 Or sharing this with someone the other day and thought it might help us all, it's this. You have to love yourself first. I don't mean some narcissistic way, but I mean in a way that you make you your priority when it comes to self-love and self-care, because this person was constantly canceling plans about things they're excited about because other people sort of demanded and hijacked their time. They were rearranging their schedule constantly to accommodate unreliable people who always bailed at the last minute without notice and expected them to just deal with it. And I said to this person, you have to love you first.