 My partner has a really big penis and I've tried for months to give him oral pleasure But I'm not able to just five minutes in and my jaw starts to ache really badly And I feel really bad that I'm not able to give him pleasure as he does for me He's a real sweetheart. He's never asked me to do anything. He's very patient I've tried online help, but it's all in vain because online they're suggesting things like Throat numbing sprays and whatnot just wanted some help on this. Yes That can be very painful if you're trying to get your mouth around something. That's so big, but Remember that in oral sex, it's not necessary to take the entire organ into your mouth There's a lot of different things that you can do as a matter of fact The Kamasutra recommends eight different types of kisses that one should use during oral sex and Several of them focus either just on kissing the side of the shaft or even just the tip and the reason I'm telling you this is You don't need to follow instructions. You don't even have to go and look up these particular kisses from the Kamasutra You just need to understand that there's a lot of different ways of doing anything and trust me They're all very pleasurable and for anyone else who is in the same situation Remember that there are no hard and fast rules for pleasure. There's no such thing as this is right and this is wrong It's your pleasure you experiment you explore you do it the way that makes you happiest and The other thing for everyone listening out there, please, please do not start using throat numbing sprays for oral sex You're not Linda Lovelace. You don't have to prove that you can do this. This is for your personal pleasure This is one medication that you do not need