 God may have our lives all planned out seeing our past our present our future all before we were born but that's not an excuse to just sit around and not take any action to not improve ourselves daily and move towards him and our desires. Of course God is who we should be leaning on in both good times and bad but many times we use him as a crutch instead of doing the work to fulfill what he created us to do and be and a lot of times we might not even realize it you have to choose if you're going to show up in all areas of your life in the best way possible and sometimes we use God as a crutch to not move forward