 CB says, is this saying he does want a relationship, but few hangups? He says, I am glad you are clearly a caring person and I know you want something special but I need that to involve being the total package for me. So, well, what he's saying is that there's something missing for him. That's what he's saying with that. When he says, I need that to involve being the total package for me. There's something missing either with you or with him there that he feels like he's unable to get into a real relationship with you right now. And so basically what you wanna do is if a guy says something like that, you wanna just be curious about it and say, oh, what do you mean about that? Like, what's the total package for you? What's missing from that total package that you need? And he might start talking about himself. He might start talking about you and you just wanna ask him about that and just try not to get overly offended if he's talking about you and just let it go. One of the big challenges that a lot of women do is they get into these situations where a guy just wants something or they get into a situation where they ask a guy things about stuff like this and then when the guy starts saying things, they start taking it really personally and they feel really hurt about it and my suggestion is just let it all go, whatever he says because he's gonna say whatever it is and it might be something really kind of harmful, feeling really kind of harmful to you and it might not, right? And so you don't know and then he's gonna say something and if it's really bad, just let it go and just move on and get support and do whatever you need to do to feel good about yourself and don't let it, let it just roll off your back and don't take it personally.