 one night Los Angeles while drinking and having fun he took out his hand like hey dude let's race to the first million dollar race for a million dollar that's an aggressive race you know but you know what just because I didn't like the guy I really took on the race you know seriously five years after we had the handshake I think I was 28 like now I have more than a million dollar in my bank I think I want to call that guy and then actually he came I picked him up with the Range Rover you know nice I was asking him so what are you doing now man you know you get that million dollar yet set now and then it made me feel good oh this is what it feels like they're feeding you know people that you hate so I just kept on going you know and I had I had houses I had properties you know a few apartments counted I had like 15 cars or something you know six seven Harley's at the time and just toys in my garage and then I could buy anything I want and then I had everything that everybody else wanted and I feel like I'm on top of my world but how come there is such a big big fear how do I not become afraid and because the fear is just not pleasant is this really going to last forever and then I had I had accumulated much to the point where all I thought was just myself remember one person had to die because of my greed the whole family suffered an old man owe me money you know then he gave me a check check is good for next week following week I took it to the bank and bounced okay promise you promise you next week promise okay to see him the next week still didn't have money so he lied to be three times and then I was ego talking and it was not about money anymore you know couldn't care less about money but you know just don't do that to me brought my bouncer with me you know my hitman destroyed his office and then smashing things the guy was so scared he was smoking a little cigarette he was so old fragile old and gray and bent and shaking there I was you know I was still young you know tough and I was so happy you know just his office was destroyed you know tables split in two and chairs I went home next day I found out he died heart attack all for five thousand dollars whatever become a little bit me I just made a promise that the rest of my life I just choose to do good things for other Indonesia has already a developing country and then my village where I live probably one of the underdeveloped villages I'm not saying you have to sell your houses your cars and everything well that's what I did but I'm not I'm not imposing the values to other people that's what I needed to do what I'm saying is a maybe there's somebody that needs to build whatever you know the houses or irrigation system or something or anything there's a need you know in their village you go out you be the answer to the need I think the true happiness is when you start to empty yourself a little bit more and more and more the next day giving it's actually the key to happiness we bring different values to young people that maybe they're really becoming addicted with selfishness you go ask young people say what do you want to do in life man I want to be a doctor and be lawyer why to make a lot of money I said I tell my children you know there's time there's money you become doctors when you graduate you become anything you go out to the villages go help serve people who cannot repay you at all and give me such satisfaction now we have a clinic down there you know the whole village you know we fix their teeth we clean them up and you know that and then they they come back oh I've been suffering for years I have no money to go to doctors and everything now thank God you know I have you you know they they're happy because of your presence because of your service that you do because I'm not that smart yeah we have to learn many things yes we teach the young people to be successful and everything but before they become successful financially I think it's good for them to have a good foundation of morale which is actually not about self it's about giving to other people empowering being beneficial to other people your better your presence need to benefit other people that's how you're gonna create the balance society it's actually contagious when you go inspire somebody else they become inspired they want to do something else why is it really important well because there's so much suffering in this world because everybody serves themselves selflessness is really the key the fear it's not there anymore yeah there's really nothing to be afraid of ten years ago beyond happiness can only be defined by the feeling of having something that nobody else has that was my happiness winning the race in life it's it's completely opposite it's towards fulfilling somebody else's dream the togetherness and doing something different you know for other people really is what gonna unite your family even more live a simpler life