 What's up YouTube? I want to give you my top 20 attributes that I look for in women that I cannot do without. I'm sure a lot of women out there wonder what men are really looking for. Well, I'm a man and I'm going to tell you what I look for in a woman. Now, I don't exactly have these in any particular list. Number one, two, and three, because they're all important to me. Like, I need these. There's only maybe one or two things that I don't need. And I'll tell you those at the end, alright? So, number one, you gotta be attractive. And I'm sure some of y'all are like, Ah, of course, man, let's say that. They're so visual. That's the truth. We are visual. And it doesn't make me shallow. The fact of the matter is when we're out, if we are single and we're looking for a woman, we want someone that's going to be attractive to our eye. But there's other things that we look for once we see how good you look, okay? That are going to have to line up too. You can't just be attractive, okay? Now, number two, good and bad. It's the motherfucking truth, y'all. It's the motherfucking truth, okay? Because that is part of a relationship. If it's bad, it can make a whole lot of other things go wrong, alright? So, good and bad means you do everything I like it, okay? In just the way I like it, alright? And if you don't in the beginning, but I see you got potential, then we can move forward. You know what I'm saying? You could call that shallow, but the fact of the matter is, sex is a huge part of a relationship. Alright? I want you to be healthy, alright? Men love a healthy woman. When you see, when we see you and it transference, it furs into your beauty and attractiveness. You know, your skin tone, it can tell you you're pretty. The way your hair looks, you know what I mean? Your eyes, the cup, you know, everything. You know, we want you to be healthy. We want you to be in shape. We want you to be fit. You know what I'm saying? We want you to take care of your health. We know that if you take care of your health, the longer you're going to live and have your longer marriage, we're going to have, okay? The worst thing is for a man, and I've already thought about being married and losing a wife that I'm so close to. It's a horrible feeling just to even think about it. So we want you to live a long, happy life with us, okay? Other thing is sophisticated, okay? Sophisticated is going to be, you know, how a woman carries herself, how she acts in public, you know? This is something that you don't find all the time. You know what I mean? Sometimes you can see an attractive woman, a healthy woman, and when you talk to her, you can see that she just ghetto as hell. You know what I mean? It's like I can't stand a ghetto-ass girl. I'm sorry, I need you to be sophisticated. I'm not saying ha-sa-ditty, okay? Boo-jee, that's not what I'm saying. It's sophisticated. You carry yourself as a lady, as a woman. That's what I need, okay? Another thing is intelligent. I can't stand a dumb-ass girl, okay? Now, I know there's different intelligence levels, okay? And if you are a little slow, then there's stuff you can do to actually improve your IQ and all that stuff, and I'm not talking down to people that are a little slow. What I'm saying is just a lot of people out there that are actually slow, but can carry on a stimulating conversation, you know what I mean? She's just articulate. You don't know she got a low IQ. Trust me, I've met people that didn't do well in school, were not book smart, but they were intelligent. They were some intelligent people. And I need my woman to be intelligent so we can have good conversations. So she can stimulate my mind, get me to think of new things. I can get her to think of new things, okay? So intelligence, okay? Supportive. I need a supportive woman. And fellas, you know this, man. When you're down and out and you ain't feeling good, she can be your anchor sometimes. She can help bring you up, you know what I mean? Whether it's telling you you can do it, saying it's all right, you'll get them next time. I know you're gonna do it, baby. All that stuff, please support us in our work and in our health and whatever it is, just be supportive. And most women tend to be supportive, which is a good thing. We want you to display, especially if we want children, qualities of a good mother. I gotta tell you, I dated, there were two girls that I dated, specifically I saw them around children. And I never knew this, but when I saw them around children, I was like, wow. It was the way they treated the children. I was like, oh man, they're gonna make a good mother. And both of them that I saw around children, I was like, I might just want to marry this girl. You know what I mean? Like I could tell how good of a person she was. A good mother is a quality that a lot of women have, but it can be lost with some, you know. So, yeah, a good mother. We want you to be respectable, respectful. We want you to be a woman who, when we bring you in front of anyone from our friends to our mother, our grandmom, our grandpa, our uncles, our cousins, they all say, you got yourself a good woman. You got what I'm saying? That respectable type. You know what I'm saying? It's, like I said, and a lot of other ones tie into it. You know, sophistication ties into it. You know what I mean? Intelligence ties into that respectable type of girl. Okay? Goals. She's got to be goal-oriented and ambitious. All right? I don't want the girl who's happy with being the cashier at Walmart. I'm not cool with that. If you want to be the general manager eventually, if you want to be the district manager, the regional manager, you moving your way up, you want to eventually run Walmart, that's what I'm talking about. And I don't mean you have to want to run Walmart, but you got to be ambitious. You got what I'm saying? I need you to be moving forward because it's stale. I mean, I know too many people. I know some of y'all watching them like this, but I hate to say it, but a lot of y'all just happy with a nine to five. You know what I mean? Like at Walmart, you come home at the weekends, you drink, you party, you eat McDonald's, and then that's it. And you do it all over again. I need a woman who sees more in herself. You know what I'm saying? Because I see more in myself. You know what I mean? How can I be a successful actor, model, voice actor, whatever? And my girl sitting on her ass in Walmart. Bing, bing, bing, bing, next. I mean, I need somebody who matches me, who compliments me. That's just the way I feel. I need a successful woman. What I mean by successful is I don't have to run into Kim Kardashian, someone who's already got their own business and clothing line and all. That's what I'm talking about. I'm not a gold digger. What I'm saying is I want a girl who, and it goes hand in hand with the ambition, who is moving forward. You got what I'm saying? She's always moving forward. Success is a journey. It's not a destination. You got what I'm saying? I consider myself successful because I'm not stale. Everything is continuing to move forward for me. And when I get to that pinnacle, I'm going to keep going. It's never going to stop. So I need her to be that way. I need her to be a good cook. I need you to be a good cook. I cannot have a girl that can't cook. The first time I had a girl cook for me, and she's probably watching. If she remembers, she knows who she is. And she was good too. She cooked. I was like, God damn. She set the table. I sat down. I was like, look at this. And it was good. In my head, I was like, I will marry this bitch today. That's how good she could cook. Oh my goodness. Yes, it is a way to our heart. There's always a heart too that I mentioned earlier. But other way to our heart. But good cook. Oh girls, if you cannot cook, learn. You better be the baddest thing ever walked to earth. Every other quality on the plan a man needs and then can't cook. Cooking is just, it evokes a man's soul. You don't understand. Funny, alright? Now, I need a girl to be funny. Whether it's the way she act is funny sometimes or a joke cracker. Or someone that has a great sense of humor who I can laugh with. If I can't laugh with you, you need to go. Y'all already watched my videos. You know I like to be funny. Comedy is 60% of what I do. 90% of what I do in my videos. So I'm sure some of y'all have been laughing through this video already. You know what I mean? I need you to be funny. And first of all, to find a girl that is funny is so rare. Especially pretty and funny. That's rare. You don't see that all the time. So either she's got to interact with me like looking at stuff and watching stuff that's funny to me too. We can watch comedies together. Or she's funny. She crack on me. You got that one. You know what I mean? I like that. You know what I'm saying? So, funny. Alright, next is sexy. Now, sexy. Don't be set up with attractive. Consider some ugly-ass girls that have seen that it's sexy. It is something about the way you walk. The way you act. The way you walk. The way you talk. The way you hold yourself that is sexy. Sophisticated is not always sexy. Sexy. Sophisticated can be sexy. But it's all in how the girl does it. A lot of it's in that walk. Oh, lord, if you got a killer, walk! Woo! Tell you what, I'll follow you in the mall if you got a sexy walk. I will follow you into the mall face and see what you look like. Sexy is your walk. Girl, especially if you dance sexy. Man! If you can dance sexy, man! You got me. You got me. You just don't, you don't get it. You do not know. If you can dance... I want, I don't want to talk about this. Sexy is what I need. The way you talk. The way you act. Your mannerisms. Everything. I need sexy. Okay. Patience. That's a contrast. We need patience. We know that relationships and men can be hard to deal with. And, you know, women for men sometimes are hard to deal with. We don't understand each other. A woman who's patient, who's willing to work on things with you is what I need. I saw a quote the other day on Facebook and it said something about a five-year-old couple and they said, well, what was your secret? He said, well, we came from a day where we didn't just throw shit away. We fixed it. Yeah. So everybody gets divorced now. All of a sudden you find out one little quirk about a person and you get rid of them. You're the dumbest people on the planet now because you were getting rid of people for the dumbest things. Like you think, like, and then people will have all the qualities you want. And all of a sudden they snore and I got to get rid of them. Why don't you work with them to help them get rid of their snoring? They need to lose weight. They need to wear something at night, a mouthpiece or whatever they came from snoring. Then can you love them? Shallows, motherfuckers. Clean. No, I really need to say more. You can't stank. You know what I mean? You got that nice clean teeth. You know what I mean? I can't stand a dirty girl. She was straight up Trailer Park Trash. Exactly. Just like what the rock used to call Stone Cold Steve Austin. She was so trashy. And I remember later on before I realized what Trailer Park Trash was. I couldn't understand it. Like, I don't know what I don't know what was made. I know why I was messing with her. She had certain attributes. Certain attributes. And I was just throwing my thing for a second. I didn't hit it. And she was nasty. Anyway, organized. I like an organized girl. I don't like to walk into your house and see her then shambles. Like, damn! Did you get robbed? Oh, no. That's how you live? Like, I need a girl that's organized. Who takes care of things. And that's what I'm talking about. Organized from her home to her finances. I need that organization because I'm organized. I like things in place. No, I'm not crazy military organized anal. I can be with certain things in mind. But I need a organized woman. Good credit. Now, I like you to have good credit because it shows me that you have been organized and responsible in taking care of your issues. If you got bad credit, can I get with you? Yes. Because I understand things happen. I've had pitfalls in my life, especially when my mother died. I had a one credit. I could buy anything in the world. When she died, that depression and me paying for a lot of things. Bills that got behind because I was paying. But it got really hard. So I understand that. You know what I mean? But I would like you to have good credit. It shows me that you can take care of and you can handle business. You know what I'm saying? And last but not least, I like you to come from a good family. Do I have to have this? No. Because I know that some good people come out of great tragedies and horrible people. But a good family. You want to be able to spend time with that girl's family and feel a part of their family. Feel like you belong with them. You got what I'm saying? You want to be treated properly. You want a family that when you ask other people, they've got nothing but good things to say about them. You know what I'm saying? That makes you feel good. That when you marry this girl, you've got support from both sides. You know what I'm saying? So that's number 20. Like I said, no particular order guys. So let me know what y'all think about my list. Get at me, email and comment and make sure you subscribe.