 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and today We're going to be talking about how to attract a guy and hopefully you're trying to attract a quality guy here But you know, I guess we'll talk about any guys since that's kind of the question that I got asked Earlier is how do I attract a guy? So here it is first step is to find a guy who you want to attract And be open and available to meet him You know a lot of women go out and then they're like in this big group and a guy's like Oh, how do I get over to meet this girl? If you want to meet a guy you have to be open and available you first you have to go out and Go somewhere to meet the guy and second is you got to be you got to be available You got to make it as easy as humanly possible for him The the easier you make it the higher the chances that he's going to that it's going to work out for you and him So the second step here is to get his attention and If you're this is like a guy that you don't know or even if it is a guy that you know You know the best way to get his attention is to make eye contact with him and smile at him and you know even and you know best case and I'm Another thing that you could do is even go over there and like tell him that you want to talk to him And if you want to approach a guy, I have some resources on my website my podcast and and my YouTube channel and stuff about how to do that, but you need to get his attention somehow and Third you need to encourage him to Pursue you so a Lot of guys are put into the friend zone all the time Everywhere they go. They've been put into the friend zone since they're little kids Most guys have most guys and there's some guys that are you know natural born players or whatever But there's some guys that have been put into most guys have been put into the friend zone most of their life And so if he doesn't feel like you're interested in him and you're not encouraging him to pursue you There's a high chance that he's not going to so you know show him interest don't come on too strong and you know Don't you know ignore him completely. There's a middle ground there that you'll want to Encourage him, you know encourage invite him to pursue you more and the fourth step is creating an emotional connection with him which is basically Putting together the process of him falling in love with you Which I talk a lot about in various products videos podcasts programs all over the place so The basis to creating an emotional connection with guy with a guy is connecting to his heart and Allowing him to be a man around you and You know appreciating him for being a man and You know allowing him to be your hero and Allowing him to lead your interactions So that's it for today's video on how to attract a guy if you want more information on how to attract a quality man Into a committed lasting Relationship make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon