 Welcome back guys this is and finished the only place so we get to finish and finish matters I am your host SK Gytonga. I do not forget to follow us and also she made it platforms today We're talking about relationships which takes us to add that question Do you think you should publicly announce about your breakup or should you just keep it private? Let me know what you think in the comment section Well if you announced when you are starting then it's good that your nonsense the end so that we know this place Somebody can take over but if not then I'm gonna do it one day. We don't want to know. We're also in ours As in a day We don't give a dime so Keep it yourself. That one depends You know if first you made it public and the public had a role In your relationship, then you have to make it public because they know because Me and them you are notified like like you're dating. So you should you must tell them second If you didn't make it public mean you want to private Then I couldn't I don't do it because I thought we published not be announced online since our relationship is supposed to be Between two people and your breakup should be between you too The world doesn't care if you're together or not and it will not benefit any of you by announcing it online If you're a celebrity who has been keeping up today keeping like your audience up to date with your Dating life what she do Where you are eating? I think you should tell them because now the audience is connected to you in some sort of way So you told them you're in a relationship. It's all them. Oh my god guys. I'm so in love All that now when it comes to the breakup They need to know that this person is no longer part of your life hence not part of the audience's life anymore But if you're just a person who's not a celebrity, I mean You choose whether to put it or not But if you're celebrity who has been telling us if you if you opted to keep your life private from your love life Private from the start then it's not important to tell us But if you opted to involve us in the relationship now you have to involve us involve us in the breakup And tell us why you guys are broken up because you can just Oh, I'm no longer doing this with this one I think if if you are running a private relationship, which was not also show mediums Then I think keep your breakup to yourself Yeah deal with your breakup how you want to deal with it if you want to post it post it Sure, sure. You're back to the streets. We'll be ready for you ready to welcome you back They can announce it online Because everyone has a We don't move with pressure. Okay, it depends it depends if you guys were dating online If people knew you were a couple and used to just post yourself and you were like an online couple So it's okay if you guys announce your breakup, but if you guys were just private and You have issues that you don't want people to see I prefer private Personally, I prefer private. I'm a private person, but if you guys were an online couple Why not? I don't think you need to announce it online because like, you know, it can be toxic sometimes, but Yeah, I don't think you need to tell everyone, you know, like What's going on in your life day-to-day as for me and I prefer to keep it private through The moment we announce online, people will give you unnecessary opinions that can lead to mental issues Impressions I don't keep it private Social media, you know, you know, so just keep it private You can solve your issues together. Maybe I don't know if I'm going to be able to handle it, but the moment we announce online I don't have to give you unnecessary opinions Start getting your head messing with your mind I prefer to keep it private For sure. Yeah, it's your business like this. No need to hide it out to everyone. So just keep it private Let's say that Couple that's workable social media. They have like some channels and all that I think informing people won't be that wrong But if we are not like for socials People don't need to know that you really have that stress your breakup one or what stress to me as social media So it all depends with the couple come on social. It's okay. Come on. Go for social Just give it to yourself. It is good to to announce your breakup online Because you're opening another opportunity to someone else I think they should keep it to themselves because Dating is something that is very very personal and if you want to if you want to introduce other people to the relationship by Announcing a breakup online, then you should be ready for all the things that come after you do that So yeah, but I think you should just keep it private and go through the breakup and the healing process privately I Feel like if you publicly announced your relationship You should publicly announce the breakup because I feel like a lot of people must have been invested Especially if you're like famous or influential or something like that So you should definitely tell people so that they know if your DMs are free to slide in But if you're not if you did not do that I do not advise because you're definitely going to come out to you like who are you that does not Consoners and stuff like that which takes us to our last question Are you supposed to remain friends with your ex's friends? Let me know what you think in the comment section It's what if I for hashtag and finished don't see the reason why You shouldn't be friends because one you may find maybe The family will be introduced to maybe you want me to introduce to a certain thing you're doing maybe to send me a business Like just keep the relationship still as make a friend as long as That's all it depends on how you break up The terms you break up if it was a bad breakup or a good breakup Since I've heard of people remaining friends after they break up actually becoming best friends Because of the bond they shared over the months or years they were together, but if it was a bad breakup I don't see it happening that you'll be friends with the Let's say this causes family and everything. Yeah, no because they came with them. So they have to live with them Yeah, that's what I think because if you guys are still friends it means that you'll still be updated on your ex and And you guys still have a connection. So I prefer if you just break everything and just Yeah, so no when you break up with your ex and you're breaking up with your ex. It's a relationship between you and your ex It's not between me and your friends So unless you force your friends to leave me Barsi I'm keeping the friends friends with my exes friend family and friends Yeah, if I got a good friend because of you It's just like Meeting you and then knowing you and then you introduce me to Brenda and then I'll get to know Brenda and to become friends When you're out of the equation It does not mean that you have to go in Brenda because of you you made us friends, but now you leave I have a friend because of you go away. I'll keep the friends if you know the family partner for But then if You cannot it can never remain the same So it's very if you just keep it apart Don't go there always blame you for something those people I think it depends on how the breaker was but like if your new partner isn't comfortable with it Then maybe like, you know, you just see like which one you care about more you if you care about the new partner You should let it go but Like nowadays some people like, you know, they can stay friends and it's okay. So it depends No, I don't because if you're breaking contact to them It's unhealthy to remain with some bit because that will only it's like keeping a door open if you're closing it Close it if unless you guys had had those mutuals before you are dating If you guys had those mutuals you can still remain friends But if you only knew them because you are dating that particular person then you are no longer dating that person So let them just remain an acquaintance not your friend yet They should be just someone, you know Yeah, sure we can remain friends with that ex it depends on what the detail of like the weight of that break like Let's say the ex was so toxic like We had very very weird toxic then I think there's no need for a clinician no But if you guys ended in a good time, then you guys can be friends. Let's say that they have that relationship Maybe before me But it was after me I don't see the need to make a channel. So what are you doing together? I'm learning and obviously that question will pop like So there's no need to be friends No at a spade rumors ex and as a create story I'm gonna be a channel At a rumors so I catch on a memey China what one go China familiar Because I'll go connected me miss you. Wow. No my ex is not allowed to keep in touch with my family and friends reason being Most especially my family if we break up do not try to communicate with my family because I introduced you to my family therefore There's no way you become even getting to my family when we are not together. It would be very very Weird and awkward but to my friends you can communicate with my friends. Maybe you guys need your friendship aside from The friendship that we had with the friends. So yeah with my family. No, but with my friends. It's okay I Feel like these are different relationships and breaking up with you does not mean my life is going to stop We could have had other relationships like business and I don't have any problem contacting them As long as we don't have bad blood, you know, the problem was me and you and not them If anything my ex's best friend could have been my soulmate he never knew we have come to the end of the show Thank you for watching. I am your host eski chunga. See you next time