 What's up guys and welcome to yet another episode of bars with stars right here on SPM bars. My name is Miss Kithingy and when you see me here you know I'm hanging out with a star. Today it's the one and only one zero zero. Hi girl. Hi. So nice to finally meet you. Nice to meet you. So it's a pleasure to finally see you. You do? That's really good to hear. You look beautiful. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Where did you get this? Did you make it? Yes. It's from my clothing line. Yes. How is that going on by the way? It's a day at a time. It's been a learning journey for me. So I'm just learning on the go as it goes. Yeah. I mean I know you guys are just about to go on stage guys. In case you're not aware, Ben, Psycho and one zero zero have their live podcast today. It's the first one ever. So I don't know how you're feeling. You're going on stage in front of an audience. I'm nervous. I hear the hall is packed. So I'm just like, oh, I just hope I don't fall on my way. Yeah. That's the only thing I'm scared of. If I make it to the top, I'll be fine. Yes. Yeah. I mean I think you will. What have you done different, you know, just to, you know, prepare yourself for this day? I think a lot of introspection, how we got here and so just practicing like a lot of gratitude because it's not every day that you can put out a podcast for two months only. And then you have people are willing to give you their hard earned money to come and see you live. So I think just that kind of feeling of gratitude. Yeah. How was that response? Because I feel like it was overwhelming where you guys expecting it. I know you guys didn't because even had to change the venue. Yeah. How was it? I was okay with 50 guys. I was like, you know, let's just play it safe. You know, we can find 50 people amongst our family members to come. Yeah. But to see how people have just come out in numbers to support us, it just feels really, you have like a sense of gratitude and you want to, and I hope they'll feel what they'll get the vibes that we want them to get. Yeah. Did you know, like, you know, just put, put in some sort of pressure because now guys are many. So the expectations are high as well. The stakes are high. I think it did. But also I think it's been encouraging to know or to keep telling myself and by extension Ben that people just want the same conversations that we have in our living room only now that they're there with us. So it's like we've invited all of them in our house and they're just sitting there. So I hope we'll have a part where we can interact with them as well where we'll be able to hear their thoughts because you just don't want to voice, voice, voice. You also want to hear what other people think. Yeah. Thanks. Now, Wajiro, I love the setup. I don't know who came up with that idea because I didn't. It was all me. It was all me. It was all me. It was all me. I fought for those sets. And special shout out to styling events that did the whole setup. So we are so excited. I hope people have utilized the sets. They're taking pictures. That's what we wanted. Yeah. And I hear upstairs it looks really, really good. Yeah. So we're excited for that. You guys are missing out. But it's not our idea. It was our idea. This way. You guys are going to put it up on YouTube. We are looking for, we are going to put it. We are not sure if it's going to be YouTube, but we are just working something out. Yeah. Yeah. I'm sure it's going to be somewhere you're going to give something kiddo go for you to watch because I mean, what I said the colony. Yeah. Now, Wajiro, let's talk marriage. Okay. How long has it been now? Would I look bad if I can't remember the exam? It's been six, six months. You know, Ben is here and he's like, and he gets because I'm doing this interview first so he can't even count. So November, December, January, February, March, six months. Yeah. But I mean, you know, it means that you're enjoying it so much. You can't, you're not even counting, you know. I'm over a yearly person. So I'll know November that's right now. Yeah. Yeah. Now, you know, I saw one of your podcasts that you said, you know, when you're working, you are, you wanted to start walking down the aisle like there are guys on the aisle and you had to call your dad and you're like, you know, what are they doing there? It was like on the altar and I was like, I'm missing my shot. So it was like they need to move and I'm not leaving until they move. Yeah. How was it like during that moment? I think it was more like you guys are not ruining my shot. And I know it sounds so vain, but like I had really wanted, the wedding was by a water body and it was very intentional for me to have it by a water body. So like nobody was going to miss that shot. I mean, it's nothing deep. Nothing. My picture was going to be right. Yeah. I mean, I think for every woman, that would be very important for sure. I don't think it's lame. Honestly, it's not. I would do the same. It will be in all my shots. It has to be. It's your day. Now, you know, also, I would like to know, what is that one thing you know you had to compromise? I know you guys are dated for long, so I'm not sure if you guys had lived together. What is that one thing you had to compromise? I think it's going to sound very, very trivial, but it's not from a piece of mind. Ben really likes to listen to things like with 100, volumicure 100. I like it at 15, at 10. So I think a lot of our artists are in the car at home. So everything is always at 100. So I'm about to go for a year checkup. Yeah. So that's the one thing I had to. You had to compromise. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Now, what is that one thing that Ben has really brought the biggest contribution in your life right now? I think it's perspective. Ben and I see life very differently. I approach life from a very, I'm trying not to. It's a work in progress. I approach life from a very anxious place. So you feel like everything just, Ben is more relaxed. So I think the gift of perspective, like things can also be chill and relaxed and easy. Yeah. And when did you know like now this one, this one is the one, me I'm ready. I don't know if it was the one, but I think it's a choice I made. I consciously made that. This is a guy that I want to spend the foreseeable future in my life with. So yeah. Did you have like aspects of like, you know, watch a tunic to happen. These are some of the things, you know, I feel I'm just okay with. I think there weren't more to, there weren't a lot to do with Ben, but more on an internal perspective. So you feel like you're comfortable, but you know, you're not comfortable with the way things are. We don't really need to shake the system too much with something like marriage. So I think it was a lot of internal nothing to do with him. Yeah. Okay. Now I'm sure this is something I can talk to you about. Not sure if I'm going to talk to Ben about it, but you know, let's talk about, you know, joy, Ben's sister. Now when she passed on, you know, you were there the entire time. And you know, you're the lady here, but you have to be there for him. I think it was a difficult moment, but sometimes you pick and choose. It was time to put myself aside and almost like just sort of like completely engulf him in empathy, compassion, and love and all those things. So I think I just literally just put myself, put myself aside. Yeah. Yeah. Social media, I mean you're there, you know, we have your life there. I mean, what you want to show us, does it ever, you know, give you pressure to act a certain way, to do things a certain way? Does it ever come, you know, just happen like that? I think it used to, but not anymore. I think now I'm at a place of relaxation, I've eased into it. It's also, it's, I wonder what time does, because when you've been doing something for a long time, you know how to navigate it, you're able to deal with emotions better. So yeah, it used to, but not anymore. Yeah. Well, okay. Now, YouTube, you guys are booming, like me, I don't know what you guys give people there, but I mean, studying up a YouTube channel right from the scratch, and now you guys have more than 20K subscribers. Yeah. How was, what do you guys think did, different? Do you have like, no strategies or? I don't think, I think it's a good thing, first of all, because I don't think YouTube is a difficult climb, especially if you don't have quick content that's very catchy or sticky. Yeah. It's very, it's a mountain to climb, but I think it's a good thing. Also, we have an incredible team behind us. So people who are dedicated to the joyride, it's not just us. I think I just like to call us like we are there. So we're just the people who show up, but there are people who do a lot of the hard work behind the scenes. And I think they've contributed a great deal. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So it's the people behind. Yeah. It's not just you guys waking up and, you know, getting a camera on. Like the small, like the people who need to shoot, edit and all those things. That was just like, yeah. So there's that team behind that. Yeah. That's good, guys. You guys are mesquite. If you have the monies to do this, get the people to do things for you and then you can do what's your best art. Yeah. Are we expecting, you know, more content on your own YouTube channel other than joyride? Yes. I'm working on that. I'm trying to foresee because even I have evolved as a person. So maybe I'm trying to see what that evolving means for my YouTube channel as well. Yeah. So I'm in the process of finding out. Yeah. Are we getting a snippet of, you know, what we expect today parallel on stage? And do you all just think as if people are to buy a link? They know. Let me tell you, I have no idea what to expect because the truth is we don't see the questions beforehand. Oh, yeah. I don't know. I'll be hearing the questions for the first time. I have no idea. I've tried to bribe everyone I can to get the twist. I get the twist. It's going to be, I'm nervous about that. Yeah. But I'm sure you guys are going to kill it. I mean, you guys are natural. Yeah. So go there and, you know, do the thing. Yeah. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. I thank Tana Wanjiro for talking to us. We wish you all the very best. And for those who are not going to watch this, we hope we are getting a link soon so that we can watch it. We hope so too. We are planning something around that. Yeah. Tana Wanjiro right here on SPM Buzz, Buzz with Stars. My name is Ms. Kithingi. Until next time, thank you for watching.