 7 reasons why narcissists don't come back Sometimes narcissists come back And sometimes they don't But there are reasons why they didn't come back So here are 7 reasons why narcissists don't come back to you 1. New supply They found a new supply And they are deeply involved in this new situation Because it demands a lot of their time and energy So that they can keep this new person around They have to create a new character to amuse this new person So they don't have the time to come back to you They might occasionally message you But it won't be anything significant Because they don't have the time for it They're too busy with this new person Because it's a fresh new source of supply for them They've got everything to learn about them So they're deeply invested in this new person 2. It ended badly with you Maybe you ended it with them Or they ended it with you Maybe they completely burned the bridge with you They said and did things that are unacceptable So they know they can't come back They know that you wouldn't accept them 3. They don't need to come back Maybe you're still single And they know you can't move on They know that they can go off And you still won't be with anyone So there's no reason for them to come back to you Because you're still under their control They don't need to be there to control you So in those cases they will stay distant They will keep you at arm's length But they may still check in from time to time To keep you locked in To keep you under their control You've met someone You might have found someone already And when they find out about it It will cause a narcissistic injury It will make them very angry Especially if you manage to beat them to the punch And move on before they did Because then they will feel like they're nothing They will feel unimportant Narcissists will often come back just to prevent you from finding something else Even though they don't really want to come back They don't really want you They just want to occupy your headspace and time so that you don't find someone else Which is why they will often come back with these random messages To keep you thinking about them So that you can't think about anyone else So that you still have a home in your heart for them 5. You're no longer susceptible to their manipulation You refuse to cooperate with them You no longer reacted to them in the same way that you once did You became indifferent You no longer respected them And they don't want to be around someone who is behaving in that way around them Because they know they've lost their advantage They know they've failed to hold their position with you They know that you have changed And they're not going to be able to pull you back in So they have no choice but to move on They can't come back to you Even if they wanted to Because they know they're not going to be able to control you If they're going to come back They need you to be hurt They need you to be angry and upset They need you to be longing and yearning for them 6. You don't care You're not mad about anything You're not thinking about them You just don't care So they're not going to come back to you They only hoover when you care When you still have hope that things could be different When you're still longing and yearning for them to change Because they can use that to their advantage They can use it to restore the situation But if you don't care They will try to replace you with something they think is better With someone who they think cares more about them Because that's what they're really looking for They want to be the center of your world They want to be the only thing that matters to you 7. They found something better The narcissist won't come back if they found something better But their idea of better Is really just a better fool Someone who is willing to be their emotional punching bag Someone who is willing to be their doormat Someone who will do whatever they want Whenever they want them to do it And they will only come back if the new situation has failed If what they thought was better wasn't better after all And this can often happen Because they always think the grass is greener on the other side They're always looking for something better But it doesn't work out the way they expect it to So then they come back to you Because you're an option to them But they never consider to put the work in to keep you in the first place Because they don't want to work on themselves Or work on anything with you Which is why they go somewhere else Until that fails and then they come back to you But that's what it really means when they do try to come back They just see you as an option Which is why you have to make it clear to them That it's not going to work out that way Thank you for watching If you found this video helpful, please give it a thumbs up Share your thoughts in the comment section Hit the subscribe button to receive the notifications If you would like to support the channel You can donate at paypal.me-naq-survivor You can book a one-on-one with me on my website It's Naq-survivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon