 people that deal in the shoulds and the aughts and the musts avoid those voices this year because if you want to align with who you want to be you have to silence those voices in your life and some of these voices are so close to you and they're people that you love and who love you and that's where it gets confusing because you think how would people who love me be so bad for me but they are because they need to have it said to them too you also need to find the life that you want because the people telling you this is who you should be don't know who they are or they often wouldn't be saying that to you either so for the life you want this year you have to be willing to step away from uncouple from consciously detached from people voices energies that are keeping you locked in a version of you that you know is just not working