 How does the narcissist feel your recovery? When you first start to heal From everything you went through with them they may notice They may sense it They may see that You go into the gym more often you spend more time alone Focusing on things that are healthier for you Maybe you're doing yoga Maybe you're eating healthier foods You're primarily focused on your healing and at first They may just see it as a joke They may not take it seriously They may think that it's just a phase And before long You will move on and forget about it And then you will come running back to them and They will be waiting there for you They will hoover you They will love bomb you again, they will pull you back in To everything that you worked so hard to get away from Yeah, initially that's how they view your recovery They just see it as a joke They don't really think you're getting better They don't really believe that you're moving on They don't even believe that healing is possible for you They really don't Because they know it's not possible for them They've always been the same So they expect it to be the same for you of course as time goes by The more that you begin to heal The more that they begin to notice The more that it begins to have an effect on them And it may not be so much that they actually believe that you are healing As it is that they begin to see What you're doing as a threat to their power and control over you They see it as though you're slipping away They see it as though their pet is escaping and then they decide to pull you back in That's when the Hoover comes And they feel like you're getting better You're feeling better about yourself And you're starting to forget about them They're no longer important to you Because you've got bigger and better things going on in your life And to worry about them and what they did to you Than to worry about closure or looking for answers from them You've got bigger and better things going on in your life Than to worry about that anymore But they will pop up again out of nowhere to try and get your attention To pull you back in And it's because they know they're not important to you anymore So yeah that's really how they view your recovery After you've been healing for some time They will just begin to see it as a threat to their control As a distraction As something that's pulling you away from them Which naturally is going to be something that they don't like They don't like anything that pulls you away from them They don't like anything that takes away your attention Anything that they see as a threat to their control over you Because remember that's all they really want is power and control They don't care about you They never did They just wanted to have power and control over you But yeah initially they may just see it as a joke I mean they don't really believe that you're going to heal and move on from them They're so arrogant and audacious that they believe You are always going to be theirs They see you as an extension of them They see you as an object that exists to serve them As something that belongs to them As their property And yeah when they really see that you're healing and moving on and forgetting about them Of course they're going to begin to see that as a threat to their control Once they start to see that you're slipping away It's like they see it as though their pet is escaping And obviously they don't want that They want you to always be there for them, whatever they need you They want you to always be thinking about them I'm sure many of you have noticed that It's like as soon as you start, you stop thinking about them And you start thinking about other things You have other things that are more important to you And here comes the narcissist Straight away sliding in your DMs Hit you up on the phone It's like you can't get away from them But then when they know that you're constantly thinking about them You're worrying about them You're looking for answers, you're seeking closure Oh then they know where to be found Then they want nothing to do with you Because they know that you're hanging on to them It's funny how it is but Yeah that's just how it goes with these narcissists When you're finally trying to get rid of them Then they just can't leave you alone They come after you They track you down They try to pull you back in But honestly once you get to a certain point in your healing You're going to say no more You're not going to want to deal with that shit anymore Because you're going to know that you deserve better You were born for better things Than that Honestly the more that you hear The more that you will realize that The more that you will know it So yeah If you are on your healing journey right now This is my message My advice My guidance to you To tell you to keep on Moving on Just keep healing Keep doing whatever it is That makes you feel good That makes you forget about the narcissist As long as it's nothing that's damaging to your health Any addictions You don't want to be doing anything like that It's just going to push you back But anything else just keep on doing it Make the most of it Before they try to come back again Bring you back down Like before Just got to shut that door and keep them out Because they will try to come back Especially when they see that you're trying to move on They don't like that But yeah just forget about them Don't let them distract you From Who you're meant to be And what you're supposed to do in this life I hope that this message inspires you today Thank you all for joining me on this live video And please give it a thumbs up down below I will talk to you in another one very soon