 Shelly says, Hi Matt, I continue to meet guys, date them for a bit, they take me away for a weekend and then withdraw. Why is that? Well, it's one of those things like most, I mean, how many guys are you, are you meeting that take you away for a weekend and then withdraw? I mean, what's going on here, right? Like what are you, why are you going off on a weekend with multiple different guys on multiple different weekends, right? My suggestion is that you, is that you use the system, right? And you make sure that you're getting yourself into a good situation and I wouldn't go on a weekend with a guy if I were you, unless you were in a committed relationship. I think that just going off on weekends with guys is a great way for you to end up getting yourself hurt if you're not in a committed relationship with them. So my suggestion is that you stop doing that, right? So there could be a whole bunch of different reasons why he withdraws after this. It could be that they just wanted to go on a fun weekend with a girl and not have anything more than that, right? It could be that, you know, they got intimate with you and then there was something else that ended up happening. It could be that they ended up going out on a weekend with you and, and you know, they found that it wasn't really a match and so they ended up withdrawing. So my suggestion is that you stop doing the going with guys on a weekend trip thing and instead meet guys and get into normal relationships based on the way, based and make sure that you're setting yourself up to be in a great relationship and that you know what it is that they're looking for. And I don't know what you're doing on these weekends with them. I would imagine that you're, you know, hooking up with the guys or something. I have no idea, right? There's not enough information here for me to say what exactly it is that you're doing, but you definitely don't want to, you definitely don't want to end up going out and hooking up with dudes on weekend trips and then wondering why they disappear on you afterwards. So my suggestion is that you stop doing that all together.