 The next one and the last one here is it's a man's job to push things physically. It's literally his job. And I keep getting these women where they're like, oh, men just want to hook up. And then you're like, well, how do you know, how do you know that? And he just wants to hook up. Well, he was pushing for physical intimacy early. And it's like, it's, it's his job. That that's literally what he's going to do. If men waited for women to initiate around physical intimacy, like everybody would just die off, right? There'd be hardly anybody, there'd be hardly anybody procreating in the world. And so it's a man's job to push things forward. And it's a man's nightmare to be stuck in the friend zone. And so for most men, they know that it has to be, he has to make the relationship, the frame of your interaction, a romantic frame. And the only way that he can do that is to make sure that he's pushing things physically, that way, if you're not interested and you're just interested in being a friend with him, he knows that quickly and he doesn't end up going on three months of dates with you, taking you out to dinner, doing all those things and then feeling like he's been used by you because he's done all these things and he's not gotten anywhere from it. And you're just enjoying it because you're like, Oh, he's taking me out. He's buying me things. Yeah. You know, which is what happens a lot. There's a lot of women that use men in that way and men don't want to be used in that way. And so, yeah, tell him and, you know, set a boundary around it. Right. So if, if he's pushing things and you're not ready set, set a boundary and just, you know, tell him that you're interested in that you want that and that you're interested in having it with them, but that you're not ready for it, for whatever reason, you don't feel it or you're just not there yet or you're not comfortable enough yet or, or whatever it is. That way he doesn't feel like you're hard rejecting him when you do reject him around this.