 What you know what I'm attracted to and what's attractive about me And then also to see if somebody is truly qualified to talk to you and the more you get to learn about your sexuality and start living a sexual life Your your level of qualification and talking to a woman will go go way up way up and it will naturally come out So let's talk about how rapport cycling happens number one It's it's a process and I'm there's a whole bunch of different like Equations to this but I'm gonna give you the simplest one that many people May have seen but don't do and you should you should fucking do it because it's like so easy to make happen number one We need a topic All right, then number two well actually here's what really starts is we need a qualifier We need a grounds We need a challenge and this is really the main meat right here, but down here. I'm gonna say definition Okay, so what is this? Our topic is what's going to start us off and the best way to do this is if you really really want to workshop this I'll explain it ask me questions and I'll plug it in and this is essentially I don't know if you guys are familiar with the red stack, but still to this day sadly Sadly, even though we have all these genius instructors. It is the only customized product that exists But this is how to do it. This is how to do it So our topic is going to be something that we want to talk about but we want everybody to be able to understand that topic So let's say you're into Computer games, let's say you are really good at it. It's Street Fighter, right? You're really good at You know whatever I don't know what they are But you're really good at whatever whatever video games what you need to understand about that topic Is it something that you're into right something that you're into that's unique? Okay, so that's how we're going to discover our topic out of that and as we Q&A you guys and all that stuff You'll get to see how the process works So we want to get to a root topic and again think of stuff like passions ideals man woman dynamics sexuality stuff like that fears and securities Things that make you unique whatever you know These are all human things that anybody can relate with anybody here So we figure out whatever topic and that's going to start off our qualifier our qualifier Qualification is defined by myself as asserting yourself and seeing if it's accepted. It's not forcing to accept it It's to assert yourself put yourself out there and see if it's accepted. So that could be opening. All right That could also mean if I'm talking to a girl and yet I haven't asked an important question And she's standing there talking to me and enjoying it That that also is qualification. I've asserted myself and it's being accepted, right? All right, so I can say hey You know what let's say I want to talk about Street Fighter They're actually who who has a crazy bizarre video game experience Jacob Starcraft 2 what's yours? Counter-strike all right these games. I know nothing about but I'm gonna say in fact No, no, no, we'll open up the mic here in a second I'm gonna start off with the qualifier So let's say I want to open with that and I could go up to somebody and I could do all the whatever Techniques and go behind and all that sort of stuff But I go up to somebody and I talk to them That's the most fucking important part and I'd say get closer than what is comfortable is the second most important part because a Situation of sexuality will create sexuality. It will create that process of seduction. So we want to create that it's like You know my friend was talking about he's like I had this great night I got laid but I didn't pull off the threesome and I'm like hey man Whatever, but I'm like the thing with the threesome is create the situation You know you don't want it's not about convincing somebody about anything It's about creating the situation the door closes and there's two girls in the room is step one It's not about like hey, it would be really hot if you could get another chick. No man. It's not That's not that's not the way to work that but anyway We have our we have our opening qualifier. All right, and actually that's officially what I titled at the opening qualifier And and we let's say we're opening and it's at the daytime and we say hey like I have a question This is like really random, but I want to know about Things that you do that are so unique But other people don't understand them. All right, and what I've heard from a few of the other speakers here is like You know when they were talking about qualification They probably aren't gonna answer it right away and unless you really know somebody that means you've probably dated them You're in a relationship with them then they might really qualify themselves to you But anybody else whether you've been talking to them about an hour and you get all passionate you make these plans to travel the world They're still not capable. There's nothing wrong with it about completely qualifying themselves to you So they're gonna they're your only point here is to engage. It's to get their attention