 We don't take care of our marriage until we start having some issues in our marriage. Then we run for counseling. No, it's all good. I'm all for it. But when times are good, we're vacationing everywhere, having good times, but you won't see them in a marriage seminar or listening to marriage podcasts and books, reading books and actually taking and applying it because you build your marriage not when things are bad, but when things are good. When things are bad, you are in surviving mode. You use different tactics. You do use different things. You go to marriage counseling. You go to deliverance. You go to inner healing. You go, you use other various tools, but that's a moment of survival, not a moment of building. You're actually not building during that time. You're just surviving.