 Your place is where He puts you in. If He put you as a wife, that means He wants you to be serving Him, Him, not your husband, as a wife. If He puts you as a single mother or a single woman, that means you are His servant and that's status. A woman come to me a lot about this. I have only one line. I said, where are you more pleasing to Allah? Inside this marriage or outside this marriage? If you are more pleasing to Allah inside this marriage, meaning you can take it, you are absolutely patient and you look at your after it, then you stay. If you are not, even if there is not really a lot of abuse, she just can't stay an absolute treaty. Put Allah number one in your formula.