 Rebecca said, but wait guys string women because they just want to entertain options, not get real with one woman. Possibly it's possibly that it's possibly that they aren't finding a woman that's meeting their standards and their criteria for a woman that they want to be in a relationship with. And so they settle for hooking up instead because they're like, you know, until I find a girl that I feel meets my standards and who I'm looking for for something real, I'm just going to date around and just have fun until I do meet one that meets those standards or makes me feel that way, makes me feel like she's the one, makes me feel like she's relationship material, she's marriage material, she's who I'm really looking for. That's what a lot of these guys are looking for because they've been burned. You know, their parents have been burned, you know, they come from families like mine, where they both of their parents have been married and divorced three times, you know, they've watched their brothers and their other people, their cousins and people that they know their good friends being burned by women who have taken them for tons of money and cheated on them and left them and stuff and you know, we, we have a society right now filled with people that are hurt, filled with people that are in pain on both the men and the women's side. And so you have to realize that when you're out there dating and you're talking to guys that a lot of guys are hurt, a lot of women are hurt, a lot of men are hurt and we're all bleeding all over each other because we're not healing our wounds. And so you need to just consider some of those things and a lot of guys are a lot more hesitant to get into a committed relationship because they're like, I'm not getting into anything unless I know this is right because I don't want some buddy, some woman taking my money, I don't want some woman, you know, I've gotten into toxic relationships so I don't want to get into another toxic relationship and so I'll just do the friend with benefits thing until I figure out what's going on here and he ends up getting comfortable there because he's getting all of his needs met.