 Hi, she was seven. Okay, so I'm going to tell y'all how to use the law of attraction and visualization to attract the type of people you want in your life and to also attract how people treat you, like how you want people to treat you. Okay, so if y'all don't know what the law of attraction is, it's basically whatever you're thinking about, whatever you're focusing on is going to attract to you, whether it's positive or negative, okay? So if you're constantly worried about something, you're gonna attract more things to be worried about, okay? If you're constantly afraid of something, you're gonna attract more things to be afraid of. But if you're constantly thinking about what you do want and focusing on positive things and things that you like and want to come into your life, then you're gonna attract that as well, okay? And instead of focusing on what you don't want, you need to focus on what you do want. So we need to stop focusing on these type of men that we don't want in our lives. We need to stop acknowledging them. We need to stop talking to them. We need to stop complaining about them. And we need to just focus on the type of men you do want, okay? So right now we're not going to even acknowledge those guys who aren't about anything, who don't know how to treat women. We're gonna focus on the men who do, okay? So the type of men that you're gonna want is a good man who is financially stable, would make a good father if you want children, knows how to treat you, has manners, someone you can bring home to meet your parents, mom, dad, and someone who is respected, you know? Someone who you can brag about to your friends and someone you can be proud to be married to, you know? Someone who is marriage-minded. Someone who values and understands the true worth of having a wife or a long-term relationship. So this is who we wanna focus on now. The guys who have their stuff together. So I just wanna say, guys who have your stuff together or who are getting your things together are your life in order. Thank you for being who you are and striving to be, you know, the type of men most women, you know, want. Thank you for being almost like a lottery ticket when a woman meets you because you are what others strive to be, you know? So thank y'all, thank y'all, good guys. Okay, so track one of these good guys or if, you know, for guys to track one of these good ladies who have their stuff together and not crazy and mentally messed up from past relationships and who know how to let stuff go and move forward in life and not be emotionally paranoid about everything. It's on the type of women we do want. Smart, understanding, kind, nurturing, knows what they want, not afraid to speak their mind. Okay, upfront, unhonest. Let's focus on what we do want and let's say, you know, we have some spare time on our lunch break or ambulance, we live right next to like a fire station. So yeah, there's an ambulance at your buy. Oops. So you're going to want to, like if you have a lunch break or something, you want to take that time to visualize the type of relationship you do want to be in, the type of guy or girl you want to be with, you know, just visualize the future. Like, oh, that's who I'm going to marry, someone just like that. Imagine your wedding day, imagine, you know, your family, your kids, imagine all that stuff. Just keep doing that when you go off the daydream because, or if you meditate or, you know, write or whatever, just keep that vision in your mind and don't let it stray and don't be afraid that it'll never come, you know. And also, don't talk about people that you don't want. Talk about only the guys or the women that you do want to attract. Don't talk bad about the guys anymore, you know. We've been there and done that. We understand the type of man we don't want. So let's play up the man we do want because if you're a woman or a man and you're talking about women and men in a good way, especially the kind that you do want, that's what you're going to start attracting into your life. People aren't going to see you as angry and bitter and mad at the world and mad at guys in general. They're going to say, oh, she's looking for a good man. She's looking for a good man, not just any man, but a good man and she is a good woman because she is talking good about men. So automatically this is going to start attracting good people in your life, good men, good women who know good men, who can introduce you. Okay? Because we all know some, most women aren't all about the money. They just want a decent good man, you know, a good decent medium life and that's fine. You know? So that's what you need to keep in your mind and don't worry about these other guys. Don't worry about the past guys. Don't worry about the guys trying to approach you that you're going to shoot down within two seconds because that's not what you want. You know, start thinking about nice guys and nice women and say, hey, you know, I really appreciate men. And when you're talking about these type of men, you know, say what you like about them. You know, talk about them to your friends, talk about them to your mom and dad. It's like, mom, I want to marry a man who's got all his financial priorities in the right order. I want a good father for my children when we have kids or stepfather, if I already have kids or whatever. Just talk about what you want, not what you don't want. Okay? Keep talking about it. Talk, talk, talk because you never know who's listening who might know someone who might introduce you or you never know what man is listening. Like, oh my gosh, you know, that's me. That sounds like me, you know? Talk up guys with good qualities, that is. And don't even waste your time dogging out guys anymore. Don't even waste your time talking bad about them anymore. Because obviously it doesn't work. They don't care. They're not going to change. I'm sure many women have tried to change them, including their mothers, but they probably couldn't. So they just like chalked it up to lost cause, which we should do as well. We should just move on to the men who are worth our time. Okay? Because while we're spending time bashing these guys, we could be praising the good ones, you know? So let's do that. I know plenty of good guys out there, you know, who know how to handle their business and have a good relationship and be a good father. I see them every day, you know? Sometimes I see them like outside playing with their kids, bringing their wife's flowers home. You know, I see that every day in my neighborhood. You know, people celebrating anniversaries at restaurants. Look at those couples. Try to look at couples that you want to, you know, one day be like, don't look at couples who you know have problem. Look at couples who are happy, happy families, and just vibrate and manifest from those, you know, visualizations and, you know, examples. Because we can't focus on the bad anymore. It's just not gonna work. So, you know, go to places where you're gonna see families. Go to places where you're gonna see good couples who have their stuff together. Go to places and, you know, just watch and see how they are towards each other. Observe, see what type of guy they are, you know? So when you're out and about, you'll recognize it in the man that you meet. You'll say, oh my God, he has qualities just like, you know, that guy I saw who was married to that lady with all them kids and they were so happy. He reminds me of that person. So you automatically know that he has good qualities, you know? So, yeah, I'm stepping away from the negativity for a while, only because it's not gonna really help you. I mean, you already know what to avoid. You already know what type of men don't wanna pay for your meal. You already know what type of men only want sex from you. You already know who that is, okay? Now let's focus on who the type of men who are gonna marry you are, okay? And they are out there, believe me. And a lot of people are trying to use all these stupid statistics that there's not enough men in the world. Da, da, da, da, da, da. Yeah, yes, there is. There's men for, you know, people die every day. Did they forget about that? People are born every day and people die every day. People date out of their age range. People date younger, people date older. People die and are widowed. People, you know, divorce. So they didn't factor in all of that kind of good stuff. So don't worry about that. I mean, think about it. The only people who are really gonna be single are those people that nobody really wants because something is actually just wrong with them, you know? And if nothing is absolutely wrong with you then you shouldn't have any problem finding a mate, you know? Anybody gonna go out and find a boyfriend? That's just easy, you know? But is it gonna be the right one? Is it gonna be the one that it's gonna help you, you know, have a good life, have a better life? Is it gonna be a good father and this, this and that? Oh, yes, I said, you know, y'all know, I said make a list, focus on that list. Focus on men who are good examples, who you wouldn't mind, you know, raising a family with. Based on those guys, you know, let's celebrate the goodness. Let's celebrate the good guys because they're very untalked about. They're very unacknowledged sometimes. They get, you know, piled in with all the other guys and, you know, sometimes we forget to say, you know, thank you. So I know there's a lot of guys who believe in the same thing as I do. And they will say, you know, you're right. Man doesn't need to take care of his family and he doesn't need to get married until he can do so. My man's job is to provide and protect for his family and his wife. And that's just how a lot of men still think. And those are the type of men who, you know, get left out. And so I'm just going to tell y'all, thank you for thinking like that. Thank you for holding on to those same values. And thank you for understanding and knowing a woman's worth, a wife's worth. Okay, so if y'all are seeing, if there's anybody, any of those guys out there who are single, who believe in that, you know, I'm sure there's a lot of single ladies watching this. So maybe y'all can put some in the comments and start a conversation. I don't know. I'm so thirsty today, y'all. Anyway, and you know, just walk around thinking about what you want instead of, you know, a lot of men complain about women walking around with attitudes and don't want to talk to you. And like, yeah, well, those women who don't want to talk to you, they don't know if you're a nice guy or a good guy. That's why they act like that because they're used to encountering negative situations. So if you're a good guy, you want to approach a woman, you just smile and make eye contact. Don't say nothing to her. Just smile and make eye contact. Let her know you appreciate what you're looking at. Don't make any, just like, you know, smile. Like don't make her feel uncomfortable with your smile. Like you're looking at her booty or whatever. Just smile like a respectful smile. And if they feel comfortable, they will actually give you a sign to come and talk to them. They will be like, they might look your way or they might look back and they might say, you know, walk a little slower or distract themselves or fake drop their phone so you can come and approach them. Okay, and women give off signals like that. Men who like hoop and holler at women and like say, hey baby girl, you know, women are like, oh my God, they do that to everybody. Let me get up out of here. You know, but if you just smile, a respectable smile and, you know, you look good, she looks good. You're attracted, she's attracted. She's gonna slow down, drop something, turn around, wait for you to come get her. Okay, so that's the signal. I know that's what I used to do when I was single. Like if I saw a guy I liked and he didn't like hoop and holler at me, I was even more interested. I was like, oh my God, he's cute and he didn't even hoop and holler, but he did smile. So guess what? I'm gonna drop my purse or my phone or my lipstick or I'm gonna backtrack and go this way and I'm gonna make sure he sees me looking at him and then eventually, yes, they do come over, you know? So guys, remember that. You see a lady looking back at you and they drops something and they're fidgeting around and slowing down and that means they want you to approach them unless they're just really clumsy. But yeah, that's usually the sign, come on. Okay, so I'm gonna end this video and I hope that y'all take what I said into consideration and start focusing on the men you do want and ignore these other guys. I mean, I'm not even gonna acknowledge these trolls anymore because it's wasted my time. We already know those aren't the ones that we're looking for. So, well, I already got mine, but y'all, I try to put myself in y'all's shoes. I will say, thank you good guys, thank you good men and I'll see y'all later, bye.