 In Mexico, hundreds of migrants go missing each year, attempting to cross the border into the US. Some don't survive the long and arduous journey. Others are kidnapped for ransom or killed in armed violence. Solidad's brother disappeared in 2008. He left for the United States in search of work and told his family he'd be home in just a few months. Since that date, we don't know anything about him. Well, the disappearance of my brother Ulises has affected us a lot. Because when he left, we got involved. Until now, today, we have been paying interest rates of the money we had lent to us. It has affected us all. In the economic, in the emotional. Sometimes we meet on December 24th, on December 31st. Where is he? Is he eaten? If he lives? If he doesn't live, where is his body? What did they do to him? It's a great pleasure. Solidad has found comfort in a friendship with Goudilia, whose husband went missing. They met at an ICRC peer support group and motivate each other to attend the meetings. They must travel by foot and bus for two days to reach Oaxaca, where the meetings are held. As well as offering peer-to-peer counselling, the meetings provide an opportunity for people looking for their relatives to make contact with the authorities and other organisations that can help them with their search. There are many difficulties when it comes to search for the family members. They don't know which are the institutions which can help them, because there are no standard search mechanisms. Also, if they get to talk to the authorities, the communication is not very regular, so they don't have feedback. For us, we can't do it alone. We have to have someone to guide us. Thanks to the Red Cross, because I used to take everything from my brother. I have that friendship with Goudilia. We are in the same situation, of wanting to find our loved ones.