 السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم وصلاة والسلام على أشرف المرسلين سيهدنا ونبينا محمد وعلى آله وصحبيه وسلم يا ربنا لك الحمد كما ينبغي لجلال وجهك وعظيم سلطانك اللهم يمقلب القلوب والأبصار ثبت قلوبنا على دينك اللهم علمنا ما ينفعنا ونفعنا بما علمتنا يا رحم الرحيمين وصلي اللهم على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبيه أشمعين today inshallah we will have a look up on two of the very important very knowledgeable female companions who lived around the سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم our first character is اسما بنتو أبي بكر رضي الله عنها and اسما had a famous nickname which was ذاتو النطاقين so when سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم wanted to migrate to Medina the preparations were done in the house of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she said I have nothing except my cloth belt and she said give it to me so he cut it into two and he put each of the stuff in one side and then she wrapped it around her and that's why she was called ذاتو النطاقين and that's why she was called ذاتو النطاقين سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said to her الله سبحانه وتعالى has replaced this cloth belt of yours with two in paradise so who is this character who is this female companion who is this amazing female companion who lived at the time of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم اسما was known for her being so patient so truthful so a true worshiper of Allah سبحانه وتعالى who always remembers Allah سبحانه وتعالى and she رضي الله عنها she was the daughter of سيدنا أبو بكر رضي الله عنها so she was the daughter of the first Muslim person in Islam male figure in Islam سيدنا أبو بكر her mom was قطيلة بنتو عبد العزة and she was the mother of عبد الله ابن الزوبير the amazing great companion she was the sister of the mother of believers عائشة رضي الله عنها and she had a very high status and she had self honor she was a poet she was very eloquent her words touched the hearts she is اسما بنتو أبي بكر رضي الله عنها اسما رضي الله عنها became a Muslim after 17 people who became Muslim before her and she pledged to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم she believed in him she believed in Allah سبحانه وتعالى she had a strong faith she was she had of her of her great she believed that her mom was not a Muslim so قطيلة was divorced okay so أصدق رضي الله عنها سيدنا أبو بكر divorced her mom during the pre Islamic era so في الجاهلية but قطيلة after after some time she she wanted to visit her daughter and she did so she came to her and she had gifts and she she had some food some gi but as I mentioned she was not Muslim at that time and she had with her her son الحارس الحارس بن المدرك and it was something for asma that she did not know what to do so she did not accept the gift she did not let her in the house until she sent to sayidna محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and she asked him she she sent someone with telling him that my mom came to visit me she's not a Muslim what should I do she she she brought some gifts with with her and she wanted to be in my house what should I do and of course sayidna محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم was the family ties is important for him so when when he got this question Allah سبحانه وتعالى revealed the following ayah الله الرحمن الرحيم لا ينهاكم الله عن الذين لم يقاتلوكم في الدين ولم يخطيجوكم من دياركم أنت بروهم وتقصيتوا إليهم إن الله يحب المقصدين so this answer to her question was revealed to sayidna محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم so Allah said لا ينهاكم الله عن الذين لم يقاتلوكم في الدين الله does not forbid you from those who do not fight you so you it's okay those who do not fight you because of religion you are on different religion than them but they do not fight you for that ولم يخرجوكم من دياركم and they do not expel you from your homes so Allah does not forbid you أنت بروهم وتقصيتوا إليهم so he does not forbid you to be righteous towards them and to act justly وتقصيتوا إليهم to act justly towards them إن الله يحب المقصدين indeed Allah loves those who act act justly and you get this question actually so many times so we have we don't live in a Muslim country how should we treat people those non Muslims so this is the answer Allah سبحانه وتعالى does not forbid you from being good to those who argue to you because Allah loves to for people to act justly so when Ismaa got the answer she got her into her house and she accepted her gift سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم he said to her نعم صلي أم مكي yes be in contact with your mom be good to your mom and of course we have so many cases like this in our days now so you see that the son or the daughter is Muslim but the parents are not today should they not be good to them no kids should be righteous to their to their parents they should treat them well and the reason the hidden reason in that when they see that the religion this new religion that their son or daughter have embraced so they they are now their relationship to the parents is now way better than what they were before being Muslims you know يعني there are so many adults kids يعني who are not good to their parents but Muslims Muslims they have to show respect for their parents they have to to help their parents they have to take care of their parents and especially when they get old in in Muslim countries you rarely find or you rarely hear people putting their parents in nursing homes when they get older but if you go to to none Muslim countries and you see the all all nursing homes are full the kids are not the fulfilling the duties they have towards their parents إسلام is so careful about this issue the parents raised the child when when he was so when he was a baby when he was young and now when he gets older he would throw the parents in a nursing home it's really you find this in real Muslim countries so سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم ordered اسماء to be good to mom now اسماء رضي الله عنها she witnessed all incidents before migration before revelation before revelation and after and she lived the incidents day by day so you know she was the daughter of the closest companion to say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم the person who was always with say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم the person who had the honor of being the first of the men to become Muslim and to believe in say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم so سيدنا أبو بكر رضي الله عنه was the first one to call for Islam after say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم with the permission of say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم يعني who did he get he he tried to convince people to become Muslim and he at the beginning we know that the call for Islam was in secret so he chose some of the companions who became Muslims and who did he get he got him he convinced him that to be a Muslim so he had a great way of convincing people to become Muslims so he got so who are these people these are most most of the 10 people whom Allah سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم has given the glad tidings that these are the people of Jannah he's a great person and he brought great people and of course the his household so the first one to believe it was his wife and we talked about in a previous session and also his daughters so they all become Muslims after he called them for Islam so asma Allah his daughter had a very important role in supporting her father in being good to her father in getting to hold big responsibilities for the call of Islam and to give victory to say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم also had great confidence in Abu Bakr and in his two daughters asma and Haisha and of course Haisha became his the wife of say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم later on so he had a great confidence in them and that's why he told them about the secret of Hijrah when Allah سبحانه وتعالى gave say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم the permission to migrate only those three people knew about it say the Abu Bakr his daughter asma and his other daughter Haisha because the two daughters were at home when say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم came to tell say the Abu Bakr about the migration to Medina so now let's hear from Haisha رضي الله عنها the mother of the believers what she said about that and I will be narrating the hadith both in Arabic and English so on Haisha رضي الله عنها قال لقل اليوم كان يأتي على النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم إلا يأتي فيه بيت أبي بكر أحد طرفين نهار so rarely did the Prophet fail to visit Abu Bakr's house every day either in the morning or in the evening so every day سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم would visit سيدنا أبو بكر فلما أضينا له في الخروج إلى المدينة لم يرعونا إلا وقد أتانا ظهرا so لم يرعونا إلا وقد أتانا ظهرا so they were thinking what's going on لما يرعونا إلا وقد أتانا ظهرا when the permission for the migration to Medina was granted to say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم all of a sudden the Prophet came to us at noon so he did not ever visit them at noon but at that day he did فخبر به أبو بكر رضي الله عنه فقال ما جاءنا النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم في هذه الساعة إلا لأمر حدث so Abu Bakr was informed about the sudden visit of سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and he immediately said certainly the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم has come to us for an urgent matter so what was it فلما دخل عليه قال لي أبي بكر أخرج من عندك so the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said to Abu Bakr let nobody stay in your home so get everyone out of your home of the house but what was the answer so say the Abu Bakr said يعني عائشة واسماء so he said the only two people at home are my two daughters عائشة and اسماء so قال أشهر أنه قد أذينا لي في الخروج so سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم said I feel that I have been granted the permission for migration so immediately what did say the Abu Bakr said قال الصحبة يا رسول الله الصحبة يا رسول الله so Abu Bakr said I will accompany you I will accompany you so he said يا رسول الله إن عندنا قتلني أعددتم للخروج فخذ إحداهما so Abu Bakr said and of course before this سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم قال yes you were granted the permission to accompany me in my migration so Abu Bakr said يا رسول الله I have two sheikh camels عددتو نقطين I have prepared specially for migration so he felt that one day الله سبحانه وتعالى will give the permission to سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to my great so he prepared himself and he prepared two sheikh camels so that they both will use while traveling سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم what did he say when when سيدنا Abu Bakr offered the sheikh camel he said قال أخزدوها بثمن I have accepted it on the condition so I have one condition what was the condition that I will pay its price so even if he was his best friend he wanted to pay for the price سبحان الله so this is what عائشة رضي الله عنها it narrated how سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم came to visit them at a time that it was not normal for him to visit so now سيد عائشة ون she said she said noting that after Abu Bakr her father was granted the permission to by سيدنا محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم to travel with him she said والله ما شعرت قدت قبل ذلك اليوم أن أحد يبكي من الفرح حتى رأيت أبا بكر يبكي يوم إذن أذن أذن أنا أذن أذن أذن أذن أذن أذن أذن أذن فلدي ون ماذا لتصميم سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم فهذا كان محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم يجهزون مع صديق رضي الله وعن مع أبو بكر رضي الله وعن حتى they came فهذا كانوا يركضون حتى they came to a cave في جبل ثور ويجهزون معهم فأسمى رضي الله وعنها وعنها أبو بكر رضي الله لديهم مهمة في ذلك الوقت لتصميم المعلومات ومعنها أبو بكر رضي الله وعن فما حدث؟ كل نهاية يجب أن يذهب إلى كيف عبد الله رضي الله وعن يستخدمون سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم المعلومات من قرش وما يفعلون وما يفعلون كيف يفعلون بعد أنه يمتلل ومترك وعند اسمه أخيه كان يمتلل سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم وعنها أبو بكر رضي الله ويجب أن يتصميم عبد الله يجب أن يتصميم فهي يجب أن يتصميم في ذلك المنطقة أو المنطقة where سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم يجب أن يذهب فقط يجب أن يتصميم المعلومات أو المعلومات التي سيد محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم كان يستخدمها مع سيدنا أبو بكر رضي الله عنه إذا اسمه رضي الله عنه ويجب أن يتصميم عندما يبدأ صلى الله عليه وسلم وبدأه يجرى مجرد من قرش الناس ومجرد من قرش ومأخذوا ومجردونهم ومجردونهم ومجرد من أبو جهل فأهم ينقضوا على الناس ويجب أن يفتح الناس ومجرد من عندما يفتح الناس يجب أن يجب أن يتخذها أبو بكر أو أبو بكر ويجب أن يتخذها لا أعلم where my father is فأبو جهل يتخذها يجب أن يتخذها ويجب أن يتخذها ويجب أن يتخذها لذا يتخذها يتخذها ويقول أنها يجب أن يتخذها ويقول فبالتها وقاموا ثلاثة أبو محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم ومجرد من قرش وما لا نعرف ونعرف أن لا one knew anything about them until they got the information that يدن محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم and her father Abu Bakr عامر بن فهيرا and also the slave of Abu Bakr وعبد الله يبني أريقيت Abu Bakr was their guide so they knew they got the information and they knew that so when Sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم left with Abu Bakr Abu Bakr took all his money they say it was about 5,000 or 6,000 of their money so his father came and his father was Abu Qura'afa he wasn't a Muslim at that time yet so he came and I think at that time he was he was not he was blind I think so when when he came he came to to see them he came to Abu Bakr's house to his son's house and he he said this this son of mine has taken all all his money so he left and he took the money too so as Matt said no grandpa he left so much for us and she went to some to a pile of stones and she that that that pile was in a in a corner of a house and Abu Bakr used to put his money there in that corner and she covered the stones that were the pebbles that were there were with with something and she said look look give me your hand and she made she put she put her her grandpa's hand on the on the stones that he thought that this was money so this I think yeah he was he was blind yes so she said oh grandpa he left all of this for us so he said okay so if he has left all of this for you then he has left you a lot so Subhanallah was clever she was smart she was courageous she faced she faced their torture she faced their mocking and being ironic against her so she was very smart how to deal with this situation and she was wise as we just mentioned that she convinced her her grandpa that her father left them a lot of money so she was a a great female companion so got married to and she lived very poor life with him so she said she raised that got married to me and he had nothing nothing except his his horse so I used to take care of his horse I used to to get to the water to bring water I used to actually she mentioned that she was not a good baker so her neighbors of the Ansar used to bake for her and they used to take care of her so she said I used to take the seeds to move the seeds from one place to another place and one day while I was putting all the seeds on my head in a container on my head and she says that the distance was almost about a mile and a half or two miles she said one day I met the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم and he was with some of his companions so he told me come right behind me and let me take you to to your home having seen how heavy they load that she had on her head but she remembered that her husband was very jealous person and she said she apologized nicely to say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم صلى الله عليه وسلم knew exactly why so when she came to her husband she told him that and he said to her I feel so bad that you are carrying this this heavy load on your head and it is way more heavy on me than if you have accepted the offer from say Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم and she said I was I kept doing this until my father sent me someone to help me and helped me from slavery work was not happy with her with her husband he was tough and one day she told her father and she complained to her father and he said to her be patient you will be highly rewarded he did not say I will talk to him I will make it hard for him you are I will make him pay for that he calmed his daughter he reminded her she is patient she will be highly rewarded in heaven and she did but one day her son became Abdullah Abdullah was a courageous young man he was always defending those who are oppressed and he was seeing how his father is treating his mom and one day there was a problem a big issue between Asma and her husband so he hit her so Asma called her son and when his father saw that he is coming to he said your mom is will be divorced if you come in so he did he came in and he got his mom divorced from the dad and she lived until he died and he was killed by what is it and it's a long story actually but the the point is the Abdullah was telling his mom before they captured him so he said mom I'm scared that if they capture me they will mutilate me so his mom answered oh boy she wanted to strengthen him she didn't feel any pain when they cut it after being slaughtered so don't worry go and seek Allah's help she had a very when he said to her after they killed her son and they put him they crossed him and he said I was asked to take care of you she said I don't want you and I heard the messenger of Allah he was saying so there will be a liar and a destroyer so you will you are that person so the liar we knew that was this is what she said and it wasn't just a few days after her daughter after her son died that she passed away this is just a little bit about this great female companion the daughter of was nicknamed by if we move to another female companion and we will do it very briefly she was one of the people who got the glad tidings of being given the good news that she is one of the people of Allah said لقد رضي الله عن المؤمنين إذ يبايعونك تحت الشجرات فعليما في قلوبهم فأنزل السكينة عليهم واثابهم فتحوا قريبة لقد كان الله سبحانه وتعالى when they pledged alliance to you and that happened under the tree and he knew what was in their hearts and sent down tranquility upon them and rewarded them with an imminent conquest she was a great female companion she was a true believer she pledged to say the Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم under the tree that she is ready to sacrifice herself for the sake of Allah her father is and her mom is so one of the who accepted the she was very strong in faith and she was very wise so when it was the time of and that was on year 6 so what happened at that that year so he was with and he didn't want he didn't want to fight him or to prevent him from visiting the Kaaba so he went with some of the and one of them he called to send him to Mecca so just to tell them that we are here not to fight you but just to perform but you know how hard I was they would not spare me if they see me with them but is a better person to send so and he sent and and when he got into Mecca so until until he was able to give the message of but did not go back he was he was late in going back and it was there were rumors that so he said they killed so we have I have to see how strong you are in faith and that was under the tree so this is why لقد رضي الله عن المؤمنين فعلم ما في قلوبهم فأنزل السكيلة عليهم وأثابهم فتحا قريبة وما غانم كثيرة يأخذونها وكان الله عزيز الحكيمة so Allah is pleased with those who pledged to you under the tree so Allah knows exactly what's in their hearts and he and he gave them great victory was one of those companions who performed that pledge who ever pledged on that day got the good the glad tidings that إنه لا يدخلوا النار إن شاء الله من أصحاب الشجرتي أحد من الذين بايعروا تحتها no one of those who gave the pledge under the tree will will get into so they are they were all saved and was one of those who who got the glad tidings of being of the people of was very active in calling for Islam and in building a strong society she narrated a hadith of and some of the also narrated from her when she was once asked صيفي لنا رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم so describe sayyidna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم if you see him you would see the the sun glowing and one narration for which is very important was that when she was asked about the how how did sayyidna Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم perform from evolution صلى الله عليه وسلم يقول اسكي بيلية وضوءا so just pour me some water I want to perform وضوء and she said so pour ablution water from me and she said she described how the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم performed it and she said يقف باه تلافا ووضع واجهه ثلاثا ووضع يديه ثلاثا ثلاثا ومسح برأسه يبدو بمؤخرار رأسه فمبمقدمه وبيأضينه كلتهما وبطونهما ووضع رجلي ثلاثا she said the prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم الكذب المتج scene الى خلال مقلوبة في وضعه ومتجه يا المكتبة ومتجه خلال مكتب ومتجه وسيصبط في مكتب ومتجه من أسود خلال مكتب ومتجه ومتجه