 This may be one of the most important narcissist videos on YouTube everything the narcissist does is to elevate like grandiose view of themselves Everything they Do is to inflate their own feelings of self-importance. I saw that it really is When they first meet you They love born you Not because they love you Not because they care about you Not because they're really interested in building a relationship with you They do it Because it makes them feel important or special But it isn't long until the crowd and you start to see them as they actually are When that happens You throw Outfalls a sense of self-importance Just by you being who you truly are It makes them feel small and that is why they have to devalue you That is why they have to insult you and put you down Because again It comes back To those feelings of self-importance They need To feel like there's something more than what they actually are But if you start to figure them out Because of that point You're affecting them more than they're affecting you They can no longer make you feel small if they can no longer pull you down to their level They're left with no other choice But to just get rid of you When you're no longer susceptible to the narcissist Nebulations they have to just completely cut you off But it all comes down To how important they feel when they're around you this is a pattern that we can always witness In a narcissistic relationship if the narcissist feels important around their victim They're going to stay it's only when you threaten That false sense of self-importance But they then have to get rid of you You see there's really no winning with a narcissist because Even if you try to become The best relationship partner for them You do everything they want exactly how they want it You try to make them happy by doing that You're actually making them feel small You're making them feel inadequate Because they already know they can't do that for you They already know that they could never Measure up to who you are And in fact, that's the reason why they targeted you in the first place It's because they knew you were better than them That was not true They wouldn't have even noticed you I'm sure many of you when you go out to restaurants or Wherever you go with a narcissist You've seen how they treat people who They really believe are beneath them But many times that may often be just because That person has threatened Their view of themselves Their false sense of self-importance Because when it comes down to it, that's all that really matters when you're a narcissist They don't value anything else And really they don't value Building something for real Being important for real Because if they did then they would actually Take the steps to make that a reality many people say the narcissist only cares about themselves and While from one side of things that may be true, but there is another side to it because Actually the narcissist doesn't even care about themselves They don't even value themselves Because a long time ago they abandoned who they really are and created a false self One that they hope to be admired One that they hope to be Treated better than Their true identity so of course The narcissist didn't even value themselves And they abandoned who they really are What hope have you got in your relationship with a narcissist? They're just going to do the same thing to you or They're just going to keep you down for as long as you choose to stay with them because everything good about you Everything that they talk to you for It's making them feel small It's making them feel unimportant It's making them feel insignificant All the narcissist really cares about Is feeling important That's all that matters to them And they will do anything to get there Including Abandoning who they really are Binding in the people who truly care about them None of that really matters to a narcissist, but yes On the topic of importance I Do believe that This is one of the most important narcissist videos on YouTube And I believe that everyone needs to watch Watch this video so they can know What the narcissist is truly about I do hope that this video has helped you and Please give back to other victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse By giving this video a thumbs up sharing the video Leave a comment in the comment section Let's just get this message out there To realize that there is no pleasing the narcissist no matter what you do Either way they're going to feel threatened by you like You're better than them because they're so full of shame They're so full of envy and jealousy Anyway, I'm just here On the rooftop of my condo Got a beautiful view out here The sun is shining just living my life and And I'm sorry for Any narcissist who are watching this video If I made you feel less important You don't have to watch any more of my videos, but yeah For everyone else, I hope it inspired you To know that We can move on from these relationships and live a happy and fulfilling life Yeah, I just like to thank you all. I hope you all have a good day