 All right. So you're seeing this guy and you want things to turn into a romantic relationship with him. The next step is not to get sexual with him. Nope, the next step is actually to seduce his mind. So a lot of, one of the big mistakes that a lot of women make is that they just associate sometimes with men sex and the act of having sex. But there's a huge emotional component that comes with having sex for men, right? And it comes with you as well. And a lot of times women don't really understand what it is with men, but it's a really important, impactful part of the process with a man. If you wanna keep him interested, if you wanna have that strong, powerful emotional connection when you are romantic and intimate with a man. And so that's what we're gonna be talking about right here, right now, today. My name's Matthew Coast and welcome to today's live stream called Seven Sexy Texts That Men Crave. If you are here today, make sure that you say hi in our chat. Hello, hello, hello. Welcome, welcome, welcome. So we're just gonna jump right into this. So I've got seven texts here that it's not just about what we're talking about today isn't sexting, we're not talking about getting on the phone and having phone sex, we're not talking about any of that kind of stuff. We're talking about seducing a man's mind so that he has a deeper, more powerful, emotional connection with you when you do have sex with them. And so these text messages are for women who are either in a situation where they've been dating a man and they want it to go into a sexual realm or it's for women that are already in a sexual relationship with a man and they want it to be stronger and more powerful. So hello everybody. Hi Jennifer, hi Melissa, hi Amanda, hi Doreen, Maria, Lorraine, Ruth. Hello, hello, hello. Thank you for being here. Make sure you say hi in the chat. If you're here with us, I love it when people do that. So the first text message that we're going to, that I'm gonna give you here, it's a little bit more tame and at the same time it kind of opens things up. It opens things up to him if he wants to start talking about things that he's passionate about if he wants to start moving it. It opens it up. So if he does wanna go into the sexual realm, he can. But it doesn't, it's not specifically designed to kind of take him there. Like I said, we're talking about seducing his mind here. And so this first one, it goes like this. If I were the genie from Aladdin and could grant you any three wishes, what would they be? Right? And the cool thing about this is it allows him to create that whatever direction he wants to go with here. And so like I said, we're talking about passion, we're talking about emotions, we're talking about seducing his mind here. And this one can encourage him to say some things that might charm you, they might make you laugh or they might shock you. So it's a fun one, it's a fun one. Hello, hello, hello, welcome everyone, welcome everyone. All right, so I'm just gonna keep moving along here. If you have questions about anything, make sure that you ask them in the chat and I'll get to them at the end of the live stream. Also, if you're new to our channel, make sure that you hit the subscribe button and the bell notification in order to get more videos so that you don't miss out on anything that we're doing here. So hello, hello, hello. All right, so the second one is moving, we're moving a little bit more into the sexual realm here. And basically you're asking him a direct question that works a little bit better in the later stages of moving into a relationship or if you're in a relationship already. And basically you're creating some sexual tension here and asking him what he likes. And so here's what it goes. Here's how it goes. It's be honest, what about a girl really turns you on? Physically, mentally. And so basically you're asking him to talk about what turns him on, what he likes and getting him in that space of thinking about it and talking about it. And sometimes, especially if you haven't really gotten to a sexual stage with a guy yet, sometimes he might be a little bit hesitant to throw everything out there. Sometimes we have a little, there's a lot of people that have things that they're afraid to share, right? Especially from a sexual standpoint. And so he might not throw everything out and that might be a good thing actually. Initially, if you're not already in a sexual relationship with him and you send him this text message. But it will allow that conversation to get started because I know that I've talked to a lot of women who sometimes they have problems bringing up these topics or talking about sex. And it's kind of a taboo subject for a lot of people. I know in a lot of families and a lot of people's lives they've found that it's very difficult to kind of bring up and talk about the topic of sex. And so this is also something that allows you to kind of bring up that conversation and smoothly flow into that kind of a conversation without it seeming weird or feeling weird about it because it's, this is just a natural way, right? You ask a question, be honest. What about a girl really turns you on? Physically, mentally, right? And so you get to kind of go into those other realms as well and you're kind of giving them a suggestion that you want to hear about other things other than maybe just like body parts or that he's attracted to or something like that. So that one's a good one and it works really well. Hello, hello, hello, hello everyone. Hello Grace, hello Florence. Hello Kelly. Hello, hello, hello. Need to have sexy text or text for long distance relationship, please. Thank you. Okay, so for the text messages, I'm going to put them, I'm going to put them all in the description once we get done with the live stream here. And so you'll get all of them at the end if you missed out on some of them when I'm talking about them here. So just wait for the end and you will get them all. You will get them all. All of the text messages. All right, so number three. Number three is something that we've talked about in some of the other live streams that I've done and some of the other videos that I've done where I talk about text messages. And this one is creating kind of a visual in his mind, right? And so one of the things that is really powerful for men is this thing of experience, right? And kind of hitting these like sensations that a man has, right? His sense of smell, his sense of touch, his sense of his eyesight, like his vision, right? Like in one of the things that, you know, I've talked about a lot is how men are visual and you probably know that ever. It seems like kind of a common thing that a lot of people know. And so this is one of the ways to kind of spark that vision in his mind of you and kind of like being sexual but not really going, not quite going there but kind of getting it into his mind and here's how it goes. Here's how the text message goes. This is number three here. It's really cold in here. I'm covered in blankets and still feeling cold. Maybe I should put some clothes on, right? And so it's kind of like an innocent thing, right? You're starting off just talking about how it's cold and you're talking about how you're covered in blankets and you're still cold. And then you're kind of throwing in there this last thing where it's kind of like a surprise where it's like, maybe I should put some clothes on, right? And so basically immediately he's gonna, he's immediately gonna see you naked, right? In his mind's eye. And it's gonna get those, regardless of whether, you know, you're saying you should put some clothes on because you already have clothes on but you're saying you should put some more clothes on, doesn't matter. In his mind's eye, he's gonna see you naked and that's what you want him to do, right? You wanna see him to see you naked. I had a woman in the last live stream that we did and one of the things that she mentioned was that she doesn't want a guy to have a one-track mind, right? And that's kind of a phrase that a lot of people have used in the past when they're talking about men, like men have this one-track mind and it's just for sex, right? Well, it's a man's job, especially in the early dating stages to try to move things towards a romantic relationship. And if he doesn't try to move things towards a romantic relationship and if he doesn't push things forward, it's likely that he's never going to get there. That's the likelihood, that's the probability is that most guys end up in the friend zone with most women. So a lot of women, they wanna be friends with a guy, right? And they wanna be friends first and maybe they never wanna get to the sexual realm with him. And for most guys, if they're hanging out with a woman and they're pursuing a woman in any way, they're trying to get it to a romantic relationship. And the longer that he stays in the friend zone, the higher the probability that he'll always stay in the friend zone. And most guys know this because it's happened to him so many times. And so it's not about this one-track mind thing here. He needs to, one, he needs to feel like if you've been dating and you haven't gone to the sexual realm yet, that he feels like that's something that's in his future. You know, that's one of the things that it's like the bait, right? The bait for him that makes him keep moving forward, that makes him feel like this is going to be worth it because he's actually going to be in a romantic sexual relationship with you. And so he needs to feel like that's coming in order for him to continue to pursue you and invest in you and spend time with you and do all these things. And if he doesn't feel like that's coming, it'll probably end because he doesn't want to end up in the friend zone. So that was kind of a long, that was kind of a long rant running off there. So what we're going to do here is okay, so, okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. So we just did number three and so we're moving on to number four. And like I said before, if you're new to this channel, make sure you hit the subscribe button and I'm going to put all the text messages in the description at the end here so you can get all the text messages and you don't have to write them down or anything like that. So here's number four. And number four is another question and it's not necessarily even a sexual question. You might want to, if you've used one of the text messages before this and you've kind of gotten into a sexual conversation, this is a good one to use in addition to that to kind of move things forward and kind of talk about further, kind of what kind of style of sexual, like what kind of sex style he has, like what kind of interest he has in this and kind of how he sees himself. And here's how it goes. So are you more of the romantic leading man or are you the bad boy dirty talking rebel, right? And so basically most guys are a little bit of both of these things and usually sometimes guys will look, think of it in one direction or the other, but this just kind of gets the conversation moving, right? So all we're doing here is just talking about these things, getting him excited about it, getting him thinking about it, getting him talking about it, getting him in those emotions, right? This is over text message. So it's not like you guys are hanging out together and it's about to go into some kind of sexual thing right now, it's you're having this conversation over text and so you're kind of creating these emotions in him that he can't calm down right now. Like he can't get rid of those emotions, he can't quench those emotions because he's wherever he is by himself and so you're doing this thing over text message and he's creating this fantasy in his mind through these conversations that you're having and it's moving into this, it's moving into this realm of sexuality that he places you as a part of and it creates a deeper emotional tie to that sexual bond instead of it just being some kind of like flesh on flesh like just sex and nothing more kind of action and so that's what we're going for here. So, hey, thank you, Jolie. Jolie, is that how you pronounce your name? Thank you so much. So what about long distance relationships? Hey Doreen, I think we talked about this yesterday but we're going to do a whole series on long distance relationships. We're not quite there yet. We're still putting things together for that but we'll talk about the long distance relationship stuff here pretty soon. Yeah, yeah, Melissa. Melissa says, I really like that you expose that men have feelings too and how we can help instead of hurting potential relationships because we don't always understand. Yeah, it's really interesting because we do talk a lot about that whole idea where a lot of people don't really get that men are really deeply emotional beings. We are all deeply emotional beings and there's certain things with being masculine where there's kind of this idea of being like stoic where we don't kind of get, we don't show our emotions as much if there's danger we need to be able to stay calm and stay collected and fight and battle whatever kind of danger is out there. And so yeah, a lot of men don't really expose their emotions as much. And so a lot of times women kind of don't think about men having emotions and even sometimes a lot of men who have shut their emotions down don't really talk about it and don't really think about it. And so which is why this stuff is so much more powerful, because when you start touching his emotions it just makes him feel so different around you than he's felt around other women because all of a sudden he's having all these emotions come up that he doesn't normally experience around other women, which puts you into a completely different category and makes him feel like you're somebody that's really special to him. And so that's what we're doing right now as we're talking about sexuality and emotions and getting into these conversations with men to make it something more and bigger and greater and make that experience not only for you better but also for him and make him more feel more emotionally connected and kind of hit that drive where he wants to move forward and chase and pursue you and invest in you because he knows that it's moving towards something that he really wants to have. And so that was number four. And so number five is another one that's, we're kind of getting here, I'll just go over what it is and then I'll talk about kind of what it what other things there are around it. So number five is what is the most taboo fantasy you've ever had? And then right after that you post, yeah, that one or you send him the message, yeah, that one. And so what we're doing here is, he's probably not gonna tell you the most taboo fantasy he's ever had here, right? Because unless it's kind of tame, some guys don't have like super taboo fantasies, some guys do. And so basically what you're doing is you're asking him about it and then you're kind of giving him permission, right? So the first part of the text is what is the most taboo fantasy you've ever had? And then you wait a second and then you send him another one that says, yeah, that one with like a exclamation point. And basically you're giving him permission. You're saying you're allowed to talk about this, which he may still not talk about the most taboo fantasy he's ever had because it could be something really, really crazy. I've heard some really crazy taboo fantasies from both men and women. And I mean, who knows what it might actually be, but it gets him, again, we're talking about getting him into the emotions, right? We're talking about getting him into these emotions that maybe sometimes he doesn't feel like he can have or he doesn't have permission to have or some of these fantasies that he might think he might feel are bad or wrong or things that he shouldn't fantasize about. And so even if he has a fantasy that's a little bit kind of taboo and he's not talking about it, it still gets him into these emotions and it makes him feel like you're somebody that he can open up to about these kind of taboo things that he's got going on that he doesn't normally share with anyone. And so basically you're challenging him here to unleash this beast and confess his most taboo thing that he can think of in terms of sexuality. Okay, so that was number five and so number six is another fun one. Do we have any other questions here? Yeah, we don't always under, it's true. I mean, here's the reality, right? So Michelle said, that's right, we don't always understand. We don't always understand each other, right? Most of us, so there's a thing going on, right? Where we all have some things that are completely similar, like incredibly similar, right? So like we all want long-term committed relationships, we all wanna fall in love, we all want to find the one and, you know, and I mean, there's some people that don't want that, right? Some people on both the men and the women's side that don't want that. And, but there's also these things that we have that are huge differences too, right? So there's some things like, you know, the kind of these masculine things and being at home in our masculinity and kind of these aggressive things that men have and just different things. And sometimes we look at women, you know, men, us men look at women and we don't really get you. And sometimes women look at men and you don't really get us. And so, you know, really a lot of what we're trying to do here in commitment connection is kind of bridge that gap and build a more powerful partnership where we're on the same team. And even if we don't fully get each other, we're loving and accepting each other as we are instead of just shaming and attacking and trying to, you know, manipulate each other into getting what we want. So that was a plug for the world mission, the big world mission we've got over here at commitment connection. Hopefully you guys are on board because I love that stuff. And I think that we can make the world a better place by creating partnership and being on the same team and loving each other and being instead of attacking each other, really coming from a place of love and healing our wounds and all that kind of stuff. And so I'm gonna get off that soapbox now. And we're gonna hit number six. We're gonna talk about text message number six. So text message number six is how would, it goes like this, it goes, how would you seduce me, you know, if we were alone together, right? And this kind of takes it to the next level, right? And basically you're asking him to have an imagination here and to come up with something. And, you know, it'll get him all excited about this. And at the same time, it's kind of a little bit of a challenge. And you're asking him to kind of talk about this thing that sometimes he might, some men might feel, you know, depending on your age and depending on kind of what, you know, generation you're a part of, a lot of, especially in some of the older generations, they might feel a little bit more like they can't really talk about some of these things. Some of the younger generations, I think it's a little bit more okay to talk about some stuff like this. But basically you're opening it up to that conversation, just finding out what he says, you know? And again, we're talking about getting him into this mindset of like actually visualizing how he would seduce you, right? And if you wanted to take this even further, and if he's like, what are you talking about? What do you mean? Or something like that. You can always give him a scenario. Like, you know, say we're in a room together and you know, say I'm over at your place and you know, you wanted to seduce me. Like, what would you do? Like, what would your first step be, you know? And just kind of have like a fun kind of play along type of thing where you're just in this conversation about seduction and kind of these emotions and these like sexuality and stuff. And you can kind of even play along where you're like, oh, you know, if he says something, you might even be like, oh, well, this is what I do. You know, like how would you deal with that? Or whatever, you know? And basically you can get to a place where you're creating a hypothetical situation as if he actually feels it as the two of you discuss what it is that he would be doing. So, and you'd also be kind of getting a preview for like what his romantic style is. So Annette says, sorry if the question is out of context, but I'm curious about your chain pin. Oh, this is Ukraine right here. This is me supporting Ukraine right now. Hi, I'm listening. Thank you for the insight. You're welcome. You're welcome, Annabella. You're welcome. Exactly. Met Monk. Met Monk says, we all have sexual fantasies. That's right, we all do have sexual fantasies. It's true. We all do. Some of us just hide from them and some of us don't. You're welcome, you're welcome, you're welcome. Let's get to text message number seven. And so this is something that you can say if you're actually already in these conversations with them, right? You're like texting about this back and forth and you're in this conversation. This is something that you can use then. And it's also something that you can use in other situations because it could be taken sexually and it could also not be taken sexually. And basically the scenario that you'd wanna do this, you'd wanna send this text message is a scenario where he is doing something that's masculine, something that turns you on, something that's kind of manly and he's kind of moving things forward. And it goes like this. Oh, I like it when you take charge like that. Makes me blush or you could say makes me smile or makes me giggle or makes me feel butterflies or makes me turn red or anything you want to right there, right? And basically you're kind of doing this cute innocent to something that might be a little bit X-rated. And so basically what you're doing is you're telling him that his strong masculinity is turning you on and that you'd like to see more of that behavior. I talk a lot about that in my framing stuff where you kind of talk about, you talk about what he's doing and you say that it's attractive. And this is one way of doing that without saying, I think that's attractive. You're talking about an actual experience that you're having, right? Like it's making me blush or it's making me smile or it's making me giggle or whatever, right? And so it's kind of this feminine reaction behavior to his masculinity and what he's doing and him being a man. And it's really, really just powerful stuff. So that's it. It doesn't look like we have any questions for today. So it looks like everybody just wanted to come in and get these text messages. So at the end of this, I will put all of the text messages in the description of this video. And if you're new here, make sure you hit the subscribe button and check out the rest of the videos on the channel because we've got lots of really great videos. And thank you for everyone being here. 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