say yes out loud. Yes. So those are good places to start. Those are very good places to start. Thank you so, so much. And I, I'm just going to encourage everybody who has watched this. If you didn't quite get like the muscle testing and the whole thing just watch it again and just watch this part. I'll put time stamps below so you can see where to, you know, where you can start the healing portion and just start watching for changes in your life rates as, as the weeks, these weeks and months go on. Because these beliefs, you know, if they're ingrained it creates subtle changes in behavior that would make changes in your life. And this is the thing that I always tell people because you get a change on a cellular level. It's as if it's always been. So we don't notice it. We get to enjoy it. That's the cool thing. And then somebody will say something to you like, did you change your skincare because you're looking so much younger or, oh my gosh, like you are like, I would have upset you before in the past and then all of a sudden you're like, wait a minute that would have upset me. You know, all of a sudden we're like, Oh yeah. Oh yeah. Or they'd be, you know, because I will say this, for years I've gone like to networking meetings and I will have a woman who will want to meet with me want to chat with me. And inevitably she wants to chat with me because she wants her husband to come have a session with me. Yeah, about them. It's always about their husband. And I always say, you know, the world is our mirror. And if you want your husband to be different, you need to be different. So why don't you come have a session with me. And then inevitably they will and pretty soon their husband comes as well because their husband's like, I don't know what this gal did but like my wife she's different and it's easier now. So yeah, I want some of that too. It happens all the time. So you may not be aware of it. And, you know, another thing that I want to say on is that it's such an easy technique to learn. And I really encourage people for the first time in the 20 years that theta healing has been around, we're allowed to teach virtually. And that's like, I've never, ever, ever, ever been able to teach theta healing virtually. And so we can right now because of the pandemic. That's great. And, you know, so I have a class like in at the beginning, like in about a month at the beginning of November I'd have to like what they just changed dates, but I have the class. I'll post a link to that. I'll post a link to your to your website and where where can people find you that if they want to, you know what I would say just I have a scheduling link that will allow people to chat with me so if you want to talk about taking the class or theta healing or what is own alike, I'm happy to answer any of those questions. And it's chat with Brenda be calm. Because I feel like that for most people like if you get that intuitive hit like I want to, you know, take it, then you know, I'm on Facebook, LinkedIn, Brenda be Bailey. You know, right now we're still working on my Instagram, just message me, and we'll get you the link and everything else all of that's getting set up because I've changed. Okay. Yeah, so happy to or I can always give it to you and she can add it here later. But, you know, but I, again, if you want to have a session with me I'd love to have a session with you. I would more because honestly, the certification classes for theta healing, they're not set by me they're set by the Institute. It's one of the least expensive things that you'll get certified in. It's really inexpensive and it's three days and you know there are other prerequisite courses and then you get to take really cool ones like manifesting an abundance and world relations and intuitive anatomy, but the prerequisites have to be done. And the advanced class actually just changes a bunch of stuff for you, like tons of beliefs and trauma. So it's less work because again the clear the healer, the clear the healing. So you want to be more profound in any work that you do as a healer. Yeah, learn theta healing, you don't have to become, you know, you don't have to be a theta healer, right, it's going to help you in whatever you do. Yeah, I did healing on myself for years before I even thought about, you know, doing it for anybody else and so whether or if you ever want to, you know, put out your shingles as a healer, this kind of work is definitely worthwhile. So Brenda, thank you so, so very much for being on here today for your beautiful healing work and it's been a pleasure and I really, really look forward to, you know, just keeping in touch. Yeah, as I say, please contact me. I know that on is also going to put a link for a one minute meditation because it doesn't take long that'll put you into a theta brainwave and allow you. Again, it has to do with intention. You want to draw money to you let that be your intention. You want it to be like a relationship or health or spirituality whatever you want that to be you can just make that your intention and still use the meditation. And I always tell people it's one minute do it in the a.m. and p.m. and do it for 30 days. It's going to help support the work that you've had here. Awesome. Thank you so much. Absolutely. All right, well, thank you. Thank you. Well, thank you. Thank you and I want to thank everybody who's watching. Love you dearly and thanks so much for joining us. We'll catch you again soon.