 We can agree to disagree and there's pros and cons to both approaches. You can take either one to a too extreme of a way. I can love myself even when I'm not accomplishing things or failing, but you can take it too far. Pain exists for a purpose. Pain exists as a motivator. Pain is your brain's way of saying move, pivot, change, stop doing what you're doing. And so to the extent that you mask that and tell people, no, you're just perfect how you are, you're overriding the pain that people feel. And that you're overriding the pain that has a purpose, you know? And it's sad. I don't give a shit. I mean, I don't care about people who don't care about me. I'm a tribal approach to this world. And it doesn't mean I hate other people. It's just, Sigmund Freud said it well, if I love everybody, then I don't have enough love and time and energy to love the people who are deserving of my love.