 Your perspective regardless of your titular tenure I want every single person in this room to view themselves as a leader and as a leader I want you to adopt the foundational mantra of Transformational leadership which is choosing to see the world through the lens of it's not about me It's about you It's not about me It's about you You need to be able to look every single member of your family in the eye your spouses your significant others and your children and say It's not about me. It's about you You need to be able to look each other in the eye and your respective teams at home and say it's not about me It's about you See when you learn to shift your focus off of what you want from people and Shift it to what you want for people you become the most magnetic leader in any room