 We spoke about obeying your parents last week and you can do another thing It's so important to obey your parents What they see, they don't have to do what they feel but what they feel because each generation here too they hear with their eyes they don't hear with their ears they hear with their eyes so what they see is what they feel like doing and why is it so important to obey your parents because it's right in the Lord because everyone, all children are commanded to obey our parents in the Lord because that is the right thing to do with a promise that if you obey your parents all will go well with us we shall enjoy a long life and the opposite of that things will not go well with us we will be disobeying the word of God because it's very useless to read the word of God we will be disobeying the word of God and also we will not enjoy a long life here but God has a purpose for us that we need to enjoy a long life so if we don't obey our parents we are not going to enjoy a long life and so many guys were asking me what is indeed around my parents I am not in good terms with them there is a point in my life from home because what happens to you is what I am answering right now because God tells us to obey our parents opposite of that is just ridiculous is disastrous so how do you go about that because attracting God's blessings and your parents blessings is very important and there is no way you can attract your parents blessings if you dishonor them if you dishonor your parents there is no way you are going to attract God's blessings an example is just Esau that is in the book of Genesis 26 you can go read that this guy went ahead and married from a community his parents did not agree with that and he brought so much sorrow to his parents to an extent we can even see what happens after that Esau did not even get the blessings of his parents kuna tu vitu zilifanyika it ended up jack of goat the blessings instead of Esau because he brought so much sorrow to his parents because if you dishonor a man there is no way you can attract blessings from them and you live under and dishonoring this person but he is not cursing me sometimes they don't curse most of the time actually your parents cannot say no they don't curse but those tears that sorrow that you bring in your parents heart that's what bring curses to you but you can attract blessings by just honouring them so how are you going to go about it because there are so many times you do not agree with your parents for instance me there are points I do not agree with my parents but we sit down we have a dialogue with them you did this I did not like you sent me to this school so what can we do about it they will give you the reason why they are sending you to that school they give you the reason why they are deciding this so dialogue with them but first I will just encourage you to pray about it my friend go pray about it prayer breaks any hard heart ile rungumu kabisa prayer softens that heart so go pray to God ask God's forgiveness start by there seek God's forgiveness God says he will remember our sins no more he will cast them as far as east is from west so when God forgives he forgets after that forgive yourself because I know forgiving yourself is very difficult I have been there and done that I know forgiving yourself is very difficult especially if you do something and you know why you find it so hard to forgive yourself after forgiving yourself now go to your parents just go to them atawalawas kia hangi kuna mungina linda my parent is so difficult no he is not remember the prayers you made it will soften his heart so go to your parents just your presence is enough because kuna wa sayo me abandon their parents were menda your presence is enough to soften their heart now talk to them seek their forgiveness right now and after seeking that forgiveness ask for their blessings just the same way jakub did he went and approached his brother father here and blessed me and jakub was blessed you know what shall we watch and him say more it is better for a son who is blessed than a son who has inheritance because inheritance is enough to maali but blessings your parents make over you kuna tuwile God make our parents they are like our earthly gods so those are the your parents make over your life zina fatanga zina shikanga so once they bless you it will go everywhere with you once you are blessed it will open doors once you are blessed you will have so much property you will have so much things in this life so it is better to be blessed by your parents than inherit the things they made here on earth it is up to you to decide but there is no way you can attract blessing if you dishonor the person you are expecting blessing from it starts by you obeying Ephesians 6 verse 1 to 3 it starts by you obeying your parents honouring your father and mother see honouring father forgetting your mother honouring both of them so it starts with that Ephesians 6 verse 1 to 3 and also read Genesis verse 27 you will get more matters blessing from parents and there is a big shout out to everyone who tuned to us