 You know, some people, and especially family, I think, sometimes, only remember and recognize the version of you that they felt they had the most control and power over. No matter how much effort you've put in, how much work you've done to change and grow, they will never accept and see that, because they have less and less control over you, the more you evolve and grow and become autonomous. Never go back to that version that they had of you, just to keep them happy and comfortable. Keep growing and flourishing. You're doing fantastic.