 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and today we're going to talk about date conversation topics that women should have with men and so if you're struggling to figure out what you should be talking about when you're on a date and you're a woman then this is Exactly what you should be talking about. So here we go. The first one is There's three three three of them here and the first one is telling stories about yourself and so There's a few different things that you want to tell stories about and one is your values, right? So convey your values through stories like what's important to you, you know, um, what are you looking for? long-term and in dating and relationships and if you can tell stories about not even yourself, but other people and other people that are Getting into the types of relationships that you want to get into it can be a really good screening method Engaging what it is that a guy thinks about That those kinds of situations and the things that you want The second type of stories that you should be talking about is stories that convey your personality And so just you know, if you want to get a guy if you want a guy to get to know you Tell stories about yourself, you know that are interesting that That convey who you are and what you're about and you know what you do in your life and then the second thing that you want to talk about is Exciting or fun things that you've done in your life or that you're going to do in your life And so this really boils down to having an interesting life. You don't have an interesting life is going to be a hard one but you having an interesting life is really really attractive to a guy and so You know have some stories about things that you've done, you know have Things that you're looking forward to doing, you know, and a good way to approach this topic would be to say Have you ever you know and then go into you know, have you ever gone snowboarding? You know, oh, where do you go? Oh, this is where I went. Oh, I went this one place where I'm going to this place And it's gonna be so awesome and but you know that those are great conversation topics because they're emotional, right? They're excitement. It's it's interesting. It keeps the The conversation alive and it makes things more interesting And then the last thing that you want to talk about is Find out about his passions and let him talk about those as much as he as much as you can You know, sometimes I get women who complain that the guys that they date don't open up very much to him If you want a guy to open up, you know Initially talk to him about his passions find out what he cares about in life and just let him You know babble on about it because most people will talk forever about Whatever it is that they're passionate about and it'll make them feel closer to you You know, and if he doesn't have anything passionate that is going on and in his life then that could be a big red flag for you and then you know that you know He's not going anywhere and he's not growing any and so find out what he's passionate about and let him talk about that So that's it for today. If you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you visit my website at commitment connection calm and take the quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon