 Ac ydych yn ymwneud? Yn ymwneud, gwneud am ymwyneud y gweithio ac y gallwn gwneud yn gwneud ar hyn yn y cyfwysig. Rydych chi'n ddweud, ymwneud, ymwneud, yw'n ddwyf yn ymwneud. Rwy'n gweithio'r botwch a'r flwyddyn yn fwy o'r gweithio'r ffwyd. Fy rydyn ni'n gwybod i'r ddwyngau, yr ysgol yn y fideo rysgwpeth, yw'r ysgol i'r fideo yn ymwneud, Cyn ni'n gynton i fyny o drafodaeth ar gyfer yr Gweinod AGUMIL.com. What happens when you discard the narcissist? When you start thinking about discarding the narcissist, it is because you have realised that if you don't do something about it, nothing is going to be done. Nothing is going to change. When you get to the point where you are thinking about discarding the narcissist, it is because you have tried talking to them, fed displaced being a mid straighten life. If you have tried to work things out and you have come to the conclusion that nothing you say or do in that situation is going to make any difference because they like a dysfunctional environment, it works for them. Cyn gyrddwch yn roi'r gaelu'r amser, rydyn ni'n gorfu'r ffair o'r fawr. Rydyn ni'n gorfodd o'r gai ffair o'r fawr o'r iawn i fynd i fathodig ac yn gweithio'r fawr nid, o'r diphysig y ffair o fail o gwnaeth. Ygoch yr amser yn ciaeth ddweud i'r rhaid, fel yn ei chyma roedd cyfaenu o'ch gwell. Yn gwrs dw i dus i fe wnaeth i mynd i chi'n fathodwch cyfnod i fi, o ddyn ni'n gweithio'r fawr, .. sydd wedi bod yn rwyf am gydag o'r ddweud. Nid oes y dyfodol bod hynny yn ymdusio gydag i ymdodol. Rwyf wedi'i gawr o'r ddweud o'r ddweud o'r oedd. A oedd yn ddweud o'r ddweud o'r cyhoeddwn o gyfnodol yn y rhan. Rwyf wedi bod yw'r oeddaeth hynny.. .. o bwysig, o gyfnodol, o bwysig, o bwysig a o gwasgol. Ond eich bod yn gofyn o hynny'n gweithio ar y ddweud o'r argyffindig... ..dill ni yn unig gweithgaredd pan ddweud. Rwy'n cyflwynt ymdweud, y byddai f burden o'r adrodd... ..io falch ac yn ddod. Felly o'n gweith yw ddim yn popeth. Mae gen i'r cyfryddau i'r ffordd i'r cyfrwadau. Mae gen i'r cyfrwadau o'r cyfrwadau i'r cyfrwadau... .. ac i'r cyfrwadau i'r cyfrwadau o'r cyfrwadau. Llywodraeth fel y gyfnod i'w ddim yn ei chawch iddyn nhw yng Nghymru. Walko'r ffordd i fod wedi'i ddim yn gweithio'r rhaglenau nid yw'r Ymddangosedol i feddwl fy mhartagol o'r ddweud o'r Ymddangosedol i'r ddwyclod. Yn y ddweud i fathions iddyn nhw'n credu i'ch bod yn ddiweddol i'r ffrodd. Yn ddoddi du'r ffodd i gweithio ariio a'r ddweud o'r ysgrifennid yn ddoddiad yn ddigwydd ychydig yr Ymddangosedol. This is a real shock to the narcissist. They didn't expect you to suddenly wake up and realise what is going on. They expected you to remain asleep. Compl样wit their demands. Doing whatever they want you to do. So, when you finally wake up and realised what they have been doing to you it is a shock to them. But they don't really believe that you're going to leave. They don't even think of it as a possibility. When you do discard an arsist, it is a real shock to them. They panic. They're terrified, hysterical. They try to recreate the love-bombing phase that will bring back the fake character that they displayed to you at the beginning. They might start being kind to you again to try make you believe ond ydy'r wrth i'w ddweud ar gweithgol i enw i chi wch i gyd-weld, yw'r dweud o hynny'n gweithio, yw'r ddwy'r gweithio. Dim yw'r gweithio i'r ffiantfag yn ymen a'r bydd yn hyn o lawer o fe gwych. Rwyf am yn yr un o brinodau i chi i ddech chi. A maen nhw'n gallu ddweud i'r cyhollfain. Onw ei tha'r panig, rwyf yn iawn i gyd-attu'r icinfa. Rwyf yn amlwch i chi i chi i chi i'r gweithio i gyd-weld. nhw i'ch gael gyd yn ychydig fel yna i'ch gael i chi ar hyn o'r lleolion. They will bring up things that you have told them, things that may have happened in the past and they will now use all of that against you. If that doesn't work they will start a smear campaign against you. They will make damaging statements about you to everyone around you. Cywethaf gyntaf, cywethaf gyntaf. Dwi'n gwybod yn fucked up a start a new life without them so they will start a smear campaign against you and they want you to know that people are talking about you or seeing you in an compliments it's designed to make you feel as though you've messed up this is what they do when they're in that state of panic and they're terrified that you're going to leave them If you go no contact and they are unable to find you or talk to you, then they will really put all of their time and effort into assassinating your character. They will be left without a primary source of supply which puts them in a state of desperation. They have to quickly prime or train their secondary source of supply who is probably around even while they were with you and then make them the primary source of supply. Many times they don't want to do this. They might not know enough about the secondary source of supply but when they lose their primary source they haven't really got a choice. This is why they want to be in control. They want to be the ones that discard you. When you discard them you've just messed up everything that they had planned for you. Now that their secondary source has become the primary source they will triangulate them with you. They will use them in an attempt to make you jealous and get you interested in them again. This can happen in just a few days after you have discarded them. It doesn't take long because most often the secondary source was already around while you were with them. They choose the secondary source out of desperation because they never expected you to leave and not come back once they know that you're not coming back. They will try to start a relationship with the new source. The cycle repeats itself again. The new source goes through the love-bombing phase. Then the narcissist looks for another target in case something happens with the new source. Then the new source goes through the devaluation and discard phase. Just as you went through, the narcissist expects the relationship to end from the beginning. They know that it's only a matter of time until you stop putting up with them. But they prefer to be the ones to discard you. You are never the only one with the narcissist. They've got to have a backup source. They cannot deal with being alone. Even when they advance the secondary source to be in the primary source, they're already looking for another secondary source in that situation. They already expect this to happen from the beginning of the relationship. It is a cycle, a repeated sequence of events. Just as there were many before you, there will be many after you are gone. They leave behind them a trail of victims that they have attempted to damage or destroy. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonated with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in a video description. Coaching inquiries you can email me at narcosfevercoaching at gmail.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.