 When you go no contact The narcissist does this when you go no contact The narcissist is going to take it as rejection as abandonment as though you're abandoning them without help support and Most often it's going to cause a narcissistic injury Which will be followed by narcissistic rage They go into one revenge But before I get into that I would also like to speak on something that Isn't talked about as much And that is how when you go no contact they may also Find some way to hooligan you whether it's directly or through some family member or friends and And in those instances they may even try to love bomb you They may try to get your attention again and They may even Give you a false epiphany a fake apology To make you think that they've changed or to make you think that Things can go back to normal again So yeah, that's something else that they could do sometimes is they may love bomb you doesn't always happen, but I Have seen it before in my own experience so I Thought I should share that with you as well But yeah, most often it's going to cause a narcissistic injury, which will be followed by narcissistic rage and They're gonna have it in for you after that They're gonna want to tear you down They're gonna want to ruin your life and They will do that any way that they can Whatever they think is gonna hurt you the most. That's what they're gonna try and do They will say horrible things about you to other people They will smear your name. They will assassinate your character They'll they will triangulate you with other people They will start a smear campaign They will try to get you fired from your job They will try to affect you financially They will try to affect any future relationships that you may otherwise have They will stalk and harass you They will show up at your home. They will show up at your job Yeah, these are just a few things that they will do Of the top of my head They're gonna do these things In some way if you have gone no contact And you are a grade A source of supply They are not just gonna leave you alone Because they can't just leave things alone They always feel like they miss it out on something They always think the grass is greener on the other side especially when The grass that is greener on the other side doesn't want them But while they were with you they never appreciated you They never saw your true value It's only when you take yourself out of their life Then they start to see what they miss it Once all of those benefits of the Phoenix's got away Then they start to realize what they've lost But they don't see it as though it's something they've done Or something they've caused They don't look at it that way Narcissists don't think like that They're always looking at you and it's like you've left for no reason You've abandoned them without any help and support What an evil person you are for doing that They never look at it like oh I Did all of these horrible things to you I? Put you through so much and you couldn't take it anymore, and that's why you had to leave They never look at it like that Narcissists can't see it like that Because in their minds, they're perfect. They can't do anything wrong They don't make any faults or mistakes If anything goes wrong, it has to be you Everything has to be your fault They don't take accountability for their actions and that is why they never change They're always the same and that's how you should know that when you go to a contact They will be the same as when they were with you Only things might get even worse Because most often it will cause a narcissistic injury They will make them very angry And they are going to want revenge But there are rare instances Where before they go down that road They may try to come back They may hold for you and they may try to love bomb you again They may bring back false character That fake nice person they may bring that back just to see is this What you want is this What you're missing because I can give you a little taste of that again. That's going to keep you around It's how they're thinking But if you don't fall for it, that's when they know the jig is up That's when they know it's game over And then they're gonna go all out to destroy you And it may battle you you may think Hold on a minute Yesterday you were trying to love bomb me You were whispering Sweet nothings into my ear But how you love me and how you want to be back together with me again And now today you're trying to destroy me Doesn't really add up, but that is how you should know that it's all fake It's an orchestration the whole thing is just a show There's no real human being inside of them. It's all just fake And it's used to manipulate you It's used to bring you under their control It's just a mask and it's one thing to hear me Talk about it when you actually see it for yourself In your own life where you see You've ripped off that mask and you just look at it like you try To comprehend how can this even be the same person? How can they go from one extreme to another? It will just baffle you it's just it's one of the weirdest things I've ever seen in my life Where you've got these two characters And the crazy part about it is that None of them are actually them anyway That falls nice character It's just as fake as the one who's trying to get revenge on you That person isn't real too The one who experiences the injury It gets very angry at you that person isn't real That's something they've seen somewhere Whether it's from a friend family member when movies they've seen that Before when when things go wrong they lash out they get mad And they just mimic it There's really no real person Generating anything from inside of them Scariest that sounds It's the truth and when you really accept that It will make it that much easier for you to go no contact You may have felt that you loved them You may then realize that Those feelings weren't even real after all Because those feelings were thought a false character a character that didn't even exist When you realize that it makes it that much easier for you to separate yourself from them When you realize that your feelings were even for them They were for the first character, but yeah, I hope this video has been helpful to you If it has please give it a thumbs up down below and you can check on my Instagram as well It's not surviving you to I post pictures and videos of my travels every day you to see and also Sometimes I put some narcissistic abuse coats as well, and I am available for one-on-one coaching Which you can book from my website, it's naksa5er.co.uk All right, thank you all for joining me today, and you all have a great day