 The narcissist loves to do this. I know it may seem like The narcissist in your life They just seem to hate everyone and everything. It's like no matter what you do No matter what anyone does They always have a problem with it There's always something wrong with it And of course the reason why is because they can't stand themselves But I'm not going to get too much into that in this video As of course the topic is what they love to do Rather than what they hate So to get into this, yes If there's one thing they love It's gossiping They love to talk about other people behind their backs They have no boundaries at all There's no separation It's just spreading rumors Making someone feel bad about themselves So that they can have a laugh at their expense At publicly humiliating and shaming them To make them feel bad You cannot trust a narcissist with anything of value And yes of course that includes yourself It includes your reputation It includes everything that is important to you Because trust and believe that they will destroy it They will tear it apart And I'm sure you've experienced that already When you have confided something in the narcissist And they later used it against you They kept it in their back pocket To use against you at a later date Maybe they told everyone about it They tried to expose you And not because they care As we know narcissists do not care about anyone but themselves It was just so that they could feel better at your expense By putting you down Because typically the things that they say About us That they tell to other people These things are very humiliating They're embarrassing They're never things that we can be powered off Which of course is why they do it They're never going to go off and gossip about anything good about you It's never a balanced argument They have a black and white mentality Where they see things in black and white It's good or bad, right or wrong They have to paint you in a bad way To do that they typically only say bad things about you And while doing that they also say good things about themselves They'll go off and tell everyone how they were there for you They did everything they could They tried their best And I know that all of you who are watching this right now You already know that that isn't true They didn't try to help you They didn't do the best that they could And in actuality in pretty much every situation Where a victim is involved with a narcissist They tend to be the cause to your demise It's like everything they say that is wrong about you If you just took them out of the picture There would be no story to fabricate There would be nothing to say And of course that's not what they want Which is why they always have to involve themselves Because yes they do already know that they are the problem They are already aware of that And a lot of times they will go behind your back And you won't even know about it It may not even come back to you But you may notice that other people start to treat you differently And by doing that they do it so that it doesn't come back to you Because obviously they know what you are going to do If you know that they are spreading rumors about you The first thing you are going to do is try to have a normal conversation with them Irrational arguments And you are going to want to know why they said certain things You are going to want an explanation And then unless they give you the word salad or they gas like you You are going to completely destroy them in that argument So of course no they are not going to give you an opportunity to do that Because they want to hide behind the facade They want their false narrative to continue so that they can continue to control you But many of you fall for it You actually believe that they are serious about what they say When the reality is That a lot of them don't even believe in it themselves They don't even believe the things that they are saying about you They don't even believe in that at all Because think about it Put yourself in their shoes If someone was saying things about someone that you know What is the first thing that you would do If you didn't want anything to do with you You would go to them And you would want an explanation You would want to know what is going on And if it didn't concern you Then you would leave it alone You wouldn't involve yourself in something that had nothing to do with you But of course And what you really need to understand is That these people These flying monkeys and enablers They all have some cluster B disorder as well To even get caught up in that in the first place Sorry about that, there is a lot of noise here As always I do try to find a quiet space But as you know it is Very difficult here But yes back to what I was saying These flying monkeys and enablers Yes they do have a mental illness A personality disorder themselves Because you've only got to put it in you Because you are not qualified to do that You don't have the knowledge or experience in other people's affairs So by making it your concern All you are going to do is Corrupt and tamper with the evidence If what they are saying is actually true So of course it wouldn't even make any sense for you to do that But with these narcissists yes they have The flying monkeys and enablers Rather yes they have a mental disorder They are sadistic emotional predators Who get off on other people's pain They target those who are isolated Who don't have a support network And then they want to exploit and take advantage of them And the last thing they want you to do Is for you to speak your truth And even if you try to do that No one is going to believe you anyway Because these campaigns have nothing To do with truth They are just a bunch of people who are very insecure They have low self esteem And they see you and you stand out Yes you look good You are doing good And guess what they can't stand it They can't stand you They despise you And this is the problem Because these narcissists yes You may not see it yourself Because you are likely an empath if you are watching my videos And with that being said You may have high effective empathy Which means that you are able to understand People's feelings and situations Which again is another reason why they targeted you They targeted you because they knew that you would care You would understand all of this bullshit that they are bringing to you In any sense you would still disown yourself And everything you believe in to try and put yourself in their shoes So that's another reason why they targeted you And not only that But they know they recognize that as an empath You have low cognitive empathy So a lot of times you won't even recognize When you are dealing with a predator A narcissist Which is what all of these enablers and fly monkeys are They are all self absorbed They all lack empathy But a lot of you can't even see it You just look at yourself and assume that there must be something wrong with you Because all of these people have turned against you No It's because you have low cognitive empathy While the narcissists, these fly monkeys and enablers They have low effective empathy Which is why even when they see you in pain They see you being targeted They see you being attacked They won't come in and help you Or they won't just leave you alone Which is probably what you would prefer But they do have high cognitive empathy Which believe it or not, that means That unlike yourself They can see other narcissists They know who the narcissists are And yes of course they know that it's not you That's why they targeted you They're not typically going to target another narcissist That could be very dangerous for them And they want it easy So they team up with these other narcissists These people who Have low effective empathy And high cognitive empathy Because that is just a typical Predator A predator is someone who has low effective empathy And high cognitive empathy And cognitive empathy that doesn't mean That they actually give a shit about you What that means is They can recognise your emotions They can feed off your pain So it's just the perfect situation for them To get the attention that they crave To get supply But I know when you're alone You're isolated, you don't have a support network And all of these people have turned against you I understand You're self low if you think that it's you But sometimes you've just got to stop And look at yourself Look at everything you've done For people in the past You always cared about other people You're the type of person who would give to charity No one is there to see Maybe you've donated blood You've volunteered in your community And yet they managed to twist it around And somehow make you think that it's you When you're the only one And all of these crazy people have turned against you So how could that ever mean that there's something wrong with you Because I don't know about you But in the past On many occasions when I have seen A group of people Ganging up against one person I was always that person who stepped in To make it stop Even though yes, I put myself at risk I put myself in danger I did not care Because I know that that is wrong That is not right at all And that is why I have to get on here To give this message For those of you who are alone Because I am very against These types of behaviours And I will always support people Who are alone Who are isolated Who are being ganged up against By mindless, narcissistic people Regardless of what they say You said or did That doesn't matter Even if you did do something wrong That does not justify it That does not make it okay And I have to say this to remind you So that you can remind yourself every day But yes, it is not you You are not the problem I know it could be hard to believe in yourself sometimes When it's a large number of people That have turned against you But unfortunately this is just what happens Narcissistic people, they do group together They're like-minded people They join for a like-minded purpose Because they're all very insecure And they're all looking for supply That is why they stalk and harass you That is why they always They're always on your case They can't just leave things alone And if you look at it Whatever they're saying they care about Whatever they're saying is important to them They're never involved in anything Concerned with or regarding that In any shape or form They're always doing the exact opposite Things that will only make it worse Which is how you should know that yes They only care about themselves They don't care about you They don't care about anyone else If they cared about anyone else They wouldn't drag them into their mess Because if you care about someone I don't know about you but I would not pull anyone Into Any form of gossip Or rumours That's just not right Even if something was wrong That is a private matter It does not need to be exposed to the entire world That doesn't make any logical sense How is that going to improve anything Of course, narcissists do not make any sense Because they are detached from reality They create their own world Of things that they need Where they can get supply Because yes, that is all that they care about They're not loyal They're the type of people who Will just disregard and get rid of you Whenever it suits them Whenever they see an opportunity to gain power And why will they do that? Because they're envious and jealous of you Yes You are far more amazing Than you could ever know And you don't even realise it You don't even see it Which again makes you the perfect victim For these predators Because that's exactly what they want That's exactly what they're looking for Someone who they can do all these crazy things too And in the end that person will still doubt themselves They won't look at them for the monsters that they are That's perfect prey for a narcissist That means they could just switch back From the loved woman and devaluation all the time They can pull you in and then push you away Which is exactly what they want They just want to use and abuse you And whoever these people are who get involved They are all exactly the same They are no different Because if they were any different They wouldn't get involved in that to begin with So don't ever think that it's you Because that's what tends to happen Is that the victim self-lows And starts thinking that they are the narcissist Or that something is wrong with them The only thing that was wrong On your side Is that you were involved with them To begin with You never should have been around them Because just look at how they treated you Did they value you? Did they appreciate you? Did they give you the love and respect that you deserve? Or did they just walk all over you Disregard you Disregard you Make up these stories about you and their minds And then tell everyone about it Because that is not right Someone who loves and respects you would never do that And all of these people A lot of times they don't even know who you are They don't know the first thing about you All they know is what they've been told Yes, they've been brainwashed as well But that doesn't mean Just because they have these thoughts in their head About you About you being wrong, you being a bad person That doesn't mean that they have to act out these thoughts In reality with behaviors That's how you know that they have lost their minds Because a normal person is not going to do that Yes, if someone comes to you and says rumors or stories about someone else Maybe you might believe it But you wouldn't get involved if you don't even know the person If you do know the person, you might go to them and talk to them And if they did something really bad Yes, you might see something wrong with it You might wish something bad on them But you're not actually going to go out and harass and stalk them You're not going to do that Because that is wrong Smear camp pains are wrong They are not helpful And they do not have a place in our society But this is what narcissists gravitate towards Because they're toxic, they're dysfunctional They have a mental illness, they have a personality disorder And they lack discipline and self-control They can't control themselves, so they try to control you And as soon as they do that, you should instantly recognize that you are far better and greater than them And yes, they already know that They're already completely aware of it Another reason why they targeted you Because you're a far better person than they will ever be That's why they have to indoctrinate you, they have to brainwash you They have to twist it all around to make you feel like the bad person Why do they even need to do that? If that's the case, shouldn't you already know? Why do they need to build a Smear campaign And try to isolate you in a way where they are your only source of influence? What is the purpose of all of that? And that's how you know that yes, they are trying to indoctrinate you They are trying to change your beliefs about yourself They see all of these things wrong with you But guess what? Even if you do make all of these positive changes in yourself That is when you will see the real problem That is when they will come down on you even more And then they will really try to destroy you Because yes, they know that it's an illusion, it's a false narrative But they also want to hide it Which is why yes, a lot of them they never even came to talk to you about it They never even came to you and said that anything was wrong With something you said or did Because that was never the problem anyway The real problem was that you were questioning and confronting them And you were about to reject or abandon them Which they saw as a threat to their image of reputation They felt like they were about to be exposed For everything they did to you Because yes, just look back at everything they have done to you And then look at all of the times that you remained loyal to them And you supported them But they never appreciated you I'm so sorry for anyone who has to go through this I really am Because it is not right And yes, you do deserve better You should not be surrounded by these types of people Especially if you have found my videos because you are likely to be an empath You're meant to be onto better things than this You should be Giving And spreading love and positivity to the world But of course that's very difficult for you to do When you are surrounded by these types of people It prevents you from being able to go on and do what you need to do And why? Because some people are jealous And of course they're jealous Just look at their behaviour They're always trying to weigh you down They're always trying to outdo you That should tell you everything you need to know And all of these things that has nothing to do With what they were originally meant to have so wrong with you Because even when you go in the opposite direction You do the exact opposite of everything they said was wrong That's when you see what the real problem is You're a better person than they will ever be They will never be like you And I just want you to know that A lot of you have been kept down for so long Sometimes years And it affects how you see yourself It affects your image and perception of yourself So at some point someone has to come along To tell you who you are To tell you that you are a much greater person Than what you were led to believe I know it's hard when you're being invalidated by so many people You're being made to believe that all of these things are wrong with you You're being attacked And because you're an empath yourself loathe And you don't look at the other people To see what about all of the things that they're doing to you And that is how you should know But guess it is all a lie They are very envious and jealous of you They really are And of course the reason why is because you are a wonderful person And they don't want you to know that They don't want anyone to be anywhere near you Who could tell you that Instead they want you to think all of these crazy things about yourself Which doesn't make any sense Because if you want someone to be better or greater Why would you want them to think that? This is how you know that they're crazy They are wrapped up in all of their own insecurities All of their past traumas which they never resolved And now they want to come around to you and take that shit out on you And it's just not right It's wrong But they will get their karma That energy they've put out it will come back to them And everything that you have suffered and had to endure All of that positive energy Will come back to you From everything where you just overlooked What they did to you You let them get away with it You will get what you deserve It will come back to you But as for these narcissists It will destroy them Being a narcissist does not lead you anywhere good That energy that they put out will come back to them It will get them eventually And in fact it's already destroying them right now Just look at what they're doing Look at their behaviors Does this seem like something that a normal saying person would do Someone who is grounded in reality Someone who is in control of their emotions Which is how you should already know that they are miserable They are completely miserable people That is a fact That they come around you sometimes laughing at your expense There is no happy person that does that That is something that miserable people do People who are happy and content with themselves and their lives They would never do that And in fact they would be there for you They wouldn't be able to see you Going through pain Suffering Being abused Isolated If it was someone that I know Someone that I care about Being ganged up on Being isolated and alone That would destroy me I wouldn't be able to sleep that night Especially if I had the ability to change it To be there for them Which is how you should already know exactly what you were dealing with Yes As I said the narcissist They're enablers and they're flying monkeys People who turned against you They do have a mental illness They have a personality disorder Most likely one of the cluster B's They know exactly what they are doing They understand the effects that it's having on you Because as I said Well they may have low effect of empathy They do have high cognitive empathy So they understand Your emotions cognitively Even though they may not be able to put themselves in your shoes But the reality is that they just do not care They don't care about you at all A lot of them they don't even see you as you actually are They see you as a tool and object to be used And this is just something that you need to know A lot of you don't have support You're being targeted by all of these people Someone has to come in to validate you To give you the confidence that you need So that you don't give up You don't sink into depression You need to take time each day to find happiness in life You need to find reasons to smile And there are always reasons for you to do that Don't let them take away your freedom, your life Don't let them just keep you isolated and alone Remember we have this community here Remember you've got me as well And I honestly don't care How many people are against you I'm always on your side I am loyal, I am devoted And I will be that way no matter what No matter what happens to me I'm always going to be there for you I'm always going to be here to give you this support And I hope that brings you comfort That's why I do what I do Why I make these videos every day Because there's just nothing worse for me I mean I can take it myself If everyone turns against me I'm okay with that I know exactly who I am I can validate myself I'm confident But when I see someone else Alone, isolated Being targeted, being abused It's one thing I can't stand I can't stand that at all And that is what motivates me It's what makes me want to put out these videos every day So yes Again I'm very sorry for anyone Who is going through this right now It's not right It's not fair But they will get their karma And they are getting it right now They're miserable They can't be satisfied with anything in their lives They can't find peace or contentment There's constantly something eaten away at them Which is why they just can't leave you alone So remember that And sometimes you just gotta detach From what they're doing Look at it as an observer See it from another person's point of view And just sit back and laugh at it Let it bring you amusement Because you're just one person You're trying to be happy You're trying to live your life And they have a problem with it So just see how crazy that makes them That they just can't leave things alone See what that says about them And have a laugh at it They're doing it to you So sometimes you just gotta detach Because either way they're still going to be coming after you You're not going to them and doing that Because of course if you did that that would be wrong But yes sometimes just detach yourself from it Sit back and have a laugh Let it amuse you They're absolute idiots They really are And you are so much better than that But yes that's it for this message I really hope that it brings you the comfort and support that you need I know I can only do this through video Yes I wish I could be there to comfort and protect you in person But of course it is very difficult for me to do that With my own life and my own work I hope this message Brings you guidance and protection I hope that it can be a source of comfort for you And to bring you knowledge and wisdom I'd just like to thank you all for watching If this video was helpful You can give it a thumbs up down below So then other people who are going through this will get to see it Let me know your thoughts down in the comment section I do read your comments every day Share and subscribe And if you need more support You can book a coaching session with me on my website It's narksviver.co.uk And I also have my Instagram as well Narksviver YouTube and Instagram You can follow me on there Thank you all for watching And I will talk to you in another 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