 Like, how do I go without, you know, the eggplant? Oh, female, that's fuckin' when a man, a man-man, should be spending their money. Poppin', welcome back to my channel. For today's video, we are gonna be doing a Get Ready With Me. I haven't sat down and talked to y'all and did a Get Ready With Me in so long. Ugh, my hair is jammed. But yeah, I haven't talked to y'all and sat with y'all in a motherfucking minute. So today, we are just gonna be talking about some stuff rambling, about some stuff that y'all have been DMing me about. And I know y'all are curious, I don't know why, but I mean, I don't know, like, we'll get into the topic. But anyway, don't forget to like, comment, subscribe. Don't mind my face breaking out on this side. Ugh, I got a face show on Monday, thank God. Let's just hop right into the video cause I'm ready to get cute. Ugh, I hate when the size of my sew-ins like, pull my hair on the side. It's the most irritating feeling. I haven't talked to y'all in a many, it's 2020. Like, how is y'all 2020 going? Minds, UX, oh. Minds is going great so far. I'm blessed, I'm thankful. I'm so blessed for these new opportunities coming my way. People are coming, God, because I know you see me working, baby, I know you see me. I'm forever grateful. So yeah, comment down below on how your 2020 is going. A topic that, oh shit, I should actually do my brows off camera because, but so I'll be right back. Okay, I'm back. As a lot of people have been DMing me about like, me not having a man, like, how do I go without, you know, the eggplant? I don't know, like, that's a sensitive topic because if I tell you, you're gonna look at me funny. You're gonna look at me different. And I don't want you like, you know, imagining me doing some things, you know, like a little play time on your head. And of course, everybody does it. And if somebody says they don't, they're fucking lying, rhymes with, you know, radiation, you know? So I mean, like, it's not like I need it. It's a want. People want it. You don't need it. You don't need that a function in life. What? Counter it. But it's just like, I don't encounter it a lot or I don't allow myself to, you know, have somebody teach me in those ways and stuff because they don't do shit for me. Like, what are you gonna do for me to put me in a position to win? That's what's gonna make, you know, that's gonna make me wanna hop on it, you know, like a jab rabbit or something. But I'm not turned on by anybody. I haven't encountered that type of, you know, affection with somebody yet for me to be wanting to play, you know, hopping on that. Like I had slipped up, y'all. I had slipped up with one of my, like, you know, high school bulls, like he be calling me and shit. And I was like, in my hometown, y'all know, y'all have those, like those little encounters with boys from high school that you used to talk to and y'all kind of keep in contact, kind of sometimes, not really. But sometimes he'll call you every once in a while because I'm not calling you because you don't do shit for me. So what am I blowing up y'all calling for? See, I don't call niggas that's not my niggas. Like, I like a nigga to chase me. I'm not the chaser. I like to be chased. Like, and if I feel like I gotta chase you, then it's just like, no, I'm not fucking with you. So this is like a little story time or whatever. I encounter different types of niggas and they don't make me wet. They don't make me horny. They don't make me wanna be like, wanna do some strange, you know? So he hit me up or whatever. And I was in town when I was where he was at. He like, come spend the night. And I'm like, okay. Like, I didn't feel like driving home. So I'm like, okay, whatever. So, and mind you, I haven't had sex with him in so long. Like, every time I encounter with him, we don't have sex. And he know that. Like, he knows that. Cause he don't do shit for me. Like, you don't do shit for me, you know. Oh, anyways, I was off Hennessy. I slept up and he got a little happy. He got a little too comfortable. So he just called me the other day, y'all. Like, oh my God, why haven't you been fucking with me? Blah, blah, blah. And my job, after that, like, that shit is dangerous. Like with me, like, if I give myself to you, I'm gonna want attention the next day. Like, why haven't you called me? Like, why haven't you called me and make sure I was okay? Like, I'm not one of those girls that'll be like, like sometimes I am, but if I like have history with you or something like that, or if I was really feeling you, I'm gonna be like, why haven't you called me? Like, why you ain't take me up for breakfast the next day? Like, mind you, he didn't do any of that shit. So I was like, fuck this, like, what the fuck? I had a pep talk with myself, like, what the fuck am I doing? I'm like, what am I doing? He don't even do shit for me, like, let me quit. Let me stop, cause I was cussing him out, like. Like, I was just cussing him out. But anyway, so he called me the other day and he was like, why haven't you, I heard from you. I was like, I don't fuck with you. Like, what, you don't, I was like, you don't do shit for me. He's like, you don't do shit for me. And I was like, ugh, like, that just shit just turned me off. I wanted to go to the movies or whatever. We went to the movies and it was late. And then y'all, so after that, like, I was just like, like y'all know I'd be lonely. So it'd be like, sometimes I'll like slip up or whatever. So the movies was all good. And then I was hungry, I haven't ate all day. So mind you, this nigga took me to fucking Wendy's. Cause that's the type of shit he like to do. Like, he don't take, he never took me to a restaurant. He never spent on money on me. Like, he cheap. And I hate a cheap ass nigga. That's enough. I don't like cheap ass niggas. Like, I love niggas to show me some new shit. I love niggas. This why I date older man, because I love niggas to show me new shit. I love being introduced to new things, learning new shit. And I like nice things. I like when niggas do nice things for me. Not taking a fucking Wendy's. And then he took me to his house. And mind y'all, his house is messy as fuck. It was so fucking messy and nasty. And y'all know some bitches would have been like, oh, let me help you clean up. No, I'm sitting my ass the fuck down. It's like, can you wash the dishes? I'm like, oh wait, I skipped the part at Wendy's cause he had to take a flight the next day. I don't know where the fuck I'm getting with this. I'm just showing y'all this why I don't have sex with these niggas because they just irritate it. Like that I encountered. Then we and the Wendy's drive through and he's like, can you pay for my parking at the airport? What? Oh, baguette, baguette. Pay for your parking at the airport? Are you drunk? Are you stupid? Are you dumb? Like I don't do shit for nobody that hasn't done shit for me. And I'm not pulling on my motherfucking wallet for you. Like you should be able to pay that shit on your own. Like don't ask me for shit. Like I don't like a nigga to do that especially when you don't do shit for me. Why are you asking the females? Like I don't like niggas like that. I like men. I like a man. I like a man to do his own thing. And then when he do his own thing he can come from my way and do some shit with me. Y'all know like they be saying, oh relationship is 50-50 but I think it's 20, 20, 80. I think a man should do more than a female. That's just my personal opinion. What the fuck do you think I am? And you got other bitches. Ask some other hoes. Like no, it'll drive me like that shit. I'm like I need to go home. She like that just not turn me on. Like ugh, I don't want. You shouldn't feel like you need a nigga. It should be a want. Like I don't need anybody. That's just my mindset because I just planted it in my head. There was this post. I was like, why would you waste time on something where you can just pour it all into yourself and get the outcome that you want? And that's what I do. I don't depend on nobody at this point. I can't depend on anybody. I'm happy by choice. I'm not, you know, one of them bitches that be like having that attitude be like girl you need some shit. And I'm not one of those bitches that are negative. I don't think like that. I don't think like, oh I wish, I mean I would like a man like of course who wouldn't but I don't need one. And I don't, that doesn't make my world go around. Like that doesn't give me energy in the morning to keep doing what the fuck I'm doing. That doesn't make me, you know, go hard. I want to go hard for myself. So that's what makes me getting towards my goals and shit like that makes me happy. A man who began in my life does not, you know, that's just an addition. And in my job, I'm trying to get to, you know, Atlanta. Every dude I encounter knows this. I tell them all the time like, I can't wait to move to Atlanta. Like, and most of them be out there already. So it's just like, it ain't like you like, oh, do you want me to help you look for houses? Oh, do you want me to fly you out here so you can look around at some stuff or no, it ain't none of that. I like a man to go an extra mile for me. And I feel like I haven't found that yet. And I just, you know, you know, I'm not looking for nobody to know. I mean, if a man wants to put me in a position to win he will, but I'm gonna do it myself. But what are you gonna do for me that'll make me get there a little faster? You know what I'm saying? Like, all of us can do what the fuck we want to. All of us are gonna accomplish our goals. But what nigga is going to, you know, make me want to hop on it to make me get there faster? And I don't know, it's just like I haven't found that yet. So I'm not wasting my time on nobody that can't do nothing for me to put me in a position to win. Like, I've gone on dates by myself and shit. I can vlog my experience doing that. But I'm not finna wait for nobody that take me out on a day, sweetie. If I want a little steak, asparagus, mac and cheese shrimp, lobster, mac and cheese, bitch, I'm gonna go get that shit. The fuck, I ain't finna wait for nobody to be like, let's go to this restaurant. No, I'm about to go by myself and give me a little nice dinner cause I deserve it. I worked hard all day and so I'm about to go give me a little steak dinner. Like, you don't need no nigga to sit there with you. But I mean, I make myself happy by choice. Like, I choose to be this way because until somebody is like, you know, able to make me happy the way I want to be, you know? And I don't settle and nobody should settle. You should never settle just because you don't want to be alone. Like, you need to pour that energy that you put into water to somebody else, AKA your man that's not doing shit for you and to your own motherfucking guardian. Cause it's gonna pay off. Like, these two years that I've been putting consistently just by myself, being by myself, I've been, you know, it's been paying off now because, you know, I put in that work or whatever. Cause, you know, my rate is going up, works burning out harder. All that materialistic shit because I can do that shit myself. I, okay, y'all noticed I bought my YSL bag. I've been buying like stuff, like treating myself. And when I was in Atlanta about to like buy this, like, mind y'all, before these purchases, I didn't buy any of these bags that I have. Only two of them that my recent purchases, I bought them myself. And I feel like when I was like, you know, a little younger, I was like, why should I buy my own fucking bag? Like, fuck that. I'm gonna have somebody else buy this shit. And it wasn't like that I couldn't. It was just because like, why, why the fuck do I gotta pay for this shit? It's not even about materialistic shit. It's just the messages behind it. Like, right after I paid for it, I was like, damn, I really can do this shit by myself. Like, I really can do this by myself. My own motherfucking 2020 car. I'll be like, damn, I did this myself. I did this myself. I put in that work in it, baby. Like, nobody gave me shit. And it just feels better. So yeah. You can do anything that you want to yourself. And now I need a house. I need a car. Like, I need to get my ass to Atlanta. It's gonna happen. But which nigga is gonna make it go a little faster? You know what I'm saying? If I'm telling you this shit, why you ought to be like, oh, okay, that's a good girl to have. Like that type of shit. Like, I like a nigga to pay attention to what the fuck is going on because like, and then the dude that I just told y'all about the little story time or whatever. I told him I was moving to Atlanta because, you know, he lives here. And he was like, oh, I can now wait to come to Atlanta and come see your house. I can't wait. I can't wait to pull up. I'm like, you ain't pulling up, nigga. You wanna pay no more fucking bills. This is not the net potential house. And niggas know, like niggas be knowing like what a girl wants. They be knowing they just don't want to. And I can't wait to find me a nigga that wants to do everything for me. Baby, like, baby, relax. Like you, I like, I don't like to spend my own money either. Like, I love for a nigga to spend his coin on me. So baby, I want you to spend y'all motherfuckers. If the nigga wanna hit it, make that nigga spend it. Make his pockets hurt. At my own coin, obviously, if I wanna go do something or buy it or whatever I can, but it's just like, if I'm fucking with you, why do I have to? I love a nigga to be like, baby, I got it. I got you. And if he don't, then it's okay because I got it. Okay. Lashes are on him. Being single and like not having a man is like the best feeling ever because guess what bitch? You don't got an answer to no motherfucking body. And that just sounds like good news to me. Like this is your time to do whatever you want to do. Like once you're in a relationship, it's not about you. Once you have kids and shit, it's not about you. If you're single and have kids, you can still do what you want. But not answer to nobody. But when you don't have kids it just hits a little different cause you can do whatever you want. Like for real, for real. And I like being able to do what I want, talk to, I wanted to talk to, and not answer to nobody. Like everybody should experience that like actually single and not happen from relationship to relationship. I know some girls are like that. I used to be like that, I didn't go like that. But, and I do require a lot of attention. That's why I haven't found anybody yet either because they don't give me the attention that I want. And I don't know why y'all wanted me to talk about Ari and Money Bag Yo and Lori Harvey and stuff like that. I already told y'all, Lori Harvey is the goat. Like she dates the niggas, the older niggas. That's what I'm all about. The older man. Like she know what the fuck is going on. And she's dating around to see who's the best for her. And I wish I could do that. I wish I could do that. Like Ari's doing the same thing too. Like you should never settle to be one more than me just because you don't want people to think you a hoe. That's not even the point. It's the point is if you ain't treating right, it's onto the next. What dating is all about is you finding who is for you and who works with you. So yeah, being single, this is the time for you. And I don't even know if I said this on the floor but I definitely will vlog. Like I can get dressed up, get cute and go on a date. Like I could vlog that experience. And I definitely want to take a solo trip somewhere. Like I've been loved that and loved myself now that I'm comfortable with taking a trip somewhere. I just don't know where like by myself but I'm definitely comfortable to go by myself and be enjoying myself. Like and I feel like once if I get in a relationship now, I tell y'all just require a lot of attention. I feel like once I get in a relationship, if my man doesn't want to give me, like if he give me attention all the time but one day out the week, like y'all know y'all need that little break break. One day out the week, he don't want to give me that attention. I don't have to blow his phone up and be like, what the fuck, who are you doing it with? Blu, blu, blu, like I can just give him his little space. I know, right, space. And I can say one with my day and that was an issue before because I like enjoying my me time now but that was an issue before because I was like crazy. Like I was like, what, you don't want to see me today? Like fuck you talking about like, uh-uh. Like I would be like crazy but now I would just be like, okay, I'll see you tomorrow. And I don't like to be like that now either. Like I like to show nigga that I don't know anything. I'm not all over and it is like how I used to be when I first met them. I don't wear my heart on my sleeve no more. I don't show my feelings easily no more. I get shy. Like it's so fucking crazy. Like I'm like, why am I like this now? But you definitely will change once you start getting to know yourself and that's fine, change is good. So somebody asked, how do you know when to move on from a nigga? And I really just feel like you'll know when you want to move on and you have to want to move on. You can't just be there just to be there anymore. Like fuck all that shit. Like cause you're gonna act yourself like what the fuck am I doing? What am I doing? And now it's 2020. Y'all need to realize it's so many niggas out here. It's so many niggas, so many fishes in the sea. I used to be so small minded. I used to be like, who's gonna like me? Oh my God. Girl, it's somebody out here that's gonna like you. Seriously. So don't settle at all. Do not do it. I don't want to see y'all out here just so fucking crazy over a nigga that's not doing nothing for you. Like pour all your fucking energy into something that you love to do. And that's gonna make it 10 times easier to move on from him. But honestly, I'm ready to meet somebody to take me on vacation the next day. They meet me. Wouldn't that be some spontaneous shit? Like some spontaneous crazy shit. Like that's the nigga I'm waiting on to be like. I know it's scary, but it's just like, fuck it. But yeah, y'all, my wife is great with no sex. I don't fuck you lying. Why you always lying? Oh my God. Stop fucking lying. Next bitch. But it's fine. I don't need it. Like I don't need it. It's not a, it's not a need for me. I mean, I won't get it consistently until I find like a nigga like, you know, that's mine. You know? That makes me happy in the ways I want to be happy. But to try my new light iron out because I was on Instagram live. And y'all was like, you need to get a new flat iron out. I was like, I do. So I did. So this one is for all my single-lifes out here. I have a challenge for you. Take yourself out to eat. Show yourself a good time and tag me on Instagram because I want to see you. Cause it's just like, once you take yourself out to eat, it's just like, if people stare at you, who cares? Like bitch, you enjoying your meal. Fuck all that. Bitch, I'm eating good. Like, what you, what you staying up for? But the only thing, the only place I would not go by myself is the movies. I can't. I just can't. I can just, you know, find it somewhere on the internet. But I'm about to let my camera charge real quick and I'm gonna come back. Damn, you know. Okay y'all. So I just got dressed. I'm the shirt from Off White. Y'all needs to get with the wave. It's called Essence. I got this shirt off Essence. They be having that designer for the low. So y'all need to check that website out. And I just put my necklace on. So I'm about to put on my JBW watch. You already know I mess with JBW. This is one of the newer watches that I got. This has a face, like this circle thing right here. I can change the face on it. The different moves, you know, this one has rhinestones in it. So I wanna be a little extra tonight. So I'm just gonna keep that one on. And if I wanted to do like a cute, clean, sophisticated look, there's like one that's like clean. So, yeah. I like this bomb. So make sure you use my coupon code correct30. So you can get your JBW watch drip on. Oh, yeah. I'm looking a little expensive tonight. And this shirt was only $100. This is my coupon code at NemiGlo for correct 10. Oh, let me show y'all my shoes I'm wearing for tonight. Oh, bitch. Now this is a motherfucking blue. This is gonna be my pop of color. So, yeah, y'all that wraps up this video. I hope you guys enjoyed. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe. And leave a comment. And y'all know, as always, do not forget to slide. Okay? And that's period. Don't think that you don't need him. Be what a nigga need in that period. So, and I'm gonna see y'all in the next video. Bye. I don't fucking know what to find.