 Hey Virgo, welcome back to the channel. This is Kelly from House of Virgo. If you're new, welcome. Please smash that like button and do subscribe if you enjoy the reading. Keep in mind this is a general love reading. Some of the messages may or may not resonate. Take with Fitz, leave the rest. This is a channel for Virgo, Sun, Moon, Rising, or Venus, but all signs are welcome. All right Virgo. Hi everybody in the chat. How are you all doing with this Mercury retrograde? Oh my goodness. It's a doozy, isn't it? Okay, let's get into this reading for May 2023. See what the messages are. Okay, I've got the butterfly. Relationship is evolving to the next phase, healing the inner child and growth. Wow, Virgo. I feel like there's something evolving with another person in your life at this time or will be. I don't feel like it's easy. There may be some difficulties. This is kind of like a birth, some growing pains. Okay, now when I say love, let me just give the caveat. This could be romantic love. This could be a relationship or a love relationship with a family member. This could be with a close friend. Okay. You also have passion, insane chemistry, liking each other equally, and having fun. So you might be connecting with someone or taking a relationship to the next level and you've got hand of cards. So someone's taking a chance, taking a risk with you in May. Being strategic, looking at their options, not showing their hand, gambling. Okay, Virgo. So what's going on here? Let's see. It feels like you're going to be coming across someone in May where I feel like this person, maybe you already know them or you're already connecting with them, but it feels like in May there's going to be like this huge metamorphosis and change to bring a relationship to a higher level of commitment. There's passion involved, someone realizing you both have insane chemistry, enjoying each other, liking each other, and this is a risk here for someone. Okay. I don't know why it's a risk, but maybe we'll find out as we go, but there's something definitely here where, I mean, it's a good risk. I'll say that it's a good risk. It's something that someone really wants to come out of their comfort zone and take a leap of some sort. I feel it feels like it's like, well, I guess you could call it like a necessary transition. It could involve relocating or moving. Someone traveling or moving to you or vice versa, inviting you to connect with them or move in with them or go somewhere with them to you know, seal a relationship in some ways. Wow. I feel like these, I feel like these cards were here right in the same position in the last video I did. Somewhere close to that. Yeah. There's this new opportunity coming towards you here. Okay. Someone's really, there's a potential for a long-term relationship. Someone wanting to invest or both of you investing in a relationship going forward. Wow. Okay. Wow. Yeah, Virgo. Four of wands. Um, so I feel like whoever you're connecting with right now, it's definitely, um, there's, okay. So they're saying someone may be inviting you to meet their family or vice versa. Remember, the rules can be reversed, but I feel like, um, this is an 11 11 connection. This is like the angels have blessed this divine connection here. There's structure and foundation, um, family, commitment, marriage. Okay. Um, being invited to go to maybe a wedding or some type of outdoor event with someone. Okay. Let me see. Yeah. There's communication. Someone here is very like they are definitely smitten with you. Who is this person Virgo? Um, they may also have a child or you do, but, uh, there's definitely going to be communication with that page of wands here. Someone who's super excited, um, about connecting with you. Okay. And the whole purpose of the connection is to take a relationship to the next level. There's a huge change. Trans, uh, it's like a metamorphosis. It's going from being in that cocoon energy where it's very stuck and nothing's happening, but there's like this growth that's happening inside that no one can see. And then, you know, like something is blooming here with someone or someone's passions and heart and feelings are blooming for you. Okay. Let me see. Okay. Oh, every single time. I can't with this anymore. Every single time. Why does the King of Swords want to show up in your readings all the time here? I'm also hearing an opportunity to heal something, um, from the past healing something from the past. Yes. King of Swords, Gemini, Libra, Aquarius could be their sun, moon, rising or Venus somewhere in their chart, but, um, maybe it's your child who's all grown up healing a childhood trauma or an issue that happened when they were younger and they're grown now and there's a change in this relationship and it's a real risk, um, to come forward and talk about feelings. I'm hearing that as well. Okay. What else is going on? Show me this King of Swords because this King of Swords is very, um, not overly emotional, very logical and strategic. Okay. Okay. They have a lot of passion though for you and, um, I'm just hearing going for it. Somebody is going for it or they're going for it. What are they going for? Oh my goodness. I have all kinds of things happening, all these bells and whistles, um, seeking some, oh my goodness, Siri's talking to me and I don't know why she needs to shut up. So the high priestess, um, this person has like some psychic energy about them. They know that like they know something. They have this intuitive wisdom. They want to know the secrets is what I'm hearing. They're trying to get it some secrets that they think that you are keeping while you're not opening up to them. They want to know if you, I'm hearing if you will forgive them. They want to know if, um, you will accept their love or their offer. That's what I'm hearing in May. Okay. That's interesting. Either if you'll forgive them or if you will accept, I feel like this person has been trying to offer the love and I feel like they think that you are, um, kind of blocked. Like you're not, you don't want it. It's interesting. This person sees a pathway out of a situation that's not good. They, they, they're kind of like standing at the crossroad. Like they know that they need to cross the threshold with you with something here. And I feel like they're definitely, that's why they have a hand of cards, because there's this energy of like taking a risk here. It's a big gamble. Okay. Um, for them, they know they have to cross this threshold with you and they want to do it. Um, they're on fire for it. You know, they know that, um, they want to know what the secrets are, what you might be hiding and why you're not accepting, why you might not accept their love. They want to keep offering, you know, that ace of cups sitting there. That's kind of like a blessing of forgiveness and healing. Um, let me see. I feel like somebody wants your forgiveness. I really do. Okay. Ace of sorts. Wow. Yeah. They want to bring clarity or they're seeking clarity with you. Try to have a conversation, initiate some kind of conversation. I feel like that's how that's how it's going to start. Um, there's a desire here to be the victor overcome some obstacles. Um, go through them, deal with them, overcome whatever problems, clear the air with you. I'm hearing. Oh my gosh. I can't believe all these beeps, all these dings and beeps. Okay. Now I have the queen of swords. Yeah. Definitely both of you communicating. Okay. So, you know, whatever you are, you know, masculine or feminine energy, the king and the queen of swords are a match. So I'm definitely feeling there is going to be some clear cut communication, crystal clear explanations of things. Um, and I feel like whatever you're harboring inside or whatever you're keeping within, I feel like you're going to, um, talk or let this person know what you, what you've been keeping in and they're going to do the same. Um, somebody wants to know how you truly feel and what you're thinking and what you are not sharing with them. I feel like they're coming to seek those answers from you. See, I can't believe you have three aces in this reading. I just cannot believe it. That's amazing. Um, I mean, I feel like this person sees the potential for growth, growth with you guys, with you both to overcome whatever problems you have and kind of plant new seeds and start sprouting some new foliage in this relationship. Yeah. I just overall, Virgo, it just feels to me like somebody really wants to try to like, they want you to open up. They want you to talk to them. They're going to talk to you. They want to ask you questions. They want to clear the air. They want to state their case, tell you what's going on, tell you what they're thinking, what's happening with them. Um, um, they want to understand you better because I feel like something here, this is the whole change. And I, like I said from the beginning, it's, it's a metamorphosis of change, but you know, it's not comfortable. It's, it's, it's really like getting real with each other. Like this person wants to get real and they want you to get real. And they're not so sure that you're going to be able to open up to them. They don't know if you will or not. They're hoping, you know, they see often to the horizon that there's such a huge chance or potential to talk about things and just, I don't even know if it's give closure or just take it to the next level. Okay. I mean, I feel like this person is willing to fight for this relationship. You know, whoever it is, whoever you have this connection with that you're having some struggles with, I feel like this person, you know, they're a little bit defensive. I can say that maybe they were in the past or they view you that way, but I do feel like with the magician, this person, there's Gemini energy there. This person is definitely going to try to make something, manifest something here with you. If they think that you're defensive, which I kind of feel like they see you with your arms crossed a little bit here, where you're kind of like blocking or you just not sure what to do or if you want to take any kind of like healing blessing or try to heal a relationship. I feel like this person sees you as being a bit defensive or just kind of push them back on that. But, you know, they're coming in to work some magic here. Yep. Positive. Positivity, opening up, exposure. So this is like they want you to tell them everything. And I know you probably don't want to because you're protecting yourself maybe or you're kind of like even sometimes when the arms are crossed, it can be a sign of like protecting yourself or hugging yourself, you know, like trying to feel better about something, self soothing. Leo energy here as well. So I want to manifest something positive here with you and try to create something joyous and happy, happiness within a relationship here. Okay. There's another Leo card, so strength. Okay. So this person comes in with like this courage. Could be liquid courage, but this courage, I feel like this person wants you to talk, like to try to open up your mouth. They're trying to get your mouth open so you could speak. I feel like this person views you as like you're not talking. You're not talking to them. You're in, you've gone within. The high priestess in the hermit can sometimes be very similar, you know, where both of them are not communicating. And we have a high priestess here and I feel like this person kind of views you as like, you know, you're, you're, you're just keeping things to yourself. Why do you not want to open up to this person? They want you to talk to them. Okay. Well, right now it looks like you're trying to gain your balance, get in a place of peace, or at least we'll be going forward. You're trying to like really temper yourselves maybe so you don't argue or you don't lash out. I feel like you're really tempering yourself. You don't want to, you must be trying to protect yourself. Do you have a fear? I mean, what is wise for a go? Not wanting to open up. Not wanting to tell this person their secrets or anything. Okay. You don't want to burden this person with your problems or go. You feel like you might be a burden if you tell them or that they might push like not be interested or not want to hear about this stuff. Yeah. That's like the biggest message. You just kind of like, no, don't just forget it. Forget about it. Don't want to talk about it. Okay. Let me see. Yeah, you're just trying to like keep to peace. You're just like, no, I just don't, I don't want to talk about anything. I just keep everything just very static. Keep to peace. Not any problems. It's too much of a struggle. Don't bother. Try to get anything out of me. And I feel like this person just wants you to talk to them. They want to talk to you and they want you to talk to them and they want you to unburden yourself, you know? Why is this night of pentacles here? This person wants to help you. That's what I just heard. Whatever you're doing, whatever you're working on, it's like, I feel like this person is going to come in and try to help you or is trying to contribute to whatever you're trying to do here, this consistency of balance and stability, whatever you're trying to do here, or I feel like this person is like making an offer to you. You know, some of you, Virgo, they just gave me the weirdest message. Some of you are just so tired of doing this person's dishes. They keep bringing in another plate and there you are. Like, you don't feel appreciated for something. You just don't feel appreciated and I kind of feel like you don't want to open up because you don't feel like they appreciate you. But I feel like you got to change that narrative. You know, if you're, for example, you're constantly doing the dishes and they keep throwing a plate in the sink. I mean, Virgo, you could just leave the plate there and let their plates pile up so they can do it themselves or just give them, just, you know, do your own, wash your own dishes and give them paper plates so they can take care of it. Just let yourself off the hook, I feel. I don't know. It's just such a weird message. If you're doing everybody's dishes, you got to set some boundaries, Virgo. All right. So some of the sorts in the reverse, Virgo, I kind of feel like this person is making some changes here. They're not coming to dump a plate in the sink. They're coming to help you wash them or dry them. This is, I know it's a strange message. I know you guys know the tarot and when you look at the Knight of Pentacles and the Eight of Pentacles, who the heck gets that message? But that's where my intuition comes from and I feel like this person may have in the past not contributed in some way to the little things that make you feel appreciated. To feel like you're just not there serving someone all the time but that you're both doing something together here. You're both contributing. This person might have run away. They dropped the plate off. I know. Why am I talking about dishes? I don't know. They dropped the plate in the sink and then they go on their own way and expect you to do everything. There's change happening here with the Seven of Swords in the reverse. This is basically like someone who, I don't know if you said a boundary, but somebody's coming in to make amends here for, I feel like, like the way they treat you. But they can't. I mean they can, but you're hesitant to, yeah, I don't know what it is Virgo. It's like you don't want them to feel bad but by, where is this coming from? It's like somebody didn't treat you well and now they're coming in to transform the relationship or say that they're sorry but you are just trying to keep everything peaceful and you don't want to address stuff here. You're closed off to this but at the same time it's what you really want. But you don't want to open yourself up to this because you don't want to feel like you're a burden. It's so odd. It's so odd. All right. I don't want to leave that there. If that pops back out again. You don't want to have to command someone to respect you. You want them to just do it on their own. You don't want to have to tell them. That's your burden Virgo because we have to tell people. You have to lay boundaries. You have to have like your rules for yourself. You don't have to have rules for other people ever. That's craziness. You just have to have rules for yourself. What you will won't tolerate with people or at least what you will and won't accept, not tolerate. That's a harsh word because we all have to tolerate people at some point, right? But I feel like you struggle Virgo with trying to have boundaries for yourself. That's all. Instead of going to another person who irritates you and tell them you have to stop irritating me and you need to change this, I feel like the actual path should be. I don't like how I'm treated in this relationship and I'm going to tell this person how I feel about these certain things. I'm not going to tell them that they need to change or ask them to change. I'm just going to tell them or show them how I'm going to handle it. That's where the boundary setting comes in. It's never about going around in the world and telling people how they need to be in order to be with you. It's saying to the world this is who I am and this is my boundary line. There's certain things that I will and I won't accept. I feel like maybe there's a struggle with that Virgo. It's kind of like you're kind of on the fence speaking of boundaries because it's like you really don't know how to navigate that and maybe you're learning that. Right now trying to figure out what boundaries you need to put up and what you don't. So it's kind of like I was saying with the hermit. It's a little bit of self-reflection rather than being accusatory or telling someone that, and Lord knows I've done it myself, tell people they need to change or that they haven't changed. It's us who needs to change, not other people. It's us who needs to read readjust our boundaries with people and just tell them okay I see how you're being and that's who you are and I accept that that's who you are but this is who I am you know and and this is how far I'm willing to go or how far I'm not willing to go with you right and I feel like this is the biggest thing but I do see somebody here wanting to make this change but I feel like you don't want to talk about this with the person because you don't really know how to navigate that situation or really how to deal with it. So you're just kind of climbing up right. If you need to set boundaries with someone Virgo for yourself I would suggest find figure out what they are and do them immediately okay. I don't I don't really believe in like trying to make other people suffer because I feel like that's not helpful and it's not healthy. I feel like when you get or if you get to a point where you open yourself up to have a conversation with this person I feel like the most important thing for you to discuss is using I words not you words. The most important thing to say is well I felt blank when this happened or when you had said this like talk about how you feel Virgo not with the intent to change another person or place guilt or do anything like that but just to express how you feel and it's a risk because when you do that if you're doing that with someone who is takes advantage of that or laughs at you or tells you you're crazy for feeling a particular way or does any of that then you have to set an even stronger boundary with that person and remove yourself from them because they're not hearing they're listening with their head they're not listening with their heart you know and you have to be able to discern that with people there's some people that you open yourself up to and they will throw back in your face and when that happens it's it's very sad you know but what's even sadder is if you stifle yourself for the rest of your life never stifle your heart you know and you can't worry about how someone else is going to feel some people will appreciate and say hey wow I didn't know you felt that way and thank you for telling me that because I really didn't know um some people don't even know they're doing things honestly it's a shame but some people things are so ingrained in their their heads and their minds and their hearts from whatever they learned that they don't even know that they are by their actions or the words can hurt people you know and and work guilty of that too a lot of the time self-reflection is is legit it's like stepping back and taking a moment and thoroughly analyzing why we're feeling a particular way about a person place or a thing that is occurring in our lives before we react to it and I definitely feel like you're not trying to react but it's like the next step okay the question is do you feel safe to share with this person you know do you feel safe to open up and share how you feel or will they just either negate your feelings or will they accept them and say okay well now that I know how you feel maybe let's see what we can do and try to change that's what a healthy relationship is you know um if someone says something to you Virgo about something that they were uncomfortable with I mean I don't know about you if somebody tells me that I'm kind of like if I really love that person I will just be like oh wow um I didn't know I was doing that or thank you for sharing that with me what can we do what can I do to make this situation better you know um so if you want to Virgo if you want to some of you are dealing with someone who's just trying to get into your into your blocked heart where you're safeguarding yourself and some of you are just not trying to have that because you might have been connecting with someone that was just really not hearing with the heart you know or things like that but I will tell you Virgo that I do see like somebody wants to transform something here I'm definitely not telling you to take a chance on someone that is hard of hearing so to speak you know I think you should always protect your heart always and that's a boundary okay let me Virgo you've got this the nine of swords let me see nine of swords and the eight of wands Virgo some of you I do feel like there might be this thing where you stress that if you open up this person's gonna everything is just going to come flooding back but this is a card of good news some of you don't want to hear the good news that this person wants to connect with you others if you were just stressing about it because you don't want to open yourself up yeah so you're really trying to maintain equilibrium here within yourself that you've got this two of pentacles in the reverse and this is completely being um like just struggling and feeling overwhelmed um about letting somebody come towards you or you know try to connect with someone you're you're like scared to death Virgo you're on the verge of collapse with with I don't know you're having nightmares about this it's almost like like you want to love someone and you want them to appreciate you and to accept you and I feel like someone's gonna try here you know but I don't know Virgo maybe it's too soon there's a lot of fear connected to this eight of wands and what if it falls apart what if we you know you're you're you're all up in your head you know what if you open this person comes in and you open yourself up to that and you give it a chance and then things move so quickly that you become confused or you feel like that you feel like what if they're not going to commit or you feel overwhelmed by things you know you don't want to be love bomb that's for sure wow Virgo yeah a lot going on what the heck in May okay night of sorts two of sorts wow well this is about compromise but why is it night of sorts here with this I kind of feel like Virgo you know communicating with this person I'm hearing they're saying tell Virgo this person needs to show that they're willing to compromise with you and they need to show that they're willing to not berate you or not Virgo you're very sensitive especially the female Virgos you want to be heard you don't want to be laughed at for having the feelings that you have you know you don't want someone to you need someone to hear you and I feel like that's going to be the the message here to this person you know that's your boundary I need to be heard and I need to be validated in some way that you hear me that you are understanding me that you are empathizing with how I feel to the best of your ability that you show some type of compassion that you don't berate me or tell me I'm crazy for feeling the way I feel you know you're not looking for a judge and jury it's not a trial and I feel like your communication about your boundary is that I would open up to you and I would love to be able to have conversation and tell you what's going on with me but I need you to be open to hearing and not judging me or telling me how to fix it or telling me what I need to do or how I need to change just as I'm not going to do the same for you but I'm not going to open my heart or communicate with you about what's going on deep inside of me my secrets only to have you you know that's like me giving you my treasures and then you stomping all over them with your foot because Virgo you're not really one to share your deepest emotions you need to be able to trust and this person needs to come in and I feel like that's your conversation with them you know this has to be a two-way street not a one-way street if they're so curious to know they better not be coming in just to try to open you up only to throw you away I feel like you're very uh I don't know who this you know it feels like it's an air sign Virgo and wherever the air is in their chart if it's a tough match here okay the fool yeah hmm and Virgo says and then once I once I realize that you're going to appreciate what I have to say and you're going to have empathy and understanding this is intuitive understanding here with the two of swords you know this is uh going within you see the moon and the water you know I feel like Virgo your your thing is I'm not going to share because I don't feel safe and when I do feel safe to open up to you and I feel like you are going to receive me um in a heartfelt way then I'll take that risk myself yeah deep stuff Virgo let's see the outcome okay wow stability ten of pentacles leaving a legacy oh and the devil okay capricorn energy aquarius let me see and Virgo don't build the house with the devil if you feel like this person like if you know as you're listening to this like no this is too much toxicity no then you got to go I don't even entertain it even if you've left don't entertain it um because sometimes you know there's there's people who are just absolutely toxic like they are intent on destroying you and then there are people who are not house of the devil let me see here the outcome all right Virgo so you know all right there's Aquino Wands Leo Sagittarius Aries you need to purge yourself Virgo your house represents your temple your mind body soul okay you need to purge yourself of some type of toxic stuff that's within you absolutely you need to save your home there's some kind of like dark clouds somewhere that you need to like get rid of this that's scary I'm sorry that I'm saying that but it's attached to a queen of wands um some of you this could be someone that you grew that was in your family of origin or maybe that you were married to male or female or that you were in a relationship with or something was very toxic in a marriage that is still got its claws in you so there's a there's a need here to um untie these knots that are all bound up in your muscles some of you have physical pain from the stress of of something in your in your house where that where the devil resides devil has no home shouldn't have no home in your body mind in your soul or even in your home your actual house who is this queen of wands okay this could be a friend this could be somebody had to drink a problem maybe that alcoholic or had some type of an addiction or something um I'm hearing projection maybe projected things on to you male or female mother father past acts of some sort someone from before like to party all right so Virgo the outcome really is just you know Virgo it's a snapshot of a very long halter monitor EKG this is basically I feel like you got to get yourself free 100% free and stable 100% I kind of feel like you're trying you know um I don't know if you're ready to talk to someone or if you're ready to set boundaries some of you just might be no contact um with a particular person but I kind of feel like I mean there's definitely maybe the metamorphosis and changes within you and you know your passions have gotten the best of you a lot of you made decisions based on your passions and they wound up hurting you in the end um this is your card Virgo this is about stabilizing not just money but for some of you I see you staying single I do while you're going through something here I don't feel like you you're going to be releasing the dragon on anybody that's for sure but I do feel like you are trying to sort things out for yourself during this month okay um let me see what I want to see what romance angels have to say let's take a look okay deception wedding expressing your love huh okay so Virgo um if someone's wearing a false mask in this relationship it could be you it could be another person it could be all of you there could have been um a third party situation with a marriage look at all these people wearing masks but cupids on your side cupids trying to heal your heart um Virgo I feel like you might have expressed your feelings or your love to someone who deceived you um maybe you were married to them or or there was someone who was married um or there was a marriage involved in this and somehow this situation involved a marriage could have been your parents or something I feel like some of you expressed your love to someone who was deceitful but you were also wearing a false mask as well yeah I don't know I'm not going down that road that is so psychological but Virgo I feel like um with the nine of pentacles as the outcome I feel like deal before you heal or heal before you deal backwards I feel like this journey that you're on you know I don't feel like you're trying to be a perfectionist or anything but I do feel like you are trying to build up you know your credit score with yourself you're trying to get yourself like you know you're you're building up your bricks you're halfway there but you know you're building up you know the the foundation in your life here um and it's slow look at the snail it's slow as that snail creeps across it's like a slow growth slow build and I feel like that's what you're you're doing you're transforming as well and it's it's not it's not easy it's it's a little painful sometimes this could be your physical your mental emotional spiritual you know just get one more okay chemistry wow yeah insane chemistry that's twice now there's a strong magnetic attraction here Virgo be careful of that well somebody has that for you that's for sure um but there's more to a relationship than just chemistry there's also compatibility are you guys equally yoked same beliefs same spiritual beliefs the same path in life similarities have to be there not every single one um but there has to be like a bond other than just chemistry you know we have chemistry with all kinds of people you know we we have lots of friends we have some people we click better than with others but that doesn't mean we're compatible to being along you could have chemistry with the mailman but your mailman's married so you're not compatible for a romantic relationship but you have good chemistry when you talk you laugh right whenever you get each other but it doesn't mean it's meant to be it's got to be more than than just chemistry Virgo and maybe you already know that or maybe you're coming to realize that there has to be more than the passion there has to be more this here is chemistry like addiction you know um like drugs and chemistry there has to be more than this because if it's just this it's it's it's it's it's it's not healthy there has to be more than that okay let me say yeah maybe somebody will some of you will tell somebody that yeah you're very attracted to them but you don't have good communication you don't seem to um get on well in other areas but it seems to me like this person wants to try to make some changes but i feel like you got to be the one to say what's going on if you want to like if you want if you want to um all right one of your messages of love vulnerability can be completely open with this person Virgo i feel like this doesn't mean your heart necessarily but it does mean that you should be we should always be open and truthful and honest with people and express how we feel about things and if those people that we try to express our emotions to are uncomfortable or if they reject what they're hearing or if they um laugh at it or they make rude comments about it that just means that you don't need to be open and vulnerable with that person that doesn't mean you should not be open and vulnerable with every single person you meet it's just trusted people okay and so i kind of take offense to this card a little bit because it's saying you can be completely open with this person it depends you know it's sitting on the devil card so you if you're dealing with someone that you know you feel like you don't feel safe with them then no because the devil will come in and try to confuse you or trick you that that's that that's the nature of the devil god does not cause confusion the devil does that's his that's his job he's there to sow confusion and to make you think that he doesn't exist so that you're more confused and that maybe you'll blame it on god you know um be careful if somebody comes in that you don't trust who walks in like a wolf in sheep's clothing it says he can be completely open and honest with me use your discernment just because the tarot card reading is saying that you can doesn't mean you should you know um children are important to this partnership you should be vulnerable and open to your children tell them how you feel absolutely i can't really think of cases where that wouldn't apply but maybe you can tell me but choose self-care first take care of yourself first which means um when being open and vulnerable with someone and or a child or your your offspring use self-care clear your energy field and focus on yourself before acting what is it that you need to say what's important that's going to make an impact that isn't going to hurt other people but is going to be a way for you to share how you feel without without um hurting another person you know without criticism or like anything like that you know whenever we talk about ourselves we we always then avoid hurting other people because we're talking about us how we feel right there's never accusations with that but it can make someone want to say well what's making you feel that way you know and then you can explain let them figure out if there's something to do with them or not but i feel like you can't go wrong when you're sharing nobody can argue with how you feel verco nobody can argue some people will try they'll just say what you're feeling that way because you're not happy with yourself okay well even if that were true it doesn't change the fact that that's how i feel about something here you know and even though feelings are not facts feelings are real and valid and you have to honor them that's what your self-care is honor how you feel you know yesterday and i'm not usually one to go off and tell stories about myself but yesterday was my my father passed away 23 years ago so yesterday was the anniversary of his death and i heard a song early in the morning that reminded me of him and all of a sudden swell of emotions came up out of nowhere and i'm like okay mercury retrogrades kicking my butt but i felt everything at that one moment and it just went on and on i said i need to honor myself these feelings regardless of what everybody has to go and hold for a moment because i need to take care of myself and nurture these emotions and these feelings despite what anybody else says does thinks you know um i had somebody say oh why are you so upset like why what what's going on i mean that was a long time ago i was like i have no idea it just came out of nowhere but i needed to honor those feelings and i did just that and i took that time for myself to take care of myself you know and that's like the most important thing you can do for yourself you know and i felt a lot better of course but you know vergo anything that you need to say self-care first whatever you need to do for self make sure that it's coming from your heart always go with love first i feel all right let me get into this moon pie tarot messages okay so we've got putting an effort and victory recognition and applause wow okay future plans choosing a path i like vergo what i feel like now is you get to choose um maybe you never felt like you got to choose before which i'm not really sure what that means but i feel like you didn't you didn't either you didn't have a choice you didn't feel like you had any choices i feel like the effort that you put into self or your self-care and loving yourself no matter what anyone says does thinks wants you to do whatever it is you get to decide at the end of the day you get to choose that's in the best interest of yourself and you can make your future plans and do what's best for you and other people aren't always going to like you doing what's best for you because they're going to be selfish and think you should be doing what's best for them again throwing the dish in the sink while you're cleaning up after them you know what vergo you weren't born a maid you weren't born to take care of the entire world even if it's your kid i mean if it's your little kid train him right you know teach him but i feel like if you decide that you don't want to quote unquote and this is a metaphor obviously if you decide you don't want to pick up after someone anymore or clean their dishes or you know um enable people to be the way that they are um you can decide that and you can say sorry i'm i'm choosing a path for myself you know um no matter what anybody else wants i mean whether you decide to open yourself up and have a um a relationship with someone if you think there's a chance that things might be changing you can pursue that if you want if the person is like coming in with the bloody storm but if they're not you know or you're not seeing any changes after you've made some effort then then you need to like remove your bound like not removed but change up your boundaries and you know keep certain people at a arm's length as far as what they can get away with you know um i don't know i kind of feel like we're talking about somebody's kids here it's just really you know it's like i always say you know if somebody's coming in and they want to change their ways they need first to know what it is that how you're feeling and what's going on here and um if they don't know and if you explain it to them how you're feeling and they're willing to make the changes then let them and see if it's going to stick like if because if they're really serious about you know someone once told me when i was 16 uh sorry mean you'll never do it again some people use the word sorry but they don't have apologies um um if apologies don't if change doesn't come after an apology then it's just manipulation and you have to be able to discern that when someone apologizes for something you always hope that there's a sincerity to their apology or that they're just not going to say that just to kind of get into your good graces because some people will do that you know um there has to be consequences and amends made and change made after apologies if someone's constantly saying they're sorry that's a boy that cried wolf oh nope made a mistake eventually that you know it doesn't work out too good in the end so i feel like for you Virgo you can decide and i just kind of feel like that's really the strongest message here for you you can make the decision about what you you have that free will you can do what you feel is best for you and you should you know um okay let's try the chinese signs and see who this person this air sign coming in what their chinese sign is you and or them just let me give this a little bit of a shuffle and then also Virgo i have to say um choose choose your pain Virgo choose your battles okay someone is year of the dragon year of the tiger year of the horse year of the dog year of the rat tiger again rat again year of the ox year of the monkey rooster and a pig okay all right Virgo let's see i'm gonna do your dice i'm gonna skip over some of the names tonight i'm gonna do your dice and then i'm gonna do your charms okay so we've got a capricorn showed up there gemini of course libra and pisces okay they might be significant to you those signs okay so oh yeah so september 5th 4th 6th 3rd 10th 9th september 11th and september 7th somebody was born 1973 somebody was 40 years of age okay leo hello leo um aries capricorn again and cancer and scorpio okay september 18th somebody is 59 years of age okay somebody's 54 53 57 okay 2020 very significant year for someone let's see if we have any august 25th 24th and 23rd okay so all right number 201 also 8102 2101 and 810 and also i'm picking up somebody's birthday okay we have december 8th december 10th we have october 12th october 2nd february 8th i don't know let me just do one more here someone's 55 we have june 5th june 4th june 3rd um a lot of june a lot of june showing up what's going on some gemini april 6th and april 9th we also have may 6th so i don't know if these are people that maybe you're connected to march 4th and march 9th okay maybe it's your significant other's birthday if not it doesn't mean it's not your message all right let me get a charm okay okay so to start off you've got the butterfly which is great just like i said there's a metamorphosis change transformation definitely occurring in the month of may very significant with this butterfly okay or maybe you see butterflies somewhere also somebody's getting a tooth pulled or is going to be having surgery to have a tooth pulled a molar or something um or you need to make that appointment or have a root canal some type of dental work i'm seeing dental work maybe you already had it you also have a spider ooh yuck um caught in a web how's that saying go my oh my the web we weave once we practice to deceive okay some of you are caught in a spider's web you need to free yourself from a spider's web or maybe you just find a spider as you're listening to this or you see one in your bathroom and i don't know you get rid of it or something or maybe you just put in a cup and release it out into the wild so you don't kill it i'm not a fan of spiders they don't scare me but i'm not a fan okay and you also have um there's a broken heart here and the other piece is missing the half your heart is empty or that's how you're feeling or you will be feeling like that trying to heal your heart Virgo trying to fill up the rest of those pieces now they're just saying it could be with a Pisces or a cancer yeah you know might be with a Pisces or a Cancer very specifically Pisces or a Cancer okay Virgo so i'm going to leave your reading there um oh and they're also telling me moon heart moon heart i don't know what that means moon heart all right yeah so i'm gonna leave it there again personal reading link is in the description box below do join my channel become a member so you can pop in the live streams on 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