 at 20. My parents was against it and my grandparents. I am now 31 and I'm getting ready to go through a divorce. What's the disagreement though? Well they said that we was too young and I went to college. I got a degree. I just feel like I didn't have much experience. I was in love with my husband when we got married but now I don't like them. What's the disagreement though? The disagreement, um we just, I think we just grew apart. Okay, so okay I don't understand the point I make that you disagreed with. Oh that you know all the 8s and 9s and 10s are married at an early age. Okay I didn't okay nothing is absolute ladies we got to stop this. Nothing is absolute. These are generalizations. That's true. But are you saying you're an 8, 9 or 10? I would consider myself a 10. I was a track star leader of the volleyball so you can kind of say I was the 8 girl in school. Where's your picture? What? Where's your picture? Oh I didn't want to show my picture. Okay I find it okay. See the thing what I don't do often is like women can, I've had women call themselves 10s who were 5s. So I mean opinion is opinion is relevant. No, no, no. See look you can call yourself 10s. I like you. Okay but hold on but if you like me then understand don't over but if you can call yourself a 10 that's fine. I don't understand the disagreement. I really don't. You call yourself a 10 that's fine. You're 31 and getting a divorce cause you don't like him. Yeah I fell out of love with him. I think we just went too far. Okay but do you have any children? No thank God. Well and you been with him since how old? Since I was 18 but we got married at 20. All right and what do you think's waiting for you out here? New possibilities. That's one way to frame it. You know we can probably be the best of friends. I just think we outgrew each other. That's fine. That's fine. He's ready for kids. I'm not ready for kids. All right so I don't really see it's a disagreement here. You want to divorce your husband because he's wants kids and you don't want kids. That's fine but for somebody who's been married for nearly half your life. Do you want what do you want from a man in this world? Well a man of character, integrity, someone that I can grow with. What do you want from a man in this world? Love. I want love. I'm on companion now. You make it. You had that. But you make it seem like people can't outgrow each other. Stop right there. Stop right there. I didn't make it seem like a damn thing. I said you had that. And it's your responsibility as a wife to keep it going. And it's also a husband too. See that thank you. Do you guys hear this? This is the problem that tends to happen in our relationships. It's 50-50 instead of 100. Did you do your 100% best to make sure that your marriage and relationship lasted? Yes my husband wanted me to stay home. I figured like since I went to school I worked hard for my degree and my career. Why should I have to give it up? Oh okay. So your husband wanted you to stay home and you wanted to go to work? Yes. My father raised me. Hold on. Listen. Then you're giving up a husband for possibilities in the world in your career. Okay. Hope you get what you want. My daddy told me I'd be just fine. My father said that. Of course he did. Well here's the thing. How does your father? My father is 60. Right. And got news for you. Your dad cannot guarantee that. That's nothing a father can guarantee a child. You can say your dad can tell you whatever but I'm going to tell you right now. You're just a woman. Just like I'm just a man. You're a one person out on the planet and if you want to deal with any man out here you're going to have to meet his needs especially if you want a man that's higher level than you are. This independent street, this daddy's girl's shit ain't going to play. Well Kevin, I work. I'm a nurse. Congratulations. That matters. I work with a lot of doctors actually. So what? But you say that a man don't care about a woman's money or career. No, you don't. And that's far from the truth though. But that's far from the truth. All right. So you're telling me, all right ladies, I want you to pay attention. This woman has been married and she's telling me as a man who's out here who has clients of these men you act like you at 31 no better than me at 51 and I'm telling you men don't care like you think we care. But guess what? You're going to get a chance to test this out on your own. Remember the women I said high value men tend to avoid. And the nurse was in this category. It's not for just take deep shots at nurses. It's the personality and the in the mindset that tends to come along. It's independent. All right. But in the end, man, make your choices. But at the end, if you want something with a man, you're going to have to compromise. All right. I agree with you but you're making it seem like that. Make it seem like anything. Make it seem like what? You're just making it seem like, oh, you're so bad, you know, like, especially for the, you know, women in my age group that's not married, you know, there's hope. There's hope. Okay. You're responsible for what you hear. And you're responsible for what you put in. No, you're responsible for what you hear. And you're, you make it seem like women are so, no, I think that a lot of you women just don't listen. You listen with your feelings and you hear what you want to hear. And that's fine. But you're going to get to test all your theories. You got married at 18 or 19. No, I got married at 20. Okay. Split the difference. You're going to get to test all these theories. In 10 years, we'll see who's ends up being closer to accurate. But if you want anything for men, do you ever want children? I don't know. All right. So do you even want to, do you even want to be with a, be married to a man? Of course I do. I believe in love. I believe in marriage, but that's not the purpose of marriage. Marriage is love is not the purpose of marriage. And you already had that. All right. All right. All right. Round and round, this goes. Oil, petulant, children. Just, I want love. I want this. I want that. Women from other countries listen to Western women and think you're insane. This woman won early on and is walking away. All right.