 Hey Tony Gats here not really coming on here to be live for people just kind of doing this So it'd be easily recorded Because if you if I try to Record and then upload it'll take forever. So I'm really just coming on live just to Record this here video and so y'all got to forgive me for that and Trying to make sure I got some type of Sound on here. Let me see here Make sure I got some type of little sound Y'all love Forgive me as I try to get this hill connected But I ain't gonna be on here alone. I just really came on here just to record this Without having to record and upload on this Phone data waiting on my wife. She just went to get one thing out of the store and We're in California But I posted a video and some of y'all have seen if you ain't see the video from this morning go back and watch the video and It's just kind of a thing for me to realize like okay when I do these videos. I need to be at the house I need to be sitting down. I Need to be focused and locked in because when I just be talking and Just kind of you know Talking on hit everything But it is it's sad. I just sent the video over to the comments over to one of my guys who is Influencer single black man and influencing millions and Just to see how many oh Y'all forgive me y'all forgive me come a phone down But just to see how many Blight women just to see how many black women and See that we got the devil in here right now. Michelle. Yes, please be more professional Michelle. That's not the channel for you so Get off my channel if you got specifications and you're not even a supporting member of the channel and That's that's it just the devil at work and The reason why I didn't say be more professional. I said I need to be at my location I'm here in California to support my son in his Tournament and so that's why I couldn't talk for long Because I got my my youngest son back there with me. I couldn't talk for long But and hit every point But one lady I had to block her because she talking about I'm a covert narcissist and I'm telling people I'm telling women to support abusive control and toxic no good sorry men and In nowhere did I in my video did I say? support abuse or support toxic men I Said we should not give up on an entire race of people because you've been hurt Because you didn't been hurt by One or two people and when you think about it most of the pain that people experience Come from one relationship Most of the pain people experience come from one relationship it'd be different if you had a hundred relationships and so and This is the thing what we have to remember is your grandmother Forged your grandmother forged through the fire the pain and She had to bail out her son her grandson and Your son if you are a black woman Your son is gonna be black Even if you have a son from a white man, your son is gonna be viewed as black and so when you say Give up on black men You also telling everybody to give up on your son to give up on your brother To give up on your daddy to give up on your cousin to give up on your uncle and it ain't about being with the person It ain't about it ain't you don't have to stay in a relationship to not give up on somebody You can leave a man you can leave a black man and That will send him a message that he got to get his stuff together That'll send him a message Michelle you block Tom might don't be angry with the truth It don't be angry with that block and see that's the thing people telling you how to shoot your videos and And ain't helping shoot no video block Rebut say block And so listen When we say we giving up when black women say they giving up on a black man, I Guarantee if I sit down with all of those women nine out of ten on what have had one horrible relationship and Then have dated the riffraff Don't win on bumble don't win on tender Dated riffraff when real coaches is telling you stay off the dating sites So you go on tender you go on bumble you go on these different sites You meet the riffraff and then you make a judgment of a whole race based on the riffraff And that's just ridiculous and then come and just do the devil work And you got to realize if the adversary If the adversary want to weaken the people as whole One of the tricks of the adversary is to turn people Against themselves meaning to turn people right against People who look just like them because if your race is in shambles You can't go forward hating each other. You can't go forward being angry mad with each other You can't do that And so this my thing is unlike for Stuff to be misconstrued and for people to be saying oh well You saying support abuse and you saying be with a man That's gonna drag you through the dirt and all of that never once have I ever said that never would I ever say that? That wouldn't even make no sense of being a messenger to say support that my point is what I'm saying is when you've been hurt You have to do the work to heal and To grow so that you don't Just give up on it you giving up on yourself you giving up on your whole race You giving up on your son your brother your uncle your cousin because we all gonna be hurt We all gonna go through things, but if you allow the person who hurt you to have control over you to Where you say I'm done then the adversary has won if you allow somebody who hurt you to then make you take your whole thing your whole mindset off of an entire race then The adversary the one and This is the thing okay, and this is this how you know the devil be working and the thing about it is a lot of time When you see this like this, okay? We can't be there for me who aren't there for us. Nobody said be there for a man who not there for you Because it's not an entire race. That's not there for you It's a no-good man that doesn't hurt you and then you see one or two Toxic men who got a big voice on tiktok and then you associate that with all men and That's not the case when you see other men being raised up and being an example and We doing the work to be a representation and eventually the work is going to be done Eventually it's gonna pay off and so if you taking you just check out Then that the devil don't want that's exactly what he wants you to do. He wants you to give up Right before your breakthrough. He wants you to quit. He wants you to turn against The people and just break down. That's exactly what he wants you to do Hey, but we out here. I just wanted to pop in while my wife was in the store and Shoot that video real quick and just clarify just for those who working for the adversary Never ever in my life. Will I say support or be there for a Toxic controlling abusive man a man who's not trying to grow a man who's not trying to change never will I say that? but what I am saying is Don't take and publicly you criticize in private You praise in public because when you taking publicly bash your own and This is what I tell the man to when you look at my message. I get with the man about publicly Dogging out black women because when you do that you tell people who may be against you That you are divided that you are divided front that your families will not Excel that your families will not grow that your sons will fail that everything is gonna fall about because When you publicly divided it's different to have a feeling and to feel that way and to take it to God in prayer And if you don't believe in God, you don't pray to God It's the wrong page for you And if you're a black woman and you have given up on black men because of one man or two men hurt you Then this ain't the page for you you need to go get some healing if you can't heal here and And you also have to realize that when you publicly bashing men and women and I say the same thing to the man And it's the thing we want the men to hear it Women got to hear it too it go both ways Because the lady who I had to block she come on here calling me names and putting words in my mouth stuff I never said what do I look like and somebody who been doing this 15 years Coming on here and saying a you need to ride or die With a man you need to put up with a man. That's abusing you you need to that don't even make no sense That don't even make no sense, but that again, that's what the devil will do He'll put something in your mouth the car and call you a liar. That's what the devil will do and The fact that it's divided and the same thing to the man I'll say the same thing to the man and to the women stop publicly bashing Stop publicly giving the adversary power to say your people your race your culture is weak and that you hate each other And you're against each other and go and do your work get therapy get coaching Do the work to heal so that you can approach and my daddy taught me this When I changed my life at 23 years old, he said son you have to love as if you've never been hurt before And the reason why he said that is because I was trying to do to my wife The same thing I had done to my ex and I was bringing the same old bringing the same toxicity the same pain The same trauma the same ignorance into a new relationship and he says son You got the love like you've never been hurt before and the problem is today With black men and women is you go through one bad relationship You get hurt and then you paint a whole entire gender race and gender with a broad stroke and Then you limit yourself and you you you break down your opportunity You squander your opportunity because the next person you getting ready to meet could be the person in your dreams But the fact that you then gave up because of what you went through Now you didn't gave the adversary a victory because that's why we're supposed to walk by faith and not by sight And that's why you supposed to try to spirit by the spirit so that when you meet somebody You're not labeling them and blaming them just because of the color they scan You like Martin Luther King say you're looking at the content of their character But when you just label somebody because of the color they scan Just because you have been hurt You're doing the same thing that you don't want white people to do to you Because a white person could have hired a black woman and she stole from their company And then they could have hired another black woman and she stole from their company And then if you go apply for a job or a position or try to get a client and they say no because you a black woman We done with your kind just because they don't come in contact with one that did them the wrong way So when black women say we done with black men because of that one bad relationship That's too bad relationship when you was young and ignorant and didn't know what you was doing And now you blame in a whole race and because you can find five guys online out of millions of men Who are ignorant and toxic instead of labeling a dummy a dummy you take and let the dummy Make you think that the entire race is damaged goods and that right there is a trick of the adversary This is spiritual warfare that we suffering from and that's what you got to realize and understand So a God bless y'all. I ain't mean to come on here alone What has been 15 minutes But watch this again if you missed any of it and understand that do not be deceived do not be deceived Don't be tricked by the adversary The miss your opportunity to miss your blessing and and if it ain't for you, I'm not saying don't date outside your race Yeah, you don't date outside the race date outside the race, but Don't be publicly bashing an entire race of men online Where your comment could be seen by tens of thousands of people of other races Because you done been hurt By pookie It's like come on now That's that's just ignorance and that's to men and women who see and hear this You got to take and handle our problems in house Deal with your trauma in therapy deal with your pain in therapy Then prepare for the dating scene and marriage in coaching in counseling and Keep all the hurt and pain don't come in and bleed on everybody because you've been happy. Yeah, I'm over black. Yeah, I'm done with black Yeah, oh black. We've been a good black. Well, it's like come on. We hurting ourselves. We damaging ourselves So hey, we about to go on to another stove But you know the work got to be done God bless you and we're gonna be in touch