 This is a crucially important skill because lots of people tell you to go out and touch But if you go up like if it was my I know Damien if I see Damien at a bar. I'm like, hey, how you doing man? How you doing man? And he's like a Body build a boxer build. It doesn't even worry him if I go up and do that to Rebecca. Hey, how you doing buddy? How you doing buddy? She doesn't like it so much and I was probably as aggressive with Damien fantastic shoulders, man As I was with Rebecca So yeah, you touch women very very delicately again I always think of patting a baby duck and once you learn that skill you can keep your hand on them for ages and ages and ages I'm jumping ahead here, but one of my favorite quotes About succeeding at dating comes from a great 80s philosopher by the name of Mike Tyson And he looked into the camera. I'm not gonna do a Mike Tyson imitation and said boxing It's not about strength speed and skill. He says boxing is all about spirituality And it hit me. I'm like what and his claim And I'm not gonna argue with him was that he won the fight in the stardown He never lost a stardown till later in his career. And if you look at the greatest boxer of all time Muhammad Ali I mean he's you know one of my spiritual people. I know of his famous. So anyway back to you're on a date with a girl and So you're touching her touching a touching her now the big trick I believe is when you look her in the eyes and shut up I'm gonna do this in front of 40 guys. That's probably gonna be very good or try and Then you drop your eyes Down to her lips for about five seconds and then you move back up to her eyes Did you all get that so eyes? 10 seconds No talking slowly down to her lips and When you're doing this don't think man. I want to fuck her think oh my god. She's so beautiful and there'll be some sort of spiritual energy connection that will happen and the girl will feel that and If you've done that can you just explain to the guys? What a woman feels in that situation if a guy does it correctly? I mean And the message is That you want to sleep you want to fuck the girl that's the message so yeah eye contact down to lips Okay, can everyone if you're watching at home do this with the person beside you Can everyone interlock fingers with their next door neighbor like that? Please It'll get you more sex. I promise Now how uncomfortable does that feel? Now if a girl's not drunk and she's not some crazy party girl if she lets you interlock fingers like that I mean this might be my kiss test. It's not an absolute guaranteed certainty But you know, it's pretty likely that you're doing well because it's just not comfortable You don't want to do this with a girl that you're not intimate with I am I did some Salsa at one stage and there's some attractive girls there But I had to interlock fingers with girls. I wasn't attracted to and it wasn't much fun so it's quite a thing to interlock fingers like that and another Probably one of the greatest lessons I got in my entire Girl life. I was an ashram in India and I met these girls and they taught me one of the simplest lessons of my life But one the most powerful and Burya Rebecca I'm gonna teach you how to hug So actually might turn you around Hopefully you're still here hug a girl and just hold her gently hand a small of the back and Breathe when she breathes you can tell her this if you want just breathe in and out at the same time I don't know you like we're both starting to relax doing this just after a few minutes and In the seduction community. Thanks. There's all these incredible ways to get a girl into bed. That's the best It's so good I can tell you story after story after story how I met a girl in a bookstore and had her in bed with 50 within 50 minutes And it's because of that I go I'll teach you this thing I learned in India and I do that and it produces some I don't even know what you call it some Spiritual connections some chemistry that could take three or four dates and that's not all You should see what the first night sex is like it is out of this world because there's this chemistry between you like You've already been together three or four times So yeah You have to let a girl know that you want to fuck her very very important It's not just that you get more sex. It saves you so much time How many of you have been on like four or five dates with a girl and then it just went nowhere How much time does that take how many of you know that on the first two dates with that girl She was probably very keen to sleep with you and she decided before the date that she was gonna sleep with you But you just didn't take any action So she might have been attracted to you to attracted to you initially it saves so much time in your life So let a girl know that you have a sexual interest in her by the three methods. I've shown you and see what happens Next time you're in a bar and you're having a good conversation with a girl Five ten minutes in try what I just showed you look her in the eyes hold eye contact Drop down to the lips and look back up to the eyes. Try that and see what happens I've done that many times. I've done nothing else I've you know, I've touched the girl in the arm and I've done that thing and often times the girl starts trying to initiate Sex herself, which is wonderful And if you guys have a date in the next few weeks Swear to God you're gonna practice it within the first half hour as soon as the conversation gets good Practice that and see what happens. This is really really powerful Remember what the great philosopher Mike Tyson said what would I what quoting Mike Tyson? Getting better with women meeting them approaching them dating them Sleeping with them so that they remember you for the rest of their lives. It's all about spirituality. It's about an exchange of energy I Really love to pick on English-speaking white men a lot Because we're really pitiful Particularly the really smart ones Some of the best lessons I've had in my life were guys from with from guys from Brazil or France I've traveled with guys and met guys Staying in backpackers who literally will sleep with more beautiful interesting intelligent, you know American girls Australian girls Canadian girls In their three months summer vacation a lot of our guys do in their lifetime. Can anyone tell me why this is? Don't care. Sorry They move things forward You know many of the Brazilian men I've hung out with their philosophy with women is I have a penis Therefore women will be attracted to me Do any of you like that philosophy? Do any of you have it? You wouldn't be here if you did The philosophy of most English-speaking men particularly the very intelligent ones is I need to do really well at school I need to get into engineering medicine commerce or something at a good school I need to study really hard and be one of the top graduates so I can get a great First-up job. I need to get work experience a good company needs to do postgraduate studies while I work and essentially Work 50 hours a week and then go do part-time study another 20 or 30 hours a week. I need to leverage myself the hill to get A nice car Place a nice postcode. Oh, and I need to go to gym and build lots of big muscles, too And when I do all that I'll be really attractive to women So while the the Brazilian guy when he's 14 he's sitting around with his buddies studying To become a master of pussy administration Piece of fruit Hey, how'd you do that with that girl? Yeah? Yeah, she came like a motherfucker, man. Yeah As dumb stupid white English-speaking men and dare I say a lot of Asian men We become engineers and doctors and masters of business administration So you can be the come the master of pussy administration and get all this stuff when you're 13 and 14 Or you can become a master of business administration And maybe if you're lucky get it when you're 34 and you've got your second degree and you're earning 150 grand a year And you've got your German sports sedan and the Swiss watch and the Italian jeans and all that stuff So if we had Bora Rebecca again So the third okay, the first thing was English-speaking guys We're scared of making mistakes. The second thing is we don't let a girl know that we want to sleep with her and the third Oh my god, is my phone off and the third thing we do is we don't lead. So I'm Just want to have this for the camera I'm standing over here with my buddy